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spoon

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  1. Yet to find anyone who is getting younger 🤔
  2. Must be its too dirty and smelly to leave inside the room? Lol
  3. Lucky you for getting immigration guy for free
  4. Ive had one case where guy reluctant to go to jomtien, because apparently the bar is having a party so insist on a short time room. But they do know where to find one. Most of the time, no issue. In some case, their house is actually nearer to jomtien than boyztown.
  5. spoon replied to a post in a topic in Gay Bangkok
    @Matthew285 Ah, if you are top and looking for bottom, 3-4 are about right i supposed.
  6. spoon replied to a post in a topic in Gay Bangkok
    Thats high season for you. Numbers that goes with men much higher during low season, even during my trip (early dec). My guess is, those who went with men already booked up by the gays already, as jupiter usually have 40+ guys and in my recollection, only a handful wont strictly go with guys.
  7. Im in the same camp but I would only exchange line if i really like the guy, and would only texted them when i want to see them again. Most of the time, I dont even pre-arrange by telling them my travel date, but more so as a backup if i didnt see them in bar or massage place anymore. I also find it useful when I didnt find anyone i like that night, or when its my arrival is near midnight where bar visit might not happen. Other than that, i still prefer to find my guy at bar or massage place.
  8. Yes, at the normal buffet for the normies lol
  9. spoon replied to kram987's topic in Gay Bangkok
    From wherever olddaddy were hiding from?
  10. Should bar asked all visitor to give consent before the big cock show?
  11. Day 6 - My first repeat Woke up refreshed, went down for breakfast alone for the first time this trip. I can see the staff surprised look that I am alone this morning, having had a different guy daily before lol. For those who are interested, Hilton Bangkok Grande Asoke does have executive lounge for breakfast available for gold and diamond members or those who stays in executive club rooms or one can choose to eat at the full buffet restaurant Atelier at level 2, with special section only for diamond member, which is a separate room called the Governor. Its decor is North American downtown sports bar, and it gives extra privacy and space compared to the cramped restaurant. Additional service provided here are a small selection of a la carte breakfast items made to order, such as smoke salmon egg benedict, avocado toast, teriyaki salmon on brown rice etc plus extended options for coffee and tea. Went back to hotel, chat with some members about yesterday events and future activities plans while waiting for my 1.30pm guy to arrive. He messaged me around noon saying he is on his way. He did mentioned about an hour later that the traffic was bad, but still arrived at 1.15pm. I went down to pick him up, and he was waiting at the back of the lobby which is an odd location. Later on, I figured out why, because he drove his car to my hotel and parked at the hotel parking. My stay does includes free on site parking though so all is fine. Our session was as good as i remember and our after is even hotter than i recall. Ive had him twice before at history massage, but during this trip, when i enquire the shop, they say he already resign. He told me he has issues with the shop and just quit few days earlier. Luckily we had exchange contact so we can still meet for massage outside the shop. After he left, I quickly take shower and packed to move to Silom. One of member's perk is 4pm late check out. Took taxi to silom as my effort to find a bolt driver fail due to the heavy traffic. Apparently its a long weekend for thai's so everyone is going back home or out of bangkok. Luckily as i went to the lobby door, a taxi came to drop passenger at the hotel, so I asked if he can send me to Furama Silom and he said yes. In the car though, he was pretty angry at the traffic situation. He even asked if he can drop me on the side of the road, but it would be easier for him to drop me at the lobby as the traffic is bad already, if he were to stopped in the middle of the traffic when the traffic is about to move, im sure he will get angry driver honking at him. My room is ready, and i got the room at 17th floor. All the room here are facing the river and I can see some part of icon siam from my room. Another near miss with my phone... Took out phone to show the check in counter my booking, but forgot that my passport is inside my luggage, so