Grindr tips and techniques

[MichaelJay70]

Hi gents,

I don’t regularly use the apps in Thailand… in fact, never have. I want to try to use the apps to attract MBs to approach me as many have recommended. Can you share your tips on how I should set up my profile, what to say/not to say to attract what I’m looking for, and what kind of photos should I share on my profile. Then what’s to process or the “dance” that I should follow once I get a ping. How do I negotiate the deal and how soon do I bring it up.

im planning on using Grindr but are there others that I may consider that are better for this purpose?

 

thanks for your advice!!
 

[lilbob69]

Moneyboys will say so pretty quick

"I MB u OK?" - negotiate from there.

Share pics that you're comfortable with others seeing. Personally I don't have nudes that show my face

[Olddaddy]

You can put MB welcome in your profile 

When they are messaging  and your unsure if they're mb ask them then say "how much " 

Then ask what they do? 

Top ? Bottom ? 

Then ask the questions about their services 

[durian]

from time to time my profile says i am 'generous and rewarding'  That's the hook i use when I want a MB to find me.

I prefer being approached rather than make the move for a MB.

I've found Gridr can be picky what 'financial' terms you use when in that MB arena on the app.

Other than that I just list my pervertions and fetishes to see what that attracts.

I don't have face pics on my profile but available to send when I am comfortable.

You should also check out the hornet app, that is quite popular but a little more social than sexual imo

I also have HEEYSAY app here in vietnam.

[Keithambrose]

2 hours ago, durian said:

from time to time my profile says i am 'generous and rewarding'  That's the hook i use when I want a MB to find me.

I prefer being approached rather than make the move for a MB.

I've found Gridr can be picky what 'financial' terms you use when in that MB arena on the app.

Other than that I just list my pervertions and fetishes to see what that attracts.

I don't have face pics on my profile but available to send when I am comfortable.

You should also check out the hornet app, that is quite popular but a little more social than sexual imo

I also have HEEYSAY app here in vietnam.

I'm cautious about  saying 'generous ', a friend  got blocked after saying that. Others i know put a space in the middle of the word!

[floridarob]

4 hours ago, durian said:

Other than that I just list my pervertions and fetishes to see what that attracts.

Such as.... 🤔

[Keithambrose]

14 minutes ago, floridarob said:

Such as.... 🤔

Too long a list to put on here!

[UKRICK2026]

A tip I have is if you find an MB is to try and get on to another platform asap and don't discuss to much on Grindr. I got banned from the app, and I think it was talking to an MB and discussing Money.

[Keithambrose]

9 hours ago, UKRICK2026 said:

A tip I have is if you find an MB is to try and get on to another platform asap and don't discuss to much on Grindr. I got banned from the app, and I think it was talking to an MB and discussing Money.

That's what I do, try and move to WhatsApp or similar.

[12is12]

Isn't "generous" inviting higher prices?

[vinapu]

5 hours ago, 12is12 said:

Isn't "generous" inviting higher prices?

I don't think ' economizing' or ' frugal' would do much to enhance attractiveness of one's profile 

[tin_sg]

if u are using gay apps to hook up with massage boys, be careful as some of the pictures they will send are not really them !  it happened to me a few times.

Just beware.

 

[bkkmfj2648]

9 minutes ago, tin_sg said:

if u are using gay apps to hook up with massage boys, be careful as some of the pictures they will send are not really them ! 

This is why I prefer the Hornet app

In the Hornet app you can see a list of his followers which is a good indicator if he is real.

And using the "birds of the same feather flock together"  principle you can see with whom he is associated with, and this is also a good indicator about his authenticity.

Additionally, in the Hornet app each member is assigned a user id by the system, which is searchable and very useful when you want to meetup again with a hot guy. In Grindr there is no such equivalent that I am aware of.

The banning process is less hostile than it is in Grindr.  Who has enough money to buy another mobile phone to restart their Grindr life after being banned?

Lastly, the price for a 1 year subscription in Hornet is about what Grindr costs for 3 months.

 

[floridarob]

59 minutes ago, tin_sg said:

be careful as some of the pictures they will send are not really them

Video call before agreeing to meet them.....