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Please keep this a fair fight.

I suspected that glad boy had a secret admirer when he let slip (no undergarment connotation) that a PM he had posted about me was actually interned for another. And now I see my worst fear realized: one of my trip report heroes is courting him with promises of erotic underwear. Oh, a447, how could you do this. You labored behind my back (no reference to much discussed photo controversy) to attract the young and impressionable glad, I know your plan. You parade yourself in a rainbow of colors until he is dazzled by your peacock-like charms and succumbs, But I will win his affections by appealing to intellectual bent. He may think of me as lazy but I will seduce him with colorful words of passion. Feint heart never won fair athlete. I'll be relentless in pursuit of my Chiang Mai studmuffin.

Please oh please, more about you....I'm almost there!!

Since the farmer's not around for a bit, I'll have to make do with your fantasies. And you have so many so please, by all means, post on about your life as the ravishing young Asian toiling away on his term paper while keeping the forum enthralled.

What else do you keep in reserve, you sexy animal? You'll soon be everyone's wet dream.

Have you no mercy, So glad. Now I learn my hot Asian stud is both an athlete and former soldier! I think I'm getting a hard on.

Life may go on without trip reports but it certainly won't be as much fun. Have absolutely no idea what you're referring to when you talk about a PM. I've never sent you a PM or received one from you. Personally, I think it's wonderful that a 24-year-old exchange student (in Chiang Mai) from Singapore finds enough time to post so actively, and manages to travel about the country. For someone who says he hasn't been in the LOS very long, you've enjoyed an incredibly wide variety of experiences. Although I'd think you might be more comfortable hanging out with much younger guys, with whom a young Singaporean like yourself would be quite in demand, you nevertheless choose to grace this forum. It's a privilege and sheer sensation to be called intellectually lazy by such a hot boy.

You're right about the in and out nature of forums like this and there are multiple reasons why people come and go. Forums exist for the exchange of ideas and information. Violations of conduct (as we witnessed recently) were well handled by the moderator. His actions help ensure the viability of the forum.

Results of a totally unscientific effort aimed at determining how behavior of posters is affecting activity of normally active posters. Method: I went back about 20 pages of posts on this forum that took me to a period of about one year ago. I looked for high-activity posters who appeared to have significantly cut back--or outright stopped--their posting here. What I found: there are 2-3 who decided for one reason or another to go relatively silent. If their user names aren't apparent, you may not be paying close attention. One of those cats should be obvious to all. Members stop posting for a variety of reasons: general loss of interest in Thailand in general or the board in particular; health-related issues; trolls; etc. As long as others arrive on scene to take up the slack, overall activity may not be affected. The biggest downside of seeing regulars drop out is that we all lose the benefit of their contribution.

Excerpts from South China Morning Post article With its uncompromising image, the People’s Liberation Army of China may seem an unlikely employer of choice for the country’s gay community. But it could be argued that the Chinese army is a less uncomfortable environment for gay people than Chinese society at large. That might sound surprising, since the country as a whole is not noted for its tolerance towards the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) community. Chinese police detain gay people who gather in public places and the government shuts down unsanctioned gay-focused publications or television shows. In the past, Chinese society has found homosexuality generally incompatible with the values of mainstream culture and in the 20th and 21st centuries the country lagged the West in moving towards equal legal status for its homosexual citizens. But there are some reasons to believe attitudes are changing, albeit slowly, not least among them China’s decision in March to release an uncensored version of Disney’s Beauty and the beast, when in much of the rest of Asia conservative groups were fretting about a gay scene in the film. It’s also worth noting that China’s treatment of homosexuality differs from the West in that it is a passive intolerance, rather than an active one. Barring some notable exceptions, China has tended not to encourage violence against homosexuals nor to force them to “mend their ways”. Neither has it tended to imprison people purely for being gay, even though homosexuality was illegal until 1997. This is very different to attitudes in the US and Britain, where until recently gay people were actively oppressed. However, Chinese cultural mores and behavioural norms tend to be more uniform than in Western societies, and while this is beneficial for unity, it can result in a difficulty for anyone finding themselves in a minority of any kind. One junior ranking soldier commented: “The internet has saved us.” He described how an aim of any gay recruit was to find a “big soldier brother” to look after him during his period of service. Since protector relationships are common among heterosexual soldiers, no suspicion is aroused when a sergeant has a particular favourite among the rank and file, or an officer of field rank takes a junior lieutenant under his wing. China may be a long way from granting the LGBT community the same rights as heterosexual citizens, but a look at how gay people are treated in the PLA suggests that there is a certain type of tolerance that, at least until recently, was uncommon in Western armies. Continues http://www.scmp.com/week-asia/society/article/2094429/army-life-more-gay-friendly-china-west

