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1 hour ago, 10tazione said:

You have a nice list of ex(?)-boyfriends!

Once I was in Jupiter, and on every guy I liked she commented something like "he looks like my ex-boyfriend" or "he looks like a friend of mine".

who was she ? sorry for being nosy but want make sure you did not go with mamasan Lucy from Banana there (the same soi so I'm  suspicious)

as for list of boyfriends it's almost depleted unfortunately but age shows I guess

On 1/21/2023 at 8:33 PM, PeterRS said:

Well spotted! Most of the photos I post are not Thai. You are correct - most are Taiwanese.

I guess you can say I have a trained eye (and probably not just eye😉).There are subtle differences between Thai and Taiwanese, both face and body-wise but I would say they both on the top of list when it comes to Asian guys, as I would to further confirm it one more time during my trip in there mid December to Mid January.

47 minutes ago, hojacat said:

I guess you can say I have a trained eye (and probably not just eye😉).There are subtle differences between Thai and Taiwanese, both face and body-wise but I would say they both on the top of list when it comes to Asian guys, as I would to further confirm it one more time during my trip in there mid December to Mid January.

I would agree, but I'd put most Taiwanese slightly above most Thais. Perhaps that's because I spent a large part of my career in a Chinese society. But the beauty of Asia is that there are so many great looking guys almost everywhere. I occasionally swoon when I see many Japanese guys. As for Koreans, I see very few now but those I do are like a different race from 30 and more years ago. Some of the boys are now drop dead gorgeous!

14 hours ago, PeterRS said:

I would agree, but I'd put most Taiwanese slightly above most Thais. Perhaps that's because I spent a large part of my career in a Chinese society. But the beauty of Asia is that there are so many great looking guys almost everywhere.

It's definitely a tough choice for me. I'm a top, so if I narrow my criteria and just focus on one body part, I would say that I would give the Mr. BumBum title for Asian twinks to Thailand. However, if you include face, whole body and attitude I might also slightly prefer Taiwanese.

 

14 hours ago, PeterRS said:

I occasionally swoon when I see many Japanese guys.

Personally, I would rank the average Japanese below Thais, Taiwanese and even Vietnamese, but the top 5% of them are beyond gorgeous. I still vividly remember some of the guys I have seen and met in Japan's saunas or bars. Truly walking art pieces.

 

15 hours ago, PeterRS said:

As for Koreans, I see very few now but those I do are like a different race from 30 and more years ago. Some of the boys are now drop dead gorgeous!

Even though I lack the same length of historical perspective as you I kinda feel this is true also for mainland China. You find lots of sexy guys in the under-25 crowds nowadays in the bigger cities like: Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzen, etc. Mostly coming from a middle or upper-class families.

As for Koreans, I've never been too much into them, probably because I'm not very attracted to wider faces, so I've always felt that I was more successful than I wanted to when traveling in there.😁.

I know that because of the big influence the Korean entertainment industry has, they are considered a bit of the Asian etalon of beauty right now from other countries. My Taiwanese friends always show surprise (and I know deep inside also pride) when I tell them that I consider Taiwanese much more good-looking than Koreans.

3 hours ago, hojacat said:

It's definitely a tough choice for me. I'm a top, so if I narrow my criteria and just focus on one body part, I would say that I would give the Mr. BumBum title for Asian twinks to Thailand. However, if you include face, whole body and attitude I might also slightly prefer Taiwanese.

I find that slightly strange, only in that I am also top but I have never found any difficulty whatever finding bottoms in Taiwan. Perhaps that's a result of making my sexual preference very  clear in the title of my app profiles!

3 hours ago, hojacat said:

Personally, I would rank the average Japanese below Thais, Taiwanese and even Vietnamese, but the top 5% of them are beyond gorgeous. I still vividly remember some of the guys I have seen and met in Japan's saunas or bars. Truly walking art pieces.

Maybe I place them higher because I lived there for almost 3 years. Certainly I was quite a bit younger then and I found the friends I made and their friends were mostly drop dead gorgeous. I do find the hairier northern Japanese less attractive and some guys are not attractive at all. But just walking around Tokyo my head turns quite regularly as a stunningly attractive guy passes by!

3 hours ago, hojacat said:

I kinda feel this is true also for mainland China. You find lots of sexy guys in the under-25 crowds nowadays in the bigger cities like: Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzen, etc. Mostly coming from a middle or upper-class families.

Totally agree, and I have always found this since China started really opening up in the mid-1990s. I have written before about the Destination Club in Beijing and how stunning the guys I usuually find there. I have good friends who are a gay couple in Shanghai (together for more than 25 years) and some of the guys they invite when we all go out for dinner are very sexy with beautiful features!

1 hour ago, PeterRS said:

I find that slightly strange, only in that I am also top but I have never found any difficulty whatever finding bottoms in Taiwan. Perhaps that's a result of making my sexual preference very  clear in the title of my app profiles!

I guess I didn't explain myself well. I wasn't talking about availability of bottoms in Taiwan but that I think Thai ass is better.  Thai guys tend to have slightly bigger and  bubblier bums than the Taiwanese, though both tend to have very soft and silky skin.

 

1 hour ago, PeterRS said:

Maybe I place them higher because I lived there for almost 3 years. Certainly I was quite a bit younger then and I found the friends I made and their friends were mostly drop dead gorgeous. I do find the hairier northern Japanese less attractive and some guys are not attractive at all. But just walking around Tokyo my head turns quite regularly as a stunningly attractive guy passes by!

Well, I have a much more limited exposure to Japan and Japanese, especially when compared to Thailand, Taiwan, Vietnam or Singapore.

Have only been there 3 times. did some of the gay venues (like saunas and clubs) recommended by online guides, though I think those  are just the foreign-friendly venues so definitely haven't had the chance to mingle with the true local gay crowd. It's true that smooth body is not always a given with Japanese ( same as with Filipinos), so I guess that  takes some points off in my book, but as we both said there is definitely not a shortage of stunning hot guys in Japan and especially Tokyo.

10 hours ago, hojacat said:

Have only been there 3 times. did some of the gay venues (like saunas and clubs) recommended by online guides, though I think those  are just the foreign-friendly venues so definitely haven't had the chance to mingle with the true local gay crowd.

That's one of the negative things about gay Japan. There are hundreds (literally) of gay bars and many saunas and hattenba where foreigners are definitely not welcome. Of course, things are different if you go with a Japanese. I was once taken by Japanese friends to a tiny bar in the trendy Shibuya area. There were about ten seats around a U-shaped bar and perhaps 6 tables for two. What i found interesting was that I was warmly welcomed only because of my gay couple companions were regulars. Had I been on my own, it would have been made clear in several ways that I should find a another bar.

Another interesting feature was that after I had been introduced, the mamasan asked me quietly if I was top or bottom. I found this strange, but he quickly seated me at the bar. The reason was that he'd made sure I was placed next to Japanese guys who were bottoms!

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