The Seductive Art of Giving a F*ck: A Blind Approach to Having a Good Time

[spoon]

Chapter 1: Do try 

It has been almost 7 months—seven long months—before I finally started making plans for my next trip. I checked with my travel buddy, who told me he should be able to travel in early July or late July/early August. I myself still needed to wait for my work schedule to be fixed, which got done towards mid-June; thus, I started to look at tickets for both windows and finally decided on an end-of-July trip. I applied for annual leave, booked my flight, booked my hotels, and told a few possible travel buddies and forum members (and ex-forum members) about my maiden trip this year. 

Arriving in Bangkok on a Friday evening was a big mistake. While there was only a minor delay taking off (15 minutes or so), I spent 1.5 hours queuing at immigration in Swampy, and yes, I was swamped. Even my handheld electric fan couldn't save my body from expelling excess moisture, front and back. I don't think the airport itself was particularly warm or hot, but the amount of fellow travellers queuing must have been what was responsible for heating up the small space. I arrived around 7:00 PM, escaped the airport around 9:30 PM, and finally made my way to Silom around 11:00 PM after a brief freshening up at my hotel. 

Tonight's first visit was Dreamboy. I entered mid-show, and not long after, the show ended and the guys started coming to the stage for me to choose. There were definitely more guys than customers, and I was the only customer in the back row behind the pillars. Immediately, I saw a guy who was offable material—my type; let's call him CN. I called the mamasan, telling him the number to call the guy over for a drink. The guy showed a lot of interest, could speak some English, and when asked if he wanted to go with me, he said yes. I asked again, "Long time?" Yes. "Until breakfast?" Yes. "How much?" He said a number, and I said yes. I called the mamasan and paid his off fee. 

I stayed longer for the next show. While eyeing the stage again, I saw a guy who I used to take out before, VN. He is my type as well, but with a smaller frame. What the hell—it was my first night after a long hiatus, and I was in the mood tonight, so I called the mamasan and told him to call the guy over for a drink as well. Not long after, he sat on my empty side and ordered his drink. Just hours ago, I was sitting in the office finishing up work, and now, I was sitting in between two hunks. Yes, I am officially in Thailand—my second home, lol. 

Since I was in the company of two hunks, I stayed longer until the show ended. VN tried to recall who I am, then told me, "You left phone in taxi." Yup, he is the guy I was with when I left my phone in the Bolt taxi I took. I asked him if he was interested to go with me, and he said yes. I told VN I had already offed CN, and would off him next time. We stayed for a while to enjoy each other's company before I left the bar for the hotel. I asked CN if he wanted to eat or buy anything at 7-Eleven; he bought some items, and off we went in our taxi. 

All was good until he told me he needed to go early. I won't bother telling the rest of the story—all the excuses, etc.—but I did stand my ground. His tip was reduced because he told me he would come back, so I told him I'll pay the rest when he returns. All of a sudden, he wanted more money. I repeated that I would give him more when he returns and stood my ground, until he finally said he might not return, which was why he needed more... Mind you, it was him who suggested he would return. Anyway, he left and it was only 2:15 AM. 

After I calmed down a bit, I texted my regular guy in Jupiter, MW. I asked if he was still awake; he said yes. I asked if he was in Bangkok and told him that I was in Bangkok too; he said yes. Then he asked me, "Shall we meet?" I asked if he wanted an overnight with me tonight, and he said okay. I sent him my location; he said he was drinking with a friend and would come to me around 3:00 AM. No need to tell you guys how this ends up, as I have already lost count of how many times we have met before. He stayed until breakfast the next morning, and that concluded my first-night adventure—trying a new guy on the first night who turned out to be a dud, but salvaged by a regular. 

[jason1975]

37 minutes ago, spoon said:

He stayed until breakfast the next morning, and that concluded my first-night adventure—trying a new guy on the first night who turned out to be a dud, but salvaged by a regular. 

That is why going with proven quality is better.

[jason1975]

40 minutes ago, spoon said:

It has been almost 7 months—seven long months—before I finally started making plans for my next trip.

I feel guilty after reading that!

[jason1975]

41 minutes ago, spoon said:

Arriving in Bangkok on a Friday evening was a big mistake. While there was only a minor delay taking off (15 minutes or so), I spent 1.5 hours queuing at immigration in Swampy, and yes, I was swamped. Even my handheld electric fan couldn't save my body from expelling excess moisture, front and back. I don't think the airport itself was particularly warm or hot, but the amount of fellow travellers queuing must have been what was responsible for heating up the small space. I arrived around 7:00 PM, escaped the airport around 9:30 PM.