need to open my luggage in the lobby. Somehow I forgot my phone and again only realize that when im in my room. Needless to say, I was in panic mode and cursing myself for being so absent minded while making my way to the lobby and wishing I didnt left my phone in the taxi car. Luckily my panic mode was short lived as when i am at the counter, I saw my phone there. The reception just asked me to unlock it and returned the phone to me saying that someone in the lobby found my phone. In my defense, I didnt left it in the car this time lol Had a nap after unpacking and asked forum member about dinner/bar visit plan tonight. Turned out they had early dinner already so I went to a Malaysian restaurant called Ibu Restaurant few blocks south near the hindu temple to eat my dinner before making my way to midnight bar. Tonight, I wanted to visit Tawan. Those who has been reading the forum should know about Atlas closure, and rumors about their staff is now working in Tawan. Waited for some forum members before heading to tawan for tonight. Went there before the show starts and 3 of us were ushered to sit in the middle, just slightly left off the stage. One of us decided to take the front row. Got our drink and waited for the show while few of the guys are taking turn to be on stage. I have to say the rumor is true, as the number of guys in Tawan are more than my recent visit in July for sure. I believe there should be more than 20 of them, some twinks as well. At least 3 of them are offing material for me. Alas, I already have a guy for tonight, my first repeat of the trip, my Jupiter guy. So I can enjoy the show at Tawan tonight without pressure to off them. Shows was similar to previous experience, some S&M shows, muscle flexing shows, Jerk off show, and some ladyboy number as well. I guess we can officially forget about sex shows in bangkok. Officially extinct. Told my guy that Ill go to him after his show finished and he texted me around 11.17pm that he has finished his show. I told him im at tawan now and will go to him around 11.30pm. We had supper at Tiger Mala restaurant on the way to Furama before we went back to hotel. As always, session went well. And we talked about world politics and world's future as well. I did bring a topic of travelling together with him, initially just to test the water, if he has any interest at all. More on this later....
  12. spoon replied to a post in a topic in Gay Bangkok
    Thanks for the tips, I saw someone else familiar too!
  13. spoon replied to kram987's topic in Gay Bangkok
    You only need one guy, surprised you didnt off him
  14. Thats the beauty of human, all comes in variety of traits and along with it variety of tastes.
  15. Actually he does sings well, at least the song I had requested, which is a thai song lol
  16. It is not the same guy. Both i consider my regulars, while the first one didnt tell me, and I, being his regular also didnt asked, so I still would consider that half my fault for being relaxed when hiring a repeat, plus he did provided me an acceptable alternative, so I am ok after that. Still ticked me offed. This one, Ive taken him few times in the past, but the few times i took him before, it was during low season. So I wouldve been ok and gave in if he would just asked without creating a lie to obtain it.
  17. Day 5 - Trying something new My guy left after breakfast, although I must say something did happened that might make me reconsider taking him again. Without going into too much detail, I basically caught him lying to me, and using that lie to extract more money from me. Sad thing is, I have no issue with his service and had he just asked me, without those lies, I would've been happy to give him. Needless to say, i stood my ground and in the end he left my room. I guess its the high season now, so cant fully blame guys wanting to cash in, but I draw the line at lying. Ive had few cases before asking more money and most of the time, I will give them extra if Im happy. Today, we finally plan a quick trip to two places. First, Wat Welu Wanaram (or Phai Kheaw) dubbed the most beautiful interior design temple. Second is Papaya studio, an antique furniture and design studio. As the location is a bit away from BTS, we decided to book a grab car rental for 6 hours for 1.6k baht. I did asked at concierge for a car hire and was quoted 400 baht per hour, so grab is a better option. My KL friend got the grab around 11.45pm and picked me up at my hotel and we went to the temple first. My friend is buddhist so I got to witness more than just the temple visit as tourist. He also explain to me some of the things he