Skip to content
View in the app

A better way to browse. Learn more.

Gay Guides Forum

A full-screen app on your home screen with push notifications, badges and more.

To install this app on iOS and iPadOS
  1. Tap the Share icon in Safari
  2. Scroll the menu and tap Add to Home Screen.
  3. Tap Add in the top-right corner.
To install this app on Android
  1. Tap the 3-dot menu (⋮) in the top-right corner of the browser.
  2. Tap Add to Home screen or Install app.
  3. Confirm by tapping Install.

Gay Malaysia

This is the place to post information on places in Malaysia. There are many great destinations in Asia outside of gay Thailand. Share information and get advice on Malaysia here.

  1. Planning to go for a few months. How is it there? It could be good to find not just some dick but also nice ppl to talk to

  2. Started by emiel1981,

    I've posted short report about my 2 nights stay/stopover in Kuala Lumpur during my Asia holiday. Read it here:

  3. Looking into short side-trip next month when I booked to go to Bangkok. My holiday will be 3 weeks, starting and ending with about 5 days Bangkok. But for the week in between my Bangkok days I am looking to go somewhere else. Have been to KL, but long time ago. I like big cities, so for sure I will be fine there visiting some places again (sight-seeing during daytime). Was wondering does anybody have some up-to-date inside information? How to find (massage) guys? Grindr? Other specific apps or sites that work good in KL for hooking up? What are the (gay) places to go to, if any? Rates for mb's? Will all hotels accept guests from outside? I've read in other thr…

  4. Started by Olddaddy,

    Anyone been there ? Any gay reports ?😳

  5. Started by Shax,

    https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/se-asia/caught-with-their-pants-down-prosecutor-surgeon-among-201-detained-at-men-only-vice-raid-in-kl "Caught with their pants down: Prosecutor, surgeon among 201 detained at ‘men only’ vice raid in KL Updated Nov 29, 2025, 04:00 PM KUALA LUMPUR - A total of 201 men were detained during a joint enforcement operation at a wellness centre along Jalan Raja Laut in Kuala Lumpur after authorities suspected the premises was being used for illicit activities. ... DCP Azani said police are investigating the case under Section 387B of the Penal Code for offences related to unnatural sexual acts. Jawi also detained 80 …

  6. Started by London Bear,

    I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum. I have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur. I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal, I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective, but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I decided to use the days here to recuperate. Moving round the city I found the ethnic d…

  7. Started by London Bear,

    I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum. I have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur. I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal, I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective, but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I decided to use the days here to recuperate. Moving round the city I found the ethnic d…

  8. Started by Frenchfrank,

    I was en toute to Phnom Penh and stopped in KL to break the journey. All major 5 star hotels were fully booled with the ASEAN conference. I opted for a couple of nights at the KSL Esplanade hotel in Klang. About 45 mins fr KLIA. the onsen is not gay. But I reckon 80 % of patrons are gay, many bi/ married. lots of eye candy. Not a place for action but lots of opportunities to hook up if staying at the hotel. i had a lot of fun. Boring as hell aside from the onsen though. Good spa too.

  9. Started by a-447,

    I'm thinking of heading up to KL in the next week or two and was wondering if anyone could recommend some gay massage places that provide a happy ending /pick- bars,/ cruising spots, places to find money boys, etc. I'll probably be staying in Bukit Bintang. I'm intending to drop into my old haunt, Otot-otot sauna, if it's still open. Also, what apps are most active? Thanks!

  10. Started by Olddaddy,

    Now I need someone to do some research for me please ! Who has time on their hands to research for me for my one month trip in September?? I'm going in September on my 4 weeks holiday from Sydney First I never been to Malaysia KL Is 4 week too long ?? Are the prices comparable to Thailand? Prices of everything,compare Money boys, gay saunas I need you to make a plan for me !!! I will make requirements and what I want you do research later when i get more time But I will give you my requirements later about my daily plan and what I want you to research for me Thankyou !!!