I feel even more guilty after reading this! Lol!

[jason1975]

42 minutes ago, spoon said:

VN tried to recall who I am, then told me, "You left phone in taxi." Yup, he is the guy I was with when I left my phone in the Bolt taxi I took. I asked him if he was interested to go with me, and he said yes. I told VN I had already offed CN, and would off him next time. We stayed for a while to enjoy each other's company before I left the bar for the hotel.

How could he forget you! The phone drama should have been unforgettable!

He is indeed hot - those rock hard abs and that humongous dick. But he's my guy's friend and my guy is currently working in Bangkok so difficult for me to off him (or any other Viet guy since they are all friends).

[jason1975]

50 minutes ago, spoon said:

I applied for annual leave, booked my flight, booked my hotels, and told a few possible travel buddies and forum members (and ex-forum members) about my maiden trip this year.

Thank you for telling me about your trip. I was undecided about going for weekend trip to meet you because I had booked a trip just two weeks before your date.

But the deciding factor was the news about esteemed forum member coming to Bangkok at same time!

I booked a trip immediately once I got the news. My guy was surprised. He said, "You come every month" and I had no reply because he was factually correct.

Now I am broke after so many weekend trips this year.

No more trip until end of year! Need to rebuild bank balance.

[floridarob]

16 hours ago, spoon said:

would come to me around 3:00 AM. No need to tell you guys how this ends up, as I have already lost count of how many times we have met before. He stayed until breakfast the next morning,

Same morning or next morning?

[floridarob]

16 hours ago, jason1975 said:

He is indeed hot - those rock hard abs and that humongous dick. But he's my guy's friend and my guy is currently working in Bangkok so difficult for me to off him (or any other Viet guy since they are all friends).

When you're older, grayer and more experienced....you'll look back at these times and wonder, wtf was I thinking?

 

[vinapu]

11 hours ago, jason1975 said:

Thank you for telling me about your trip. I was undecided about going for weekend trip to meet you because I had booked a trip just two weeks before. 

It looks that spoon is very inspirational since I also booked current trip hearing the news of his schedule. Original plan was Octoberish/ November is. Funny part is arrival. I landed just day after spoon and all it took me  was 21 minutes from exiting plane to being on escalator to train station. That includes buying SIM card. 

[spoon]

On 8/6/2026 at 7:20 PM, jason1975 said:

That is why going with proven quality is better.

Always the reliable one. And only in thailand i can contact someone at 2.30am and be in my room at 3.30am lol

[spoon]

On 8/6/2026 at 7:21 PM, jason1975 said:

I feel guilty after reading that!

No need to feel guilty. Work is what allows me to fund the trip lol

On 8/6/2026 at 7:22 PM, jason1975 said:

I feel even more guilty after reading this! Lol!

9 hours ago, vinapu said:

Funny part is arrival. I landed just day after spoon and all it took me  was 21 minutes from exiting plane to being on escalator to train station. That includes buying SIM card. 

Im just a lowly nobody so i cant use the priority lane lol

[spoon]

10 hours ago, floridarob said:

Same morning or next morning?

Sorry same morning lol. 

[spoon]

On 8/6/2026 at 7:35 PM, jason1975 said:

Thank you for telling me about your trip. I was undecided about going for weekend trip to meet you because I had booked a trip just two weeks before your date.

But the deciding factor was the news about esteemed forum member coming to Bangkok at same time!

I booked a trip immediately once I got the news

9 hours ago, vinapu said:

It looks that spoon is very inspirational since I also booked current trip hearing the news of his schedule. Original plan was Octoberish/ November is

Glad that both of you made it to LoS at the same time Im here. Im basically only alone on my first night! Well, not really alone, but you know what i mean hehe

[jason1975]

2 hours ago, spoon said:

Glad that both of you made it to LoS at the same time Im here. Im basically only alone on my first night! Well, not really alone, but you know what i mean hehe

I was indeed overjoyed to be slutting with the two of you! I could only be with you fellas for two nights and I am so envious that you had each other's company for one week!

[spoon]

Just for the fun of it, i tried to use AI to "improve" my trip report. Enjoy day 1 as written by AI.

