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Latbear4blk

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  1. Being in SP is hardly a waist of time. If you are not lucky finding fuckbuddies, enjoy the city's cultural offer. Get out and learn something.
  2. I grew up in a religious family, Catholic. One of my brothers is a Jesuit priest. 10 out of my K12 years were in Catholic schools. I, myself, briefly considered becoming a priest when I was in High School. When you come from a religious background, the challenge is to question and erase years of indoctrination. Once you remove the garbage out of the way (even if you will have to deal with subconscious leftovers throughout your entire life), confronting your relatives may be hard, but comparatively a piece of cookie.
  3. It is true, you can find a lot of useful info in Youtube, but always double check it. I have been watching a bunch of those reports about traveling and living in different South American countries, and sometimes they are spreading misinformation.
  4. Oh, I was not thinking of Venezuelan's escorts. What changed Buenos Aires were not the sex workers (not only), but the influx of Caribbean culture and racial diversity.
  5. They transformed Buenos Aires in the best ways.
  6. LOL. I thought he was referring to the garotos.
  7. My future after January is a little bit uncertain at the moment, but there is a good chance that I may go to SP in April, and visit Lagoa for the first time. I would love to!
  8. You forgot no proper A/C and even no electricity at times. PS: And I am forgetting also the silence rule! The boy wanted to moan loudly!
  9. Well, sex work can be a profession as respectable (in my opinion) as Medicine. If they choose their life path in a way that is more financially rewarding for them... isn't that what most of us do? I guess your issue is that we are talking about sex work, I do not see a problem. I do agree that such an amount of money could have negative consequences, like starting or diving into substances addiction, but less money could also have the same end.
  10. Oh wow. If his is a truthful description of your hosting skills, I am not surprised he does not want to hang out long hours with you.
  11. I agree it is not a good practice, but I am glad for the GP! 7K rials may be a life changing amount for these boys.
  12. Many people in Laureles are unhappy because rent has become unaffordable for them. That is mi direct exposition to the issue. Besides, if you do some research, will find articles in local newspapers from Medellín, Bogotá and Cartagena.
  13. Beyond the sex market, I think we travelers have to be more aware of how we affect the local people's lives. There is a global anti tourists trend spreading right now, and although I have not noticed it in Brazil, I did notice it in Argentina and Colombia. I think it is ok to be a little generous, but not too much.
  14. I have never been in Lagoa. I have been traveling to RJ one or twice per year during the last seven years, and visited several times 117 and 202 during those trips. I do not notice a drop in the "estethic" quality of the offer, but the muscular clean IG types are not my favorite type. I do see them, though. Perhaps I notice less of those guys in 117, but not in 202. I wonder whether this drop in the quality is noticeable only for the travelers with a longer history traveling to Brazil. PS: by the way, I agree with @floridarob. I've never paid more than 200 Rials in a sauna. And the boys who come to my place and hang out and play for long hours, are always happy with 300 Rials. However, @floridarob may be judgmental about tourists overpaying. The GPs have differentiated fees for local and foreigners, and for "cool" and "not so cool" clients, who is visiting Rio once and who is a regular who travels often, who is generous with tips and extras and who is not, etc. Their fees system maybe more complicated and wiser than we comprehend. I know that some of my GPs would do things with me that would never do with other clients, or that would never do it for the same price. I know this not because the garotos told me, but because of the clients. That is why I feel less comfortable now sharing the fees I pay and the things I do in detail.
  15. I tend to agree with you. However, I did try once this tactic and it worked great. I did not use Grindr, though, but Scruff. Before my first visit to Medellín, I used the app to start contacting guys many months before my trip, out of anxiety. I ended meeting the three very young guys, one of them just as a local (no money exchange). The other two became fuck buddies and did not charge me by time. Our interaction was rather sugardadish, where we would hang out and have fun together with me paying all the bills.
  16. Data does not lie. We have a clear winner.
  17. Really? when they have constructive criticism? I wish she performed better and brought specifics. Also, she did not respond to the first question, but instead vomited a memorized and over rehearsed speech. Ignoring her flaws would be acting like brainless trumpers clapping any shit coming from DJT. I am glad she is receiving some friendly fire, it will help her to become better.
  18. So far, my experience backs this.
  19. "chimba" is "cool", anything or any feeling that is really good. IDK "chudai".
  20. Lockers are safe. Isolated incidents are exceptional, manipulated by fear mongers that spread insecurity narratives.
  21. May I ask why you changed your nom de guerre?
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