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not quite, I meant underwear content. As for personalities , even with boys I had few offs with I'd not be inclined to assess their personalities based on what at end of day is still commercial encounter based on selling illusion of boyfriend-hood. Guy smiling wide at us in the bar may not even glance at us passing by on the street and we are not any better
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Very good point and we need to remember we are dealing with people of different culture so sometimes we nee to be more sensitive than normal in order not to offend anybody. I was raised not to ask for help if I can do something by myself so among other things , when travelling I carry my own luggage. Few trips ago I was leaving hotel to fly to Luang Prabang and my night companion was leaving with me to catch his bus on Silom and offered to roll my suitcase to Sala Daeng BTS , whole 8 kg of her which I declined for the reason above. To my surprise guy seemed to be taken aback to a point of teary eyes. It turned out he thought I declined because I did not trust him, presumably that he will run with it and he just wanted to 'take care me". Surreal but true so I learned lesson . Now even when showering together I let guys to take soap from my hand and place it in the soap dish
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we know, you are not that skinny, LOL
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probably they employed logic that premium is charged for letting passengers to be longer on the bus
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no need for apology , nobody is forcing us/them to read and participate, specially that thread is titled "Moonlight" so easily avoidable for uninterested.. Fluke's shower show is VERY sexy, in my opinion much more than a bit wooden Nicky's one
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I had pleasure of meeting with three out of four named , they are all great , sweet and good looking guys but devoting two pages to discuss their minor, if any body improvements seems excessive to me. Fortunately none of them decided on corrections where it really counts
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deleted answered already by posters above
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I cried too but he somehow managed to calm me down in the room , LOL
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so we hope your procrastinating is over
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If you have guy long time he may expect another round in the morning but yes, he will be looking for an enhanced tip. Nothing odd with your question but there are likely as many variations as guys and members. Some guys may lose interest as soon as deed is done according to famous saying ' you cum , I go" , others may like to hang out as long as possible including sleeping for half day. Most guy have less comfortable digs than our hotel rooms without fan or A/C so may use some comfort like in case described by Christian above. Some customers may prefer to sleep alone , other's like me rather have company till morning and even longer. Guy may have other daytime chores, client may have some sightseeing to do . Generally speaking better chemistry , better chances for longer encounter if that's important. Baht power speaks too so if extension is not volunteered perhaps it may be purchased - I did it few times but always when tip was paid and guy ready to go. " do you want to stay till 10 , I give you 1000 ? ". I like that undressing again part ! on another hand occasionally you may encounter greedy type who after collected his tip will even refuse extra good bye hug or kiss if you don't tip a bit more
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fuck, yesssssssssssssss !!!
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this is often a case with Thai boys , somehow pictures are not doing justice for them and most definitely it's a case with Nicky above
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smart you but I agree , Nicky is a great guy and pleasure to be with , not for newbies though perhaps as you noticed
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Traveling to hotel from bar (Pattaya) - Newbie question
vinapu replied to jar1999's topic in Gay Thailand
that's very good advice from an expert and worth memorizing. They may have other limits they may wish to voice out but time limitation should not be among them unless we ask first. -
I can confirm that as well, it looks that he is one of those guys who are looking better in flesh than pictures and this happens surprisingly often with Thai guys, it must be something in the water
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that is also exactly my way of thinking . I don't go there to sleep and even less to sleep alone. Speaking of Vietnamese guys I don't find them different that other guys and never felt manipulated by them and one tattooed hunk from MyHero is my best memory from Hero in both old and new incarnation
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Merry Christmas to everybody !
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no , in either case tip should be given when meeting is over. Tipping before may have unintended consequences like guy rushing things up and slacking in service agreed. But , and it's just me , when I'm with boy I offed before few times and as happy with him every time I may pay him right away but this is solution only when 100% of trust exists
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I don't drink wine , I drink vinapu cocktail - 50% of gin and 50 % of gin but Merry Christmas to you too. Broad sweep by nationality is not my idea and it doesn't matter if it's logical because of course it's not. If somebody doesn't want to deal with particular nationality in course of paid sex encounters it's his right , nonsense or not. There are people who will not deal with Vietnamese and are those who will deal only with them , even in BKK. The same with hair chest , mustache, dyed hair, you name it. Logic has nothing to do with that but lust or lack of it, may.
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you too harsh, when we off guys we can use some limiting factors to lubricate decision making process. Nationality as as good as any other like hair color, type of underwear, size of bulge, smile, you name it. We even have poster who decided and announced that Moonlight guys are not his type before he even went there. His name is paborn if you want to confirm with him
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I almost exclusively do long times since morning gymnastics are one of those small pleasures of life and it's only way to have somebody handy. Long time is also cost effective as guy-hour is my cheaper that 1 hr short time for say, 1000. While Hanks advice about hiring for long time somebody already known is very sensible I'd not hesitate to off new guy as long as one have sense of some chemistry. I did it many times and it usually worked with less than one per trip exception Never had anything missing nor detected unusual activities other than waking up in middle of the night to drink something from bar- I usually tell guys what is mine and what better not too touch because of expense and they seem to understand. It makes sense to secure valuables in the safe but I'd not be paranoid about that if you realize that you left something in the open. Some are cuddly , others more business oriented so to speak but usually when they agree for long time they stick to their side of bargain. I always set time frame - till breakfast , whatever time it means. Some are trying to leave as early as possible, other will stay as long as you decide to invite them to leave, after all they have life outside of work like all of us but usually when I tell them that time is important for me they will oblige. It may sound strange but I noticed they if I show them in the evening " this is your tip" ( I do it only with guys previously offed) they tend to stay longer and I'd think out of greed they be trying to escape my embraces ASAP to start spending but no, decency prevails and they try not to rush sometimes even asking in the morning ' this is for me?". As for dining, I have iron habit to ask all my long timers if they are hungry when we walk to the hotel and if they are I offer them dinner in place OF THEIR CHOICE ( some may not be inclined to be seen with farang in classier place , other may like it to show off where they frequent , not to mention food choice) If I'm hungry I eat with them , if not I just snack on something so thay don't feel rushed. Again , quite often they decline, usually because they are more disciplined than us and if they had dinner already don't see need for another one. On another hand if they chose place or dish too expensive I may intervene unless I'm curious about experience. Often they are very happy with familiar street food for 60 baht. In the room I like to shower together but don't force an issue if (rarely) they prefer to do it separately. I hide TV remote At breakfast I invite them to go together unless I'm not happy with their performance or dumping me too early and usually they are happy to start their day with hearty meal and I'm happy to pay for it. But at breakfast choice of venue is mine, not theirs. What I don't do and don't like is them asking for taxi money, if they do I bluntly tell them that they got your tip already and it they are in need to small money I gladly offer to change one of their 1000 notes into 10 100 baht ones. In short, if you inclined for long time, just do it and don't think too much as boys say