  11. Started by Olddaddy,

    Looking to do a trip for 8 days in KL 8 days should be enough right to see everything? I want to see PETRONAS Towers , Chinatown,petaling street I will stay in a Airbnb ,what's the area where I'm close to everything What's the train station system like ? Gay bars ? saunas

  12. Started by Frenchfrank,

    I flew from London on MH, booking economy return. I managed to upgrade both legs on MH Upgrade for £800 each way - pretty good value. The nicer hotels in KL have spas (sauna, steam, jacuzzi etc) for guests, usually with outside memberships. Notable examples are Mandarin Oriental, Hilton/Meridien, Shangrila, Grand Hyatt and Sheraton. They can all be very active for hook ups. Weekends are especially fun as Malaysians like to do KL staycations and other Asians hop over for a cheap weekend. KL hotels are absurdly good value compared to other Asian cities. There's plenty of rent boys on Grindr. Always ask if they are MB (money boy). Some non pros will just …

  13. Started by a-447,

    This morning I woke up feeling the sudden urge for Asian cock so I went online a booked KL for a week. However, it is Ramadan, so I was wondering if otot-otot sauna would be open.

  14. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Reuters KUALA LUMPUR, Dec 16 (Reuters) - Malaysian Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim on Monday appointed Thailand's billionaire political heavyweight and former premier Thaksin Shinawatra as his personal adviser for when he becomes chair of Southeast Asia's regional bloc next year. Anwar said Thaksin's role during his leadership of the Association of Southeast Asian Nations will be in an informal capacity, alongside advisors from several of the bloc's 10 member states. Anwar made the announcement during a visit to Malaysia by Prime Minister Paetongtarn Shinawatra, Thaksin's youngest daughter and fourth member of their family to hold Thailand's top politica…

  15. Started by FunFifties,

    Having read a lot of interesting trip reports and learned a lot from these as well as from interesting questions and answers, I thought I might try my hand at a (not very detailed ‘cause its a year ago almost) trip report from Malaysia. I was there in November of 2023, entered the Country by train from Singapore, stayed one night in Johor Bahru, two nights in KL and four nights in Georgetown. From there I traveled overland to Chumphon, Thailand, and got on a boat to Koh Tao, but that’s a different story… Johor Baru was an interesting, but unnecessary stop. I booked a night there because I wasn't sure how regular I could expect the border trains fro…

  16. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From The Thaiger Thailand will launch a new train service linking Bang Sue in Bangkok to Penang, Malaysia, within the next two to three months. The initial phase will be a six-month trial period, marking a significant step in cross-border transportation. The announcement was made yesterday, August 20, by Ekarat Sriarayapong, head of the Governor’s Office of the State Railway of Thailand (SRT). Awirut Thongnet, Deputy Governor of the SRT, attended the 42nd KTMB – SRT Joint Conference in Kota Kinabalu, Sabah, Malaysia, from August 13 to 16 to discuss expanding railway cooperation between Thailand and Malaysia. The meeting approved the principle of operating a…

  17. Started by PeterRS,

    The desperate state of Chinese property developers was outlined in the following forum last month. Having taken over as China's No. 1 property developer company from massively indebted Evergrande, Country Garden has been warning of its own disastrous financial position. At the end of last month it issued a warning to the Hong Kong Stock Exchange that its first half year loss was close to US$6.72 billion. It has also defaulted on overseas loans and is likely to be booted off the HKSE. In Malaysia,some of its woes are there for all to see. Its massive residential development outside Johor Bharu and close to Singapore was launched under China's Belt and Road initi…

    • 0 replies
    • 876 views
  18. We all know that Malaysia is outwardly pretty homophobic. The country retains the old British colonial anti-sodomy law. Many religious and some political leaders profess to be very anti-gay. This even though many visitors find Kuala Lumpur quite a gay city, especially under the surface of that supposedly moral high ground. After the massive 1MDB corruption scandal which has seen the former Prime Minister jailed for 12 years and his shopaholic wife sentenced to 10 years, a scandal that lost the country US$4 billion, one might have thought the government would be happy to remain out of the headlines for a while. That scandal spread the globe and involved dirty deeds in…

