ChristianPFC

I decided against trip insurance. My probability of missing the flight is much less than I would spend for trip insurance.

Hua Hin is certainly worth a visit, or several (but now that a friend has a condo there and I have been multiple times, we have to go on daytrips by car to find interesting stuff). I always go by bus or train, travel time door to door can easily exceed 5 hours. For those on holiday and with more money than time, taxi is a good option. However the train station is worth a look, the most beautiful train station in Thailand with a Royal Waiting Hall. Hua Hin is touristy, Thais and Foreigners, and prices reflect this (but still reasonable, unlike Phuket). For amazingly cheap seafood go to Prachuap Khiri Khan where prices are less than half of what you would pay in Hua Hin (local oysters, 10 for 100 Baht!). That there is less traffic is a rumor that I can't confirm. The traffic intersection Petkasem / Soi 61 / Soi 76 (leading to railway station) is a place to avoid: the electricity/communication lines are full of birds, there is birdshit everywhere and the birds are constantly making noises (they are NOT singing!). I have written on Hua Hin a few times: http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/search/label/Hua%20Hin but there is much more to do (and I have done much more).

That was a joke, but based on real events. In the wake of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year%27s_Eve_sexual_assaults_in_Germany German politicians recommended girls and women should keep an arm's length distance to strangers to avoid being sexually molested or robbed (not a joke!). (Compare India, where the government responded to multiple cases of rape where the victim died with a curfew for girls and women at night - citation neeeded.) After that "eine Armlänge Abstand" (an arm's length distance) has become a symbol how politicians in Germany have lost contact to the people (similar to misattributed to Marie Antoinette “Let them eat cake.”). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Let_them_eat_cake

Well, a forum is for exchange of information and opinions, and if we were all of the same opinion, it would be boring. Someone who doesn't want opposing opinions should go into an echoic chamber. I certainly appreciate all feedback, as long as it's civil. The more diverse, the better.

How do you define friend? I too use the word "friend" very loosely. A real friend would be someone who helps me moving (I have one who did, and I returned the favor when he had stuff to move), or for a real friend I would go anywhere anytime that is technically possible. I had a boy calling my from a police station in Bangna, saying he needs 500 Baht to pay a fine. Place and time would have allowed me to go there, but what for? From our previous interaction, I know he wouldn't do the same for me. Judging from his facebook, he got out in the end. I think in Thai is a word "friend when there is food on the table", have to ask Thai friends for details. There was a joke somewhere how US-Americans use the word friend, something like: friend - someone I have just met good friend - someone I have known for a da very good friend - someone I have known for a week.

http://airportpattayabus.com/v1/pattaya-to-airport/ Pattaya to airport every hour 7-21, airport to Pattaya every hour 7-22. There is a general lack of public transport at night. I arrived 2 am yesterday in Suvarnabhumi and had to take a taxi (it has been years that I took a taxi from airport). On the other hand, there were only few people, so running public transport at that time might not be viable. But with about 12,000 7-Eleven shops open throughout, it should be possible to run the BTS/MRT/ART at night, maybe at lower frequency, like every 30 minutes?

A new low: Son stabs his father to death with kitchen knife for forgetting to add fish sauce to his pork soup in Thailand http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4479638/Son-stabs-father-forgetting-add-fish-sauce.html But as a tourist or expat, I think Thailand is very safe. (I could add: if someone tries to stab you, just stay an arm's length away from him and you will be safe.)

They are on sale in some saunas (discreet) and online, however I don't remember places/profiles and prices. But 200 Baht seems a low price for me, I vaguely remember prices starting at 800 Baht. Anyway, price should come with amount. I think 10 ml is common, but there are 30 ml around as well?

So where do the vans from Ekkamai officially stop in Pattaya? I never tried van from Ekkamai (big bus is more comfortable). And on how many trips is you observation based?