Chapter 1: The High Cost of Trying 
Seven months. Seven long, agonizing months of standard adult compliance before I finally broke. When my travel buddy gave me a vague window of "sometime in July or early August," and my corporate overlords finally locked in my schedule mid-June, I stopped thinking and started booking. End of July. Annual leave requested, flights secured, hotels locked down. I even broadcasted the news to a few chosen travel buddies and forum veterans like a man who had just successfully escaped a minimum-security prison. This was it. My maiden voyage of the year. 
Then came Friday evening. 
Landing in Bangkok on a Friday night is a special brand of self-inflicted torture. Despite a minor fifteen-minute delay in the air, the real trial began at Suvarnabhumi’s immigration. I spent an hour and a half trapped in a human livestock queue. Even my handheld electric fan was completely useless against the sheer volume of body heat. The airport infrastructure wasn’t broken; the sheer mass of humanity packed into that confined space simply overwhelmed the air conditioning. My body was expelling excess moisture from places I didn't know could sweat. Touchdown was at 7:00 PM. I didn't break quarantine until 9:30 PM. By the time I dropped my bags, scrubbed the airport grime off my skin, and made it to Silom, it was 11:00 PM. 
My first stop of the night was Dreamboy. 
I walked in mid-show. Shortly after, the house lights shifted and the lineup migrated to the stage for the nightly selection ritual. The room was packed with both talent and tourists. I ended up as the lone spectator in the back row, tucked safely behind the pillars. Almost immediately, one guy cut through the noise—definitely "off-able" material, exactly my type. Let’s call him CN. I flagged down the mamasan, gave him the number, and bought CN a drink. 
Up close, CN checked out. He showed genuine interest, spoke decent English, and when I asked if he wanted to leave with me, he didn't hesitate.
"Long time?" Yes.
"Until breakfast?" Yes.
He named his price, I agreed, and I paid the mamasan his release fee. 
Instead of leaving immediately, I decided to stay for the next set. As I scanned the stage again, a familiar face appeared: VN. He was a guy I’d taken out on a previous trip—my type, just with a slighter, more compact frame. Look, it was my first night back after a massive hiatus, and I was in an aggressively good mood. What the hell, right? I called the mamasan over again and ordered VN a drink too. 
Moments later, I was sitting between two complete hunks. Just hours earlier, I had been staring at a computer screen finishing up paperwork. Now, I was living the exact reason why I call Thailand my second home. 
We stayed until the curtains closed. VN spent a few minutes trying to place where he knew me from before the memory clicked. "You left your phone in the taxi," he laughed. Yup. That was him—the co-pilot to my absolute panic attack when I dropped my phone in a Bolt ride during my last trip. I asked him if he wanted to come out tonight, but frankly explained that I’d already cleared the fee for CN. "Next time," I promised. We shared a few laughs, enjoyed the company, and then it was time to move. I asked CN if he needed to grab any food or supplies at 7-Eleven, loaded up, and hailed a cab back to the hotel. 
The vibe was perfect right up until we crossed the threshold of my room. 
Suddenly, CN’s timeline shifted. He needed to leave early. I won’t bore you with the predictable laundry list of excuses he started spinning, but I wasn't born yesterday. I stood my ground. I told him his tip would be heavily reduced, but since he suggested he would return later, I would pay him the remaining balance when he actually came back. 
Suddenly, the script flipped. He aggressively demanded the full amount right then and there. I repeated my terms calmly: stand-and-deliver, or cash on return. Realizing his bluff had failed, he finally admitted the truth—he wasn't coming back, which was exactly why he wanted the cash upfront. It was a classic, low-effort hustle. He took his reduced cut and walked out the door. It was 2:15 AM. 
I sat there for a few minutes, let the annoyance drain away, and recalibrated. No point letting a bad actor ruin night one. 
I pulled out my phone and texted MW, my absolute reliable regular from Jupiter. You awake?
Yes.
I’m in Bangkok.
Yes, he replied instantly. Shall we meet?
I asked if he was down for an overnight. He agreed, explaining he was just finishing up drinks with some friends and could be at my place by 3:00 AM. 
You don’t need the explicit details of how the rest of the night went; I’ve completely lost count of how many times MW and I have met up over the years. He stayed well past breakfast the next morning. 
And that was night one: a failed experiment with a new guy, completely salvaged by the undeniable value of a trusted regular. 

[jason1975]

A.I. brought out the details beautifully! Which one did you use - ChatGPT? Google Gemini? Claude? Deepseek?

[vinapu]

16 hours ago, spoon said:

 

Im just a lowly nobody so i cant use the priority lane lol

 Never hurts to know one's place in the line. But give yourself some time and your day will come.

[vinapu]

16 hours ago, spoon said:

Well, not really alone, but you know what i mean hehe

You got a girl ? 

[vinapu]

33 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

A.I. brought out the details beautifully! Which one did you use - ChatGPT? Google Gemini? Claude? Deepseek?

Deepsick ?