My Thai partner continues to use the word "gay" to describe a bottom. And the word "man" a top.

On 8/29/2026 at 8:38 PM, Hansen25 said:

Okay this has been bugging me.

Pretty much every guy at the shops and bars is listed as straight or top. Like… all of them. Is that actually true, or do they just write that?

Because if you’re a top, it feels like there’s nobody left. Do a lot of these “tops” still bottom if you ask, or is that label usually real?

Also, what about you guys — top, bottom, or vers?

Not trying to start a debate. Just wondering what it’s like in real life vs what’s on the profile.

Many of the masage shops, 15M, fafa massage list many bottoms, true mostly T/B, fafa has moreT/B than top.

10 hours ago, Londoner said:

My Thai partner continues to use the word "gay" to describe a bottom. And the word "man" a top.

A generation ago in Thailand, it was common to refer to tops as "gay king", and bottoms as "gay queen".

On 9/20/2026 at 6:01 AM, emiel1981 said:

rather than struggling through it with a grimace.

Performance acting, from watching too many straight pornos....girls moaning and screaming meanwhile filing their nails, totally uninterested with cocks in their ass and pussy 🙄

I get no arousal out of causing somebody else discomfort. So, dramatic expressions of pain are really going to make me not want to try forcing it in and just losing the erection anyway.

36 minutes ago, Travelingguy said:

to make me not want to try forcing it in

bragging 🍆 ?

4 hours ago, floridarob said:

bragging 🍆 ?

I am not huge, but I am longer and thicker than average. Some guys have had difficulties. Not fun for them or me. But bottoms with some experience tend to tell me that I am the ideal size. Big enough without being too big. My ex and a guy on this trip both told me that it would be ideal size for a dildo.

On the flip side, I have had guys embarrassed that they are smaller than me. I am not particularly fond of dicks that are big enough to make me choke. I tell these guys complaining that their dicks aren’t big enough that they are perfect the way they are. Besides, I have always believed that the dick is less important than the guy it is attached to.

5 hours ago, Travelingguy said:

, I have always believed that the dick is less important than the guy it is attached to.

The exact opposite of the owner of Lagoa sauna in Sao Paulo Brasil and more than a few posters here , lol