Excerpts from Bangkok Post It is proving hard to shift Pattaya's image to a quality destination despite the government's crackdown on certain complaints and illegal businesses in the popular resort town, say hotel and tourism leaders. The Thai Hotel Association (THA) and hotel operators have expressed concerns about the long-term image of Pattaya -- the most popular tourist destination on the Eastern Seaboard -- acknowledging the military government has attempted to crack down on negative images such as beach umbrellas, mundane activities and tourism scams. Supawan Tanomkieatipume, president of the THA, said rebuilding Pattaya's image from a "sin city" to a destination for everyone could take up to five years and requires determined law enforcement. "Actually, Pattaya has long been a draw for many types of tourists, ranging from sex to family trips to business meetings, so it is really difficult to wipe out the inappropriate activities in a short period of time," Ms Supawan said. The THA reported that Pattaya is the second-most popular tourist destination after Bangkok, beating Phuket in terms of arrivals. It is third for tourist income after Bangkok and Phuket because of lower average spending. More than 2,100 buildings provide accommodation in the Pattaya market, representing 139,000 rooms. Of the figure, only 270 operators with a total of 40,000 rooms have registered as hotels. The peak year for Pattaya's tourist arrivals was 2013 with 12 million foreigners. Arrivals dropped below 10 million last year, but is expected to rebound this year thanks to tourists from Russia, India, Europe and South Korea. The Chinese have been the largest source market for a few years. http://www.bangkokpost.com/business/news/1249634/industry-new-image-for-pattaya-a-big-ask

From Channel News Asia BANGKOK: Large crowds and long queues are common in almost every Thai public hospital. Rural hospitals in particular are suffering from a severe shortage of doctors and most are short on funds. According to the Thai Medical Council, there are just over 50,000 doctors in the country - with almost half of them clustered in Bangkok. The unequal distribution of medical practitioners means hospitals in rural areas are overcrowded with only a handful of doctors. Some observers say the shortage of doctors comes from a more systematic failing of the Thai healthcare system. “Speaking from my personal experience - the reason why the public healthcare system in Thailand is failing is the attitude of most administrators and management,” said Dr Witawat Siripracha, a former doctor and director of Lanta Hospital in southern Krabi province. According to the standard ratio of one doctor per population, one doctor should be responsible for about 1,500 people. The lack of doctors in many rural areas has driven the number to as high as 7,000. “Back then, I was one of the six interns and had to work double shifts for 26 days straight,” said Dr Witawat. “The older doctors rarely showed up because they had their private clinic to run, so the young doctors had to run the show.” http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/asiapacific/thailand-s-failing-public-healthcare-needs-a-lifeline-8832408

No argument there. Arena is one of the best values in BKK. My Hero is priced just above Prince and has the same owner. It also IMHO has the best facilities in the city. Prince seems to be doing a strong business based on reputation. But judging from recent reviews on Travel Gay Asia, dissatisfied customers are numerous. With the exception of Arena and Banana Club, where I've always found satisfaction, the rest remain hit or miss. So much depends on timing, availability and the hairs on the back of your head...sort to speak.

As near as I can recall from my December visit, rates appear down across the board by at least 20%. Looking at the pics of masseurs on website, the guy I chose was either the second from right in either the top row or bottom row (they look somewhat alike to me). He was 35, said he use to work at Arena and provided excellent service. Don't see any evidence that the restaurant is open, but there are numerous photos at FB page, two of which show the restaurant and bar. https://www.facebook.com/myherobangkok/

From Daily Mail (UK) Police in Thailand are trying to establish if a retired British teacher committed suicide because he was receiving lower pension payments. Trevor Roberts was found dead in the Nan River in Phitsanulok, 300 miles north of Bangkok on Thursday. Police were told by the 74-year-old's Thai wife that he had been complaining about his British pension, leading officers to consider whether this could be the reason for his death. His sister-in-law, Phuangthong Nuanjan, has told police that Mr Roberts and his wife had been arguing lately because he was receiving less pension money than before due to changes in the way it was paid. Although there have been no changes to British pensions, UK citizens living abroad have been hit by a fall in the value of the pound, causing many to suffer such heavy losses that they have even been considering returning home. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4500158/Retired-teacher-kills-Thailand-Pound-fall.html

A young Thai man saw an opportunity and took it. Aware that he could use a bath, he improvised when he spotted a broken water pipe that was creating a pool by the side of the road in Pattaya. He proceeds to demonstrate how it's done with aplomb while maintaining his dignity. That a passerby decides it's worthy of posting illustrates that we're constantly under observation when we walk out the door. According to the Pattaya Daily News, the person who posted it on FB makes sarcastic comments (you Thai speakers can judge for yourself). You can find the article along with link to FB video here: http://pattayadailynews.com/well-played-man-taking-a-baht-at-broken-water-pipe/

Moses, I'm sure Kaung could lead guys to places described in this travel article that trumpets the benefits of visiting Myanmar and other experiences the article omits: http://www.vogue.com/article/why-to-visit-myanmar-instead-of-thailand

see post #6 above.

