jimmie50

I haven't read anything online here about Yahoo discontinuing 'Search' feature anywhere, but I don't believe Yahoo actually operates an independent search engine anymore. I think they actually use 'Bing'.

My friends and family often refer to me as 'old school'. I much prefer talking on the phone or having a face to face conversation versus using an app. I have never been a huge fan of social media. As a retired educator, I have seen too many new, inexperienced teachers get into difficult situations because of social media and failing to establish clear boundaries. Some have even lost their jobs as a result. Personally, I have never had an account on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, etc. I have two apps on my phone...WhatsApp and LINE. I use WhatsApp as a way to chat with some of my friends in other countries, and have LINE for the massage shops. I do text frequently, but mostly with family and close friends. If I stop at the supermarket, I might text my sister to see if she needs anything. If I am stopping somewhere to pick up lunch, I might text home to see if anyone would like me to get them anything. I text friends if I am running a few minutes late for a planned get-together. I don't use it as a means of having deep, meaningful conversations. I have never used any of the hook up apps...Grinder, Hornet, Jack'd, etc.

I usually respond within the hour. If I am busy and it is something that requires a longer response, I will at least respond that I am currently busy but get back to them later that day. Personally, I find it extremely annoying when people don't respond or acknowledge text messages in a prompt manner. I sometimes wonder if it is a generational thing. My sister and brother-in-law will usually respond to me within the hour, as will most friends my age. However, my nephews (late 20's) may get around to responding in a couple of days...if at all.

My first visit to Pattaya was probably 2017 while visiting some friends. During that trip they took me to the Walking Street. I noticed quite a few men from Arab countries, but not so much India or Russia. We went to the beach one day in Pattaya on my last trip, but it was a more isolated area away from the city and tourist areas, so mostly just Thai in that area. I seem to recall one of the girl clubs on that street featured caucasians...perhaps from Russia. No idea what it is like nowadays. Not on my schedule to visit Pattaya on my upcoming trip.

I personally have never given it a thought or really care about it. Guess their entrepreneurship should be applauded, but not a service I would ever pay for.

Would this be the point you are referring to? "Neither of you must be judged mentally unfit or incompetent by a relevant authority." LOL

In real life I am usually more quiet and reserved, but I am looking forward to stepping outside my comfort zone when I visit in October/November and experience all that gay Thailand has to offer. I am probably going to be like the kid visiting a candy store for the very first time. lol. As for varying tastes, that is what makes life interesting I suppose. Just like we all have different likes when it comes to food, clothes, art, music, etc., we also have different likes when it comes to our men. I know many people here seem to like Arena and it sounds like it is always a sure thing, but I am not sure it is my cup of tea. I am more into the twinks or some say twunks, but not so much into the muscular or very athletic type of guys. Atlas probably wouldn't be the best go-go bar for me, either. However, I need to explore and perhaps expand my tastes!

I have found this website to be useful in the past. It has some sort of connection or arrangement with the Thai Embassies in multiple countries. The page gives information about who can legally marry in Thailand, as well as what the requirements are and documents needed. Perhaps this will help you. https://www.siam-legal.com/Thailand_Service/thailand-marriage-laws.php

I know I am very appreciative of the responses to my questions regarding my upcoming trip to Thailand in October. On previous trips, other than flight reservations, my travel plans have been arranged by my straight friends so I really consider myself somewhat of a novice...especially when it comes to the gay scene. I was finally able to venture out a little on my own last October and now am ready to 'fly solo' and make my own arrangements with the help of members here. I am looking forward to sharing my experiences here as well.

I thoroughly enjoy reading shamelessmack's travel blog. I did read all of the posts about Chiang Mai as well as many others. Unfortunately, he hasn't updated his site since May and I haven't seen any posts by him on this site recently, either. Hope he is ok.

I have read your trip report and appreciate the suggestions. I do know the tour includes Golden Triangle. I really want to visit an elephant sanctuary around Chiang Mai, so that is one of the reasons I am thinking of hiring Woody thru Siam Roads.

Thanks for the update. I was curious as to what the difference was between Master and Pro. Looking forward to checking it out. I have noticed a lot of turnover. Several of the therapists I was interested in are no longer listed. Think it best if I not plan too far in advance for anyone in particular...otherwise I might be disappointed come October.

I depart Denver on October 14, but the actual tour doesn't begin until October 24. I plan on spending some time exploring Bangkok on my own before tour begins. The tour ends in Chiang Rai/Chiang Mai and we are in that area November 2-4. I wanted a couple of extra days in Chiang Mai to explore on my own with no set itinerary, and just extended my stay at The Empress. As it gets closer to the time for my trip, I will reach out to Woody via Siam Roads to see if I can arrange something when exploring on my own.

