August 24Aug 24 24 minutes ago, vinapu said: But whole boy hunting concept lost it's luster for me. I call it like Groundhog Day, the movie. Even my trips get redundant, is why I'm adding new places/cities , like in India then Sri Lanka for my 1st time in October. Hunting for guys will never get old, at least in different places 😝 Only places I've been recently for the sightseeing were Iguazu Falls and Taj Mahal without regrets..... not generally into sightseeing for the sake of sightseeing. I've stayed away from Brasil so far this year because I was Brasil'd out, believe it or not...it's a big world and Colombia & Panama filled the size desires in between with 2 visits this year 🤷♂️ Where I'm looking forward to go back in Oct is Jakarta and Surabaya, by coincidence guys from both places messaged me this week asking when I'll be back.... a sign from God or Allah ?
August 24Aug 24 2 hours ago, vinapu said: But whole boy hunting concept lost it's luster for me. For years I was buying illusion , was happy to pay for it and guys were more or less, usually more, often much more , happy to deliver it as expected. Perhaps you now prefer the Space Bar experience, as the approach, and if lucky, the closing of the deal is more exciting at Space Bar than the predictability of its Thailand equivalent. Perhaps, it feels as if the Space Bar experience is more genuine and authentic? 🤔
August 24Aug 24 3 hours ago, vinapu said: But whole boy hunting concept lost it's luster for me. For years I was buying illusion , was happy to pay for it and guys were more or less, usually more, often much more , happy to deliver it as expected. Now It's more like " happy to see you again tomorrow but now can you eat bit faster because we want to clean the table and go home or move to next table Second part sounds like a chore. Is it the boy hunting in particular or the guys themselves that you find lackluster? For me, guys in the scene in thailand still beats any on offer here, and long time is still rare treat here and in bangkok, its bordering on a routine.
August 24Aug 24 11 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said: Perhaps you now prefer the Space Bar experience, as the approach, and if lucky, the closing of the deal is more exciting at Space Bar than the predictability of its Thailand equivalent. Perhaps, it feels as if the Space Bar experience is more genuine and authentic? 🤔 Ah if its bangkok bar, I can totally understand the frustration, specifically for vinapu in bars like tawan where not just mamasan, but guys relentless pestering for tips, makes jupiter now a nice relief?
August 25Aug 25 6 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said: Perhaps, it feels as if the Space Bar experience is more genuine and authentic? 🤔 Whole experience in Phnom Penh is less commercial in my experience.
August 25Aug 25 Author 7 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said: Perhaps you now prefer the Space Bar experience, as the approach, and if lucky, the closing of the deal is more exciting at Space Bar than the predictability of its Thailand equivalent. Perhaps, it feels as if the Space Bar experience is more genuine and authentic? 🤔 24 minutes ago, Enchanted_Elixir said: Whole experience in Phnom Penh is less commercial in my experience. Absolutely correct , when comes to Space bar I'd use it to be more commercial, lol. Definitely no deals to close there , just pure bar fun
August 25Aug 25 Author 6 hours ago, spoon said: Ah if its bangkok bar, I can totally understand the frustration, specifically for vinapu in bars like tawan where not just mamasan, but guys relentless pestering for tips, makes jupiter now a nice relief? you got that right , I enjoy my anonymity in Jupiter although with some concern I need to note - mamasans are learning there pretty fast, he, he
August 25Aug 25 Author Popular Post 7 hours ago, spoon said: Second part sounds like a chore. Is it the boy hunting in particular or the guys themselves that you find lackluster? as I said on previous page , trip was great, boys were great. I'm not upset, disappointed or frustrated. It is simply me me who lost sense of fun or if one prefers , realized that what I thought was fun, is not fun anymore, just a chore with some fun sprinkled here and there.
August 25Aug 25 Author Popular Post 5 hours ago, 12is12 said: Ur reports do not reflect a "loss of luster" feeling. Dont know why..... skilful writer got himself hidden behind carefully selected words, trying to avoid any uncalled for negativity ?
August 25Aug 25 1 hour ago, vinapu said: as I said on previous page , trip was great, boys were great. I'm not upset, disappointed or frustrated. It is simply me me who lost sense of fun or if one prefers , realized that what I thought was fun, is not fun anymore, just a chore with some fun sprinkled here and there. A friend of mine is complaining about his reduced libido due to taking some medication for his hair. Hope your case is not something permanent.
