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6 minutes ago, Marc308 said:

spend 2-3 months a year there, usually in Fall,

Sorry , I had to google what "fall" means , so it's ☃️

 

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47 minutes ago, Marc308 said:

I spend 2-3 months a year there

I live here so it is 12 months per year and if I am lucky I can go and visit the nearby countries - like I did last year with 2 months in Cebu/Boracay and 4.5 months in Da Nang.

47 minutes ago, Marc308 said:

For healthcare, I buy the travel insurance which allows the longest continuous stay

I am fortunate in that the employer that I retired from provides health care for life via Global Cigna.  So, that issue is taken care of.

47 minutes ago, Marc308 said:

I love my stays in Thailand for all the obvious reasons but by the end of my stay I am looking forward to being home once again. As the saying goes, there is no place like home. 

Home for me was the USA until 1999 when I left Denver for Rome, Italy.  After living outside of the USA now for 27 years, the definition of "no place like home" has less meaning for me.  When I do occasionally return to the USA for a visit - after 27 years it no longer feels like "home".  I feel more at "home" when I am in Italy, Hungary, or now Thailand.

At this stage in my life, I believe that the other proverb is more relevant: "Home is where the heart is"

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What I have learned from being an expat of 27 years - is does your heart hurt when you leave your host country?  Does your heart feel contentment, familiarity, and euphoria when you return to your host country?  If the answer is yes - then for me that is home.

  • When I enter or leave the USA I only feel pain, fear, and stress.
  • When I enter or leave Italy, Hungary, or Thailand - I feel happiness and longing to come back.

So, why did I chose Thailand over Italy/Hungary?  It made the most economical sense and medical care sense.

Will I remain in Thailand for the remainder of my life?  With the potential threat of succumbing to dementia (it runs rampant in my family history) I would stay in Thailand if I could find a partner that is trustworthy and that I could trust with my welfare (care giving) during dementia.  My plan B is to continue my investigative work over in the Philippines - as there is still time.

Posted
1 hour ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

That plan is now on hold due to the Strait of Hormuz situation where the Philippines government has declared a 1 year State of National Energy Emergency.  Furthermore, the political situation has become unstable, as there was the gunfight that took place in the Senate last month related to the possible arrest, due to an ICC warrant, for Sen. Ronald “Bato” dela Rosa - in the ongoing trial of former president Rodrigo Duterte at The Hague.  Moreover, there is a movement to arrest and impeach Sara Duterte (VP and daughter of Rodrigo Duterte).  Sara wishes to run as the next President of the Philippines in the year 2028 election cycle.  Consequently, the government is now very unstable.  Probably better to wait until after the 2028 elections to decide if a move is worth it or not.

How very lucky you are that your previous employer provides healthcare for life. Fabulous benefit.

With all respect and fully accepting that you have done way more personal research on The Philippines than I, I can only think of one time in that country where the political situation has been anything like stable! I visited a lot during the Marcos years when he was a Donald Trump-like figure but also happily killed opponents. Things improved slightly under his successor, Benigno Aquino's widow, and a new Constitution was finally adopted. This has a provision to end the power of the small group of elite families who had all but run the country – and continue to do so. But Congress has never passed that part of the Constitution and so massive power remains in the hands of a few unelected famiiies.

To be fair, things improved under Aquino's successor Fidel Ramos who had at one time been Marcos' Vice-Chief of Staff of the Armed Forces before switching sides. With all political parties being basically weak, there was no clear-cut candidate to choose after Ramos. So his Vice President, the popular former actor Joseph Estrada stood and won. Estrada seems to have been an out-and-out crook and was both impeached and jailed. His successor Gloria Macapagal Arroyo may have been the longest serving President since Marcos but she too fell foul of the law and was twice arrested. Her successor Aquino's son Benigno was then appointed President. Although not charged with any crimes, his popularity waned significantly for various events that took place during his Presidency, leaving the office when Rodrigo Duterte took over. As we know, Duterte is now at the International Criminal Court in The Hague on a multitude of charges including mass extra-judicial killings and other human rights abuses.

And now the thug Marcos' son Bong Bong is President. He was discovered to have undisclosed ill-gotten wealth when a student. After the family was exiled to Hawaii, he tried to withdraw US$200 million from a secret Swiss account. His famly allegedly had between US$2 billion and $10 billion in undisclosed assets when Bong Bong tried to keep a quarter of that in a deal with the government, a deal struck down by the Supreme Court. As a senator he was involved in various financial scandals Under his Presidency 63% of Filipinos consider themselves poor, the most since 2003. Having promised to respect human rights, little has changed during his term. Drug war murders and disappearances have continued at a rate that has been compared to the level under Duterte. Journalists continue to be killed and harrassed. His Vice President, the daughter of previous president Duterte, has completely split from him.

Of the Marcos/Duterte feud, The Diplomat wrote this on 18 May –

Accusations of drug use, not one but two impeachment trials, a high-profile arrest at an airport, and even threats to hire a hitman to assassinate the current president – welcome to the grudge match that’s reshaping Philippine politics, and with it, potentially the entire South China Sea. 

In early May, the Philippine House of Representatives voted to impeach Vice President Sara Duterte for the second time in as many years.

Duterte has been accused of skimming millions of dollars in government funds during her time as secretary of education and then trying to cover it up. She is also being charged with “betrayal of public trust” in connection with a supposed plot to kill her former ally, President Ferdinand Marcos Jr.

https://thediplomat.com/2026/05/duterte-vs-marcos-the-political-feud-tearing-apart-the-philippines/

Welcome to Philippines politics!

Posted

Thanks for the political update in the Philippines.

After my trip there last year - I acquired some friends with their feet on the ground - and they even told me to hold off on moving there until the Strait of Hormuz and National Energy Emergency situation settle down, as all of these friends are now feeling the related negative economic consequences.  My feeling is that Thailand is handling the Strait of Hormuz situation much better than the Philippines are and consequently the situation is less negative here in Thailand.

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