Thanks for all of the recommendations regarding transportation from Suvarnabhumi to Silom. It seems I have many different options. As I said in an earlier post, my Thai friends have always picked me up and brought me back to the airport so it has never been a concern before. I also never used the ride share apps Grab and Bolt. I will need to download those on my phone before my trip. Since I will be in Thailand a total of 26 days on this trip (which includes the tour), I plan on bringing two bags with me plus my carry on with computer, meds, etc. and definitely do not want to deal with all of that on the train, MRT and BTS. I will opt for taxi or car service directly to the hotel. Not important how fancy or how long it takes...I know very well how terrible traffic can get in Bangkok! Really appreciate all of the great advice.

I was with my Thai friends when I visited and we rented bicycles to explore the area. That was quite fun and we could go at a leisurely pace. That was quite a few years ago, though, so not sure I would be up for the bicycle now given my age. Think I would opt for the tuk-tuk now.

I agree. It is seems similar to Prestige as well. No mention as to T, B, male/gay, etc., and they certainly won't answer any questions via phone, text, LINE, etc. Personally, I got lucky at Prestige, and plan to check out both Klover and History during my upcoming trip. Happy to report back upon my return.

My apologies, guys. That might be my fault when I asked about the infamous Foodland as well as suggestions for places to eat in the Silom area on my upcoming trip. Didn't anticipate or expect the subject to veer off into left field and jump down some rabbit hole. 🫣

hmm...nobody familiar with ATMAN/Zen Prime? Also interested in knowing if anyone has actually visited TK and what that experience was like. I somehow managed to get on their daily LINE updates and they are quite graphic. Certainly leaves no doubt in anyone's mind what to expect. No idea where the shop is located. On another note, I do have a question about transportation from Suvarnabhumi International Airport to Ibis Styles Silom. From reading on here, it appears most people take the train from the airport. On my previous trips to Thailand, I have always had my Thai friends pick me up. This time I will be on my own and really don't want to deal with my luggage on the train. Can anyone recommend a good, safe car service? I'm ok with some sort of shared shuttle or private car. Tried searching on here for airport transportation but got something like 23,000+ results!!! That would be like finding the proverbial needle in a haystack go through all of those. lol. Also, do you usually get a Thai phone number (e-sim) when you are in Thailand? I never have before...always used WhatsApp for communicating with my Thai friends. Not sure if this is something I need to get since I will be traveling solo this time. THANKS, everyone!

Perhaps he would prefer after washing your hands that you wear gloves before touching him. Yet his list of what he is into says 'ask me' in regards to safe/bb?!? A lot of mixed messages here.

Is anyone familiar with a massage shop named ATMAN? I think it used to be called Zen Prime Massage. It isn't in the Silom area. I cannot locate a website for ATMAN, but somehow ended up on their daily LINE update. I must have subscribed to Zen Prime. Old Facebook page for Zen Prime hasn't been updated since February 2023...but I find that isn't so uncommon with many of the places in Thailand. Curious if anyone has been there before. https://www.facebook.com/zenprimemassage

Thanks for the detailed explanation. Sounds like something I would enjoy much more than going to the clubs or go-go bars. A little more calm and I enjoy people watching...even more fun to do so if you have some company while you are doing it. Checked out the location of the ones you specifically mentioned and they are an easy walking distance from my hotel.

You are right, the format looks very similar to Klover. I was planning on checking Klover out in October, but may need to add this place to my list as well. I noticed if you click on the 'History of' under some of the therapists it will take you to another site...similar to Instagram...with additional photos of that particular therapist in more informal settings. Doesn't provide any additional information, though, as to height, weight, age, etc.

Thanks for all of the recommendations of places to eat in the area. Not sure I will be able to visit them all. Finally did make a hotel reservation. Based upon input from everyone here, decided to avoid Airbnb this trip. Used various search engines and ultimately decided to book at Ibis Styles Silom. I believe it is a convenient location and moderately priced. I'll just use Grab or taxi when it comes time to transfer to Galleria 10 for the tour. Really don't want to mess with my luggage on BTS.

I keep reading about this infamous Foodland Patpong. What is the location? What are the hours? It sounds like a good place to eat, people watch, and is reasonably priced. I need to check it out. Any other places you would recommend to eat in the Silom area?

While certainly not a novice to this hobby, I have never been much of a bar person. As a result, I have never been to a 'host bar'. What exactly is a host bar and how does that work? Someone mentioned the host bars on Soi 6 in Chiang Mai. I suppose there are host bars in Bangkok as well.