does and the significant of colors on the alms offering at the temple. We also managed to see a local thai family getting blessed by the monk here. We then proceed to the Papaya studio and had lunch here, where they serve western dishes as well as thai fried rice and omelette. I ordered crab fried rice and my friend ordered crab fluffy omelette with steam rice. I would eat here again if we are in the area. The store itself is quite huge, spanning 3 floors but went we arrived there, apparently there is a movie or tv series shooting happening, so we couldnt access some of the 2nd floor for a period of time. I cant determined if its an hindu movie or tamil but the crew and actors are of Indian origin. We did manage to visit 2nd floor during their break though. It was interesting visit for sure but seems like the antique items are mostly of western origin. There is also another smaller antique shops adjacent to this shops with different collections as well. We finished the use of grab car rental by dropping us at VCK club. We have booked a session there at 5pm. My friend was happy with his masseur, but mine was so so. Not sure why, my luck with VCK isnt as good as other places, but they do have more guys thats are my type. Maybe because the masseur here tend to rush things and that doesnt sit well with me. Plus the guy i choose looks different than his photo. We went back to our hotel and meet for dinner around 8pm at wine connection silom. We joined 2 fellow forum members who are already there eating. After dinner, we were discussing which bar we should hit tonight. We settle with moonlight and jupiter. I really wish to say that our second visit to moonlight improves, but sadly it doesnt. There is one more floor boy I saw that wasnt there during our last visit but he is still borderline case for me, and in BKK, there is just a lot to choose from, you dont have to settle with borderline cases. I was hoping to see if Joey is around, but unfortunately, its his off day tonight. We do see more new models though, plus the return of Mr Mean. The brazillian freelancer is still around as well. Of the new models, Mr Khun i find attractive, with all the right muscles. We didnt stay long and make our way to Jupiter next. Significantly less people in jupiter tonight. I wonder if the increase in entrance fee to 600 has anything to do with it. My friend already have a guy tonight and i booked my regular guy for tomorrow. My initial plan was to see if joey is around and perhaps but him a drink and see if he wanted to go with me ST, and exception only reserve for the few. Since he is not available, hard for me to find a comparable replacement lol. I did had a guy already from vck and tomorrow afternoon, I already booked another guy to come to my hotel, so tonight i suppose I will be alright to have it as a rest night. Signs of getting old i suppose. Shows at jupiter is as good as it can be. Cherry on top was poppy is here, together with yesterday's singer. Last night, i asked the singer if he can sing one or two songs i requested, and he said he didnt know the songs. Tonight, I asked if poppy knows the song, he said he knows one of them but havent sing it for a long time so cant do it that night. I finally find a thai song that both of them can sing, and featuring Boom too! No supper for tonight as I have no guy to feed so back to my hotel and finally get my 8 hour beauty sleep at night, first one this trip.
  18. Whoops. Missed to quote yours as well
  19. Thank you all! Yes, all ends well. Im still typing this report mainly using the recovered phone.
  20. I do have a small backpack i used to carry umbrella, bottle water and powerbank. After that incident, Ive been very careful about whereabout of my phone and yes, i do put them in my front pocket. Usually when I misplace something, its probably due to me trying to quickly do few things at the same time. In this case, I was opening my wallet to pay the bolt driver, while forgetting that I had my phone on my hand prior to that. So I probably put down my phone on the seat while reaching my wallet. Looking back, Ive never lost my phone until this incident. I have lost my wallet once when I was a school kid, and once in college, and in both cases, manage to recover back both wallets. I have lost my passport once in my life during first day of travel and that was horrible. My most memorable incident was when I dropped my camera somewhere in the field back in college, and somehow recovered back a year later by junior colleague who went to the same trip and to our surprise that camera still work just fine. Thats how they know it is my camera.
