ChristianPFC

I do most of my hotel stays as walk-in (but I found that in Thailand, Taiwan, Myanmar prices online are about 20% cheaper than walk-in, so I might book online in the future), and in low- or mid-class hotels (300 to 600 THB per night) in the provinces in Thailand never had a problem with early check-in, around 9 am. More than 9 out of 10 hotels I go to have a free room, I can even increase that to only one out of 20 hotels I went to was booked out (from vague memory, as it's so rare). I wouldn't worry a second about staff being busy cleaning the room after the last or for the next customer, as I assume the hotel was not fully occupied yesterday and will not be fully occupied tomorrow. I once came from Pattaya in the afternoon and had a night train to Chiang Mai at night, and no hotel in Bangkok. I did some sightseeing and had a massage with shower before and after and change of clothes instead of booking a hotel room. My problem is the opposite: I sometimes need late check-out, like 1 or 2 pm. Last year I had to pay 100 THB for one hour late check-out, but that was because a boy came around 11 and I checked out 13 and well worth the money. Last week I got late check-out 2 pm for free in Myanmar. But late check-out is always a discussion (whereas early check-in was never a problem), so if I know in advance, I would not book online, but ask at reception and if there is a problem, go elsewhere. Based on over 5 early check-ins or late check-outs, mostly in Thailand. So my advice is: for early check-in (I think everything after sunrise should be okay) do NOT book online, but walk-in and if a room is free (from the day before, not from a guest that checked out even earlier) they should give it to you without problem. (Unless of course ALL hotels are cheaper online than walk-in, and I have been paying too much for hundreds of nights in hotels.)

A freelance masseur has no costs for shop; I wouldn't pay any more than he quotes. 800 THB for 2 hour body-to-body appears a bit low (comparing to Bangkok and Pattaya; I haven't spent much time in CM in the last years). I have a simple structure: I only go to places without minimum tip. On average it costs 400 THB for one hour oil massage. During massage I see if I get horny. If not, I leave it at massage and tip 300. If yes, I do some indecent touching and if the masseur is amenable, we will have a wank and I tip total 800. I find that reasonable and fair. I had one in Bangkok who originally asked for 2000, but in the end agreed. I have several in Pattaya who want to have business with me again under these conditions.

I don't know of a night bus to Koh Kong. Whenever I flew to Cambodia by Airasia from Don Mueang, the bus trip from terminal to airplane almost took as long as doing the full trip by bus. The railway recently was extended from Aranyaprathet to the border crossing. On Cambodian site, railway line and station are complete. I can only be a matter of decades until everything is sorted out and there will be a train connection between Bangkok and Phnom Penh. https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2019/05/thai-cambodia-railway-connection.html Poipet is an awful place (judging from staying one night in 2014 before crossing into Thailand, and spending some hours going by car earlier this year).

No organized gay scene in Chanthaburi. There is enough sightseeing around town to keep me entertained for days. Public transport will be poor or non-existent. In fact, I once crossed with a friend by his car from Cambodia into Thailand at Ban Packard/ Phsar Prum and don't remember public transport on either side. I crossed from Cambodia to Thailand in Trat by public transport: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/08/cham-yeam-to-baan-hat-lek-border.html

Mostly on the shaft, at least those I have seen and touched. I had several (maybe 5 out of 500) boys with mooks, and only one (out of 500) with silicone. He said it can be removed, but he doesn't have 20 kTHB to pay for the operation.

I don't remember such an incident. Someone on the long gone bitchboard (good riddance!) posted a picture of me. About two years ago I had several boys who wanted to take pictures or video of me, or us, or him, during activities, which I mostly rejected. And if such question comes up again, a clear NO. The problem is secretly taking pictures or videos. Some boys like to play on their phone before and after sex (some would even during sex), and I haven't found a way to curb that. Best would be to put my phone on a table out of reach from the bed, and to tell the boy to do the same. And dim the light. Most cameras perform poorly in low light. I like to have some light during sex.

My experience is opposite. I took a few boys for sightseeing, and it usually after less than one kilometer of walking, I get "I'm tired/my legs hurt/it's so hot/sunny..." and two years ago I gave the room key to the boy so he could go back to my hotel room.

Absolutely! I love reading about other's experiences and to share my own, but there has to be some privacy. I will continue trying to revive the gay online dating forum on sawatdeenetwork (now visible to members only), and will do the same here as soon as it gets members only. My following thoughts refer to gogo bars in Pattaya (Bangkok has gotten too expensive to go there regularly). I have gotten better over the year in selecting boys, and now half of my offs are okay (the lure of a new boy who might be better is bigger than taking this one again) and half are good (I will surely see him again). Half are repeat and half are new. I don’t care about eye contact and smile, but observer their behaviour with other boys or customers. Poor performing boy might get a second chance if he has a great body. Given the high number of boys I go through each year, I sometimes have to refer to my notes to decide whether to take a boy again or not. I don’t discuss activities or money in advance. I pay the going rate (1000 ST in Pattaya) and am quite flexible when it comes to activities in bed. Despite all the advantages of online dating, when I find a boy online and he works in a bar, I rather go to see him there. The boy keeping the same online dating account, Line account, phone number for long time is a good sign; frequent changing is a bad sign (at best that the boy is poorly organized, then he will probably have space-time-coordination problems as well). In online dating, delay time is important as well. To test delay time, I even do small talk.

