August 2026 Trip Report: Another Top Bites the Dust and a Power Bottom is Born

[Daddy415]

This is my trip report for our two weekends in Bangkok. We are an older married couple and when we come to Bangkok we invoke the Bangkok Rule in our relationship, and have a great time at the massage spas. We don’t go to saunas or other bars, though I’m hoping we get to go to some of the drag bars this trip.

I am purposely not mentioning names for the most part except for one name of an exceptional therapist. It seems like that’s the unofficial rule here, please correct me if I’m mistaken. Otherwise I will attach the spa photos of the therapists.

First weekend:
We landed at BKK at 23:45, delayed out of Narita due to heavy storms there earlier in the day. Based on what I had seen in this forum, we booked Fast Track with the Sawasdee app along with a buggy and were so happy we did. We were at a very distant gate (they refund the buggy if you are at a close gate) and the professional “butler” met us at the gate and whisked us to immigration, taking us into the VIP lane to the far right. We waited about 10 minutes there but the regular lines were at least an hour, maybe 90 minutes, with some very unhappy looking people. 

Saturday morning:
We went to Stars and chose two “pretty boy” therapists. You know, the ones with the higher tip amounts. As I have heard others on this forum say, the pretty guys just don't try as hard for the most part. It was fine, and I bottomed for the first time in my life (with a condom, on prep). I liked it. Why did I wait so long in life to try this? Turns out, I am a power bottom after being a power top all these years.

The VIP room was nice. Not immaculate, but nice, lots of room, bed and massage table. This room became “my” room over the course of our stay as they got to know me at Stars, and I even imported guys from other spas by asking Stars to book them and come to “my” room. One of the VIP rooms has a large jacuzzi tub. They also turn on the AC before the session so the room is nice and cool, unlike Kman and 9-Teen. I am pretty sure that the air conditioners at 9-Teen are just movie props and don’t actually cool.

Saturday afternoon:
We walked through Silom and my husband went to Paradise (literally) and I went to 9-Teen, the smaller one. The guy outside, W, was a little older and had a nice smile and was more my type. A lot of the guys outside the spas were too young looking. I wanted a man - an older guy. I end up giving advice to the younger ones and worrying about them. Yes, I’m a daddy. W turned out to be one of the best on the trip, and was a good kisser and very patient with me. Not a lot of English (“yes” and “no”) but we made it work. I didn’t get the sense that he books up a lot so I’m mentioning him here. Have at him, boys!

The room was hot and the AC was not on until we walked in. We showered and the decent massage turned into sex of course (no mention of tip, so i gave him 1200 at end) and I experienced bottoming with a larger guy than the morning one. I’m guessing 7 inches, maybe a little less, but nice and thick, and always hard. He had a larger cock and I was a little worried about my second bottoming experience but turns out, the big ones feel even better, the little ones slip out, so now I’m a power bottom size queen.

Also this therapist was enthusiastic and aimed to please. I had a couple of p-spot orgasms and then a penile orgasm, shooting all over his chest as I rode him. He seemed like he might cum too but I remember reading here that it can blow the rest of their day, so I slowed down a bit. I was experimenting with positions and trying to figure out what would work to keep him from going into piledriving / jackhammer mode. I guess some of you guys like that because they all seem to do it. I like it slow and steady and like to feel the head of the guy’s cock against my prostate, slowly grinding and teasing it. Now I’m a power bottom size queen control freak.

All the therapists seem really focused on you having a cock orgasm, and then the session is over. Nope, been there done that, I want the multiple p-spot orgasms, so get to work and take me to paradise and let’s cuddle at the end. And I paid for 90 mins and that’s what I’m getting even if we sit here and talk about cats. Meow. 

A word about douching:
I was super concerned about this. What to use, how to do it, where and when to do it. One of you mentored me but for the sake of his privacy I won’t mention who told me how to douche. For me, this is what worked:
Smaller travel douche from Amazon. Squeeze the bulb then let it suck in purified water from a bottle. Squeeze out any air, lube it and your butt, and insert (feels kind of good once it gets in there, hmmmm again this bottoming thing is pretty great) and swish around. Expel, do it again until all clear. I did it about 2 hours before my appointments but I had trained my bowels on early morning movements and then would book spa appointments for about noon.
Here’s the douche I used: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D94B9KWH
I had tried larger / anti backflow ones at home and those were a disaster and would have taken up too much luggage room. Way too big and too easy to over douche, causing all sorts of yucky problems. 
Use purified water which is really important. Your bowels do not have the acids your stomach has to kill harmful bacteria. Do NOT put tap water up there.
I did avoid spicy food (well toned it down, guy’s gotta eat) for the most part and figured i might have to take an anti-diarrheal at some point but did not. I read on here that some guys take heavy duty stuff that shuts down their digestion but I dont want to walk around looking like Buddha. Lots of fiber pills and water.

Going to bed the first night, my prostate was pulsing like a hungry baby as I thought of the day and looked forward to more tomorrow.
 

[floridarob]

3 hours ago, Daddy415 said:

I was a little worried about my second bottoming experience but turns out, the big ones feel even better, the little ones slip out, so now I’m a power bottom size queen.