  21. Day 4 - The morning after After i sent my guy away at lobby, I went back to the reception to asked if there is any update about my phone. Sadly, the answer is still no update. I replied to them saying that I guess Ill need to shop for a new phone now, to which they awkwardly chuckles. Went back to my room, I recalled that I have my laptop with me, and perhaps I still have access to my whatapps. I recently use whatapps web to access certain file from my phone. So I switch on my laptop and checked if I can open my whatapps. And voila, it is still connected to my account! I immediately grab a pen and paper to jot down all the important phone numbers from my contact. I also texted my two malaysian friends telling them the whole ordeal. I also checked my email. And there i saw a reply from bolt customer service about the lost phone report sent by hotel receptionist. Its an email asking for me to give additional detail, my phone number where they can contact me, and consent to share it with the driver. This was apparently sent to me at 3.31 am and i replied with the hotel receptionist number and hotel name around 9.33 am. And I received a reply of acceptance 9.37 am. I am impressed with the speed of response by bolt customer service! After checking my email, whatapps and facebook on my laptop, i search on how i can open my line account on the laptop but this wasnt successful, not without my phone with me. Went for a nap a bit then was woken up by door bell and a knock on my door. I thought oh must be the house keeping. Went to the door to open it and its actually the bellboy, telling me that someone at the lobby asking for me, to return my phone. Im still half asleep but the news woke me up like ive been punched in the face. Still in disbelief, I told the bellboy thank you so much and I will be right down. Went down full with anticipation, and as I came out of the lift, I saw him the bolt driver from last night, and on his hand, my phone! It was turned off though, probably due to out of battery. I cant describe this feeling of relief, like all of the sudden, all my headaches are gone. I thank the driver and the hotel bellboy and believe it or not, had to convince the driver to take some cash from me as appreciation. He first refuse the cash, but when i told him it is to cover his gas and it is also from my heart, he reluctantly accept it. He then asked to take a picture with me, showing the phone, to report back to bolt. The receptionist working right now was already a new crew so Ill have to thank the night shift receptionist tonight. Back at the hotel, I immediately charge my phone and start to switch on my phone. Told my two malaysian friends that Ive gotten my phone back. Having my faith in humanity restored, i started browsing my line, replied a text from forum member, and started planing my next massage, this time with history massage. Been meaning to try this one guy but based on previous report, his tips is quite high, but recently, a friend told me that he has reduced his tips. Also texted a fellow forum member that might be in bkk. All booked, and back to having my nap. Woke up and went for my massage appointment at history, and met my KL friend there, he also booked another masseur there. My session went better than expected, massage was super sensual, my masseur is really good looking with greek god like body, and after was great as well. Tonight, a planned dinner with some forum veterans, 5 of us at 25 degrees. It was at first only a dinner for two, but I asked one of them when he is free to meet for dinner and he asked if i wanted to join tonight's dinner and i said yes, and asked if some other members can join as well, so in the end, its 5 of us tonight at 6.30pm Had a nice catching up and since its still early, I went to see forum member and watching some of the guys playing pool at bar downstairs of freshboy. We then went to jupiter for the night for their show. And of course, the highlight of the show is still the famous boom, but their overall shows also improves. Yes, they have decided to increase the entrance free by 100 baht. We chose to swallow it as my friend already have someone he wanted to off tonight and I already have a guy as well. In my mind, i couldve just reduced amount of guys ill tip tonight by 1 lol. A very productive night indeed, my friend booked a guy tonight, and tomorrow as well, which is his last day. I also prebooked a guy as well. Had supper at foodland, but before that, went to goodboy to say hi to a fellow forum member who has now confirmed with me that he is in bkk. Went back to our respective hotel by bolt. By now im a loyal bolt customer hehe. At the hotel, I told my guy to go to the lift first as i went to the reception to say my thanks to the receptionists. She asked if I already bought a new phone and I told her that no, i havent bought one yet.
  22. I agree, passport and wallet wouldve been more hassle especially on a trip and most of your cash are in the wallet. Ive learned to store most of my cash elsewhere ( safety deposit box or locked luggage) and only carry enough cash to spend for the day. This trip, i also use a smaller card holder for my more frequent items so i dont have to take out my wallet as often. Losing wallet will still be a hassle as my cards and ID along with driving license are all there so all need to be replaced. Passport, its a nightmare indeed. Yes, it went through my mind that we have become so dependable with our phone. Losing access to contacts, we used to memorize phone number, and i still memorize my father's phone number for cases like this Reinstalling apps. I do realize, some apps like whatapps, you cant change your phone number without access to the old phone or old phone number. So only way to retrieve my account back is to have my phone provider to reinstate my old phone number with a new sim on a new phone. This will probably require a police report. Financial transaction. Cant deny this has made it much easier for payment, transfer, checking balance etc without having to visit bank. Good thing about going to thailand is most of my transaction are in cash lol And of course, the social media, games, things we do to past time. Losing a phone, i cant use it for distraction anymore.
