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Jesus Fucking Christ Sister Mary Thaiworthy. You expect me to go back and read all these boorish posts? Fuck no. Go do 12 Hail Mary's and 2 Our Father.

Speaking of the Crucifix, I saw one of these this week and wondered who would purchase one?

I am sure you noticed that I did not comment on your nasty photo which was about as childish as a 12 year old girl wanting to have a cat fight. It was rude and I thought beneath you. But, I was wrong about that. I declined to comment and would not have commented on your last postings except you called me out as someone who told 15 lies. Well, I am glad you decided it was only one. That one was not a lie either. It was simply that you disagree that someone's personal rights trump the issues that are caused by the AIDS epidemic. While you are entitled to your opinion, to call someone a liar based on that is absurd. LOL You are either joking or you don't get out very much. I have been to hundreds of these conventions, circuit parties, festivals, etc. over the years. I don't get caught up in the mood of any of them and haven't for over 15 years. Perhaps you think that I don't have the intelligence to think for myself and that would be pretty unintelligent on your part. No one spoon fed me anything. I chose to seek out the FSC attorneys and staff to ask them about the case. Amazing that I have the intelligence to do that right? This is about as silly, queenish, totally delirious, nasty and fucking insane a comment as I have seen on this board. I know that I should not lower myself to your level but I decided to chime in. You must be in a very bad place in your life to be so negative, nasty and catty. I hope that all is OK with you. If you were just intoxicated, please understand that it is OK to wait till after the hangover to post. They were not meant to make you laugh. They were meant to show you who you have deemed as educators. You all agreed that the porn stars at the educators of today's youth. I just wanted you to see up close who you have deemed the educators. I never agreed with you as I think teachers and parents should be the educators but you all seem to be happy with porn stars as educators. So, laugh all you will but in the end, the laugh is on you.

No. But, please list the 15 "lies" you and the BF believe I told.

FH: Does these ladies really look like educators to you? Are these the ones that SHOULD be shaping the minds of our youth? I did take out all the ones that were too risque. Meet 5 of those I chatted with today in my poll.

I hope all goes well for you! Take care of yourself!

Amazing report. Thank you for the great words and the amazing photos!

If he is gay, I worry about him. This has to be stressful and a crazy time for him. I hope he has good family and friends who are supportive around him and making him understand all will be OK.

I had time today to sit down and chat with the lawyers who are representing the Free Speech Coalition. Perfect being at the right place at the right time. It was a great discussion and they told me the basis of the case as they are seeking an injunction to stop the law from taking effect. There were many points they went over but the interesting ones were that they were negotiating with the OSHA for new guidelines when all this started. They said the industry was already very strictly monitored and the new laws would require a public health inspector to be present at EVERY shooting in order to make sure the condoms were placed on appropriately etc. Needless to say, that will be costly. Also it was interesting that the group that got this pushed through spent over 6 million dollars. Amazing that a 3rd party group is so interested right? Guess what else that group has purposed? That every gay bar be required by law to give condoms to their customers. Another one, they want to close down the bathhouses and saunas in West Hollywood and if they can't get them closed, they want to have a monitor in place to make sure things are done safely. Lastly, I just happened to have access to 24 porn stars today. All of them were in the straight industry and none in gay films. But, I asked them how often they were tested for HIV. 3 of the said once per month. The other 19 said 2 times per month. It sounds to me like they are intelligent and cautious individuals. Their job does put them at more risk to get STD's than other jobs for sure but I think coal miners also have more risk for certain diseases that the majority of the population. Just an observation.

