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Well if it's Heat, Humidity, and Boys your into, come on over. I got in at midnite and by the time I got to the taxi, I felt like a wet sponge. When you have 95 degrees with 80% humidity and dew points it ain't pretty. I stayed in all day and slept most of it. The flights over were great. On time , smooth, good service. But I just couldn't sleep. The guy in front of me was from Miami. 30 or so I would say, and quite hot. He sleep 13-1/2 hours of the 15 hour flight to Hong Kong. I told him I was jealous watching him sleep so long. Said he does 1-1/2 ambians. Said he does the flight every 3 months and sleeping thru it is the only way he can do it. This is a big holiday weekend in Thailand. Tomorrow is May Day and Monday is a bank holiday. Bangkok is no different than big cities in the U.S. All the locals are leaving the city and all the tourist are flocking here. I usually arrive at midnight and get a taxi in 5 minutes or so and gone. Last night, 30 minute waits with huge lines. I had fast track for immigration and no line, but regular lines were 30 to 45 minutes. I counted 20 tour buses and I'm sure there were more I couldn't see. Many groups arriving as you could see the leaders with there follow me flags held high in the air. So I think I'll spend the morning at the pool and wander out and join the ranks of tourist tomorrow afternoon. But now it's time for the main event. It's 8:30 and my phone is lined with messages of when are you coming out. Sometimes you wonder if it's you or your wallet they really want to see . It's still 90 degrees out, so I think I am delaying going As soon as I arrive at the bar where all my friends work and you start getting all the hugs, kisses and miss you's, and you start seeing and thinking of the 500 or so boys waiting for your business, you forget about the heat and long flight and start focusing on the fun stuff. Like starting off with a long, playful shower to cool off after a long night of boy watching. Phones ringing again, so I'm out of here for now.

Biguyby, my status also. Retirement opens a whole new world. I used to come to Bangkok twice a year for 7 to 10 days. Now I am coming 4 to 5 times for about a month each. I'm sitting at the Hong Kong airport now waiting for my flight to begin a new month. I rent an apartment now and can really unpack and make it feel a little more like home. Retirement money goes a lot farther it Thailand.

I agree about the show. I was very dissapointed with all the drag queens when I was there in February. I'm back this week and will stop in before the show to see about picking up a boy. They have the best selection. Lots of very hot boys

It's off to Bangkok in the morning. I'll be there for 3 weeks on this trip. The boys remember the return dates. I've gotten quite a few texts last couple of days. So hopefully I'll have something to write about. Weather has been very hot and very wet. Good excuse to stay in and spend a lot of time cuddling up. Will try to figure how to post some pictures.

I'm leaving tomorrow morning for 3 weeks in Bangkok. I worry more about the weather in low season than if there are enough boys around. As stated just above, I'm happy to be there and don't expect any shortages.

I think SF is the best. Dallas is good and Miami and Chicago are upgrading food venues, so getting better.

I go the other way. I always check my luggage. Most of my trips now are my month long trips to Bangkok, and I take a few extra things that I wouldn't on a regular trip. So I need the bigger bag. But I'm not as bad as TotallyOz who needs his own shipping container. I'm hopping this will allow everybody to carry on and when I go to the baggage carrousel it will just be my bag there.

I got to ride a camel at the pyramids in Egypt. Talk about a rough ride. You need a massage when your done.

I will be there next week till mid May, so there when you are.

Yes, I'll be there till mid May. I have an apartment down on Surawong.

I arrive back in Bangkok next week for a month. Hero will be my first stop. The mamasan there is very helpful. You can ask him anything about any boy. There are so many hot boys, you shouldn't have any problem finding one that will give you what you want.

Mailed my check yesterday, and leave for a month in Bangkok next week, to get over it.

And only 1-1/2 years to go with all this . I have been doing 30 days in Bangkok and 30 days in The U.S. I think I am going to start doing 60 days in Bangkok. They have a military dictatorship. The general in charge, makes long rambling speeches on tv each day. But there not in English. Just like our politicians , what they say today, they probably won't be saying the same thing in 1-1/2 years.

She really has no competition . Unless things change she can phone it in.

Most boys know what the going rates are as much as we do. Once in awhile they get a customer that is very generous, but they are not going to sit around every night hoping to get that again. They will happily go with you for the normal going rate.

These boys remember being with you once 3 years ago. Don't know how they do it, but they see you coming a mile away

While making your choice, talk to the Mamasan . Let them know exactly what your looking for . Then when you pick a boy, just confirm with him what you would like. You won't have any problem finding a bottom boy. There's usually plenty of everything to go around. It's important to discuss your specifics before you get started in the room though.

The massages at the Turkish Baths, may be a bit on the sensual side, but if your looking for erotic, probably not going to happen. They'll give you a towel to wear, and hands everywhere with strong massage, but they stop short of erotic. The Bath houses are usually very ornate, and in most places the massage will be a bit more public than your used to. But you get lost in the whole experience and you probably won't miss the erotic part.

Going alone I think depends on what your intentions are. If you want to bring boys back to your room, it's better to go alone. Then no worries about arranging schedules. If your happy with just massage palors then sharing you room with a friend wouldn't be a problem. If you were to go with a friend, it would be best to have the same thoughts about why your there. That way you don't need to sneak time away. Once you make your first connection with a boy, there will be no stoping you. You will see how easy it is and you won't be alone for long.

I use a apartment that I found on Airbnb.com. I rent a month at a time. There are a lot of great places all over Bangkok advertised here.

Fascinating city. I remember taking the ferry across to the Asian side of the river, just so I could say I have been on the Asian continent. Hope you get to try out a Turkish Bath.

Tell bf, life together is a comprise. So unless you want to sleep on a park bench, you can't refuse everyplace. It's one of the busiest hotel weeks of the year in Bangkok.

I use an apartment, but it has a 24 hour security desk. I've never had any safety issues.

No, I don't use aps. I have a couple of boys that I am very close to. When they have something to keep them busy, I use that time to stray. I really like massages. For me, I usually get more out of a massage boy than offing a boy at a club. I don't drink either, but still hang out at the beer bars a lot. Lots to drink besides alcohol . And I really enjoy the eye candy.

I have a habit of checking the slip everytime they put one in the bin. I have never had the wrong amount or wrong change given. But on my trip last month, I had a boy buy himself a drink. He tried to slip his slip into my bin. I caught him and he got into a lot of trouble from management. I sit at Hot Male and order food from Maxis often. It seems I never get charged the same from night to night. Usually within 10-20 baht, so I don't say anything .