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I hate it when customers monopolise all the guys! This used to happen quite often in Eros in Sunee - my favourite bar in Pattaya. I'd walk in, looking forward to a night of cock, only to find most the guys were sitting with a farang who had opened a bottle of whisky. Other customers just sat there, staring at the ceiling. Before too long, the boys were falling down drunk and would end up sleeping on the couches. The trick was to get there early enough before the farang arrived.

Come on, Olddaddy. You can't even get a simple hand job for that in Australia.

Speaking from fairly extensive experience, I think the Vietnamese guys all behave in the same way. They tend to hang out together - no surprise there - and discuss the ins and outs (!) of their job amongst themselves. It seems they have decided that their modus operandi is to do as little as possible for as much money that can squeeze out of us silly old farang. There was a very attractive guy working at Goodboys. He had a swimmer's body and killer smile, which he flashed all night. I was thinking of taking him but decided against it when the mama-san told me he was Vietnamese. A forum member did, in fact, off him, and had a very unsatisfactory experience. Having been burnt many times over the years, I steer well clear of Vietnamese guys, no matter how attractive they are in the bar.

I took the same flight to Luang Prabang. Had I known it was a propeller - driven aircraft, I would not have taken it. I remember looking out the window and seeing the propeller right next to me. It was very scary!

No doubt that in Thailand, the more money you are willing to spend in the bars, the more fun you have. So I don't hold back and end up having the time of my life. It's the kind of fun which is not available to me in Australia so I don't care too much about what I spend. YOLO!

I've had occasion in the past to go back to the bar and complain about an off. Once I took a guy from the old Screwboys back in the soi Twilight days. He just hopped into bed and decided he'd go to sleep! When I asked him to do what's he's getting paid for, he got aggressive. If I recall correctly, I have him a small amount of money and sent him on his way. I went back to the bar and told them exactly what had happened. They immediately refunded me the off fee and said they would get rid of him, which they did. I never saw him again. So although you won't get your money back, the bar needs to know about the behaviour of their guys. Who knows? You may not be the first to complain about him.

Far from keeping you forever young, it sounds like a recipe for an early drop off the perch. Oh, and you misspelt 'Days'. I think you meant 'daze'.

I'm in the same boat. I find Indian guys incredibly sexy and there are some really handsome ones,too. I've watched a lot of youtube videos of people travelling around India to get an idea of what to expect. And I'm not particularly impressed. The 2 most common complaints refer to the constant honking of horns, and the stink when you get away from the tourist sites and wander around the streets. The sheer amount of garbage everywhere is unbelievable, And I'm sorry but from my experience with running into Indians in my travels, they also stink - not just because they don't wear deoderant or don't shower, but also because they don't wash their clothes frequently enough. I think it's definitely a cultural thing. There are tens of thousands of Indians working in Japan - mainly in the service industry- ,where personal hygiene is held in the highest regard. The slightest whiff of BO would mean instant dismissal.

I thought Mpox had disappeared. But Western Australia (population 3 million) has recorded 22 cases so far this year, as opposed to 2 in Thailand (population 71.6 million) I'm OK because I only have 2 regular sex partners and I never visit gay establishments here. But still, it's a real concern. According to the Director-General of Thailand's Department of Disease Control, “Mpox cases continue to be detected, particularly among groups with risk behaviours. The best prevention is to avoid close skin-to-skin contact with people who have symptoms, and to avoid sexual contact with strangers or anyone with a rash or skin lesions that may suggest infection." Are visitors to Thailand still talking about it, or has everyone moved on?

My friends and I make a point of never mentioning the orange buffoon, as we are sick and tired of seeing his face every day in the media, and reading about another utterly stupid decision. But the bewilderment he causes us continues unabated. Why aren't his supporters (like buckanaway here) not incensed that he's using taxpayers' money to reward thugs who beat up and killed police officers? And don't they realise that 1.7 billion dollars would pay for a lot of their health care? Why don't they care that Trump is signalling to future insurrectionists that not only will he pardon them if they fight for him, he'll also take taxpayers' money and pay them? In what other democratic country would this happen? Buckanaway's silence speaks volumes.

I know it's there! It's just that as I have no interest in sex with women I can't understand why a guy would fuck another guy whilst looking at his feminine face. But as I said, to reach his own.

I've never been able to understand why a gay man would be attracted to a guy who looks and acts like a woman. Wouldn't you bypass the fem guy and go look for a girl instead? I have nothing against guys who like the feminine look - to each his own - but it remains a total mystery to me. I'm obviously missing something!

You're not wrong, Peter! The presenter is way too fem for me. As for the club itself, I'm now too old to even consider wandering around in my underwear - it would not be a pretty sight! Also, I stay clear of places frequented by young guys as I obviously wouldn't fit in. But in my younger days.........

The two Asian guys are so.....gay! Yuk! Give me a hot, masculine guy to fuck!

The parents aren't stupid. They would soon realise that the amount of money he sends home each month couldn't possibly be from the earnings of a lowly-paid construction worker. They would be well aware of the kind of business their kids are in when they go to work in Thailand and start sending cash home. They would be well aware that you guys didn't meet on a construction site. It's the old 'don't ask and don't tell'. A number of Thai guys over the years have told me that everyone knows that the best house in the village has been paid for by the old farang partner of a young local. But noone cares as long as the money and gifts keep rolling in. If you can afford it, go for it. Do whatever you want to be happy. YOLO.

