Losing it slowly , one day at the time . Summer trip to Thailand and Cambodia in July 2026

[bkkmfj2648]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

I ordered  drinks for guys , soon next round and by 1.30 I was pretty drunk and so were boys. I ordered my last and final drink and , being imbibed , forget to pay for it. !!! Eternal shame on me. Bar got it’s money as one of boys paid for me and send me message in WhatsApp  that  he did.   Too bad my flight is early , otherwise I’d go and reimburse him even if he said don’t worry. One more reason to go there next time.  Short ride to hotel , driver suggested to take me to the airport in the morning and I agreed telling him to be there at 8.30

wow - that story is funny - as you would never intentionally not pay the bill....

Vinapu, when you returned to your room - was the guy naked and still under the sheets ?

[vinapu]

5 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

wow - that story is funny - as you would never intentionally not pay the bill....

Vinapu, when you returned to your room - was the guy naked and still under the sheets ?

of course I wouldn't , it was just my last drink  so we  are talking 4-6 $ max.

Guys should stop me  from leaving , it's not that I  ghosted them , quite opposite  I gave my goodbye hug to everybody individually. But they were drunk too to a degree I guess.

Yes and yes, naked and still under the sheets. I know he was tired so my escape to the  bar was kind of charity to let him to catch some uninterrupted sleep. We both benefited .

 

[spoon]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

Bar got it’s money as one of boys paid for me and send me message in WhatsApp  that  he did.

That guy is a gem!!!

[vinapu]

13 hours ago, spoon said:

That guy is a gem!!!

Tell me something I don't know, he, he

[jason1975]

22 hours ago, vinapu said:

Yes and yes, naked and still under the sheets. I know he was tired so my escape to the  bar was kind of charity to let him to catch some uninterrupted sleep. We both benefited .

I love it when guys sleep naked in my bed!

My guy sometimes doesn't. When he finds the aircon is too cold, he puts on a jacket. And once he has jacket, he wears his boxer briefs.

So I make sure the aircon temperature is to his liking!

[vinapu]

Day 13

 L was sleeping deeply and likely did not notice my arrival but at some point I found him wrapped around me so my guess is at some point of night he did. .It was actually very pleasant situation warranting tip on top of agreed tip . In the morning few romantic moments , L went his way and I took shower , packed my stuff including , yes , tablet and went down to meet  my  remork driver who offered me to take met to the airport for 10 $ and 5000 riels. Pretty long way and not the fastest more of transport but air in the morning was very pleasant and I like my 50 minutes ride.

 Actually I was bit of anxious as my  last two  times flying out of Phnom Penh were breezy . Last year morning flight was cancelled and I was forced to spend  8 hrs. at Pochentong  waiting for afternoon one . In January it was another cancellation and we were driven  back to hotel in the city but that was blessing in disguise as that enabled me to meet my schoolmate first time after 40 years.

This time it was all breeze , I even managed to have 8$ breakfast  - tea and baguette at the airport.

 Aircraft took off few minutes earlier  and landed at Swampy 15 mins before schedule so when exchanging my Pattaya bus voucher for a ticket  for 2 pm. they offered me space in 1 p.m. bus but I declined opting for lunch in coupon restaurant by gate 8 instead. Exchanged some money as well.

On the bus I took time to catch up with the forum as fortunately nobody was sitting beside me in the last row. I also let bkkmfj know I’m coming and we agreed to meet at new Complex restaurant Schatzi in the evening . 

In Pattaya  again I opted for Zing hotel  on the main road and was even treated  with upgrade for bigger room .

At 6.30 pm as I approached  Schatzi I saw bkkmfj and familiar , although never seen before figure sitting beside him , no one less that our dear and beloved Olddaddy. Finally ! My forum member # 42 met in person .

I ordered my schnitzel and must say it surpasses and exceeded expectation. Two weeks later typing this I still feel the taste. After covid claimed Alt Heidelberg on Bitch Road I never thought I will tase such decent schnitzel in Pattaya but now obviously I realized I was wrong.

Engaging conversation with both guys, we even discussed golden faucets, after all it was Olddaddy at the table , Very happy we finally met !

At one point Daddy went he way, bkkmfj and me decided to do the walk through the Supertown but since nothing really triggered by attention I suggested Boyztown and bkkmfj agreed.

While walking  through the main soi I noticed very attractive guy in front of Toy Boys but for now we kept walking toward XBoys and when we entered show just started. What surprised us  in the soi was most well known guy from B Boys break dance  troupe working as barker for the bar. Soon we realized that he is still active  performer.

Show at XBoys is always very progressive and deprived of any sense of modesty , in short  , it’s what boy show should be. Lots of flesh on display and all of it can be sampled if one invests in drink or three for the boy(s) . Atmosphere was good and fun filled although sound was too loud , bordering on occupational hazard for the boys. But that can be said about many a bar in Thailand.

After the show bkkmfj went home as youngsters those days are  somewhat weak and getting easily tired and I went to ToyBoys to take closer look at that boy who drew  my attention.

 He was still available  but I decided to take my time . When buying drink I noticed price list  and yes , they have published tip for Short time of 1500 and double of that for Long Time .

Soon my ‘target ‘ was sitting beside me treated with drink. Long Time accepted enthusiastically . Cambodian , good English , interesting life story ( had farang boyfriend who  died already ). We took  2 motorsais to my hotel at 60 a person and soon I could admire up very close what so far  I could  sample just up close only. That was piece of art attached to him , that’s beyond doubt and I liked what I saw and could feel . Even he noticed proudly ‘ you like it ?”.

 We had chemistry and that helped with more or less sleepless  night of fun.

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, jason1975 said:

I love it when guys sleep naked in my bed!

My guy sometimes doesn't. When he finds the aircon is too cold, he puts on a jacket. And once he has jacket, he wears his boxer briefs.

So I make sure the aircon temperature is to his liking!

what is better that boy sleeping naked in my bed ? Two boys sleeping naked in my bed.

I for one like cold but only  natural cold, not AC created one so usually keep room temperature at 26 centigrades, no excuses for sleeping fully dressed i.e. in briefs. Some guys try though but I remove them mercilessly. Had even one who protested quite loudly  and had to remind him he is at work. That was last  I saw him.