I doubt that any of you really care about the facts of this case as your mind is already made up. But, I had time today to sit down and chat with the lawyers who are representing the Free Speech Coalition. Perfect being at the right place at the right time. It was a great discussion and they told me the basis of the case as they are seeking an injunction to stop the law from taking effect. There were many points they went over but the interesting ones were that they were negotiating with the OSHA for new guidelines when all this started. They said the industry was already very strictly monitored and the new laws would require a public health inspector to be present at EVERY shooting in order to make sure the condoms were placed on appropriately etc. Needless to say, that will be costly. Also it was interesting that the group that got this pushed through spent over 6 million dollars. Amazing that a 3rd party group is so interested right? And for those of you that thought I was nutty when I said this is just the tip of the iceberg, well guess what else that group has purposed? That every gay bar be required by law to give condoms to their customers. Another one, they want to close down the bathhouses and saunas in West Hollywood and if they can't get them closed, they want to have a monitor in place to make sure things are done safely. LOL So, I guess this group isn't really interested in private vs commercial encounters are they? At least it doesn't sound like it to me. Someone said in this thread, give them an inch and they will take a mile. humm... Lastly, I just happened to have access to 24 porn stars today. All of them were in the straight industry and none in gay films. But, I asked them how often they were tested for HIV. 3 of the said once per month. The other 19 said 2 times per month. It sounds to me like they are intelligent and cautious individuals. Their job does put them at more risk to get STD's than other jobs for sure but I think coal miners also have more risk for certain diseases that the majority of the population. Just an observation.

FH, the porn industry is for fantasy. It is not an educational tool. Parents, schools and teachers should be education and sex education should be a part of every curriculum. And, the teachers should be the educators and not the porn stars. Porn stars are for entertainment and fantasy. They are not the ones that educate. And, it is NOT their responsibility.

So sorry. I did not make myself clear. I think that anything a person does with themselves or another consenting adult is between the two of them. I believe prostitution should be legal, all drugs should be legal, assisted suicide should be legal and anything else one person wants to do with their body or with another consenting adult should be without government intervention.

Reading is fundamental!

So, we should only have these laws when commercial behavior is involved. Is that correct? OK. I understand now. So, lets regulate the gogo and beer bar industry to ensure they comply as well. How about if we require them to take a video cam with them for each "paid" encounter and to record the "event" and the present to the owner of their perspective bar to ensure they are compliant? I am sure we can trust them right? And, we should also require both client and "employee" to be tested every 4-6 weeks for all STD's and should anyone EVER test positive, we should shut down the entire industry. Are we all OK with this? I bet I know the answer. Of course, some of you will declare I am using faulty logic but if we all agree that private behavior should not be regulated but commercial behavior should be regulated, you should be OK with the above regulation. I know that none of you would ever engage in such a commercial transaction. Esp. in our beloved Thailand. After all, aren't we all there for the good food and cheap police protection.

My doctor has suggested that I try a vegan diet. LOL Fucking hippie holistic doctor. So, I am curious has anyone ever tried the 21 day Vegan Cleanse?

If I agree, can we also agree to tax the money boy industry in Thailand as the same high level? After all, more guys in Thailand are infected with HIV based on their sex with men than in the porn industry in USA. So, the next time anyone goes to a bar, the new off fee will include a 2,000 USD surcharge. Oops..bye bye 90 percent of single gay men who visit or live in Thailand. Also, lets tax the fast food restaurants for all obesity related health issues. After all, it is their fault and not the individual. Right? And, now can we also tax the gun industry for each and every handgun death each year? Love it. Also, to get more money, I want to tax every single person with HIV that has sex with a person without HIV. Hell, lets just go ahead and tax gay men for all sexually transmitted related issues. Those queers just fuck and fuck and fuck and a tax would really teach them. Plus, we know they have the extra spending money as they don't have families. I am kidding on the above for those that don't see that. Actually, porn companies are required by law to cover worker's compensation and have insurance related to a whole plethora of other things. So if a workers gets hurt on the job in any way, they have a claim. I wish the same were true for bar boys in Thailand.

They don't agree. It was a small area in LA and it means that those companies if the law is enforced will simply move to another area like Long Beach or Palm Springs or San Francisco where they don't have those laws. It accomplishes very little in the end other than to highlight the law and move a billion dollar industry to another area.

Of course, a great deal has been said and discussed here at the porn convention in Vegas. Several companies I know are looking to relocate as some think this is just the first step into closing out the industry in So Cal.

