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They were knackered because the were carb depleted not because they had low body fat. And because they were dehydrated.I was in Pattaya a couple of years ago coinciding with the above event then, several boys that worked in BBB were competing and as I know then just had to support, however the negative side is whilst those guys were in amazing condition for the show they were so starved of a little bit of body fat, that were just knackered all the time outwith the show!
Was still good fun, I am back next week so hopefully might meet a few pre the really intensive show prep!
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Well I Iv just read this thread in its entirety. Interesting thread if a little different than the norm. Good to see you back posting.
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Just curious why not show teeth. I would have thought a nice smile always enhances a photoChristian PFC thanks for asking.
That pic was taken at the viewpoint behind Doi Suthep.
It was a clear day and the view of Chiangmai was spectacular.
I learn some tricks on this trip regarding taking better selfie with a camera phone.
I had a small tripod stand and a bluetooth toggle (clicker) to take the pics.
I had place the tripod on the floor and tilted the camera at an angle to give myself a longer silhouette in the 2nd pic.
I had positioned myself at an angle to the camera to add depth to the pic.
Moreover I bought a fish lens so as to widen the scope of the pic.
The total cost is less than USD 10 and all are available in night markets in Thailand.
Always wear a shirt that is of the same colour as the background but a shade brighter.
You would have noticed I wore the same pants - grey cotton shorts to bring out the vibrancy of light blue and orange in the pics.
OK never wear black or blue unless you want to attempt to look slimmer.
Green and yellow looks horrible in pics.
Last but not least, the emotions of the face...
Do not show teeth nor look like you have had a bad day.
Use appropriate props to add a new dimensions to the pics - the bouquet of lotus flowers were bought at the foot of Doi Suthep.
Remember the background is more important than the people in it.
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Can’t make up my mind on the Raya or the Tarntawan.
Tarntawan has the added bonus of no joiner fee fir a third or even fourth guest.
Raya seems to be a more modern hotel less run down. Does the Raya charge a joiner fee for a third guest.
Which hotel is closer to the bars
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Thanks for info guys
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I’m looking forward to finding in April as I haven’t been before.
Where exactly is jomtien gay complex. Is it adjacent to the gay beach Dongtan beach. I have been to the beach 4 or 5 times during the day but never to the bar complex.
On the Maps Iv looked at it seems to be a little behind the beach. Could some one tell me where the entrance to the complex is I’d be much obliged thank you.
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Hey Bobby, as for hotels and gym, I now stay at the Raya (used to be regular at Tarntawan but have since changed to Raya) and find it very nice there with no problems taking guests back to the room and it's right next door to the boy bars as well as just down the road from the other bars. You may find the Raya is more inclined toward the Japanese but hey nothing is perfect and is still a fine hotel. For the gym, when in Bangkok I go to Clark Hatch fitness in Thaniya Plaza which is just a short walk from the Raya, straight up soi Thaniya and only 5 minutes walk. Clark Hatch may be a little more expensive than other gyms but being only 5 minute walk from hotel I have no complaints, not too sure if it's still available but the Tarntawan used to have discounts for Clark Hatch which chopped about 100 baht off each day if you bought the ticket at Tarntawan. P.S. Ladyboy lover here too but then I'm bi so it works in nicely with my fun times but my ultimate is 3somes with a girl and boy.
Tmax thank you for your input and I’ll definitely check out Clark Hatch appreciate the directions to gym aswell.
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Interesting inquiry for ladyboy acceptance in bangkok. Its not a topic often discussed here so it got me thinking of instances where i see ladyboy when ive been in bkk. First of all, there are a bunch of them all over thailand and it seems like they all fit in just fine, even in regular establishments like hotels as the receptionist, waiters at normal restaurant etc. So i dont think u need to worry about that. In many of the gay gogobars, most of the mamasan are in fact ladyboy or ladyboy to be, and they also have ladyboy and drag queen shows as part of the routine. So your friend who stays in sukhumvit might miss a really great shows if he dont join you in silom. Dreamboy and xboy shows features lady boy as their main events too. Nantra silom has a ladyboy who work as their receptionist.
