NIrishGuy

Some of us are still distraught over the demise of IRC chat rooms !!

If not used to their mobile site I can see why you'd say that as it is quite a shift from the old site ( which is still available should you prefer it I think) but like all things once you do get used to it it's actually not to bad and in fact if using both the mobile and the desktop site together it is quite handy just to think of everything in the one way and using the same icons etc.

That's very sad for the competitors who made the effort and ran up the expense to attend and also makes gay's in general look bad. I was then wonder "oh dear, whatever will those 2000+ attendees do to pass their time" and then I read a Facebook post by one of the groups arranging alternative activities for them which read "The Hotel Gaythering in South Beach says that OutGames participants will get complimentary drinks, sauna access and shuttles to Haulover Nude Beach every day" So, that's that all sorted then I guess for the 2 weeks !! Read more here: http://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/community/gay-south-florida/article152835799.html#storylink=cpy

Maybe wise that anyone based in Thailand ( or intending to visit even) does not even reply to this thread as based on the topic at hand the slightest innocent comment on "that" particular topic can could lead to charges if it suits those who must be obeyed - such as the woman who simply commented "ok" to a post on Facebook about "that' topic that was charged ( and imprisoned ?) shortly after I believe, likewise the powers that be have indicated that they would also consider blocking passports of foreigners who caused offence to ensure that they too couldn't visit Thailand - or worse they'd maybe let them in and THEN arrest and prosecute them. So perhaps just the less said the better

Hmmm and did they also tell you that you looked like a "handsome man" too perhaps ? Here, let me send you a large sack full of salt so that you take a pinch or two of that when you next hear such lines ! Really, a man of you worldly experience, you REALLY should know better than to listen to such nonsense ! :-)

Hmm I was about to say `'Hey come that's so ageist" but then stopped to think about it and realised that you're totally right !! Older people in jeans does just look "wrong" sometimes - which then gave me a moment of panic in realising that I'm pushing on 50 ( 48 actually) and still wear jeans on a regular basis and so just had a "moment of self awareness" thinking "shit, is it time I stopped wearing jeans !" ( no!) but then thought, so, if not now, so at what age IS the age, when knows 'it's time" !? So is it a gradual thing and one just realises that "Hmmm this just doesn't quite feel right now" or are there perhaps some jeans fairies who come into your room on the eve of your 60th birthday and instantly remove all your jeans whether you like it or not ! ? So, what age IS the age - OR ARE perhaps Ryan ( and I ) both wrong and one can and should wear just whatever the hell the wearer wants for just as long as they want ? You see, THESE are the important questions in life that need urgent answers - never mind whats the meaning life and is there a God, no, this and "how much to you tip a massage boy" are all we need answers too as once you've cracked that in life then what else left is there left that you REALLY need to know anyway !? (hmmm that sounds like the start of another great thread all in itself even !)

GWNinUS's recommendations above are spot on and are exactly my view on the place too. Follow his tips and you'll not go too far wrong. But as he's also mentioned there ARE several "no go" places now in the Ph's so DO check with your own Government advisory websites etc re then issuing any "do not travel" notices - which would of course automatically wipe out ANY insurance cover you would have either for that portion of your trip, or if the insurance company feel like it ( once and after you've made a claim of course ) for your ENTIRE trip, even when outside the Philippines ! So take care re that point. Not to mention that it's actually probably NOT that safe to be visiting those areas and shit IS happening there so definitely best to avoid perhaps. Even when there I felt a distinct uneasiness from my Ph hosts in certain areas as they too understood that really it probably wasn't a good idea for me to be hanging around in certain ( quite large areas) for too long. So do check and know what's what and where NOT to spend too much if any time - but "generally speaking" I would agree that Cebu and Davao cities are generally safe - but travelling on outside of those areas, best to follow advice perhaps for now. Enjoy.

Ryanasia - firstly my apologies as it appears I for some reason got you confused with the poster " ask a money boy anything" ( or something like that) - ha why, I have NO idea, but that's who I was thinking about and he ( claimed to be in his 30's etc I think hence why I was querying "his" annoyance at the whole outing thing. But as that's NOT you and it seems you haven't made porn ( I presume anyway and not that there would be anything wrong with that in my book anyway) and as I see you're a bit older then I totally get your point now as to how you're pissed having to jump through hoops you didn't feel you had to before. I get that now - again apologies re that. Although ( and not to start that ball rolling again :-) ) but I'm still genuinely scratching my head as are you saying that the authorities wouldn't accept your normal civil partnership / gay marriage as "fact" without some pics showing the full works in progress even though you had the correct paperwork etc- surely not !? And I'm not doubting your work there by the way, more just as amazed / pissed off as you are if that is the case ?

Im guessing a lot of Thai boys think the same when seeing you in your mothers underwear for the first time !

After reading your post I'm still not sure what your complaint is ? You wanted to get married, you can now get married. You wanted acceptance, people accept you. And the problem is ?? And this from a guy who made porn apparently and so I assume couldn't give a shit what anyone thinks of them anyway - so why the need or desire to stay in the closet in the first place ? Surely just be out ( as I presume you are anyway), be married and be happy ( or if you've married the wrong guy be grumpy, but hey that's the same deal as the straights have had for years so we wanted equality - it seems you've got it. Smile and get on with life now perhaps an stop giving a shit about others and what they think.

