jason1975

After leaving Dreamboy, we went to Dragon for a drink. Waiters inside all shirtless and there was some dancing on the bar top. Forum member wanted to experience the bar so I just followed along. I also didn't mind bringing "Music" along. Still too early to go back. Also still too full from dinner at G's 3 hours ago to eat supper at Foodland now. (I always eat supper with the guys I off. Unless they prefer not to) Because "Music" was with me, the Dragon waiters didn't approach me. Dragon is a host bar so customers who go in are typically befriended by a host for chatting in return for drink and tips. The Myanmar waiters are friendly and speak good English. The TV screen is showing Olympic Games diving competition - divers in speedos - what a conversation starter! "Music" and I step out of bar for a while to smoke and chat. We talk about how my guy is doing in Vietnam. Almost Viet guy in the Patpong bars knows about him staying in Vietnam for half a year to build his house. We stay at Dragon until 11.30pm then we went to Foodland for supper. After that, I said goodbye to forum member and "Music" and I went to airbnb condo to make music for the rest of the night!

I told "Music" to get changed. I will off him tonight. He goes off to get changed. I tell mamasan I want to pay. Total bill was 950 for my drink, boy drink and off fee. I give mamasan a 1000-baht note and he returns with 50 baht in folder. I think whether to pass mamasan the 50 baht but I am mindful that some mamasans will feel insulted if they are tipped less than 100 baht. So I just leave the 50 baht in folder and I close it and return to mamasan. I notice two guys on stage. One has a giant lion head tattoo on his back. Fabulous body and abs. Another guy has athletic body and he looks like a footballer. I also spot a Thai guy who is a favourite of a forum member. I remember him well because we ate supper at Foodland together and I found his English to be superb and he also has sexy body! At 10:30pm, the Dreamboys show start with 4 coyote dancers dancing. 2 of are fabulous dancers while the other 2 need more practice. "Music" comes back to me in his tradement black figure-hugging T-shirt and typical bar guy accessory sling bag. After the coyote dancing, it was time to leave.

"Music" and I spend time catching up. He is more tanned as he had gone back to Vietnam for Tet for one month. He points to his stomach and says he drank every day during Tet. "Karaoke?" he asks me. Not tonight but I promise him I will take him to karaoke another night. Three Chinese customers suddenly occupy the private sofa booth directly above our seats. Two mamasans brought bottle of whisky and got two Vietnamese guys to sit with them. I know one of them as he is my guy's good friend. I smiled at him and he said hi and fist bumped me.

About 30 guys at Dreamboy. Many customers. It was a busy Friday night. Forum member and I were led to a second row seat. I spotted "Music" - the guy I had offed during my 2nd weekend trip. I waved to him to come down the stage and sit with me. He was surprised that I was there. He asked me why I didn't text him in advance. I just smiled and bought him a drink. "Music" and I looked at the guys on stage and he gave me information on them. There are currently 8 Vietnam guys working at Dreamboys, with 3 who recently transferred from Freshboys. Years ago, at one stage, 1/3 of guys at Freshboys were Vietnamese. Now, there's only 4 Vietnam guys working at Freshboys. The majority are Myanmar and Laos guys.

At 9 plus, we left G's. One forum member and I decided to check out new bar Big Boy on Patpong. 4 guys available for off despite the guy downstairs saying "10 boys tonight!" Spacious set up. 3 of the guys were muscle guys. Not as big as those in Tawan. The 4th guy was a twink but had toned muscles and younger than the others. We had a drink for a while. We didn't stay for the show. We went to Dreamboy next.

I arrived at G's on the dot at 8:00pm. One forum member was already seated there at outdoor table. Soon, another forum member joined us. We ate and chatted for an hour. Guido came to talk to us. His plan for restaurant in Pattaya is going well. He managed to get a big piece of land. So big that he could even install a waterfall! I will be glad to go to Pattaya to see his restaurant when it opens. Throughout the dinner, I looked across at some of the cute waiters at Banana Bar. My guy was not in Bangkok for half a year (he is currently building his house in Vietnam) so I could meet anyone, including those from his bar Freshboys. In the past, we had an agreement. I could not off anyone from Freshboys while he was working there. I had in mind two guys at Freshboys whom I had always thought of offing.

I only had my backpack with me so I could go to airport train straightaway. However, airport train seemed slower than usual. After finally arriving at Phya Thai, I switched to BTS. I was constantly checking my watch. I had a 8:00pm dinner appointment at G's. I had thought of getting a one-hour massage at nearby Adam Massage before dinner. Alas, I only managed to reach airbnb at 7:15pm so decided to skip massage. I don't like to be late for appointments. I took my time checking out the airbnb and even had a shower and change of clothes to get ready for dinner.