Cant help you on the sauna seen in bangkok, but ive been to gay sauna at home and at other places, at there are ladyboys who work at those sauna too, though ive never seen a ladyboy as a customer and walk around naked in the sauna ive visited. I guess they would have stand out more than the rest for sure, but again, its my guess only, no real experience.
Thanks for your reply, I’m really curious on how she is perceived in the gay community per say both bythe gay thai community and indeed BMs on here in general. I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable in the gay bars clubs and Gogobars and I dont think she will in fairness. She will enjoy oogling all the hott boys just as much as I will.
I find it funny but Iv been a member of the Pattaya ladyboy forum for over four years and I have to laugh at most of the guys on there who are at pains to disassociate then selves from the gay community and are in denial about their sexuality to a certain extent.
I must thank a one of your members on here Vessey whose excellent trip report I thoroughly enjoyed on the ladyboy forum and opened up mind to a whole new delightful world. And here I am today on this forum looking forward to frequenting the gay bars and clubs of Bangkok and Pattaya in the near future. But I’m digressing and getting way off topic. This conversation is fior another thread me thinks.
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So there would be no problem Bringing back another boy or even two with me and my gf. Obviously we will be checking in as a couple but a lot of hotels charge a joiner fee fir a 3rd person or more. So with Tartawan there would be no additional joiner fee fir 3some or even 4 some.As regards hotels it’s always the Tarntawan for me. I know it’s more expensive and I know some people don’t like it, but it’s got all the advantages of being gay (well it used to be totally gay) and being in the right location.
Plus they have seen it all. You could bring back half of Soi Twilight and they wouldn’t bat an eyelid.
Thanks fir the info that may just be the clincher to book there
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As far as DJ Station goes, i'm sure your ladyboy friend will fit in just fine. I've seen quite a few ladyboys there everytime I went to DJ and they all seem to be enjoying themselves with their company.
Hope that helped. :-)
Cheers that’s good to hear.
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I like that you express concern about how your ladyboy friend will be treated in various places as indeed it may vary. Hope those familiar with saunas , DJ , Babylon etc will chip in.
As for boys attitude in may vary depending boy and on full scale , I met some who professed to love ladyboys but also those who took it as insult when I asked them if they like them.
So only advice for 3-some would be to have friend engaged in boy selection process and make sure boy knows who third partner will be. But to tell the truth it's advice which is applicable to all 3-some situations one partner select another one and you give a blessing and pay.
Yes I agree it was my gf who picked the boy fir 3some in November and it all went very well indeed
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Hello All,
Iv been a member for roughly two weeks and I have been browsing the forum regularly since. Its very informative and helpful so thanks to everyone whos a member and contributed.
Ill be in Thailand from 10 April till 25 April and Im planning ón spending some time in Silom in Bangkok and Boystown Sunne and Jomtein in Patts.
A little about my own background before I continue. I have been to Thailand many times, first my attraction was to the ggs (girls) then for last four and half years its been the ladyboys that have caught my attention. Now im expanding my sexual horizons/boundaries further afield again and Im experimenting with boys. I find it all very exciting actually and it is bringing a new freshness and buzz about my impedning trip
I do have a ladyboy girlfriend and we are planning ón some 3somes when we are there. Ón my last visit to Thailand in November we went to Boystown ón our very last night and we barfined (i think the word offed is used here which i had never heard off before) a boy for a shórt time and we had super fun I must say. So planning ón more of the same this trip.
Id like to ask the BMS here for some general advise if I may. Firstly my plan is to spend my first night in Sukkimvit with some mates (who are ladyboy lovers only so they have nó interest in going to gay bars with me) and the ón 11 and 12 Im going to stay in Silom for two nights. I have been looking at hotels that are néar to all the bars and clubs and I think I have narrowed it down to the Raya or the Tarntawan both from my research ón here are very centrally located and have got deent reviews from BMs. I was initially hoping to choose a hotel with a decent gym with freeweights but neither of the above have.
So my first question is which hotel would you guys choose or please feel free to recomend another hotel close to the action with a gym.
Secondly if I go with a hotel without a gym where is there a decent gym in Silom closeby where I could pay to fit in a couple of workouts while Im there.
