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First-timer in Rio - please help
Riobard replied to rtu123's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
One problem with stereotype labels is that some typologies include behavioural characteristics along with physical traits, and amount of body hair is also added, thus expanding the list well beyond the common distinction between body-builder come physique fitness model and twink. Pups are apparently cute and energetic non-selfcentered versions of twinks and twunks, the latter a twink-hunk hybrid with a young face. To further complicate, there are muscle pups. Scale and context also influence perception. A lot of wolves, bulls, jocks, gym rats, and gym bunnies standing out ... and this seems to be the predominant subgroup in the suite cabin queue at 117 on a Tuesday ... can make a twunk or burgeoning hunk (muscle pup?) look more like a pup or the obnoxious smaller counterpart of a twunk. Pups are likely more prevalent than twinks. One observation is that I usually imagine, perhaps overconfidently, which way to predict the likely physical evolution of any one of the younger slimmer fellows. I can think of many examples of garotos de programa I would assign a type among a selection of 8-10 labels. What pushes my buttons most are legal young pretty muscle pups and handsome bulls up to 40+. That already sounds like a contradiction. Most inbetweeners, fit but non-slender, are often viable candidates. And we have not even touched on the otters. -
First-timer in Rio - please help
Riobard replied to rtu123's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
The exchange rate for me has varied more than differences among testimonials of price. In other words, purchase power parity is an essential piece of the story. If 100 reais at their highest cost among all visits represents X of my currency, 100 reais at their lowest cost was .63X because my currency bought 58% more BRL at the real's lowest value compared to its highest. Today, approximately .71X is the cost. I usually try to split the difference (share the benefit) somewhat when the exchange rate favours me because everything costs less. The real's low value maintains providers there at low prices. -
Argentina and Rio de Janeiro July 2019
Riobard replied to Latbear4blk's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Here you go ... provide your topic URL and specify what you want the administrators to delete. I believe that all of the text information in the single post has to be deleted along with the photos, so if you had additional running text such as meals or a day's recap, or other OK pics in the same post (not the entire thread) they will have to disappear. You get the URL by click and hold on the topic title in the Latin Amer topic list. -
Bogota and Brazil July August 2019
Riobard replied to pauleiro's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Yes, I often use the search functions, but oddly I do not get a timeframe box coming up like you describe. Colombia is quite manageable at this point. -
Argentina and Rio de Janeiro July 2019
Riobard replied to Latbear4blk's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Thanks ... good to know. I think you have to make the request to TotallyOz thru PM. The administrators need some kind of URL info for the photos. I cannot recall the procedure, or if the info that pops up when you click and hold on the photo is sufficient. Here is an example, but after the last hyphen is the name of the topic, something like that. I don't know if it only shows for you as the poster. -
Bogota and Brazil July August 2019
Riobard replied to pauleiro's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
A few reviews from Google Maps suggest the Poseidon facilities are not nice. -
Bogota and Brazil July August 2019
Riobard replied to pauleiro's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Two others in Chapinero with massage, and erotic entertainment certain nights, pique my interest. However tassojr wrote 4 years ago that Mediterraneo is dreadful. I wonder if Poseidon may be worth a peak ... -
Argentina and Rio de Janeiro July 2019
Riobard replied to Latbear4blk's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Regarding the Grindr guy ... some of us know his identity but we have no intention of alerting him, though the impression is that he values discretion. There is no point creating anxiety for a GdeP and it is his responsibility to manage the occupational hazards. I actually follow his IG. And I limit to 100 guys!! However, there are likely others on the Board who see it differently. We have been through this. You have barely begun posting photos and already the world is small enough that a guy can be identified. It also depends on how explicitly he advertises. He obviously sent the nude photos personally thru the text function. Maybe he posted his IG handle in the upfront profile; that also makes a difference, particularly if not private account. Maybe he told you to go ahead. I do not want to get into another argument about photos. I can say I do not need to see pics. However ... Whether or not the Grindr ad upfront denotes his MO, consider this. Somebody alerts him (without telling you) that a visting Argentinian American from DC has splashed his pics and role within the public domain, you then unwittingly book him, and somebody who considers you to be Public Enemy #1 of the day is face-to-face with you in a private space. I'm just saying think it through and whether and when you actually need to post photos. How many of 32,000 members are encouraging this? It seems to me there is only a handful and that there are other ways to share this information with a small group of trusted sympaticos. -
Bogota and Brazil July August 2019
Riobard replied to pauleiro's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
These establishments are notorious for outdated or dropped social media accounts. Both Saint Moritz and Gigolo Erotic House just erased their IG accounts. They are probably under the same management. I assume that the problem is that pages are individual specific ... when the individual that exclusively accesses accounts moves on, the pages lay dormant or are removed. We also now have another new thread. Is the Colombia topic getting too saturated? Should it be city specific? Should basic venue information be centralized in one thread, but an individual poster's actual experiences, testimonials, upcoming visit alerts , etc be separate? I write this while realizing I myself am not the best example of following the material organizational suggestions. -
Official address #200 Augusto Severo, essentially #2 Joaquim Silva (not #8), with the entrance probably obvious but I suspect on Joaquim Silva. The official search engine name appears to be Lion's Rio Nightclub, perhaps an effective way around the name trademark.
