PeterRS Posted Monday at 03:15 AM Posted Monday at 03:15 AM One or two members here post about too much attention being gven to the "old days". We live in 2026 and should just enjoy what is on offer for gay men today. To a certain extent I agree and disagree. Enjoy the moment should be everyone's motto. But we should never forget that the "old days" for those of us who were around then were quite amazing and surely worth the occasional reminiscence. For had we not had the "old days", perhaps there would be little to enjoy today. daydreamer, Patanawet and MichaelJay70 2 1 Quote
Popular Post Patanawet Posted Monday at 06:27 AM Popular Post Posted Monday at 06:27 AM (edited) Recently, I was talking with a friend and referred to D.J.Station as a 'disco'. His response --"my god, How old ARE you?" P.S. I'm actually SO old that I think of a club as something one has to be a member of. Edited Monday at 06:31 AM by Patanawet P.S. bkkmfj2648, mauRICE, BjornAgain and 6 others 2 7 Quote
mauRICE Posted Monday at 07:36 AM Posted Monday at 07:36 AM 1 hour ago, Patanawet said: P.S. I'm actually SO old that I think of a club as something one has to be a member of. AA? 🤔 Travelingguy and PeterRS 1 1 Quote
vinapu Posted Monday at 03:42 PM Posted Monday at 03:42 PM 15 hours ago, Enchanted_Elixir said: Ah those days, and Soi Twilight 🕯️ me and Olddaddy remember parties Nero and Caligula were throwing in soi 2 when, what was then called Siam, was part of the Roman Empire. You youngsters don't know what you had missed ! bkkmfj2648, siriusBE and Enchanted_Elixir 3 Quote
mauRICE Posted Monday at 04:30 PM Posted Monday at 04:30 PM 46 minutes ago, vinapu said: me and Olddaddy remember parties Nero and Caligula were throwing in soi 2 when, what was then called Siam, was part of the Roman Empire. You youngsters don't know what you had missed ! I read somewhere there was a Rome Club in that soi many years ago but it had burned down or something. Keithambrose, t0oL1, Patanawet and 1 other 2 2 Quote
thaiophilus Posted Monday at 06:53 PM Posted Monday at 06:53 PM 2 hours ago, mauRICE said: I read somewhere there was a Rome Club in that soi many years ago but it had burned down or something. According to The Men of Thailand circa 1997, it was in Silom soi 4, but "in late 1993 the owner of Rome Club began refusing entrance to patrons thought to be gay" and the action moved to soi 2. mauRICE 1 Quote
mauRICE Posted Monday at 07:03 PM Posted Monday at 07:03 PM 16 minutes ago, thaiophilus said: According to The Men of Thailand circa 1997, it was in Silom soi 4, but "in late 1993 the owner of Rome Club began refusing entrance to "patrons thought to be gay" and the action moved to soi 2. Patrons thought to be gay? How very dare they! Why that's like 90% of our forum members who can be spotted sashaying from a mile off! Thank god I'm in the remaining 10%. 😉😎 jimmie50 and daydreamer 2 Quote
Members daydreamer Posted Tuesday at 12:34 AM Members Posted Tuesday at 12:34 AM 17 hours ago, Patanawet said: Recently, I was talking with a friend and referred to D.J.Station as a 'disco'. His response --"my god, How old ARE you?" There are a few clubs in Bangkok and Pattaya that currently use the word Disco or Discotheque in their name. The second photo below shows the Lucifer Disko sign on Walking Street in Pattaya. Just tell your friend that you remember the New Screw Boys A Go Go Bar & Discotheque. t0oL1 and mauRICE 2 Quote
PeterRS Posted Tuesday at 02:19 AM Posted Tuesday at 02:19 AM 10 hours ago, mauRICE said: I read somewhere there was a Rome Club in that soi many years ago but it had burned down or something. Even before Telephone Bar, Balcony Bar and Sphinx, Soi 4 had one of the great dance clubs - Rome Club. Originally named the Siamese Doll Bar, by 1975 it was the 'in' place in Soi 4. I don't think it had discotheque in its title but it certainly was a disco and played great music. And how gay men of all ages thronged to it - and some girls as well! It was packed many nights of the week. It ran very successfully for many years until the owner decided for some reason to change the name around the end of the 1990s. I think it's name changed to Roxy and for a time around 2003 it hosted the group of