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Name Three Gay Men in History You'd Like To Invite For Dinner
vinapu replied to PeterRS's topic in The Beer Bar
I'd opt for ichigo, reader and bkkmfj -
and sampling him already I will say 'rightly so"
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It was. I believe everybody visiting Pattaya w should try Boys Nighclub at least once
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not just you , rest assured
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while there's something in what you said above I'd say it's for boy to assess if such offer makes or doesn't make sense for him. 2500 a day for a week is 17500. I'm not sure how many guys pull that much ., specially now in the low season. Some do , plenty don't I'd venture, so given that option they may go for it with smile, specially considering that all other expenses , mainly food, will be paid as well. Truth is , only boy really knows his financial situation and ,so to speak, his price . On the same token only we know how much it makes sense for us to pay- one night it may be 10000 for dream boy we finally nailed, other night we may stand firm at , say 3000 for overnight knowing that if that boy doesn't accept there are two in our Line list who will.
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that I'd never suggest even to my worst enemy
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I was happy with Maii, Noom and Ball there and for next time I have my sights on Vee but I suspect one can't go wrong here. Of course Marc308 is right , tastes vary widely
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32 dead as result of border dispute which could be solved by tossing a coin. Must be some serious money involved in it somewhere.
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No , absolutely you were not cheapskate. While those days quite a few boys may ask 4000 or 5000 for overnight, certainly that should not be a case when boy is staying with you for several days for two reasons : a/ you are fully entitled to substantial volume discount as boy secures income for that same period b/if boy stay with you , not only you will pay off fee but for his meals and entertainment. You both go to the bar - you pay yours and his drink so 500 becomes 1000 etc. while 2500 / day may be on lower side is still very reasonable and I'd say 3000 is absolute maximum. fact that you paid him 5000 to avoid scene is OK but after that you made two serious mistakes - buying his meal and paying for his barber. Nothing wrong with that in general but not after you have feeling you already overpaid him for your overnight session. Good to hear you regained your sense and refused taxi money, I would be using plain language " I already gave you enough ( or plenty ) " - this is what I say when they ask for taxi money. That part of your report "He then wants to rest back my hotel because he was tired and upon arriving to my room, he flops on the couch fully dressed facing away from me and starts to watch tik tok videos on his phone and then falls asleep." should be warning signal for you. If you , God Almighty forbids , go with your plan , expect more of that day after day to a point that you will wonder who really is in charge of your space and time. It's different story to take boy for a trip when both of you are travelling which is different dynamics than host and overstaying welcome guest Do you really want to play host to somebody who treats you that way and gets paid for that ? four advices from me since you asked although I have my doubts you had me in mind when you said 'learned forum members" : A/ if sex is great engage him for overnights or short times as often as you wish, pay him and send him home after each session but forget about having him as permanent resident as fast it will become taking toll on you and your vacation time due to need to entertain him and bar with his antics B/ invite him ( or any other boy you meet) for a meal and pay for his taxi but ONLY if you feel like , not because he asks. Otherwise taxi money of 100 today will become 300 by next Wednesday etc. C/ do not be concerned about him losing face with his friends. You are on vacations , not on boys therapeutic session. It's for him to navigate that with his friends D/ you may want to read my last trip report as I put myself in the same situation for a week month ago. Difference was that my boy was well rehearsed before and did not put any direct financial requests. Still it was tiring to have somebody in the room constantly or asking him to leave when I wanted to have some time for myself (and perhaps other guest) . And of course all those expenses added up
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former Nice Boys bar which was in Sunee Plaza from time immemorial. Sleazy place in good sense of it
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not only age and health weights, sometimes simple changing priorities. I know somebody very well travelled for most of his life, now in his mid 70-ties. All of the sudden he stopped few years ago. We were concerned that it may be illness but were breve enough to ask him outright what's going on. And answer was both shocking and simple : ' nothing wrong with me but I noticed that long distance travel doesn't interest me w anymore". I can partially relate to that myself , for now only in flights part. For last few years I prefer taking few flights with more connection then sitting in the sliver tube for dozen hours or more, even if whole trip takes much longer , costs more and may require overnight stopover somewhere
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certainly you wanted to say "same day or day before "
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when I inherited some money after my parents died ( it wasn't a lot, relax ) I decided to renovate my bathroom and put new floor in the l kitchen. That way I avoided a dilemma Olddaddy is facing now and freed myself to waste whatever comes my way on Thai trips. As byproduct I have a nice feeling that I did not waste my old folk's inheritance but put it to good use., freeing my own money to be wasted disgracefully
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Name Three Gay Men in History You'd Like To Invite For Dinner
vinapu replied to PeterRS's topic in The Beer Bar
I'm surprised all there are still alive. Marvels of modern medicine , one thinks ! -
or rather Hun Sen who leaked their conversation to media ?
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main reason of the conflict is that Thai military wants to pose as defender of homeland thus creating excuse for another coup and current government's removal. Once this is achieved Thailand and Cambodia will return to their eternal friendship, all smiles. As The Economist recently observed Thailand remains only middle income country in the world where coups are staged regularly. I feel sorry for all Cambodian boys who must be feeling like carpet is removed from under their feet .
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I think there are reasons we are apprehensive . I cant speak for others but can say what keeps me from sharing specific information and recommendation about our boys. a/ people are asking for information / recommendation but when it's given they disappear from forum and we don't even have a chance to see if it worked or no b/ even best friends may have different opinions about the same guys. This year only I recall 2 cases when I wholeheartedly recommended somebody to my forum friends and it did not really work for them as much as it did for me . And also reverse case when trusted source recommended somebody who worked only kind of so-so for me c/ at end of day we don't really know if negative opinion is result of really poor service or comes as form of getting back at boy who received unreasonable request from some disgruntled customers d/people we know as being nice based on our conversations, sharing meal and bar hoping may behave differently when door are closed and light dimmed. At least two boys over years told me they definitely did not like my friends I helped them to hook up with . And one I'm seeing regularly every time sternly reminds me not to share his contact nick and number with anybody