I used to have a signature, but that has been gone for some weeks or months without notice, so I assume signature has been disabled in forum software.

A boy I met in 2010 or 11 told me: "My friend has (I can't make out the word)". Your friend has what? "My friend has (I can't make out the word)". Then I asked him to write the word on my phone: pormbel. I understand written, even if mangled, much better than spoken and instantly understood: problem.

First: how well do you know and and does he want to go? Second: does he know his way around (I mean do not expect him to organize everything; some can, others can't and will be a burden). I would start negotiations with 1500 THB per night. If he wants more that a means either he is not interested in the place or in me or is greedy, all good reasons for me to forego this boy.

Tipping, the perennial favorite! I would not have tipped anyone, as I don't need any advice from mamasan; and from waiter I only want him to bring my drink, which he is paid for by his employer. Either a reputation as cheapskate precedes me, or I look like a non-tipper, or I immediately forget such incidents, but I don't remember such problem. If someone asks for a tip, he will get a "no" and if he asks again, another "no" and the next person from that bar or elsewhere "no". I'm immune to those requests/demands/expectations, they run off my skin like water on a lotus leaf. When the big cock or fuck show performers roam the audience, I keep my hands on my lap and just smile and say "thank you" when they come to me. Being a single child and having lived alone might help for this: I do not do what others expect/demand/request I do, I do what I think feel doing.

Not at all! There are few in touristy areas, but I have seen many, and used some, all over Bangkok (where it would take too long, and return fare for taxi would cost similar as the ST room, to take a boy to my room). In the provinces they are mostly resorts out of town, unsuitable for my needs (I don't have a car, and I have a hotel room in town). https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/12/short-time-hotels-in-bangkok.html

Except for gay saunas (no entry to women), discrimination against men seems to be much more common than against women. I remember in 2013, I saw a line of cute boys dressed similarly walk along Surawang, and could not contain my curiosity and followed them to find them all going into a back door. There was a kind of doorman, so I asked him where this lead and he told me a bar for ladies only. So there are bars staffed with cute boys, that do not allow entry to male customers! I couldn't make out where the main entrance is.

Thanks for your report. I would sit through an all-male show once to see if there is something new, but if it's all ladyboys and lipsync, I have to schedule my visit so I'm done when the show starts. Similar for smoking, if it's too much, don't go in.

Some weeks ago, I passed in the afternoon. Super A had signs of life and staff invited me to come in for a drink, but there were no boys. Golden Cock was open but there were only few boys, fully dressed. Nature Boys was closed and it looked like it would open at night, meaning no note or no sign of permanent closure.

(Agree with "premium prices" meaning being outrageously expensive, and I take most of my business online or to Pattaya for that reason, but that's not the reason for my comment.) Gay bars and straight bars have different business models. In gay bars in Patpong, average prices are 350 drink, 500 off fee, 2000 short time; in straight bars 150-200 drink, 1000 off fee, 3-5000 short time. Correct me if I'm wrong (limited experience with gay bars there and zero experience with straight bars).

My experience opposite. I logged in years, didn't tick any boxes, and remain logged in (only during change of web address did I have to log in again). Firefox and Windows 7.

Everywhere in Thailand. Or if you refer to (The various apps have been compared recently. See my comments there fore details.) I don't remember if it was this forum or another.

I reward performance (not by high tips, but by repeat custom), not cuteness. I have reached a point where performance is more important than cuteness, and I had boys who were just so-so looks-wise and who I would instantly dismiss as "too fat" if I had seen them naked before meeting, but somehow they turned me on in bed.

I'm quite happy with blued in Thailand. (The various apps have been compared recently. See my comments there fore details.)

Massage and extras were perfunctory, and a ten minutes break which I find unacceptable, and on top of the (by my standards outrageous minimum tip) 2000 you gave an extra 300? I don't get it. Why did you have a driver waiting? There are taxi everywhere, on the road or online.

Do I read that right that Dream Boys Paradiso has a drink price of 350 THB, down from 500 or whatever they used to charge at Dream Boys / Boys Bangkok in Soi Twilight? Then there would be no more reason for me to blacklist them for being the most expensive bar, and I can go and have a (one, for research purposes) look some day.

Funny stories with the towels (ColmX), fridge and bathrobe (PeterRS). Those bottles have a cap that that shows if the bottle is sealed or was opened. And it's possible to check without damaging the seal. I would rather think that guests eat/drink from the room bar, and then refill it from 7-11 (solution would be the hotel puts sticker on it). I don't stay in such expensive places, where I stay in the provinces for average 500 THB per night, such problems wouldn't arise. But my pet peeve is a key deposit. It implies two things: 1 The guest is unable to look after his key. 2 The guest would not pay for the loss of the key. Even if this is true for 1% of the guests, it's unfair to hassle the other 99%. The hotel can easily bear the cost of replacing one key for 100 guests. Or am I applying Western thinking and such things happen so often, that the hotel has indeed to take such measures? Compare mobile phones. In 19 years of using mobile phones, I dropped one once, but I didn't damage it. Whereas the Thai seem to drop (cracking the screen) and lose mobile phone all the time. Unfortunately, key deposit is spreading, and location and price of hotel is more important to me than avoiding places with key deposit.

I don't care what people expect. They can expect to die some day, with that expectation they won't be disappointed. For various reasons, I don't tip. And if someone ASKS me for a tip, I wish we were still living in times where it was socially acceptable to slap servants.