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On 12/24/2023 at 7:50 PM, scott456 said:
You are obviously a newbie, or perhaps you haven't tried to spend time reading the posts here and just wait for people to feed you info. There is at least one other popular GP website (hint: something local.com)
Actually, I have gone through all of the posts, and can’t find anything here with that information, which is why I asked.
I seem to recall that a long time ago a previous version of this site had a pinned message that outlined all the basics. I completely respect that this is run by volunteers, but perhaps dumb questions like mine (lol) could be minimized if there was a basic “how to” post pinned at the top of each subject.
Just my two bits. 😊
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1 hour ago, sydneyboy1 said:
Read the reviews on TripAdvisor. The place sounds bizarre to say the least.
But I think only three reviews in several years, and it looks like two of those are probably from the same ticked off guy. So not sure how reliable a barometer that is.
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Apart from https://www.olimposbr.com are there any good sites for Brazilian GPs?
Given the number of working guys (or more broadly guys who will work,) I’m always surprised by how few advertise online in Brazil. I’m pretty sure there are more Brazilians listed on Hunqz / RM in London UK then I can find listed on sites in Brazil! What’s up with that??
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17 minutes ago, 12is12 said:
Wow! How come no one noticed before?
Hotel and sex sauna combined! Only question remains: any GPs?
No english version = foreigners less welcome.....
I’m thinking of renting a suite there to host a couple of group sessions. My plan is to bring in some GPs, and see if any of the regular clients want to join in. Will report back.
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Anyone have experience with this place? https://www.hotelchilli.com.br
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On 12/20/2023 at 2:56 AM, scott456 said:
A party of this sort (with GPs+customers) would inevitably create competition and jealousy. I am not sure if this is "the more the merrier ". Plus, are you alone going to pay for the GPs basic expenses(uber/taxi), alcohol, food and room charge?
18 hours ago, macdaddi said:@TomSmithTop Brush up on your dance moves and learn the difference between salsa caleña and other forms. They take it very seriously.
There are free salsa classes in Parque del perro nightly during the festival starting around 6pm-ish (hora colombiana) the crowd will build during the evening. Its a very social atmosphere and you will get to meet locals and tourists.
The gay spots are almost all in barrio Grenada. Things start late in Cali with most clubs filling up after midnight. The party spills out into the street, so just walking around the barrio will give you plenty of eye candy and cruising -- which seems to be a favourite pastime in Cali. If you are really adventurous and love the club scene, the party moves to discotecas in barrio Manga or Carrera 66 after 2am when the Granada bars close.
As mentioned above, the saunas in centro will be busy as next week is largely a holiday for most working Colombians. Sauna Phisicus, Metropolis and Club Cali will be very busy -- go early to avoid a line up.
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Does anyone have experience with this “cruising bar?” @parada21bar on @X.
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10 hours ago, MusclebttmHTX said:
I would love join, but the dates for Brazil don’t work for me. I will doing a three country for the entire month of February. @TomSmithTop let me about future plans.
Will do.
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10 hours ago, 12is12 said:
WOW Tom, I salute ur expertise!
Side question: how could "client exploitation" b a prblm for escorts? I would have thought that in any dispute, the young and strong have an edge.....
Well I'm thinking a client who refuses to pay, or who is maybe too aggressive (think big client vs small twink GP,) or slips them too much G, or is just generally a jerk, etc.. I think there's a wide range of what bad clients can do.
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Thanks for the responses, gents!
I have a fair bit of experience organizing parties with 3 or 4 GPs in Europe, the US, and Colombia, at my hotel or Air BnB. Usually going about 3 hours, sometimes longer. Generally they have been super hot, sometimes just off the charts spectacular. Occasionally a guy will be a dud and just isn't into it, or doesn't have chemistry with the other guys, in which case I diplomatically send that boy home after the first hour. In such cases I will usually have fun with the other guys deciding which new GP to invite to sub-in (so to speak.) My goal is usually to mix things up in terms of roles and body types.
