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Thanks a bunch, Hank!

Hey guys, thanks again for your advice so far! One last question. When you go into a bar, and a guy sits down with you, and you buy him a drink, you're supposed to tip him, too, right? If he sits down, do I just hand him 100baht and offer to buy a drink? For example, in Moonlight, maybe I should give him 200? But at BoyzTown maybe 100 is okay? Also, do you have any tricks for avoiding answering all the questions guys ask about your name/place of stay/length of journey? Many thanks! I'll write up a report when my trip is over!

This is a great tip! Thanks! Do you ever ask guys at the bar to make sure that they have their IDs with them before you both leave? I tried to book there, but it had already sold out. I'm hoping the Zing isn't too bad in comparison! I've read that the pool sometimes carries with it a foul odor... hopefully not always the case! Okay, great information! Thanks! I guess if a 3some is to be, it'll be up to whomever is working the desk that night about any relevant fees I think you're fairly experienced so I fully understand your confidence with the guys and what's happening. I totally agree about if I felt nervous about a guy I wouldn't go with him. Just trying to be extra cautious on a first trip to avoid any major pitfalls. Thanks for the information about Raya, I didn't realize it had such a layout

If you choose not to bypass reception, does Zing take ID cards of guests and call you when they leave? I ask because I'm thinking safety is better ensured when the hotel calls before giving back the guest IDs. (Bonus question: does the Raya in Bangkok take guest IDs and call you when they leave? They didn't respond whatsoever to 3 different emails.) Has anyone ever brought 2 guests back to Zing? Did you avoid reception? I recently emailed them about it, and they said the first guest is free but the second guest will be 500 baht.

Thanks, this answers my question! I suppose it's like asking where to find a tree in a forest. Good tip about being discrete. Only got a few short nights in Bangkok, so didn't want to waste my time barking up the wrong tree.

I mean, cute response, but looking for more practical advice. Edit: hahaha, all good fun. I guess I'm just paranoid about catching HIV as someone not on PrEP. Getting a massage from a sexy guy, all pretty safe, then BAM dick up my ass. Not exactly something I'd like to encounter

This is horrifying! I'm so sorry you had this experience. Have any other people had similar experiences? What's the best way to protect yourself from being penetrated while getting a massage if that's not what you're looking for? Just ask the guy to keep his clothes on? Or beforehand explain to the masseur, "No sex!"?

This is covering a lot of ground, but what bars do you recommend for finding bottoms in Pattaya and Bangkok? I've always fantasized about topping a muscular guy (not necessarily "hulk-like" strength, but pretty muscular), where have you guys had luck with that? Also, what are your best recommendations for twink/fem bottoms? Bangkok: Maybe at a place like Tawan in Bangkok? Do any of the muscly guys at Moonlight bottom? I'm guessing it's easy to find a twink bottom at Screw Boys or Classic Boys. Pattaya: Are the twink bottoms at Winner Boys & Cupidol? Anyone had any luck finding muscular bottoms at certain bars in Pattaya?

Hank, thanks for posting the link to the bangkokbois blog. It's been a very informative read for a beginner

So if you top the guy at night, is it reasonable to expect to top him again in the morning? Is that the kind of service that you think would deserve an extra tip? This is an odd question, but after you have sex do you ever just kind of "hang out" with the guys for a few hours before falling asleep? I am considering bringing my Nintendo Switch to hook up to the hotel's TV for a few late night games.

Thanks for the helpful replies! Okay, follow up question, when do you normally give the tip to a guy? For short time give it to him immediately at the hotel room before the action, and long time give it to him the following morning?

I've read that many of you prefer to go long time with the guys. This is a bit personal, but how many times on average do you get it on during the night/morning? Is about 2 or 3 average? Do Thai guys like to spoon/cuddle through the night? Do you eat breakfast together the next morning, or does he leave bright and early? Do you have any tips for protecting yourself if you go long time? Obviously you'd be more vulnerable while sleeping. Other than securing your cash in your safe, are there any tips or tricks that you'd like to share?

What time of day do you think is best to visit a bar (like Winner Boys) in order to get the best choice of guys to off? Is 9PM too early to off someone for long time?

Perfect, thanks for the replies

Hi guys, one more quick question. If you're a top, how do you communicate that to the guys at the bars? From digging through several forums, it seems like the majority of guys who work at bars in Pattaya are actually straight and will only be top. Is that the case? If you yourself are top only, how do you go about finding bottoms at the bars in Pattaya? In my case, especially feminine bottoms would be preferred. I suppose I may be over-thinking it. In my head I was imagining finding a cute guy at a bar, buying him a drink and chatting for a while, only to find out that he's a top-only. Not the end of the world, obviously! Can easily move on to other guys. I just don't want to make an ass out of myself in the bars.

This has all been very helpful. Thank you everyone for your insight!

Hi guys, rookie question here. Let's say you're staying at a hotel in Jomtien, is it still possible to off someone from a bar in Sunee plaza? How would you get back if you're a visitor and don't have a car? Take a baht bus or taxi together? I'm guessing that your time for short time starts when you walk out of the bar, so 20 minutes of traveling really cuts into the time heavily. Short time is normally an hour, right? How strict are guys with the short time timeframe? In this situation would most of you recommend using a short time room? Something about it just doesn't appeal to me, but I don't have any experience with them. In my mind it seems safer & better to just make the trek back to my own hotel, where they'll keep the guys ID at the front desk.