February 17Feb 17 Hi guys I'm in Bangkok regularly. But I've never been to a gay dance club, like DJ Station, although I'd really like to. I'm 57 now. Would I still fit in at that age? Or would I be looked at like an alien?
February 17Feb 17 13 hours ago, roli1969 said: Hi guys I'm in Bangkok regularly. But I've never been to a gay dance club, like DJ Station, although I'd really like to. I'm 57 now. Would I still fit in at that age? Or would I be looked at like an alien? Don't go too early, wait for the younger guys to get tipsy... they really can't hold their alcohol and they lose their inhibitions. You won't be the youngest one there but won't be the oldest by far. If you're looking for hookups, like all gay bars, you're more desirable if you are a top..... or have wealth, which is also relative ☺️
February 18Feb 18 4 hours ago, floridarob said: you're more desirable if you are a top..... or have wealth, which is also relative ☺️ top wealth will do for sure
February 18Feb 18 On 2/17/2026 at 10:57 AM, roli1969 said: I'm 57 now. Would I still fit in at that age? Don't worry. I am 45 and I would not think about going to a club in Europe anymore. But in Bangkok I still feel in place and welcome when doing to gay club.
February 18Feb 18 54 minutes ago, emiel1981 said: Don't worry. I am 45 and I would not think about going to a club in Europe anymore. But in Bangkok I still feel in place and welcome when doing to gay club. 🎵🎵🎶🎶Forever young....I want to be...forever young 🎶🎶oh please spare me the song
February 18Feb 18 57 minutes ago, emiel1981 said: Don't worry. I am 45 and I would not think about going to a club in Europe anymore. But in Bangkok I still feel in place and welcome when doing to gay club. Let's go to DJ Station (with a guy each!)
February 18Feb 18 54 minutes ago, Olddaddy said: 🎵🎵🎶🎶Forever young....I want to be...forever young nice wish but when reality dawns on you , you started to be forever old, whatever forever has in store for you
February 18Feb 18 1 hour ago, vinapu said: nice wish but when reality dawns on you , you started to be forever old, whatever forever has in store for you Reality bites and the truth hurts.
February 18Feb 18 10 minutes ago, Enchanted_Elixir said: Reality bites and the truth hurts. not quite, I like my age and venture to suspect so does Olddaddy, otherwise he would use different nick
February 18Feb 18 9 minutes ago, vinapu said: suspect so does Olddaddy, otherwise he would use different nick It depends on which personality we are talking about.
February 18Feb 18 I have seen plenty of older gents in GOD too having a great time. The only thing is you may get approached by money boys instead of regular guys hooking up with each other. But why not, many of them are cute and willing, and more likely to be a university student turning tricks than a go go boy.
February 18Feb 18 3 hours ago, jason1975 said: Let's go to DJ Station (with a guy each!) Oh FFS ,can't you go on your own and pick up ?. You always need someone to be with you?👬👬 Your not confident in yourself, please try to start 🚶♂️ Start challenging yourself to do things alone please ,surely that's not too much to ask...good lordy ...surely not ?😳
February 18Feb 18 3 hours ago, Enchanted_Elixir said: It depends on which personality we are talking about. all personalities share the same age
February 18Feb 18 3 minutes ago, vinapu said: all personalities share the same age Biologically yes....mentally, questionable
February 18Feb 18 3 hours ago, hank75 said: The only thing is you may get approached by money boys instead of regular guys hooking up with each other. Either way, it’s smart to stay on your guard and not get too drunk. Easier said than done in there, especially when the alcohol is questionable at best. I’m not talking about beer. With go-go guys, I’ve honestly never had an issue. Same with app hookups, surprisingly 🤷♂️ The only times I’ve had small stuff go missing were with random freelancers from DJ. Not all of them, but a few over the years. A cheap cell phone, sunglasses, cologne, fingernail clippers one time. Nothing catastrophic, just annoying, btw this is when I used to stay at apt's vs hotel..... the hotel getting the ID is more valuable in thee instances because the guy knows their ID is registered 🥺 I never leave cash out and always use the safe, so that was never an option for them. They know we’re tourists and the odds of running into us again are basically zero. And if you’re tipsy, the odds of you clearly remembering who it was drop even more. Just saying, have fun, but keep your wits about you.
February 19Feb 19 I always find if I wear my sunglasses 😎 in there ( DJ Station) my very dark ones ....I get guys coming up to me to start a conversation 😀 "cool glasses bro"
February 19Feb 19 6 hours ago, Olddaddy said: I always find if I wear my sunglasses 😎 in there ( DJ Station) my very dark ones ....I get guys coming up to me to start a conversation 😀 "cool glasses bro" Because they can't see you?
February 20Feb 20 On 2/19/2026 at 7:53 AM, Olddaddy said: I always find if I wear my sunglasses 😎 in there ( DJ Station) my very dark ones ....I get guys coming up to me to start a conversation 😀 "cool glasses bro" Maybe they’re checking to see if you’re really blind so they can nick your wallet
February 20Feb 20 17 minutes ago, hank75 said: Maybe they’re checking to see if you’re really blind so they can nick your wallet Lol 😂😂😶🫢🤪🤪Good one Hank !!
February 20Feb 20 7 hours ago, hank75 said: Maybe they’re checking to see if you’re really blind so they can nick your wallet Imagine their disappointment when they do and find there's nothing in it! 🤷
February 20Feb 20 3 hours ago, mauRICE said: Imagine their disappointment when they do and find there's nothing in it! 🤷 A condom that expired in 2014
February 20Feb 20 On 2/18/2026 at 6:48 AM, Olddaddy said: Oh FFS ,can't you go on your own and pick up ?. You always need someone to be with you?👬👬 Your not confident in yourself, please try to start 🚶♂️ Start challenging yourself to do things alone please ,surely that's not too much to ask...good lordy ...surely not ?😳 It can be fun to do things with friends sometimes. I am quite able to do things on my own. Doing things with others is good also.
February 21Feb 21 On 2/19/2026 at 1:14 AM, floridarob said: They know we’re tourists and the odds of running into us again are basically zero. And if you’re tipsy, the odds of you clearly remembering who it was drop even more. Just saying, have fun, but keep your wits about you. Before moving to Bangkok, I used to tell offs that I was not a tourist and lived in the city. This obviously meant checking on condo and soi names before coming up with one that was believable. With just a handful of words in Thai, that usually worked well and the approach about cash moved down a notch or two.
March 8Mar 8 On 2/18/2026 at 8:26 AM, hank75 said: I have seen plenty of older gents in GOD too having a great time. The only thing is you may get approached by money boys instead of regular guys hooking up with each other. But why not, many of them are cute and willing, and more likely to be a university student turning tricks than a go go boy. GOD was more exciting when the walls were made from black painted plywood- the early days...
March 8Mar 8 4 minutes ago, t0oL1 said: GOD was more exciting when the walls were made from black painted plywood- the early days... Ah those days, and Soi Twilight 🕯️
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