The problems I have had are not related to jealousy or anything like that, but more generally if a guy shows up who has already been partying and is strung out - although that has been infrequent. And usually I find that the boys police themselves. If one of them is acting strange (e.g. is strung out) the other guys will tell him to leave, etc, and are very protective of me as their client. As far as I can recall, the guys have all gotten along. In fact I hosted a party with three scorts in Phoenix this year and found out that two of the guys who met at my party hooked up as partners, and started travelling / living together, LOL! (Never expected to be a matchmaker!)
I think the key to my successful experience as a party host has been:
1) to focus on guys with profiles with obvious tells like "long sessions," "threesomes and groups," "parties / gusto fiestas / fiestero" etc;
2) to avoid guys who I think are probably straight / gay for pay;3) to be upfront with the guys on what I'm planning and looking for.
4) just to be generous / friendly / reliable as a client.
In my experience, the kind of group sessions I put together are their ideal work session. They get multiple hours in, they have other hot young guys to play with, and they probably feel safer from potential client exploitation if they have friends / peers involved.
My proposal above was to see if anyone else out there wanted to join forces in a session like this, with say me sponsoring the sort of party I normally would do solo, and another client / other clients joining in and sponsoring more lads. Let's call it a GP pot luck! it could get complicated, but if everyone is chill and has fun it could be amazing.
I'm not sure why this would be more difficult in Brazil than it has been for me in other countries (although I'm a little more concerned about the security aspect.) Obviously moving this many guys in and out of a hotel is a non starter, and very difficult at most Air BnBs (that can be strict about admissions.) So I was thinking of experimenting with this by renting a suite at the Hotel Chili in SP for a few hours, and welcoming the guys there (where they would have to give their ID on the way in, etc.)
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see reply below
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On 8/21/2022 at 2:39 PM, Latbear4blk said:
I am starting to have doubts about going again to Medellin in November. I am getting tempted by Rio in one hand, and by Cali in the other. Surprisingly, flying to Cali is cheaper than flying to Medellin.
My question for the connoisseurs of Colombia, specifically Cali, is: in what neighborhood should I look for my airbnb?
I'm thinking of visiting Cali for the big Salsa festival between Christmas and New Year.
Any tips / advice?
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On 9/6/2023 at 11:39 PM, TomSmithTop said:
Inspired by a post by Dan below, I'm wondering if anyone is planning a trip, say this fall, and is interested in coordinating dates / accommodations, etc?
I'm a pretty independent traveller, but it might be fun to coordinate a visit, e.g. to rent a big place and host some banger parties with local guys. Could save money with shared accommodation, have greater security, and have a bigger choice of local talent by organizing some group fun.
I'm pretty flexible on dates.I may visit Cali for the Sasla Festival between Christmas and New Year.
Any advice / tips?
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On 10/3/2023 at 1:32 AM, Lucasgi said:
Hi all, I will be visiting Colombia for the first time December. Being my first visit I would like to hire various guides to show me round the cities. I will be visiting Bogota, Santa Marta, Cartagena, Medellin and Cali. I know for Bogota a few members have recommend Felipe and will probably give him a go. However does anyone know or recommend guides in the other cities.
Like others here, I can highly recommend Felipe. Super nice guy who tries very hard to offer a professional wide-ranging guide service, tailored to gay visitors to Bogota. He also has reliable contacts in the other cities, Felipe's WhatsApp is 57 304 1352430
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I had huge fun with Grindr recently in New York.
I like to set up threesomes / parties with escorts, usually to have at least one hung top join me in tag teaming a hot twink / twunk.
The other night I brought over to my hotel a jacked, hung Venezuelan top whose profile I saw on RM. But the twinks I invited to join us kept flaking out and ghosting me (you know how unreliable they can be, lol.) It was getting late, and a lot of the RM bottoms I was reaching were living half an hour away from midtown Manhattan, so they didn't work logistically. So my Venezuelan friend and I turned to Grindr to find some much needed relief.