professional dance students which had originated in Soi Twlight's X-Treme Bar. But the Club very quickly went down hill and then closed. There was indeed a somewhat mysterious fire in the building in 1996 but the building certainly did not burn down. I think @mauRICE may be thinking about the ghastly disco fire in the Santika disco in Ekkamai in 2009 when 67 were killed and a further 222 injured. Discos were hugely popular in the mid-1980s and 1990s, and then with few exceptions the fad seemed to die off. Who now remembers the massive Ministry of Sound, a disco that lasted little more than a year, or the much more fashionable upmarket Bed Supper Club which closed in 2013? Quote
Keithambrose Posted Tuesday at 03:37 AM Posted Tuesday at 03:37 AM 1 hour ago, PeterRS said: Even before Telephone Bar, Balcony Bar and Sphinx, Soi 4 had one of the great dance clubs - Rome Club. Originally named the Siamese Doll Bar, by 1975 it was the 'in' place in Soi 4. I don't think it had discotheque in its title but it certainly was a disco and played great music. And how gay men of all ages thronged to it - and some girls as well! It was packed many nights of the week. It ran very successfully for many years until the owner decided for some reason to change the name around the end of the 1990s. I think it's name changed to Roxy and for a time around 2003 it hosted the group of professional dance students which had originated in Soi Twlight's X-Treme Bar. But the Club very quickly went down hill and then closed. There was indeed a somewhat mysterious fire in the building in 1996 but the building certainly did not burn down. I think @mauRICE may be thinking about the ghastly disco fire in the Santika disco in Ekkamai in 2009 when 67 were killed and a further 222 injured. Discos were hugely popular in the mid-1980s and 1990s, and then with few exceptions the fad seemed to die off. Who now remembers the massive Ministry of Sound, a disco that lasted little more than a year, or the much more fashionable upmarket Bed Supper Club which closed in 2013? I assumed that was a reference to Nero fiddling (sic), while Rome burned. bkkmfj2648 1 Quote
t0oL1 Posted yesterday at 12:00 AM Posted yesterday at 12:00 AM Mostly DJ Station from what I can recognize. daydreamer and vinapu 2 Quote
mauRICE Posted yesterday at 02:25 AM Posted yesterday at 02:25 AM 22 hours ago, Keithambrose said: I assumed that was a reference to Nero fiddling (sic), while Rome burned. Any reference to fiddling only applies to Sunee Plaza.😏 Quote
Patanawet Posted 13 hours ago Posted 13 hours ago On 3/9/2026 at 2:36 PM, mauRICE said: AA? 🤔 no, I don't drive😁 Keithambrose 1 Quote
mauRICE Posted 11 hours ago Posted 11 hours ago 1 hour ago, Patanawet said: no, I don't drive😁 That's good; never drink and drive. 👍👌👏 Patanawet 1 Quote
vinapu Posted 5 hours ago Posted 5 hours ago 5 hours ago, mauRICE said: That's good; never drink and drive. 👍👌👏 yes , have a drink before driving, otherwise it may spill in the car Keithambrose, khaolakguy and Patanawet 2 1 Quote
Patanawet Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago (edited) On 3/9/2026 at 11:30 PM, mauRICE said: I read somewhere there was a Rome Club in that soi many years ago but it had burned down or something. I used to frequent Rome Club in the days. My boyfriend at the time was a waiter there and one night, overnight, all the gay staff were given he sack. The two gay owners decided they wanted it to become a straight disco probably due to it's amazing mixed success and fame all over S.E. Asia. Sadly (for them) it immediately flopped ---- they tried it for about a year but it never recovered. So, they turned it gay again. Only to be boycotted by the gay staff and customers who remembered the way they were treated earlier. The two owners retired to an island somewhere and were both murdered. Later, under new ownership it was being renovated and the structure was so bad, the front and side walls collapsed taking down some of Balcony's left hand wall and stairs. Well, that's what I recall over the eons some of which may have been coloured by last night's Leo, cheese and walnut nightcap and vivid dreams. Edited 53 minutes ago by Patanawet bar mauRICE and bkkmfj2648 1 1 Quote