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Be careful MsGuy! Be very careful. When people go digging around in the Sandbox, they may find many things they do not wish to find. I was even told that perhaps there there may even be clues to where Hoffa is buried in one of those threads.

In the end, the result may be that the people do not get to truly elect their government and that would be a travesty. IMHO

Over the last 2 weeks, I got a bit stressed at all the posting when Daddy's site was down and to be honest, Steven's posts irked me the wrong way from the very beginning. However, no matter how much someone usually irks me, I rarely let it get to me the way I did with Steven. I would like to apologize to him and to the community for setting him on a 2 week ban. It was not the right action. Lets just say I had my period that day and after a few days of thinking on it, I said to myself, "what the fuck?" Helping the admins of this site to moderate the forums is usually the easiest job on earth as we rarely if ever need anything moderated. However, sometimes we make mistakes and I made one last week. My sincere apologies to Steven for being so short tempered and my apologies to this community for letting anyone get under my skin so much that it affected the site's morale.

While this saddens me a great deal, I do hope that this gets America to thinking more about mental issues and depression. This is a real illness that should not be swept under the rug and we have done that for way too long. It is real and the results are often heartbreaking. It has been interesting to read the posts on Facebook and Twitter as a good deal of Americans are now professional psychiatrists. If he had died of cancer would there be the vast number of amateur oncologists out there? I think not. Depression is real and it is a sickness and it should be treated as such by health care professionals and insurance companies. I mean no disrespect at all in any of this. I loved his work and still think he is a man full of wonder and magic. I just wish the USA would stop treating mental issues and depression as something to be swept under the run and not discussed.

I have no desire to get married. I mean, I am OK with the idea as long as my hubby allows me to "explore" other options from time to time without getting upset, angry, divorce, etc.

Federal Court refuses to stay the ban: 4th Circuit Court judge denies request to stay ruling striking down Virginia's same-sex marriage ban. Marriages could begin as early as next Wednesday! http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/13/virginia-gay-marriage_n_5675326.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

I tend to agree with you on this. But, Caleb may get back into the game and remember that Cody was kissing on his girl. Bad news for him.

Remembering our courageous Lion, Bert Lahr, on his birthday!

I liked Hayden a lot. I also love Zach but he is just too ballistic to make it to the end. I see zero chance of Jacosta.

She was also the last person on Madonna's list in Vogue of amazing icons to die. Greta Garbo (April 15, 1990) Marilyn Monroe (Aug. 5, 1962) Marlene Dietrich (May 6, 1992) Joe DiMaggio (March 8, 1999) Marlon Brando (July 1, 2004) James Dean (Sept. 30, 1955) Grace Kelly (Sept. 14, 1982) Jean Harlow (June 7, 1937) Gene Kelly (Feb. 2, 1996) Fred Astaire (June 2, 1987) Ginger Rogers (April 25, 1995) Rita Hayworth (May 14, 1987) Lauren Bacall (Aug. 12, 2014) Katharine Hepburn (June 29, 2003) Lana Turner (June 29, 1995) Bette Davis (Oct. 6, 1989)​

I agree that it is the best season since the evil Doctor took the season by storm. However, I don't really like the gay guy. I want to. I know I should. But, he gets on my nerves to no end and think he is so fucking fake. I do think the girls this season are the stupidest I have ever seen and I have never missed a season. They are so gullible. Who do you think will win the season?

I love Zach. I hope he makes up with the gay guy! I was impressed that he won the competition all alone. But, IMHO, that was rigged that way for a reason.

Holy Shit. Lets hope that is not the result. But, from many many years of doing this, you never know. I once changed the front page of a site and all the boys turned into girls. No, it was not a sex change. The programmers put up the wrong skin.

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Naanoo naanoo :::sniff:::

It was made pretty clear in this thread: http://www.boytoy.com/forums/index.php?/topic/17397-community-comity-commission-ccc-important-please-read/ The ban was set for 2 weeks to provide a cool down period. However, I do now feel that he does not wish to participate after than ban was to be lifted and that is OK with me too. Members may use the above link to ban those that the admin do not feel rise to the level of them taking action on their own. It was also made clear that when an Admin feels someone rises to that level they will go without discussion. Agree or disagree. That is life. And, life goes on. This will be my first and last post on the subject.

Thread closed. Thank you all for participating. Moved to Sandbox.

Easy. Take one viper out of the den. Goodbye and good luck!

I saw the new design the admin team has been working on today. It really does look great. Can't wait for others to see it. Good job Boytoy and team!

Excellent. Have a good life.

Odd that you say this as the VAST majority of complaints have been against YOU. Not someone else. And, i am not just saying one or two or three. I am using the word VAST as I am an English major and understand the importance of words. Good moderation is actually not kicking someone off that seems to have so many enemies of long time posters. That is restraint. You pick and poke consistently and then cry wolf when the admins do not agree with you. I am frankly done trying to play middle man between you and the majority. I have sided very heavily toward you in most decisions trying to bring about peace. But, you do not want that. You want your will to be the law of the land. Forget about it as it ain't going to happen. (yes, I used the word ain't and English major in the same passage)

Not sure, what does: "Talk is cheap" have to do with constructive criticism?

Michael is a name I use on all other boards. I use TotallyOz only on this site. Sometimes I log in with Michael as I did today to see the new design of the site. The admin told me it was only visible under a few screen names and he asked me to look at it. I logged in to see the new design but forgot to log out when I posted. As I don't want to get names confused, I deleted Michael's post and copied exactly as I had originally posted. I hope this helps.

He gave pretty good free advice. It was cheap as it was free. But, if you avoid taking all free advice you may find yourself up shit creek without a paddle. If you read his post, tell me which part you disagreed with or were you just trying to egg someone on to get into a pissing contest and then cry wolf?

Wow, thanks MSGuy! The first sentence was a true compliment. But, the insane part? Of course not! I am the one who had 7 gogo boys living with him in Thailand and hired a full-time manager to take care of them, a housekeeper to clean for them and a cook to feed us all. Insane? Nope. Just a bit quirky.