Does the airport Pattaya direct bus for 180 Baht or whatever not run at night too ?? ( I'm not saying it does I'm asking the question as it's nearly as handy as any I find - although granted maybe not at midnight I guess ?)

To the Op and just out of interest seeing you bothered to add a pic - is that actually you and is it a recent pic perhaps ?

What, they don't like being talked about ?? if so,they really should get over themselves, bloody drama queens ! ;-)

I've YET to meet a muscle mary who actually admits to taking steroids - they all tell you that EVERY other muscle guy takes then but god damn you if you ask or suggest that they "obviously" do too as they're bigger than the other guys, have tiny dicks and a bad temper that would clear a busy bar - but oh no all THEIR muscles are solely from pure natural hard work in the gym it seems - yeah "OKAY then" ....

To be fair most of the notices you see in gay bathrooms are usually just notes with a phone number inviting you to look at someones dick anyway ! :-) And thank god Dick's is to remain open as I'd of starved otherwise as it's my main ( lazy) way to eat when I can't be bothered leaving the Soi. Plus their Vanilla milkshakes are wonderful and a great ease to stomach acid when one is or has partaken of too much whiskey the night before I find.

hmmm, so what makes you think that they DONT carry weapons then eh as it wouldn't be the first bar boy I've known who's been able to produce a gun brought to Pattaya with them all the way from their home town in Issan where it was bought / rented for something crazy like 5000 baht - which is why I always think twice before unintentionally short changing or pissing anyone off when in Thailand as you're only ever a few thousand baht away from a bullet in the back of the head if you piss off the wrong guy.

Steveboy said "Sometimes my son who is a surgeon gossips with me about what he finds inside some of the bodies... yuck! But he does it to advice me what not to do to my body or else..." Well you've certainly got ME hooked with that statement, so go on, you can't leave us hanging after that, so do tell, WHAT does he find - I'm genuinely inquisitive to know !

Well now, I learn something new every day it seems as whilst I always when Thais us it they are of course generally referring to us white guys I did always assume / was toid that it actually simply meant foreigner and not "just" European ( white) foreigners. But assuming you're correct ( which Im happy to do) I guess that answers my question about who's at fault - and as always it IS of course us, the poor hard done by white guys as always - quelle surprise eh ! :-)

Although it opens an interesting question in that we all know if shit happens and a farang is involved it'll ALWAYS end up the farangs fault no matter what, HOWEVER in this case the Asian guy ( if i read correctly) wasn't actually Thai - meaning in the true sense of the word he TOO was a farang ! So, does that make it a case of all bets are off then perhaps OR will the Thai's STILL side with their "local" guy simply because he's LESS farang than us farang......and if so does that make them every so slightly racist !? Ha hold on what am I talking about they ARE racist and rarely try to hide the fact, the only question here would be do they dislike us white guys more or dislike say a Cambodian guy less ( who lets face it they've rarely a good word to say about anyway !) So, perhaps in THIS case the white guy IS safe enough after all as it was farang on farang ( but I doubt it ! :-)

Good man ! Especially as garroting would of course have been a MUCH more suitable punishment - I mean if we're going to do it we might as well do it right !! :-) ( JOKE !!!!! :-)

I guess it all depends on exactly what any laundry IS (really) laundering before one could guess what it's TRUE value might be to its owners / customers - seen or unseen.

Surely your above is a bit harsh considering that most people agreed that whilst this surely wasn't nice for the boy or probably fair by the farang they simply added that they'd like to know BOTH sides of the story before passing any judgement on the matter. However you as you also of course only know ONE side of the story and yet you seem to think that glassing someone in the face, perhaps leaving them with a permanent facial disfigurement, is a suitable action for something that you too can only know 50% about yourself I doubt very much as to whether I'll have any success in getting you to follow our logic re that.

Man I wish I had friends like you for overtime that one of my customers fuck me over, Whilst your actions as a friend are admirable surely the boys like every other "business person" need to learn how to handle such situations and to put a little bit of money away "just in case" etc ( ok ok I know they don't but us just continually bailing them out sometimes doesn't help either maybe - that's not a criticism of your kind act but the way, more just an observation. Also are you aware was there a reason that the guy walked away without paying ? As you say it seems quite extreme and not normal behaviour, so was there perhaps something said or done or some information revealed to the farang that caused his extreme reaction ( just before you go off of him either in public or private perhaps?) And lastly I'm amazed that the boys / the bar manager ALLOWED the guy to walk off in such a manner without all hell breaking loose, he'd certainly better watch his back should he ever decide to drink in THAT bar again anyway, that's for sure,

Simply a work of fiction along with some pics pulled from the web. To be fair I don't think the Op is suggesting anything other than that nor suggesting it's a genuine "report" - at least I sincerely HOPE he's not ! :-)

oh I don't know - I know some right cunts who are a great fuck ! :-)