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khaolakguy

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    khaolakguy got a reaction from whitemouse in Egypt and Jordan trip   
    As a new poster with prior experience why not share your experience in the first instance(see previous comments in the Africa section on reluctance to sharing information with people with no history on the forum).
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    khaolakguy got a reaction from whitemouse in Russian men dodging military draft prefer stripping in Pattaya   
    "Level of jobless is now lowest in history because Russia now is on historical demographic low"
    Isn't that because so many have been killed in your pointless Ukraine invasion? So a reduction in young male population means more jobs available, especially in the army!
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    khaolakguy reacted to Strosj7 in Egypt and Jordan trip   
    I was staying in Cairo at a hotel. I was getting a massage at the hotel and they only have male massage therapists for men. I was coming from the swimming pool so I did not have underwear and was draped.
    My therapist was chatty and would get really close to my groin. So I let out sighs when he would get close. He then said he’d give me a special massage if I tipped and I said yes. He played with my hole - no happy ending but it was hot
    DM me more for details - happy to share and exchange experiences
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    khaolakguy got a reaction from Ruthrieston in Russian men dodging military draft prefer stripping in Pattaya   
    "Level of jobless is now lowest in history because Russia now is on historical demographic low"
    Isn't that because so many have been killed in your pointless Ukraine invasion? So a reduction in young male population means more jobs available, especially in the army!
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    khaolakguy got a reaction from vinapu in Questions regarding upcoming Cambodian trip   
    Despite the joys of the reunion, for someone who has been so diligent about sharing his experiences the absence of an update gives cause for concern. Perhaps Jimmie has been unable to log in......
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    khaolakguy got a reaction from xpaulo in Egypt and Jordan trip   
    As a new poster with prior experience why not share your experience in the first instance(see previous comments in the Africa section on reluctance to sharing information with people with no history on the forum).
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    khaolakguy got a reaction from vinapu in Russian men dodging military draft prefer stripping in Pattaya   
    "Level of jobless is now lowest in history because Russia now is on historical demographic low"
    Isn't that because so many have been killed in your pointless Ukraine invasion? So a reduction in young male population means more jobs available, especially in the army!
  8. Haha
    Thank you for sharing the Kremlin's latest propaganda with us. 🤨
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    khaolakguy reacted to bkkmfj2648 in Chiang Mai Off Season September 2026 Updates   
    Welcome to Chiang Mai.
    I can vouch for the "Butter is Better" restaurant mentioned by mauRICE earlier in this thread. I reported on it in my 2015 Chiang Mai thread at:
    https://www.gayguides.com/topic/9986-july-2015-trip-report-chiang-mai-sukhothai-kanchanaburi-and-pattaya/
    Please check out Woody - highly recommended in our forum by myself and many other forum members who have met up with him.
    I believe that Woody is the owner of the famous massage shop in Chiang Mai =
    http://classichousemassage.com/
    Woody can also act as a tour guide and/or wingman for going out to the various places in Chiang Mai. I have utilized Woody's services a couple of times over the years and he is very reliable.

    I am a member of some of the Thai sponsored massage forums; @massageinside3, @massageinside6 and @ShunJou over on Twitter (X)
    Recently, @ShunJou has posted information about a really cool club in Chiang Mai = Booppachart or Hug Phuchat - depending on the translation used.

    X (formerly Twitter)
    ชุนโจ (@ShunJou) on X
    Age-restricted adult content. This content might not be appropriate for people under 18 years old. To view this media, you’ll need to log in to X. Learn moreHere is their Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/Booppachart/?_rdr
    And they also have some "blond" guys......
    https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1FGM5zy6Dv/
    Enjoy.
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    khaolakguy reacted to Zaffran in Weekend trip rainy season. What to expect?   
    Hey, i currently in Bangkok for short weekend trip. Rainy season, yes i know..Just a quick update on my activities..booked a couple of new spas and will keep updated soon.
    Bkk Signature
    Cavemen
    Motion spa - repeated
    Gentle hand
    Probably will have some for outcall
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    khaolakguy reacted to vinapu in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    we need to be careful with laughing and some diplomacy is needed.
    Two boys which appear in my travel reports quite often earlier this year reported very sick mother. No, they did not ask for any assistance although perhaps hoping I will pick up a clue, , who knows ?
    Both ladies died, one very recently. Again no request for help, just pics from funeral but point is not always sick grandma is in fact healthy or dead long time already.
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    khaolakguy reacted to mauRICE in The African guys   
    It would seem that Grindr is blocked here. I tried to download it and got this:

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    khaolakguy reacted to Lotusleaf in The African guys   
    There are plenty of guys looking for hookups in KL. Sure there has been some difficulties with locals using apps but they soon know a way around it.
    Have stayed in KL for 20 years and had no problems meeting guys. Of course there is much less of a bar scene but massage centres are common place.
    Some areas are "home" to "massage" guys from Indonesia who visit to ply their trade.
    The raid on Otot scared a lot of people off saunas but some still exist although not very classy. Upkeep is not great which is not surprising given you could be closed down tomorrow.
    Many Malaysians use the Blowingwind forum for info and hookups.
    Of course it's not Thailand but a good time can be had.

