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I don't know of any because in Pattaya and Bangkok I've always had a small group of regular guys to have fun with. Had I been a butterfly and slept with hundreds of different guys, I might know a few. If something should happen to any of them, I'd be totally devastated. Thank God they hardly touch alcohol and don't do drugs.

Personal attacks only serve to demonstrate the sad life some people are leading. No fun, no joy. Just envy, nastiness and bitterness toward fellow posters. If I were someone reading this board for the first time, I'd run a mile. The board can do without these members. Over to you, TotallyOz.

A very wise decision indeed!

FYI - in case you weren't aware - in Chinese 1 denotes a top and 0 a bottom. You'll see 10 or 1/0 a lot on Chinese gay sites. See? I'm not just a pretty face. (Not even!) 🤣

Our resident Magats have gone quiet all of a sudden.

Happens in Bali, too. The young son of an acquaintance of mine drank a cocktail at the beach and is now blind. AFAIK nothing happened to the bar owner. So sad.

If he thinks the customer is 'revolting', why would he take him on in the first place? Oh, wait! It's his job!

He was actually expecting him to be "enthusiastic". Afterall, he is a paying customer. If the service provider doesn't know how to pretend, then he needs to find another job. 'I asked her if he was new, she said yes. I told her - no anger no accusation - it was not good; that the boy isn't into it; and that he doesn't want and cannot suck. She didn't seem surprised, and we said goodbye.' She wasn't surprised? Are you suggesting she knew all along that he wasn't up to the job? That she was lying to you? Surely not! 🤣🤣🤣

It seems strange that xboys would close down at the start of the high season. Where has Boyzboyzboyz moved to?

Me, too!!!!! Sometimes it's easier to just give up.

I consider the off-topic discussions that occur within threads as just us having a little chat while waiting for the OP to update his thread. We always seem to end up back on track.

Only because the look on a lot of guys' faces indicates clearly that they don't like it. And if they're not comfortable with it, nor am I and I feel sorry for them. And for those guys who don't seem to mind, then that's fine, too. I don't agree that 'the boys are literally there to be groped.' That happens in the room or in a hands-on bar like SuperA, not in one of the mainstream bars in Patpong. (Although I think it's ok if you sit in a dark area of the bar, not in front of everyone). So let's just agree to disagree.

Some more interesting information: 'soju is the world's best-selling and most popular spirit brand by volume, led heavily by the top brand Jinro.' Not being much of a drinker, I had no idea it was so popular.

I agree. Also, just about all the guys who work there are straight and probably won't go to any hotel, not just one next to the bar. Plus, they may not want their friends in the bar to see them working as a prostitute. It's not that kind of bar,

soju is written in the Chinese script as 燒酒, and the same Chinese characters are used to write the name of a Chinese liquor called shaojiu 燒酒, It's basically identical to the characters used to write shōchū 焼酎. So the roots are the same.

Sitting in front of the stage, watching her sexually abuse the 'grimacing' guys is an affront to me as a customer. Surely part of her job is to make sure the customers can enjoy the atmosphere in the bar and not be offended by her behaviour by her taking advantage of the power imbalance. Treating the guys as pieces of meat is simply unacceptable to me. If, like us, she can see that the guy is uncomfortable, she should cease. Let her concentrate of the guys who don't mind. It's not that difficult! When I'm in Freshboys I completely ignore her. If she approaches me, especially if I'm sitting with a guy, I signal to her to keep her distance.

Nor can I. 🤣🤣🤣

She's despicable. The way she takes advantage of the guys on stage, walking along groping them at will, seemingly without their consent, is disgusting. If you have a guy sitting with you, she'll often come over and put your hand down their underpants. Treating guys like that is contemptible and she deserves to be treated with similar contempt. A true 'gentleman' always seeks consent. It's called 'respect'.

I'm not a smoker at home, but I smoke when in Thailand, as I can socialise with guys outside while the show is on. As you said, inside the bar there is very little interaction. This is what I always do at Freshboys. Ad soon as the shoes beings, all the guys go outside to smoke and I just follow them out. Many come up to me and ask for a cigarette, and that gives me a chance to start chatting with them. The hot Vietnamese guy in the big cock show always steps outside while the ladyboys are singing. I gave him a cigarette and he immediately put my hand on his crotch for a quick grope. Then a very nice-looking Cambodian guy came over and put my hand down his underpants!! That earned him a nice tip. This happened every night on my last Bangkok trip. I also sit outside with the guys from Dreamboys during the show but I've never been offered a free grope in return! I still give them a cigarette , as I live in the hope!

That's a perfect description of her! 🤣🤣🤣

Are you confusing Soju with shochu? There is no drink called 'shoju' in Japan AFAIK. Soju is often mixed with sweet fruit juice, whereas shochu is mixed with chilled water in summer and hot water in winter. The fruit juice added to Soju disguises the taste and makes it very easy to drink. You are dead drunk before you know if.

Good luck with your quest to curb Cam's drinking. I once visited a small village where we collected herbs and vegetables for a cooking class in return for a large sack of rice. The village men were all sitting around drinking, even though it was before noon. The guide said that they had nothing to do between rice planting and harvesting so they just drank all day. High alcohol consumption was a normal part of life, she said. If Cam has been brought up in that type of environment, you might find yourself with a fight on your hands.

The gay scene largely died for foreigners when Aids struck. Luckily, I was a member of a couple of private sex clubs and so was unaffected. But I had trouble entering saunas and I didn't get as much attention in the cinema unless I moved to a darker area where it was difficult to see that I was a foreigner. (Where there's a will, there's a way!) And the groping on the train continued as normal. I never went to 24 Kaikan when I was living in Japan. I've been a few times over the past 10 years or so, and have had a lot of fun. Last visit, a young guy gave me a bj and then sat on my cock. Later in the evening a guy in his 30s gave me a bj and let me cum in his mouth. And there was plenty of action to watch. On the bed next to mine, less than a metre away from me, I watched a young foreigner fuck a Japanese guy doggy style with his very large appendage. Just watching him trying to get it in was hilarious. There were also lots of young Chinese guys going for it, but they didn't appreciate being watched. The Japanese were much more relaxed about it. I've always left there with a big smile on my face.

Japanese tourists can be rather naive when it comes to the world outside Japan. Bargaining is not a thing there, and so they tend to pay whatever they are told to. And if they figure they may have been ripped off, they are unlikely to complain.

I hope he's doing well. It's a shame he felt he had to leave the board, as his posts were so well-received and garnered thousands of views. The board has lost a new, interesting member after only a few weeks. I wish he would return to continue sharing his reports with everyone on his quest to find a place in Thailand where he could settle down. I live in hope.