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Thanks, different info sources use different wording. Every related or unofficial organization, it seems, feels obliged to summarize the info and crowd the net needlessly. What surprises me is my not being aware of these developments brewing for several years. Whatever the purpose of departure scan, my main concern is catching the flight back home if there is a glitch. A delay on arrival, unless a transit connection, is endurable at level of inconvenience and less likely financial impositions.
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Fingerprints recorded on entry in EES system as early as 6 months from now ... ETIAS is comparatively a cakewalk. NIGHTMARE! Imagine the queue wait times while exhausted from a long, often sleepless overnight, flight. Anyone here had the misfortune of fingerprint system with a residential building, gym, etc? I have for both. Typically putting tips on a glass surface for a scan. Consistently non-functional for routine subsequent entry thru the turnstile or other mechanism even when it all seems in order at baseline. And there is often the painfully slow process of accompanying data being typed into the system. Since EES will apparently replace passport, I assume the manual data entry approach because no passport means no quickly scannable data. And why one's passport would be not utilized to triangulate data is simply beyond comprehension. And fingers scanned on departure to return home??!! WTF!!?? Airport horror. Europe evidently wants to shut down tourism. This is likely something that should be piloted/trialled. As far as I know, it hasn't. This is just my initial reaction. I am NOT putting myself forward as an expert or as someone who fully grasp these developments.
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Small gym bag or knapsack, often doubles as flight carry-on ... double slider zipper with holes large enough in the sliders that the shackle of a small padlock can fit through. Most everything put in except shoes that might be a little soiled. No employee is likely going to try to cut open the bag with a knife or take and stash it for the remainder of his shift.
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Part 1: Yes same problem ... it sometimes annoyinging pops up repeatedly while typing. At least I figured out how to disable the sound. Frankly, I don't see the point of this added reaction notification because you see those alerts in the bell icon anyway. Part 2: I don't seem to have that problem. I rarely go to Inbox ... just to see if my own sent msg has been read, I think.
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DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I would add that it is important to have fun, particularly directed to those who obviously have the capacity to creatively soak it up in "safe" play settings, and not be so concerned with entertaining the Board or taking risks to assess risk. -
At the risk of sounding contrarian, the relationship is not particularly robust. Sweden's neo-abolitionism is regressive. Feminism has the potential to override sexual liberalism when it comes to commercial sex work. Prostitution is not illegal in many nations that would be considered to be sexually conservative.
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DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Well, Casa Sanchez does appear to be single-friendly after all ... -
DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
With apologies, not to overlook Discovery Hotel or Casa Conde Hotel Boutique, also in the area and mentioned by other posters previously, that would serve the same purpose and perhaps even more economically. -
DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I forgot to mention that an Airbnb host typically provides linen for one person, unless you formally stipulated additional legit guests on the reservation. Often, for a week or so, you get the bare minimum and there is no easy system for replenishment. There is a self-service directly across from Apolo Spa Sauna. -
PS: I mention NAMBLA not because anyone here referred to it, but because man-boy love advocacy has bled into societal views of gay sex and likely into attitudes about gay men purchasing commercial sex. I also forgot to mention that there is some evidence that attitudes towards prostitution change for the better once it is legalized. Therefore, the nonsexual advocacy focus does not rule out that a general shift in society being more sex-positive follows.
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Fair enough. The right to sexual autonomy is the one piece that applies to all providers and clients alike. I do think, though, that the widespread negative attitudes towards Johns and the conflating of buying sex with exploitation and with pedophilia, particularly in terms of views of gay men's role and MO in prostitution, will militate against visibility. NAMBLA is not your friend on this issue, and they may want a place at the table, helping to fuck it up. The message "we want to do what we want with our bodies" is a one-note argument pitted against deeply ingrained moral attitudes. A cursory look at strategic focus does not seem to highlight the value of punters' out-ness, and organized John self-advocacy is unlikely to galvanize society into taking action for fairness. Right-to-work in chosen field, protection and de-stigmatization of commercial sex workers, and pummelling misinformed well-meaning policy makers with academic data-driven educational material appears to be the approach favoured by advocates and their supporters, rather than putting the spotlight on the ickiness of sex. The placard "stay out of my business" or "all sex is good" does not require much intellectual effort and does little to disabuse do-gooders of the false assumptions that promote criminalization or neo-abolitionism. A coordinated effort to reach out individually to lawmakers, your consituency politicians, etc, with well organized and succinct credible data to shift their viewpoint is more challenging but likely to best hit the mark. There must be a way to contribute that helps you suck up remaining in the shadows. I think there is scope for absorption into SWOP, DecrimNY, etc, without raising anxiety that putting a face to punters will detract from the current momentum.
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DICK-stractions in Santo Domingo
Riobard replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Enjoy! Make sure one of you controls the steering wheel while scanning the Photo file. DUIPimping can be hazardous.