jason1975

Very helpful of you to help the newcomer customer!

Second time's the charm! And now that you have his Line account, looks like there will be a third and fourth time in future. Generous of you to give him a bonus!

You did the right thing by speaking to him and agreeing in advance what you want him to do.

3k is definitely not enough to get 2 guys for 3some!

He made the right decision!

What a wonderful "live" trip report! Thank you for writing and sharing with us your interesting experiences!

Even if there is a rotation system at massage shop, you can try requesting for specific masseur. Smile while speaking to manager!

You can of course go to Good Boys first to look for hot guy. If he is keen on threesome, you can go ahead with him without going to another bar.

Good luck at Freshboys! I would forget about drink at bar and just go straight to Freshboys at 9pm. They open at 8pm by the way. Since you have such limited time, better to find your guy quickly, make arrangement for the threesome and go back to hotel room.

5th December to 26th December. Bangkok. Maybe some days Pattaya. Likely to be busy with my guy. 🥰

Thank you for writing about your experiences in such detail and with much honesty. I wouldn't be quick to close the door with Bee. He seems to be genuinely in need of financial assistance. If I remember correctly, when he first met you, he didn't talk about money at all and he seemed like he wanted to know whether there could be chemistry between the two of you for a relationship. It takes time to get to know a person. I encourage you to keep in touch with him when you are back at home. If you are able to maintain meaningful online conversations with him, that shows there is some connection in your relationship. If you want to, you might consider sending him a small sum of money every month to help him slowly clear his debt. However, you should be the one deciding how much to give and it is based on how much you are prepared to give and not how much he asks for. I have known my regular guy for 9 years now and it started back in 2016. I subsequently met him every time I visited Bangkok. In 2019, he was disillusioned with the life working in a bar so he asked me if I could support him monthly if he went back to Vietnam. It was a reasonable sum and I could afford it so I said yes. It was not his only source of income. He worked and my money merely supplemented his earnings as he provided for his parents. But Covid hit and things were bad. The job situation in Vietnam didn't recover after Covid so he came back to Bangkok to work in 2022. I got reunited with him physically and have been meeting him for the past few years. He's done well enough that I have stopped sending him money every month. Of course, I tend to give him quite a bit more than a regular customer when I meet him in Bangkok! Our long distance relationship consists of chatting about mundane things such as "what did you eat for dinner?" or "how's the weather?" but we also ask about each other's health and share about our individual life.

I know of a bar guy who has been given 50k a month from a rich sponsor for past few months.

I believe most guys now are behaving properly and giving good service. But once high season kicks in and there are customers aplenty, they might try their tricks again.

Another Freshboys fan!

Yes. He is lean and has fabulous abs!

Heavy rain the past few nights! VID-20251103-WA0008.mp4

A Freshboys fan and admirer of Vietnamese men!

When you wrote about #17 a few months ago, I honestly didn't know how to react. #17 is my regular guy as some forum members know. And I have never known him to take the initiative to directly approach a customer for an off. Your account left me puzzled but I never mentioned it to him. Now I understand. It wasn't him all along! "While waiting outside, out of nowhere, 17 approached me. He asked if I was going home. I said yes. He asked if he could come with me. I said I had already offed someone. He nodded and said next time I should choose him. I told him I had tried to off him the night before but he left. He scratched his head, gave me a sheepish look, and asked again if we could go out when I come back. I decided it's really silly to be acting like a disgruntled ex partner so I smiled sincerely and said sure. We ended up talking for a bit longer. He was unexpectedly pleasant. Way more relaxed than the night before. He actually seemed like someone you’d want to spend time with. Somewhere in that convo, I buried the silly melodrama I created in my head. Maybe he had a bad night. Maybe I did. Or maybe nothing brings a bar boy back down to earth faster than a half-empty club and the whiff of low season creeping in. When 3X finally arrived, I hesitated but gave 17 a tip anyway. A gesture. A peace treaty.It felt like a good note to end on."

Yes. That extra money can pay for two guys short time or half a model in your case! @vinapu

It costs more than $200 as it is a Friday afternoon flight! At least $400!

Chatgpt's SORA drawing app is getting better! It perfectly drew what I long for currently!

And so October has passed and I didn't go to Bangkok unlike previous months. It helped that my regular guy was not in Bangkok for 2 weekends as he went home to Vietnam for two weeks from end September onwards to mid October. There were still 2 weekends in October available and I had to control myself from booking an air ticket. I miss him terribly. We chat every day. He tells me that many customers go to his bar (Freshboys) but mainly to watch the show. Few offs for the guys during this low season. He gets by on drinks and tips with occasional short-time offs. An interesting encounter was being offed with 5 other guys to drink with Chinese customer. He was drunk and only woke up after noon the next day! I have a 3-week trip in December. One more month to go. November. Maybe one weekend trip?

I didn't like the fact that there's no complimentary bottles of drinking water. Each room has a water bottle for guests to fill up with water from water dispenser at end of corridor.

Some waiters are cute!

He has been working for 2 years. In fact, he was using a different number and only changed his number last month. The previous #25 is now using a different number. I have no idea why the guys decide to change numbers!