This is a different twist or sarcasm?

A virgin bottom not squirming and in pain and immediately a power bottom.... I have recollections of my first couple times bottoming and have had this conversation with other bottom friends about how much it hurt and burned and we all wondered what made us do it a 2nd and 3rd time, lol


 

[Keithambrose]

2 hours ago, floridarob said:

This is a different twist or sarcasm?

A virgin bottom not squirming and in pain and immediately a power bottom.... I have recollections of my first couple times bottoming and have had this conversation with other bottom friends about how much it hurt and burned and we all wondered what made us do it a 2nd and 3rd time, lol


 

His husband must be a bit surprised!

[12is12]

17 hours ago, Daddy415 said:

I am purposely not mentioning names for the most part except for one name of an exceptional therapist. It seems like that’s the unofficial rule here, please correct me if I’m mistaken. 

It's not the "unofficial rule"; unfortunately, it's what most do most of the time, to the detriment of both worthy providers and your forum brothers here. Their reasoning is that it's dangerous to recommend, because others might be disappointed and criticize you for recommending.

(Not only) I take exception to this 'logic', since it's obvious that every report is subjective, and no recommendation guarantees satisfaction.

I urge u to join the 'brave' minority, and name names: point your followers to providers who deserve it.

[Daddy415]

5 hours ago, 12is12 said:

It's not the "unofficial rule"; unfortunately, it's what most do most of the time, to the detriment of both worthy providers and your forum brothers here. Their reasoning is that it's dangerous to recommend, because others might be disappointed and criticize you for recommending.

(Not only) I take exception to this 'logic', since it's obvious that every report is subjective, and no recommendation guarantees satisfaction.

I urge u to join the 'brave' minority, and name names: point your followers to providers who deserve it.

I am happy to name names but I was thinking it was to protect the providers since this is a public forum and they might get in trouble for providing more than a massage. I dont want to cause any of them trouble. Whenever I get a DM I of course tell my fellow brethren here all that they want to know.... @vinapu would welcome your sage guidance here.

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, Daddy415 said:

... @vinapu would welcome your sage guidance here.

for sage advice we need to look for somebody wiser but I do exactly what you do i.e. not name any service providers unless I'm 123.84% sure they wouldn't mind revealing their true identity at work i.e. nick or name. 

While being more open may provide some benefits to members here and reading public as well as generate more business for the deserving  boys, over years I came to thinking it's more harm than good. What tipped the scale ? Customer who connected the dots - me and a guy ,  actually asked boy some questions about me neither boy was comfortable to hear, never mind answer,  nor I was comfortable hearing what was asked. Not saying it was member here but certainly somebody who read forum at that time. So I decided to be an asshole, nice asshole but still asshole. 

The same goes with tips disbursed. I don't need to hear comments that xxxx $ tip is waste of money and spoiling market for others , when all I do is to dream to have a chance to waste that money again on the same guy ASAP. After all it's only us who can say with certainty if 84 baht breakfast deal at Foodland  is for us good deal or not.

With DM I may or may not be more opened and forthcoming . I know word 'no' and know how and when to use it if needs arises.

 

[Daddy415]

Thank you @vinapu that makes 100% sense. I will keep the names off the public board. It's too big a risk for these guys and many of them are immigrants to Thailand and very vulnerable.

[a-447]

On 9/1/2026 at 9:51 AM, Daddy415 said:

I had tried larger / anti backflow ones at home and those were a disaster and would have taken up too much luggage room. Way too big and too easy to over douche, causing all sorts of yucky problems. 
Use purified water which is really important. Your bowels do not have the acids your stomach has to kill harmful bacteria. Do NOT put tap water up there.

So, if you have tried douches 'at home' this must mean that this wasn't your first time bottoming. Or have I got this wrong?

I don't see how anyone can suddenly become a bottom on the spot - unless they were insanely drunk or on drugs. The pain for me was unbearable and it took quite a bit of practice with dildos before I could take the real thing. And a long time before I could take 7 inches. Those 2 sphincters need to be trained - or so I thought. They are not designed to take a cock.

As for douching with tap water, I've always used the bum hose when in Thailand. I never even gave it a second thought, but I've read on a number of occasions that the water should be purified. But I've never had a problem. 

[floridarob]

10 minutes ago, a-447 said:

They are not designed to take a cock.

I, along with billions of bottoms beg to differ ... it's a perfect fit and God gave us the P spot for a reason 🙏

[a-447]

1 minute ago, floridarob said:

I, along with billions of bottoms beg to differ ... it's a perfect fit and God gave us the P spot for a reason 🙏

For me, it's a perfect fit - now.

But my point is, if the arse was meant to take a cock, it wouldn't be so painful - it would just slip right in.

For me, it didn't.

My first attempt was when I was a teenager. It was with a classmate. We both tried but gave up very quickly.

It was decades later when I tried again. It was with a massage guy in Pattaya, who worked at a place called Narcissus.

After what seemed an eternity, he got the head in. I've never felt such pain before, and it lasted a few days.

These days I look back and wonder why I didn't persist.