These three articles have nothing to do with each other and should have been posted separately. I have no idea why they want to demolish the railway stations. I drove past these many times. All railway stations I have seen in Thailand are adequate. I would say someone with connections to railway owns a construction company and is looking for work. The Mekhong flows through Thailand, Lao and Cambodia. The political effort and bribes required to make all agree is beyond imagination. (Consider that even three civilized countries like Germany, Austria and Switzerland can't agree on one version of German!)

That depends on your budget. I find entire Soi Twilight prohibitively expensive and take most of my business to Pattaya, with the occasinonal visit to Super A or Nature Boy (where low number of boys is the killer, I poke my head in, see none is my type, and am out). I would like to see that.

Yes. Now I vaguely remember, I linked to the article or the post on the forum referring to that article in my blog.

Vans between Pattaya and Bangkok have these fuel stops, and I have reports about big buses now stopping for fuel. At least with private taxi you could specify during booking that you don't want a fuel stop. With van and bus there is nothing I can do about it. Unfortunately, there is only one train Bangkok-Pattaya in each direction per day (weekdays), otherwise I would go by train.

Ladies around the park (long after the park closes).

The article was from an external source. I vaguely remember the thread was on sawatdeenetwork, and I commented that the numbers in the article are far away from my estimates.

There was an article about boys in Saranrom a few years ago, that was discussed in the forums, that would fit in here.

From my observations, this kind of customer can fall into several categories. 1) Newbie doesn't know what is custom. When I first came to Thailand, I made several mistakes that could have been easily avoided by chatting with someone experienced or careful reading of the forums. 2) Cheapskate knows what is custom, but tries to get away with not paying. 3) Obstinate/deluded. I know two Farang who have been in Thailand many times, reject the idea of paying for sex, but hang out in prostitution areas or chat with money boys online.

But what we do, talking about sexual acts performed with boys and sharing bars, names and numbers, is even less discreet. Not that I would complain about that. I'm curious to hear what they told samebb.

Any personal experiences about the scams in upstairs bars? I would be curious to see what is advertised, but don't want to fall for a scam.

I have been going to the same barber in Klong Toey slum for years. 60 Baht for haircut and shave. No aircon. Occasionally there is free haircutting at Hua Lampong railway station. If I knew the dates, I would go there.

With airplanes starting and landing all time of the day or night (quotation needed), there should be sufficient demand for a public transport service that runs 24/7, but there is none! My arrival or departure was during daytime throughout in the past, but when I come back from Taiwan at 2 am, this will be the first time with no public transport available.

There is a story where, in addition to my inexperience (in 2011), everything went wrong and I paid a boy in Pattaya 200 Baht for long time (but we did not have sex, there were several turn-offs that I discovered in the course of our time). Full story here: http://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?12235-Lowest-tip-ever

Two years ago (?) a friend reported cruising in the park, so I went to have a look. Not only did I not see any cruising, it was totally unsuitable for cruising (in the evening a lot of general folk, closed at night, kind of an artificial insula with only one bridge for access, no secluded spots). Around the stadium, there is a lot of sport activity going on, and I saw many a cute boy there. In the swimming pool as well (check opening times and dress code!).

I believe your report, but we don't know what happened between the two, hence I cannot take side. Read the link about the Hmong girls I posted earlier. The only thing I can say is making such a fuss in public, as the guy did, is uncouth behavior in any country, and in Thailand even worse.

This business is prone to lies and deceptions. Having been on the receiving end of lies, deceptions, scams and thefts many times, I can't share your outrage before hearing the other side. I observed only one case of misbehavior: http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/03/pattaya-10-12032014.html and there is a German living in my street, whom I have known since 2009, who is not popular (read: banned on gay bars and even in 7-Eleven!). The story of the Hmong girls who were falsely accused of stealing a watch: https://www.pressreader.com/thailand/bangkok-post/20161211/282875140418184 You would be the first person I know of, who has money boys staying just as friends. Neither do the customers. (Speaking of experience, when I was new, I got scammed several times, realized only long after.)