Well, a voice that agrees with you at least. I realize that most of you disagree with me but I stand firm on belief that personal rights far outweigh any government intervention. I want the right to do with my body what I want. I want the ability to do anything with another adult that I want. I do not want the government to interfere with these things in any way. I have few if any exceptions for this. You will find bad people in the porn industry and you will find them in every other profession. You may bring up many examples of stories of people coerced to do something they prefer not to do for money. I just can't think of one example where this happens in Thailand. Can anyone? Can you? Think about it. Think. Humm. Humm. Bars? Bar boys? No, no, they love having sex with old men they don't find attractive. Wait, I have heard they love fat and old men. Really? You heard that? It must be true. Right. Right? NO It is not true. They don't enjoy it. They do it for the money. Anyone that doesn't believe that the chance for a better life (money) is involved in the equation is really in denial. The same in true in the porn industry. People do things for money. But, the ones I know and have talked to have always made their own choices. OK Michael, that is not fair you say. You are right. It may not be fair but it is true. I don't begrudge some guys for going to Thailand for the sex industry. It is what most go there for. I just don't like it when anyone tries to interfere with someone elses sexual desires with another adult. I hate it when someone who fucks bareback says that fucking a ladyboy is sick and perverted. Or, when someone that gets fucked by a ladyboy says that someone that eats pussy is perverted or when someone that hires escorts tries to judge someone else for dressing in drag and I could go on and one and on. What each of you do in the privacy of your bedroom with another adult is your business. What these guys in the porn company does is their business. It can be regulated by the local authorities but when that happens, don't think for one second that they will never come after you for what you do. Of course, all this is just my opinion and as my mother said, "opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one." I know this and I don't expect anyone to change their way of thinking based on my BS arguments. At the same time, you will not change mine based on yours. Good luck to the people in LA in getting this banned and I hope that the next thing they ban is prostitution. Wait. Sorry, that is already banned. But, IMHO, it should not be. I firmly believe that porn and the sex industry helps people to have stable mental conditions. If there were less oppression and more openness about sexuality there would be less sexual crimes. Again, just my opinion.

A very interesting article here to read for those interested in the subject. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/06/health/unlikely-model-for-hiv-prevention-porn-industry.html?pagewanted=all And, the guy on the top photo is James Deen. I spent some time with him last night and today. A very sweet man. Here is a photo I just took a few hours ago in Vegas.

I had too, but do you really think stopping videos in one local that deals with no condoms will see a cure for AIDS? It will not. And, for Vivid, I know the girls and guys in that company very well. They are HIV negative and test often. If that is your rationale for this, you are barking up the wrong tree. Now, if your rationale is that portraying this on video causes others to not use condoms when they have sex, all I can say is that I can't do half the things I see on videos and the other half I have no desire to do. But, I also can think for myself and judge what I want to do or not want to do with my partner. I don't need a video for teaching me anything. Anyone who is watching videos to teach them as oppose to entertain them, isn't really very smart. I do hope that gay rights are not taken away and I do agree with that this ordinance is not about the gays. However, it is about taking away someone's right to do what they want with their body on video. I could easily see the next law in this area as one that bans sale of any video with bareback sex in it. I can then easily see them banning any sex with a bear and a twink it is and then with any two gay guys. Give them an inch and they will take a mile! (and I am not referring to the NY inch)

Being at the Adult Novelty Expo is Vegas today, I saw a dildo that made me pause. The makers said it was pretty controversial when they came out with. I can see why.

I know the owner of Vivid and it is not only money he is concerned with. It is easy for them to pick up and move to another location as this "ordinance" is so very limited to that area of Cali. However, if you are only discussing what is in front of the camera, do you think that it is possible for those in charge to decide that gay sex is not acceptable and then pass an ordinance against that? I can tell you, that it is possible. If rights guaranteed in the Bill of Rights are taken from us, it then opens up other rights to be the same. If you are OK with local municipalities making this law, are you OK with other areas stopping the production of all gay porn? It is done time and time again. My concern is the same as I had with NYC when the mayor started to clean up Times Square. IMHO, the things he did was unconstitutional but it made a big difference in the area. And, do you know what happened right after? He started to close down all the gay clubs in NYC as well. I remember this very vividly. When you allow any of these nuts to start dictating their morals to the population, you end up taking it up the ass yourself.

I spent some time today chatting up this cute guy. I knew I had no chance with him but as he was cute, I thought I would try. Then, I got inside the convention hall and he had his own booth. Who knew it was James Deen. Hottie!

Yes, I do doubt that. I thought he was talking about me to be honest. I love my dress up nights. But, don't get jealous Hitoallusa, I didn't wear my Jimmy Choo!