Next Id like to get BMS opinions how how you think the boys are going to react to my ladyboy girlfriend and I in general in the bars gogos and clubs. I think we may have been very lucky in Boystown last trip in that the first boy we called to sit us was amenable to our request and was quite happy to have a 3some with a ladyboy. Im sure thats not the norm. Any advice or info ón this will be greatly received.
Regarding clubs súch as DJstation do you think it will be very unfomfortable for my ladyboy girlfriend. Will she be the only ladyboy there. Will she be accepted or will she be frowned apon.
Im also intrigued by the gay sauna scene. Like iv said its only the last 6 months really where i have been dabling in the gay scene per say so Id like to hear a little about how the likes of Babylon work and the cruising etc that goes ón. I would imagine that ladyboys are not welcome here so if that the case I was planning ón visiting babylon one afternnon ón my own and sussing it out. How múch is the entrance fee. Could someone kindly give mé an overview ón how it Works once your inside the sauna complex and how one goes about having sex there.
My initial plan was to go to lopburi (girlfriends home)from 13 to 15 April to celebrate Sonkran. I have a condo booked in Pattaya from 18 to 25 April. Last Two days in pattaya is enough for Sonkrans celebraion there. However after reading a wonderful trip report ón here from an Isreali BM about the the Gcircuits party last sonkran Im half considering going to the opening party instead and then going to lobpuri ón 14. But then I thought might not be a good idea to take a ladyboy to a Gcircuit party. I guess my question is would she be very out of place there or would she fit in ok with the crowd.
The 16 and 17 April I have left open and nothing booked yet Ill see how things play out and how múch we enjoy ourselfves in Silom.
Apologies for the long winded opening post I know its a big scatter gunned but hopefully some BMS will chip in with some advice and thoughts. I will also like some adivce about Sunne Plaza and Jomtein Complex but Ill leave that for a future post and concentrate ón Bangkok for now
Hopefully I might even get a chance to meet up with some BMS while Im there ill gladly buy you a beer.
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While it makes great sense to tip boy 100 or more instead of buying him another drink for which he may get 20-50 they may actually have a weekly / monthly quota of drinks they are supposed to extract from customers so we should keep this in mind.
Apologies fir my ignorance I assume When BMs on here refer to offing this means barfining yes ?
If boy is sitting with me I buy him 1 drink and just one but only if I invited him to sit beside , if he plants himself usually i decline unless he is attractive enough. Tip 100 unless I keep him beside for longer than 1/2 hr or length of show, That's for sitting . If some discreet survey of goodies is involved or God forbid public kissing , I add another 100-200.
If I will be offing him , no tip , just a drink. For semi-regular boys ie. offed already at least 2 times so bar had my of fees already , I have a tip but don't buy them a drink and tell them I'm not offing you tonight so they are free to pursue other options.
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Day 1.7: Soul, Korean
When finding guys to off (or even guys to date), I usually prefer picking the gay guys over the straight ones. I am at least guaranteed someone who enjoys having sex with a guy (if not with me), and can expect some semblance of genuine enjoyment in the act. I don’t have fantasies about purely straight boys having sex with me. My feeling is that I get off knowing that the person I’m having sex with at least can enjoy some aspects of that they are doing. I am of course under no illusion that they will enjoy having sex with me, only the assurance that they potentially can enjoy the encounter.
So when I first laid eyes on the Korean 4 weeks ago over Songkran, I immediately thought that this is a straight boy that won’t enjoy the sex with a man. He was gorgeous, and hot, and just so yummy, so any off situation with him would have to be mechanical and impersonal on his part. I play the expectations game every time there is buildup like this, with 4 weeks to think about it how things are going to pan out. Sometimes it helps, sometimes I psyche myself out.
So we leave samebb, my Ultimate Wingman™ for the night, and his muse for the night, the Lion, to their meal at Balcony, as the Korean and I make our way through Soi 4. It was 10:15 PM, and it was Soi Twilight’s and Soi 4’s version of rush hour. People are just making up their minds right about now on what kind of entertainment they sought for the night. We weave through the traffic, and the Korean was getting some looks from the men on the Soi. He was tall for a Thai at 6 feet, handsome and statuesque, as masculine as you can expect, wearing the tightest black shirt that complements his muscular physique, and owning the Soi.