Around 4am we spotted two hot twinks, one a hot Colombian lad and another a spectucular 19 year old Brazilian twink, who is studying in NYC. We invited them over, letting them know what they scene was, and they both eagerly came right away from nearby. A wicked hot foursome ensued for a couple of hours. The Colombian was a little disengaged, but his sweet smooth ass compensated for that. The Brazilian twink was just insatiable. Legitimately loved being dominated by daddy (me). Best kisser I've ever been with. And surprisingly him seemed much more interested in me than the hot Venezuelan scort, which was a big ego boost to say the least!
In the past I have always gone through escorts rather than Grindr because I imagined Grindr was a nasty judgemental world where young guys wouldn't give any thought to hooking up with a 50 something daddy. But boy did this experience prove me wrong, although I suspect the pics of my Venezuelan stud's huge dick and hot body was the magnet that brought them over to start with.
Neither of the twinks asked for or expected any payment, just a good time.
Anyway, it turned out to be legit one of the hottest nights I've ever had! Will definitely be trying this tactic in the future, i.e. pairing up with a hot score to attract younger guys on Grindr looking for a daddy experience. -
Anyone planning on visiting Brazil over the next month (roughly Dec 26 - Jan 12) who would be interested in collaborating on private parties?
I plan on hosting a couple in both SP and Rio. Looking to bring in a variety of quality talent (from twinks to hung tops) for long, hot sessions. On the principle of 'the more the merrier,' I'm open to ideas to cooperate with other visitors 😜
Also, any tips on good local fixers to help with getting the right guys, translation, and ensuring security?- floridarob and MusclebttmHTX
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Anyone have any experience with these lad?
https://co.mileroticos.com/escorts-gay/pareja-trios-lecheros-fisting-sadomasoquismo-pies-masajes-apartamento-domicilio/24161143/
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Inspired by a post by Dan below, I'm wondering if anyone is planning a trip, say this fall, and is interested in coordinating dates / accommodations, etc?
I'm a pretty independent traveller, but it might be fun to coordinate a visit, e.g. to rent a big place and host some banger parties with local guys. Could save money with shared accommodation, have greater security, and have a bigger choice of local talent by organizing some group fun.
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On 4/13/2023 at 12:50 AM, dan said:
I been coming to Medellin for the last 7 years and found a way to enjoy guys down here in a rathe different way.
I love webcam boys they are sexually fluid, but they are also very heterosexual, but when you spend the money and time they are willing to please you and I feel I have had some of the hottest experiences down in Medellin with them.
Sometimes I have to spend a little more money than if I was hooking up with regular boys in in dating apps.
Usually I rent out a nice motel with jacuzzi and throw a party with 3 or 4 boys, usually in the webcam business and have so much fun and as the night goes they open up and get wild. I have always wanted to share that experience with other expats but don't know many other gay expats down in Medellin. I feel like it's safe for me since I took the time to know the crowd but now I know quite a bit of hot boys that love to party and the experience is pretty amazing.
Has anyone here done something similar?
Many men come down here and hang out with 5 or 6 girls in a penthouse and have the time of their lives so can't I do the same with some hot boys?
Sign me up. Would be totally open to coordinating a trip with one or more expats to put together some parties with the local lads. I'm pretty flexible on when I can travel down. Would love to go with someone or guys experienced in the Colombian scene. Let me know if anyone is interested.
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That IG handle for Philippe doesn't seem to be current.
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On 6/1/2023 at 7:53 PM, Kvaughn said:
I will be visiting Bogota 14 June and im trying to figure out where are the best spots to meet rent boys. I know its not like Brazil were you have saunas dedicated for rent boys.
Please let me know any and all recommendations. Also, any sites that list escorts or personal contacts you can provide. I would love to find a english speaking guide.
How did your trip go?
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Thanks! 😊