  23. Thanks for the tips! I just checked the website for today's rate, it is better than mrt sukhumvit branch 7.6 vs vasu 7.63, but silom plaza gives 7.65, so is Xone. This is rate for MYR-Bath, so RM 1 will give me 7.65 baht. Definitely a worthy branch to consider when staying at sukhumvit area!
  24. Day 3.95 - The unmitigated disaster. I immediately asked my guy if he saw my phone, and he said no. I saw one phone on the table and it was his phone. I checked my small backpack thoroughly and its not there. My last recollection was of course i used my phone to book my bolt, and its not with me now, so it can only mean i left it in the bolt car! At this time, my guy is already in the bathroom ready to shower. I told him I would go downstairs to find my phone. In my mind, I was hoping that the driver realized that my phone was left in his car and already gave it to the concierge for me to collect. Alas, when i reached the reception, I asked if anyone leave my phone with them or concierge and they said no. My heart sank, and thoughts running through my head of what will happen if I lost my phone, at the beginning of my trip too. I then told the reception that I believed I left my phone in the bolt car. She asked me if i remember the car plate number. I told her i dont, i can maybe remember the number but not the thai character for sure. The receptionist asked where did the car dropped me, and i told her near the entrance to to hotel lobby, and not at the street. So she called the security and asked them if they can see the security camera footage if they can identify the car plate number. She asked me what time the car dropped me and if i recall the car color and make. I told her its a black toyota vios. While they are helping me with this, she asked me if i can wait and sit at the lounge chair. After few minutes waiting, i thought of an idea. I went back to the receptionist and asked if she has a line. Asked her to find my line account but unfortunately, she couldnt find it using both my phone number or user id. Not the first time i had this issue, especially when exchanging contacts with guys, and best way to bypass this is by sharing QR code. Well, since i did not have my phone with me, that wont work. I then asked if she has whatapps, and unfortunately she doesnt have one. I then asked if she can try to call my phone using my phone number, which is a malaysian phone number, so it will be an international call. I of course said I will pay any charges incur. She tried that as well but apparently had issues getting through the operator. After trying for a while, she then asked he colleague if she has whatapps and to my relief, she said yes. I gave her my phone number for her to add my whatapps account and ask her if she can call my phone. She called, and no one answer. She called again, the same. At this point, I am totally at lost already. Not to mention, i have a hunky guy waiting for me in my room. Ill just have to accept that chances of recovering my phone are slim now. Before I went upstair, i checked again with reception if there is any update on the security camera, and she said not yet. But then, she asked me if the phone number i shared with her is the one i used for my bolt account. I said yes. She told me she is reporting my incident with bolt. And hope that bolt will respond soon. My experience with customer service have been a mixed bag, so I didnt get my hopes up that they will respond anytime soon, seeing its now maybe 2am. Having half accepted my fate, I thanked the receptionist, the security and the concierge for their help, and went back to my room. I guess as i aged, I tend to get better control of my emotion and learnt to accept things that is out of my control. Ive done all i could, and now, its up to the universe to do its thing. While the memory of tonight is somewhat tainted, my session with my guy actually went great. Even though language is a bit of barrier, I think we had good chemistry. He stays until breakfast and before he left, i asked him if he can let his friend (who went with my friend) knows that i lost my phone and I will meet him later at dinner as per agreed before.
  25. Sorry for the misunderstanding. What i meant when i say last conversation in FB, i meant to say freshboys. I can see why its confusing hehe. The guy moved from freshboys to dreamboy.

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