no need to be sorry and you did right thing.
Private messages are as great invention as sliced bread and can be put to good use. Everybody knows what we are doing in the bathroom or the bedroom and still we take care to close door.
Boy review is not Wikipedia and can be highly subjective - which often may be misleading. cases when we g follow recommendations and finish disappointed are numerous and so do reverse, guy gets bad rep but we follow our guts and end up happy. For me Tum from Moonlight and M from Senso are coming to mind and to this day I'm happy I followed my , not somebody else's, no matter how trusted , guts