Thanks God it's over - trip report, Thailand in Jun of 2025

[jason1975]

8 hours ago, vinapu said:

certainly  I will be trying hard to make another Januray trip, I loved weather at that time of year. 

I loved out daily chats at Banana and bar hopping after that. 

I may also go in fall of this year  but that trip will be unannounced and undercover,  if I go I will go with the girl, lol

 

If you tell me, I will go for weekend just to meet you!

[floridarob]

3 hours ago, 12is12 said:

when I have friendly sex

You've peaked my curiosity of the other options ,go on......🧐

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, 12is12 said:

Vinapu, u and many others here correctly advise newbies, that it's very important to tell the offed guy in advance very clearly what's expected of him. 

I find that equally valid when I have friendly sex or non-sex co-travellers.

I tell them in the planning stage, especially the unexperienced, that we'll BOTH need private time/space, and that it shouldn't b perceived offensive.

Anyway, as always u both conducted urself AND reported it in the gentlemanly way we grew to expect from u.

KUDOS !!!

That's all absolutely correct but unfortunately in real life sometimes what was approved in principle and in advance, when comes to it not necessarily will work as scripted. We agreed that during day each of us has free hand to do whatever and that I may bring somebody and requested that at this time room will be vacated,  but when it come to it in reality it created some , how to say it ? uneasiness.

From childhood I remember  conversation my parents had with their lifelong friends about going together for vacation, each couple in own car but they were supposed to start at my parents place at such and such time. And my father knowing they are not exactly famous for being on time disclaimed " if you won't  be here at 7 am, we are going and you will chase us on the    road somewhere ".

It turned that they were only 5  minutes late  so my parents were on the road already when they arrived . It took weeks  to heal perceived offense and we are talking about lifelong friends, not occasional hook up.