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    khaolakguy reacted to mauRICE in The African guys   
    You make it sound as if the airport is on a moat filled with crocodiles.😅 Step outside for a few days and have a look. If you're planning just to do KL, then three nights, four days would be comfortable.
    I'm in KL Mondays to Thursdays and I spend Fridays to Sundays in my home state up north. My family home is about an hour's drive from the nearest Thai border. My partner of fifteen years lives on the other side of that border and it takes about two hours to drive from my house to his in good traffic. 😉
    I've never used the hook-up apps but I did hear you can no longer access them here and I remember seeing something about it in the papers. But I'm sure the guys have figured out ways to get around the restrictions. I believe most of the MBs, including many from Africa and Indonesia, used to ply their trade on the apps. Most of the Africans are on student visas.
    Male massage parlours have mushroomed all over KL and the ads on social media are quite risque. I'm not sure if any hanky panky goes on during the massages but I wouldn't be surprised if it did. As far as I know, therapeutic manhood massages supposedly to help with ED are allowed and, again, it wouldn't surprise me if it goes beyond that. Most of the masseurs are foreign and I've seen some cute ones on social media.
    From what I hear from friends who are still on the prowl, there's no abatement of gays hooking up but if you're expecting the kind of organised commercial sex scene you see in Thailand, you'll be very disappointed. There's at least one LGBTQ bar in KL that I know of, the long running Blueboy. Of course there are plenty of very nice, upscale nightspots that is welcoming to all. All you need is one friend who's active on the scene and go from there.
    @spoon might have more current information.




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    khaolakguy reacted to hank75 in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Yes I’ll DM you. There might be a surprise awaiting you, unsure if it’s unpleasant or otherwise. Will let you report back here 😅
    ps: I clearly am not stalking either. Just obtaining informed research. Oh who am I kidding I actually have a social media account just to follow cute guys.
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    khaolakguy reacted to BjornAgain in Thailand 7 Eleven Musts   
    Family Mart (Thailand) was a JV between Central Group Thailand and Family Mart Japan. Central Group bought out FMJ in 2020 and decided in 2023 to drop the brand, hence all stores were rebranded as Tops Daily, or just Tops, Central's Supermarket and Convenience store brand.
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    khaolakguy reacted to Frenchfrank in Any favorable experiences in subsaharan Africa?   
    It was in a hammam in Erbil. The first one came in less than six strokes.
    Plenty of action in Sulemaniye in the park.
    i got spit roasted by two married guys at a resort hotel there too. After theyd unloaded inside me at both ends one of them asked if i was gay. I replied not sure. But I like what you did.
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    khaolakguy reacted to vinapu in Questions regarding upcoming Cambodian trip   
    for sure he is but certainly has more pressing issues of reuniting with Cam and settling in than updating us here. I, for one , am waiting patiently for an update
  19. Haha
    This is The Sun we're talking about. "The reporter", or his AI, probably never left his London office.
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    khaolakguy reacted to TotallyOz in Jey Spa Masseurs   
    He works on and off depending on his need for money. He is excellent at everything. Truly 5*.
    You can find him on the apps as well.
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    khaolakguy reacted to newscene in Jey Spa Masseurs   
    I would recommend Jedi, he's nice enough with decent massage skills but again you don't go to these places for massage alone
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    khaolakguy reacted to Zaffran in Jey Spa Masseurs   
    2,000 for 1hr and 2,500 for 1.5hrs. Slightly above average but with his cuteness, it worth it..that medium tips, for grade premium like KC, Vee, or Gaz, around 4k for 1.5hrs if not mistaken.
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    khaolakguy reacted to hank75 in Forum Look   
    It is not reverting to the old layout for me. My main gripes with this format are that the main page shows only the single most recently updated post (or 2 posts max) within a 3 hour time span and I have to click through other sub forums to see updated threads. On the old layout it automatically showed when each sub forum had a new post or reply.
    Also that it is much harder to find and click through to the last post in the multi-page threads. Seems to default to the very first page/post
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    khaolakguy got a reaction from whitemouse in Hurgarda   
    I think without realising it you are comparing chickens and eggs. 
     Thailand especially is very easy going regarding both homosexuality and the adult sex trade. Hotels and airbnbs etc are open to local sex partners visiting their guests. They have nothing to hide.
     On the other hand in most of the North African countries discussed in this forum, homosexuality is illegal, sex tourists are unwelcome, and it is illegal to entertain a local in a tourists’ hotel room. 
     By necessity contributors here will be more cautious than they would be in the thai forums in order to protect the underground nature of contacts in these countries.
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    AseanNow has published a story today about the Legacy Big Tool venue on Pattaya's Walking Street.
    Very interesting article:
    https://aseannow.com/thailand-news/russian-men-flee-war-to-work-pattayas-strip-bars-r3733/?utm_source=aseannow_newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_term=2026-09-12&utm_campaign=Russian+men+flee+war+work+in+Pattaya+strip+bars


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