    • 1 reply
    • 1.1k views
  19. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Thai PBS News Malaysia’s government halted a music festival in the capital Kuala Lumpur on Saturday, a day after the frontman of British pop rock band The 1975 kissed a male bandmate onstage and criticised the country’s anti-LGBT laws. “There will be no compromise against any party that challenges, disparages and violates Malaysian laws,” Communications Minister Fahmi Fadzil said in a Twitter post after meeting the organisers of the Good Vibes Festival, a three-day event set to run until Sunday. The 1975 have also been banned from performing in Malaysia, said a government committee that oversees filming and performances by foreigners. Hom…

  20. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Tourism Authority of Thailand Bangkok, 5 July 2023 – Bangkok has become the first international destination for Malaysia’s newest low-cost airline MYAirline, with the launch of a new daily direct flight from Kuala Lumpur to Suvarnabhumi Airport on 28 June 2023 and a second daily flight to Don Mueang International Airport on 1 July 2023. From 17 August 2023 a second daily flight will be added to both airports, bringing the total daily flights operated by MYAirline between Kuala Lumpur and Bangkok to four. The airline, established in January 2021, said it was the first Malaysian carrier to fly to both Bangkok airports, and that it planned to add flights …

  21. Guest reader

    From Thai Enquirer by Kevin Zhang and Napon Jatusripitak Since Malaysia implemented UNDI-18 last year which lowered the voting age from 21 to 18, it is apparent that young Malays are turning towards the conservative Perikatan Nasional (PN) coalition. PN comprised primarily of the Malaysian Islamic Party (PAS), which champion for Islam to play a greater role in society, and the Malaysian Indigenous United Party (Bersatu), which seeks to maintain, if not enhance, the existing race-based privileges for ethnic Malays. As Malaysian voters are segregated into various streams in polling booths based on their age, the broad voting patterns for youths can be observed. Ba…

  22. Just wondering is there any male nude yoga in Kuala Lumpur. Lol

    • 7 replies
    • 3.6k views
  23. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    Malaysia has joined other ASEAN countries in managing to extract victims of human traffickers from Cambodia. News reports in recent months from Thailand, Vietnam, Laos and other nations have described how Chinese gangs operating in Cambodia lured foreigners with the promise of high-paying jobs only to confiscate their passports and force them to work in casinos or boiler room scams aimed at defrauding their fellow countrymen. Those who refused to work were reportedly abused and their families forced to pay huge sums to gain their elease. From the Associated Press KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) — Malaysia’s foreign minister on Friday brought 24 Malaysians back from…

    • 0 replies
    • 1.3k views
  24. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Channel News Asia Malaysia on Wednesday (Sep 7) scrapped its mask mandate for indoor settings, with premise owners allowed to decide whether to impose their own face mask requirements. “Face masks indoors will be optional effective immediately,” said Health Minister Khairy Jamaluddin, adding that masks remain mandatory for COVID-19 cases, and in public transport and healthcare facilities. Healthcare facilities include hospitals, clinics and nursing homes while public transport covers e-hailing services, flights, taxis and trains. Masks are "highly encouraged" for crowded indoor settings, he added. High-risk individuals, those who are ill …

    • 0 replies
    • 838 views
  25. Guest reader

    From Thai PBS World Tourists entering Thailand from Malaysia are expected to outnumber Indian tourists after the scrapping of the “Thailand Pass” requirement from July 1st, said Tourism and Sports Minister Phiphat Ratchakitprakarn yesterday (Thursday). According to the Tourism Authority of Thailand, 123,606 Indian tourists arrived in the country in the first five months of this year, followed by 96,323 from Britain, 78,523 from Malaysia, 77,707 from Germany and 72,482 from the United States. Total arrivals in that period were 1,336,068. He admitted that he had hoped that the removal of “Thailand Pass” requirement would attract more tourists to Thailand, est…

    • 0 replies
    • 1.2k views

Account

Navigation

Search

Search

Configure browser push notifications

Chrome (Android)
  1. Tap the lock icon next to the address bar.
  2. Tap Permissions → Notifications.
  3. Adjust your preference.
Chrome (Desktop)
  1. Click the padlock icon in the address bar.
  2. Select Site settings.
  3. Find Notifications and adjust your preference.