My plane landed at 5:30pm. There were many people at immigration. I went to the two automated machines next to those for Thai citizens. I queued and scanned my passport in less than 5 minutes.

My 3rd weekend trip to Bangkok happened in 2nd week of March. I took 2 days leave Monday and Tuesday so I had a weekend trip from Friday to Tuesday. The reason for this particular trip was to meet forum members. I booked an airbnb at Oasis Condo on soi 3. It belongs to same owner of another airbnb unit that I had booked last December. He has several airbnb units. Cost was US$40 per night for a decent size unit with kitchen and access to condo facilities such as swimming pool, gym and laundry machines.

I know of a guy at Freshboy who disappeared after he found a sponsor who allegedly paid him 50k a month. I also know of guys who continue working in bar even when they have a sponsor. They are allowed to go out with customers to drink only. No sex. The guys will communicate their terms clearly to new customers who want to off them.

Google Translate might have translated his message too literally and created a tone that he never intendred. He might just be stating a fact - tomorrow there are many customers in bar and he has to work. Today he is free to meet (implied meaning he has no customers today). There were occasions in the past when my guy and I misintrepreted each other's intention due to Google Translate. But we subsequently clarified each other's message and all went well in the end.

Even though I book my guy for full day, we are not physically together 24/7. He works at bar from 8pm every night and only sleeps at 3am after work. He sleeps till 4pm or 5pm. So he needs to sleep in daytime. When I am with him the night before, we stay up till 1am or 2am then I will sleep. He tries to sleep but if he can't sleep, he will watch Tiktok on his phone or play games. At 6am, I wake up and we have morning sex. We then have breakfast. Then he sleeps until afternoon. Sometimes I just enjoy watching his naked body in bed but most of time, I go out for shopping or get a massage. When he wakes up in mid afternoon, then we go out together.

The reason why I give my guy 5k to be with me per day is because the short time rate at his bar (Freshboy) is 2.5k and long time rate is 4k. In my mind, it would not be right to pay less than 4k for one whole day.

At least 5k per day. Having met him in person, I believe he will be a great companion.

But he didn't off the guy! Is he syill considered a brother? Sidenote. I do know of some bar guys who were offed by several different forum members!

In my trip report ("weekends in Bangkok") i used another name to refer to him.

Glad you found them nice! Having met you just a few nights ago, they naturally smiled at you (maybe to ask for karaoke? Lol!)

No wonder he looked so familiar at EDT on Saturday! I had seen him at Dreamboys on Friday.

Thank you for writing "live" trip report @emiel1981 It really takes disclipine to write daily. Have a safe flight. Catch up with you again in future.

Since @jimmie50 has announced he was forum member number 1, let me rewrite @emiel1981 report of Monday night. "The evening was a strange combination of constantly meeting forum members at different places. First, a coffee and catching up with jimmie at Starbucks, then going to meet jason and his guy at Foodland while jimmie went to wait for his guy at Midnight Bar. Next, i went with jason to meet jimmie at Midnight Bar for a drink. Jimmie left us when he went to eat with his guy at Foodland. I went somewhere to eat a bit later too. After that, i went to have a drink with jimmie and his guy at Freshboy. In Freshboys, I found it a bit awkward that the guy who had spent time with jason earlier that day was flirting with me. Of course, you know there will be guys who have gone out with multiple forum members, but when you know so clearly that this was only a few hours ago, it still makes it a bit uncomfortable. Haha After Freshboys, I went to the karaoke room at Happy Beer Garden to have a fun karaoke evening with jason and four Vietnamese guys."

Wise answer from @vinapu

Sorry to read about your disastrous experience at Magic Touch! If only I had known you were in Silom that Saturday afternoon, I would have met you and if we had gone to Magic Touch together, I would have told you not to take the massage! I was in fact at Green for foot massage at 2 plus followed by awesome B2B massage with six pec abs guy at Sun Massage on soi 6. This was followed by an hour of fun at Sauna Mania and then back to condo before finally meeting you and other forum members at 8pm.

I am perfectly fine with being reported on and identified. I am forum member 2 in report. Regular readers would have figured out whenever "karaoke" and "vietnam guys" are mentioned.

More accurate would be 10 staff in total - 4 boys on stage, 2 waiters, 1 DJ, 3 managers (maybe co-owners?)

@BjornAgain it was a great meet-up at G's. I enjoyed part 2 when we met at Midnight bar with our guys. hope to have a future meet-up with @vinapu present!