He was the ultimate eye-candy for sure. He puts a hand on my shoulder as he follows me onto Silom. And for the first time in a long while I thought about what we looked like to other people while walking the street together. When I see an older farang with a younger attractive boy, I think more than likely that it was a union made possible by the mighty baht. Now I am thinking people are probably thinking the same about me. There was no shame attached to this of course, just my brain making sense of the situation. This is hardly an issue in Thailand, so I really shouldn’t worry about it.
As we walk I try to make conversation, with limited success. His English was not that good, and coupled with the busy and noisy streets, it was hard to maintain a conversation. I was able to ask him if he wanted to eat. He said no, and then lifted up his shirt to reveal his abs, and pulling on what he perceived to be loose skin formed on top of his upper abs. “Pum-pui (ปุ้มปุ้ย),” he says in Thai. I laugh out loud. “No pum-pui! Sexy boy na!” I protest. He laughs. I smile widely, half reacting to his reaction, and half thanking the gods that he lifted up his shirt.
We get to Crowne Plaza and I greeted again, by name, by half the staff. How many boys have these hotel employees seen me, with boy after boy after boy. We get through the two sets of elevators and get to my suite. The Korean settles in and asks “Shower?” I tell him no not yet. I wanted to sit down with me on the couch. He does what I say and sits with me. I tell him I wanted to talk to him for a little bit. He smiles and nods.
I ask him the usual questions. When did he start at Jupiter? “Songkran.” What did he do before this? He worked at shops but wasn’t earning enough money. Do you enjoy being a money boy? Sometimes, but he would rather not do it. Are you straight or gay. “I like both.” Really, I thought your only liked girls? “Can both.” Are you a top or bottom? “Only top. I fuck you.” Do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend? “No have. Before have. Now no.”
I ask him to take off his shirt. He does it in one flourish, and I got convinced, for the second time tonight, that offing him by himself was the better decision to make. He had a nice lean chest, pecs perky but not too big. His arms were muscular, made by hard work and not by the gym. And his abs were nothing like the fat he said earlier. He again takes pinches one ab to isolate loose skin. “Pum-pui!” he says, as if saying it again would convince me once and for all that he was fat. I put my hands over the abs, tentatively. I didn’t want to startle him. He takes my hand and guides it over his abs to give himself a rub. He wasn’t shy. I was just intimidated by perfection.
I move closer to explore him more. I was using two hands now to touch his torso. As I lean in for a closer reach, his face gets close to mine. He kisses my lips. I didn’t kiss back at first. I was surprised. He pulls back. I lean forward to find his lips again. We kiss, properly this time. That was nice. I guess the “straight” boy kisses. This was going to be good. I talk to him some more, as he gets more comfortable with me. He tells me about his t-shirt shop in Ladprao. His hours, the kinds of shirts he sells, the kind of customers he deals with, and the money he gets. He says it is not cheap to buy inventory to sell, so he uses Jupiter as a source for seed money. He hopes that one day his profits can turn into something more. A bigger business perhaps.
Now learning about this just gave me probably the biggest hardon I had all night. I found a money boy that had a keen business sense, a sense of what he needed to do in life to get ahead, and an eye towards the future. There were no tales of parents he had to support, or houses he needed to build. Just him trying to build a future. Jupiter was just part of it. He looked so animated telling me this as well. He uses his arms to emphasize his passion about his life. I was so ready.
At this point I think, do I really have to have sex with this guy? I can just talk to him. I look at him, and his torso, and the possibility of what was under his jeans. I snap out of my craziness and tell him “Shower now?” He nods, and then takes off his jeans and neatly folds them on the office desk. He parades in the room in his briefs, looking as fine as ever. He was looking for water. I escort him to the bathroom, where Crowne Plaza usually stores their water bottles. He thanks me for the water and takes a drink. He takes off his briefs to reveal a semi-hard and long cock, and perfect ass. He steps into the shower.
