Losing it slowly , one day at the time . Summer trip to Thailand and Cambodia in July 2026

[floridarob]

24 minutes ago, vinapu said:

But whole boy hunting concept lost it's luster for me.

I call it like Groundhog Day, the movie.

Even my trips get redundant, is why I'm adding new places/cities , like in India then Sri Lanka for my 1st time in October.

Hunting for guys will never get old, at least in different places 😝

Only places I've been recently for the sightseeing were Iguazu Falls and Taj Mahal without regrets..... not generally into sightseeing for the sake of sightseeing. I've stayed away from Brasil so far this year because I was Brasil'd out, believe it or not...it's a big world and Colombia & Panama filled the size desires in between with 2 visits this year 🤷‍♂️

Where I'm looking forward to go back in Oct is Jakarta and Surabaya, by coincidence guys from both places messaged me this week asking when I'll be back.... a sign from God or Allah ?

[bkkmfj2648]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

But whole boy hunting concept lost it's luster for me. For years I was  buying illusion , was happy to pay for it and guys were more or less, usually more, often much more ,  happy to deliver it as expected. 

Perhaps you now prefer the Space Bar experience, as the approach, and if lucky, the closing of the deal is more exciting at Space Bar than the predictability of its Thailand equivalent.

Perhaps, it feels as if the Space Bar experience is more genuine and authentic? 🤔

 

[spoon]

3 hours ago, vinapu said:

But whole boy hunting concept lost it's luster for me. For years I was  buying illusion , was happy to pay for it and guys were more or less, usually more, often much more ,  happy to deliver it as expected. 

Now It's more like " happy to see you again tomorrow but now can you eat bit faster because  we want to clean the table and go home or move to next table

Second part sounds like a chore. Is it the boy hunting in particular or the guys themselves that you find lackluster?

For me, guys in the scene in thailand still beats any on offer here, and long time is still rare treat here and in bangkok, its bordering on a routine. 

[spoon]

11 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

Perhaps you now prefer the Space Bar experience, as the approach, and if lucky, the closing of the deal is more exciting at Space Bar than the predictability of its Thailand equivalent.

Perhaps, it feels as if the Space Bar experience is more genuine and authentic? 🤔

 

Ah if its bangkok bar, I can totally understand the frustration, specifically for vinapu in bars like tawan where not just mamasan, but guys relentless pestering for tips, makes jupiter now a nice relief?