August 25Aug 25 2 minutes ago, spoon said: A friend of mine is complaining about his reduced libido due to taking some medication for his hair. Hope your case is not something permanent. Ennui can last for a while…
August 25Aug 25 10 hours ago, vinapu said: as I said on previous page , trip was great, boys were great. I'm not upset, disappointed or frustrated. It is simply me me who lost sense of fun or if one prefers , realized that what I thought was fun, is not fun anymore, just a chore with some fun sprinkled here and there. Yes I agree with possibilty of trips becoming a chore. I don't have experience of 44 trips like you but during my 5 weekend trips this year, I did not enjoy all of them equally.
August 25Aug 25 10 hours ago, vinapu said: you got that right , I enjoy my anonymity in Jupiter although with some concern I need to note - mamasans are learning there pretty fast, he, he You are no longer anonymous in Jupiter. The mamasans know who you offed. They have good memory and never forget.
August 25Aug 25 Author 11 hours ago, spoon said: A friend of mine is complaining about his reduced libido due to taking some medication for his hair. Hope your case is not something permanent. no new medications in my case. If it turns permanent, I have plan B
August 25Aug 25 Author 11 hours ago, Enchanted_Elixir said: Ennui can last for a while… that's uplifting ! considering my age , 'a while ' can't be that long, lol. I don't detect boredom, rather purpose seems to be lost on me
August 25Aug 25 Author 3 hours ago, jason1975 said: Yes I agree with possibilty of trips becoming a chore. I don't have experience of 44 trips like you but during my 5 weekend trips this year, I did not enjoy all of them equally. I liked my trip a lot, only wonder what all those handsome boys were doing in my room and in my bed , lol
August 25Aug 25 Author 3 hours ago, jason1975 said: You are no longer anonymous in Jupiter. The mamasans know who you offed. They have good memory and never forget. another blow, I'm surprised I can still stand straight , lol
August 25Aug 25 2 hours ago, vinapu said: I liked my trip a lot, only wonder what all those handsome boys were doing in my room and in my bed , lol I see the lesbian inside you is getting stronger and stronger ...
August 26Aug 26 9 hours ago, 10tazione said: I see the lesbian inside you is getting stronger and stronger ... Or maybe vinapu finally warming up to the idea of being in a monogamous relationship? That would also remove the tedious boy hunting part hehe
August 26Aug 26 16 hours ago, vinapu said: another blow, I'm surprised I can still stand straight , lol can you march straight? 19 hours ago, jason1975 said: Yes I agree with possibilty of trips becoming a chore. I don't have experience of 44 trips like you but during my 5 weekend trips this year, I did not enjoy all of them equally. It's a big world, you should try some different flavors....
August 26Aug 26 3 hours ago, floridarob said: It's a big world, you should try some different flavors.... Problem is, that he is not in a position to take weekend trips to Brazil… Now Taipei on the other hand…
August 26Aug 26 25 minutes ago, Enchanted_Elixir said: Problem is, that he is not in a position to take weekend trips to Brazil… Now Taipei on the other hand… Take a longer trip, lots of us do..... He's a 2 hr flight to Indonesia, 3,5 hrs to Philippines.... Taipei is over 4- 4.5 hrs
August 26Aug 26 Author Popular Post 11 hours ago, spoon said: Or maybe vinapu finally warming up to the idea of being in a monogamous relationship? That would also remove the tedious boy hunting part hehe glad you guys have fun at my expense, he, he. My own fault as I should just report dry facts, leaving reflections to myself but I like community service and tried to do my part. My long held dream, never realized , is to off somebody just for hand holding session. One of great things from last trip described above is that I have three candidates , all share the same characteristic - I never offed them before this trip. And none of them in the morning was first to say ' can I go now?". Am I planning next trip? No Am I thinking about next trip ? Yes Will it happen in January 2027 as advertised 2 years ago ? Definitely not, if airfares won't drop to more reasonable level. But as they say ' only cow never changes her mind and always likes your neighbour's grass better "
August 29Aug 29 On 8/26/2026 at 5:09 AM, floridarob said: Take a longer trip, lots of us do..... He's a 2 hr flight to Indonesia, 3,5 hrs to Philippines.... Taipei is over 4- 4.5 hrs Taipei… that can be a layover depending on the airline.
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