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I wish people would stop doing this.....

 

I totally understand your point. And you're right. I was flustered though. And I guess I partly felt it was my "fault" as I had chosen a guy who had not shown any signs of being interested in me. That's what I get for not listening to Vinapu.

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If you are still in Pattaya and don't mind having to take Bolt or Grab to try out another massage shop: Bliss Pattaya might be nice. The facilities look good, clean en modern. The boys in their line account are hot. But unfortunately I didn't read anybody from the forum going there yet. All info about location and contact details in this post:

 

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JJ, I second Floridarob's view; it has nothing to do with ur selection process.

The guy gave a mediocre job; could have happened even if ur choice process was perfect. Not sure he should get even the minimum tip, let alone...

Notwithstanding eye/smile contact: best to ask him what he does do and doesnt do, b4 making the deal.

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I've been here twice - first time, really good. I asked the boy who accosted me outside if I can choose and who can bottom as I didn't feel like bottoming that day (he said all can) so I just chose him. He ended up sneakily sliding it in anyway and we had a great and versatile time. Came back a year later looking for the same guy but he had gone home so I chose another guy who was pleasant looking. Massage was a bit haphazard, afters were okay (he was 'top only'), so just had some oral fun (which pushed the tip into the 'hard' category) and we both came, but it wasn't the most satisfying session. I definitely would go back but would be a bit choosier next time.

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21 hours ago, floridarob said:

I wish people would stop doing this.....

you want us to stop feeling good by being generous in order for you to feel good by being scroogy ?

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4 hours ago, ichigo said:

 I definitely would go back but would be a bit choosier next time.

we can be choosier only to  a degree as in reality we never know what we are buying ourselves into. Even boys previously rehearsed can be disappointing next time and other way around. Time to state for 128th time - my best ever session   and second worst experience were with the same Tawan boy two trips apart.

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22 hours ago, JimmyJoe said:

 

I totally understand your point. And you're right. I was flustered though. And I guess I partly felt it was my "fault" as I had chosen a guy who had not shown any signs of being interested in me. That's what I get for not listening to Vinapu.

Dont fret. Im a believer of second chance and if you are open to take him again, he will remember that you tip him well and most likely will perform much better to compensate. But then again, i will reserve this for those guys that i really like but our first encounter was not as good as i hope. Almost always, my second encounter was better, and many times they become my regular.

U might caught him in his bad day, or he is also trying to learn what you like and not. They arent mind reader so first encounter can be awkward. The subsequent encounter can be more rewarding especially if you tip well the first time despite it being less than satisfying. 

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On 10/27/2025 at 5:16 AM, JimmyJoe said:

 

I totally understand your point. And you're right. I was flustered though. And I guess I partly felt it was my "fault" as I had chosen a guy who had not shown any signs of being interested in me. That's what I get for not listening to Vinapu.

I am not sure I understand any of this. What are the signs you are hoping for? Some people are shy and will not look at you no matter what. Others play the horny, in love, or what ever act they put on and the service can still be bad. Hit or miss...but one thing I would never do is blame myself. 

@vinapu we don't have to be cheap to expect to get what we pay for. If I am not happy with the service I am not paying double for the experience. All it does is reward bad behavior. and the next lucky guy will be treated the same. 

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1 hour ago, iendo said:

@vinapu we don't have to be cheap to expect to get what we pay for. If I am not happy with the service I am not paying double for the experience. All it does is reward bad behavior. and the next lucky guy will be treated the same. 

This👆

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10 hours ago, iendo said:

I am not sure I understand any of this. What are the signs you are hoping for? Some people are shy and will not look at you no matter what. Others play the horny, in love, or what ever act they put on and the service can still be bad. Hit or miss...but one thing I would never do is blame myself. 

@vinapu we don't have to be cheap to expect to get what we pay for. If I am not happy with the service I am not paying double for the experience. All it does is reward bad behavior. and the next lucky guy will be treated the same. 

Its good to have self esteem but at times it may be our fault for encounter not going well - , hygiene problems , overly aggressive or self confident behavior , having bad reputation among boys for being violent or stingy, being too young or too old for boy's taste , just to name a few.

I love those discussions about other people's money. It's payer and payer only  who can reliably assess  whether his money was or was not well spent, not even most sympathetic and well meaning bystanders and onlookers. If somebody's dream is to check whether that bulge in boys jeans is natural or silicon enhanced it's his free will to satisfy curiosity to get that boy naked, even at inflated cost.

( not my case but member's I was visiting bar with, 5 mins trip to bar toilet , inspection, 1000 baht changed hands, curiosity satisfied. Yes,  I thought it's way too much where likely 200 would suffice but I could say both were happy. For curious minds, it was real but expected tip of an off quoted was too high even to my generous friend )

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35 minutes ago, vinapu said:

Its good to have self esteem but at times it may be our fault for encounter not going well - , hygiene problems , overly aggressive or self confident behavior , having bad reputation among boys for being violent or stingy, being too young or too old for boy's taste , just to name a few.

I love those discussions about other people's money. It's payer and payer only  who can reliably assess  whether his money was or was not well spent, not even most sympathetic and well meaning bystanders and onlookers. If somebody's dream is to check whether that bulge in boys jeans is natural or silicon enhanced it's his free will to satisfy curiosity to get that boy naked, even at inflated cost.

( not my case but member's I was visiting bar with, 5 mins trip to bar toilet , inspection, 1000 baht changed hands, curiosity satisfied. Yes,  I thought it's way too much where likely 200 would suffice but I could say both were happy. For curious minds, it was real but expected tip of an off quoted was too high even to my generous friend )

I think people are too afraid about perception and want to be liked. If you would say, "well, the normal price is 600, this includes kissing etc...the boy didn't want to kiss and there was no chemistry, but I'll give him the 600 and walk away"  I can get into that. Chalk it up as a lesson learned. But after such an experience, why would you pay double the normal price? That doesn't make sense to me at all.

Doesn't that go for anything you buy in life? Name any situation where you would pay double after a dissatisfactory experience.

Can we do what we want with our money? Yes, of course we can. But since this is an open forum, can't we have an opinion about it and say so?

I find it interesting that throughout this thread you've freely offered advice about how to select boys and even characterized the opposing view as "scroogy," but when others share their perspective on tipping practices, suddenly it becomes "other people's money" and we're just bystanders who can't assess the situation. Seems like we should all be able to share our views on an open forum, including opinions on whether rewarding poor service helps or hurts everyone in the long run.

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