When he gets back to Spain, he'll have a bevy of women--and no shortage of hopeful guys--queued up to be screwed by this now celebrity stud. And all it cost him was 500 baht. Who says the cost of living is going up in Thailand!

It wasn't that difficult when you watch the clear video at link below. Police report that they "were still looking for the woman." And I'm sure they are. From Khaosod English KOH SAMUI — A man whose roadside coupling on Samui became the subject of an on line sex clip was made to apologize to reporters and the public on camera after being fined by police Tuesday. Pons Crespo Arnau, 28 of Spain, admitted to being the man in the viral video that appeared to show him having sex in broad daylight along a beach road Monday. He was fined 500 baht for public obscenity. “I am so sorry for everybody in Thailand,” he said, making a wai gesture, to a reporter who followed him out of the police station. “I know it’s not good, but I drank too much.” Arnau said he just met the woman, who he said was Russian, Sunday night. They drank until morning before going to the beach. Police were still looking for the woman. http://www.khaosodenglish.com/culture/net/2017/05/09/spaniard-made-apologize-film-samui-beach-sex/

From NY Times BANGKOK — On a broad parade ground not far from the Grand Palace, Thai masters are constructing a vision of heaven — an elegant, nine-spired funeral pyre for King Bhumibol Adulyadej that will send his soul into the afterlife later this year. Built to represent Mount Meru, the center of the Hindu universe, it will embody the highest of Thai arts and architecture, with delicate towers adorned with images from mythology and from the life of the king, who died last October at the age of 88, after 70 years on the throne. The cremation is planned for Oct. 26, the second of five days of funeral ceremonies. It will be witnessed by 8,000 invited guests as well as millions of Thais around the nation. The main cremation tower will be 165 feet tall, with a seven-tiered roof and spire, surrounded by eight smaller pavilions representing mountains that surround Mount Meru. Ponds at the pyre’s four corners represent the Cosmic Ocean that flows around it. There will be a small garden with a plot of rice and vegetation commemorating the king’s commitment to rural development. The pyre’s iconography will portray some of the king’s accomplishments, including dams, wind farms, reservoirs and irrigation projects. It will have paintings of angels and mythical creatures, and hundreds of sculptures, including a statue of the king’s favorite dog, Tongdaeng. Continues with photos https://www.nytimes.com/2017/05/08/world/asia/king-bhumibol-thailand-funeral-pyre.html

A mortician should never give up hope.

It's getting to be Groundhog Day in Pattaya. From Pattayaone Bang Lamung district chief Naris Niramaiwong joined an entourage of local police and soldiers parading through Pattaya on Tuesday. According to the chief they were doing important work under government orders to clear up the illegal sex trade in karaoke shops, beer bars and soapy massage establishments or ap-op-nuat, reported Siam Chon News. They were also on the lookout for illegal immigrants, illegal foreign workers and signs of human trafficking and other illegal activity. Naris – who in February mounted a similar raid embarrassing a UK man caught with his trousers down in a short time room above a Go-Go establishment on Valentine’s Day – said it was part of improving tourism at the resort. He also didn’t want the resort to be called “sex capital of the world” anymore, reported Siam Chon News The report of the party’s activities did not mention a single arrest or incident encountered by the group on their foray into the resort’s nightlife. http://pattayaone.news/en/yet-another-sex-clean-pattaya/

From Khaosod English BANGKOK — Powerful stories, LGBT luminaries and fabulous events are coming to the capital with the return of an annual event dedicated to celebrating gay pride and ending discrimination. Next week is IDAHOT, an event known less concisely as the International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia. On May 17, the LGBT community and its friends will come together at a contemporary art space to show the power of diversity and support under the slogan "We are a #RainboyFamily. Talks, exhibitions, performances and more events will be held all day. The event will take place at the Bangkok Art and Culture Center, best reached by skywalk from BTS National Stadium. For event schedule: http://www.khaosodenglish.com/life/arts/2017/05/09/rainbows-pride-soar-bangkok-next-week/