Is there any nudity or sex shows like the now-closed Escape Bar?

The name suggests it is!

As Macaroni21 has pointed out - and accurately described in his blog - Japan has lots of host clubs aimed strictly at women. I taught English to a group of 6 women - one of them was the mother of a friend when I was at university in Tokyo, and she organised the classes. Unbeknownst to me, they all had something in common - they were married to rich husbands who spent a lot of time 'playing golf' in Taiwan. But it was the 19th hole they were interested in! To placate their wives and keep them occupied, they bought them bars which they could run as a kind of hobby. Two of the women opted for gay bars, and the other 4 ran host bars. After the lesson we would go out for dinner at some very expensive restaurants - all expenses paid! - and then end up at one of the bars. My favourite bar was a host bar in Roppongi. They woukd have theme nights where the guys - young and very cute /handsome - would dress in various costumes. One night the guys all wore Roman togas and I got an excellent view of their crotches when they sat down. I was born with the gift of the grab, and the temptation to reach over and feel the goods was overwhelming. I sat there with a hard -on all night! But these host bars were not about open sex - it was just teasing the women. It was a case of look but don't touch. The togas were deliberately short so as to expose the bulges. Other nights the guys were topless and wore short shorts. They were chosen for their beautiful bodies and impressive 6-packs. And their ability to flatter and treat the women the way their husbands never did. There was always lots of champagne, a bit of dirty talk and lots of laughter. The women had a great time. If only they knew that it was me who had the best time of all! 😂😂😂

Ah, such fond memories of the Oral Academy at the Action Bar! I read about it on one of the forums and immediately booked a flight to Budapest. Around midnight two naked hung hunks suddenly appeared - their cocks were available for the customers to wrap their lips around. Needless to say, I was an energetic participant! They wandered around the bar for about an hour and I made sure I didn't waste a minute. The also had a hot fuck show. The fuckee wasn't all that attractive, but the fucker was young and hung. He came on the guy's face, if I recall. The bar also had a two-way mirror in the dark room, looking straight onto the urinal trough. This allowed punters to size up the guys before later approaching them. I had so much fun there that I decided to make a return trip, only to find it had closed down!!

What has amazed me is the fact that the girls don't seem to mind if their guy is a male prostitute. Many wives /girlfriends would wait for their guys outside Krazy Dragon in Sunee every night. If I walked out alone they would often suggest I go with their partners! And some of the guys at the old Goodboys and Niceboys bars told me their girlfriends knew what they did. I have also met a few wives over the years and although I felt rather embarrassed (I'm fucking him and he's sucking my cock!!) they were nonchalant. I thought this attitude might be a Thai thing, but then I met the Danish girlfriend of a hugely hung Isaan guy who was the top in a fuck show. I asked her how she felt about his job and her answer was - 'It doesn't bother me. Besides, I get to enjoy that cock when he gets home'. We proceeded to have a very enjoyable conversation about his cock. She told me how difficult it was to give him blowjob, as she had trouble getting her lips around it. She laughed when I said I would be willing to give her a demonstration of how it's done! The younger brother of my long-term Pattaya friend worked in Eros with him, and their sister worked in a bar in Walking Street. I loved the fact that they didn't have any hang-ups regarding prostitution. They saw it as a legitimate way to make money. And why not?

I later realised that I should have written 'waa' instead of 'war', but it was too late to change. I was thinking in Japanese, not English, when I wrote that.

They shouldn't. It means 'kawaii' is being mispronounced. It's pronounced 'car-war-eeee', not 'kay-why'. I was in the Supreme Court today, where 2 young Chinese guys are on trial for murder. One is 24 and the other is 30, but they look a lot younger. OMG! They are super kawaii - I couldn't take my eyes off them! Butter wouldn't melt in their mouths. If found guilty they are facing 25 years in prison - such a shame for someone so young. If they were gay, they woukd have a great time, but unfortunately, they are straight so I hate to think what will be happening in the shower!

I think the whole cute 'kawaii' thing originated in Japan. Everything and every place in Japan seems to have its own character or mascot and there are speciality shops all over the place. There a Character Street inside Tokyo Station. And the emphasis is solely on cuteness. I think the attraction to miniature things comes from the small houses people live in.

This reminds me of the time, many years ago, when I had to stay in a hostel in Venice, as all the accommodation was booked out. In the morning I went to the common bathroom where there was a long line of sinks. I heard a bit of a commotion. I looked to my left and saw a guy who had flopped out a HUGE uncut cock, which he proceeded to wash in the sink. Having no shame, I immediately moved over to the sink next to him and enjoyed the view. I have a feeling he was just showing off. Unfortunately, I never saw him again. However, I saw hostels in a new light and when I went to Copenhagen I sought out a hostel not far from the station with a shared bathroom. Suffice to say, I had a wonderful time in the shower, watching as heaps of naked guys milled around, waiting for a shower to become available. Thanks to the guy washing his cock in Venice, I became a huge fan of hostels in Europe. As for mood killers, for me it's poor hygiene (uncommon in Asia) and mooks/cock beads and silicone. But as I grab guys from bars I can check those things beforehand.

Not 'wildcat'?