I wait for him in the living room. He emerges from the bathroom with a towel wrapped around his waist. I shower too, and clean my ass more thoroughly than usual. I was not a bottom, but since The Korean was a top, I at least wanted to be prepared in case something happened in that department. I emerged in a towel as well, and I find him in bed, under the covers. I join him under the covers. He was naked thank goodness. Sometimes I find boys still wearing towels in bed. He was considerate enough to take it off for me.
I lay beside him and we start kissing. It was so hot just being so close to this boy. I lick his neck and then his chest and nipples. I savor his abs with my tongue. I dive down further, and see his semi-erect long cock. A few more flicks of my tongue and it was hard. The Jupiter captain was right. His cock was a long one. I try my best to put it in my mouth. I can still smell some residual perfume on his body. While I blow him I look up and see him, his eyes closed, probably dreaming of something else. I go back up to him and kiss him.
After a while of just doing this, he guides my body to the bed and lays me down. It was his turn to work. He starts by kissing, and giving my neck and chest little kisses. He sucks my nipples, and after a few encouraging groans coming out of me, he gives my nipples stronger bites. I was going wild. He goes to my crotch and sucks me for a little bit. I didn’t think he would do it, but there he was. I feel that it was almost a crime to let someone this beautiful suck my cock. But it was nice.
We do this back and forth for a while and he asks if I wanted to be fucked. I look at his long cock and tell him “Big na. Cannot,” smiling as a turn down what I would assume would be a good fuck from him. He understands, so he lies down beside me. He puts an arm under my neck and we kiss while we chuck wow. His moans were giving me the encouragement I needed. He tells me he is close, so I put my head to his cock and catch the fruits of his labor.
It was my turn, so I try to do my thing. Korean was very encouraging and gave me little kisses and bites and moans. He takes over and chuck wows me while kissing me. It didn’t take me long after that. We kiss for a little bit while cum was still on my tummy and chest. After some more talking we clean up together.
In the shower we talk about more things. He said that after the Songkran season with many customers, he returned to Chiang Mai to visit, and went back to Bangkok after that. He said tonight was his first night back in a long while, and he won’t be back to Jupiter tomorrow night. He said he’d be back a few times this week, but he wasn’t sure. He’s still trying to save enough money to continue getting inventory.
We step out of the shower and put on clothes. Korean said that he was going to go back to Jupiter to get his things, and maybe to score some drink tips, before he had to leave. I told that since I had to pick up MonBoy, I will be going with him to Jupiter. I Line MonBoy to tell him that we were heading back to Jupiter. I didn’t expect a reply back because he might be in a show number. Before leaving the room, I give Korean a big hug and thanked him for the good time. He kissed me lightly on the cheek. I give him 2200 baht for his short time work. It was worth every baht.
As we make our way back to Soi 4, Korean kept talking to me, and we were having a much more pleasant conversation now than earlier when we were walking to the hotel. He was explaining to me the different regions of Thailand, as well as regional accents and words that are unique to each region. He gives me some examples of a word that was different in Bangkok, Isaan and Chiang Mai. He also tried to tell me how the different accents sounded like. It was a good lesson in the regionality of Thailand. It was quite an unexpected subject matter from a money boy.
But then again, a lot about Korean was unexpected. I had an idea of what he was like going into this off: masculine, standoffish, and possibly a dud in bed. I am always glad to be proven wrong. And the way he talked about his dreams, his jobs, and his country were all bonuses for me, and probably worth more than the satisfying sex we had. I like it when offs turn out this way. I paid for the body of the Korean, but the soul of the Korean is probably what will stay in my mind, long after other the memories of this night fade away in my head.
The night is not nearly done though. Much much more Jupiter hijinks, next.
Enjoying this report.
Mon boy was give you a sniff kiss Hom in thai and is a display of affection Thais etc will often use.
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What a great Trip Reort thanks for sharing. I only joined this forum yesterday. I have been attracted to ladyboys for a number of years but have been expanding my sexual horizons lately and been experimenting with boys. I could not have picked a better TR to begin my exploration of this forum.
Tawan - Bodybuilding season
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I compete in competitions in the UK. Here most completions are in April and then again in October or early November Not sure if same applies in Thailand or not but i would imagine it’s similar around the world.