Mood Killers (not a violent commentary)

[Mavica]

There's probably not one of us who doesn't have instinctive mood killers when we're hooking up / having sex / being intimate.  The article linked below references that, and within the article is a link to another social media discussion.  Do you have mood killers?

Gay guys asked their mood-killers – the responses are so valid

 

[vinapu]

I don't recall  cases of often mentioned bad breath/ bad hygiene or attempts at violence but my mood killers are:

- guy emerging from the toilet second after water was flashed so obviously no attempt was made to shower/ wash 

- answering phone and engaging in long conversation without any sign  of asking for permission

-playing / scrolling  on the phone 

- asking  "can I go now ?" well before agreed time - that results in permanent removal from the list of suitable companions

 

[Keithambrose]

1 minute ago, vinapu said:

I don't recall  cases of often mentioned bad breath/ bad hygiene or attempts at violence but my mood killers are:

- guy emerging from the toilet second after water was flashed so obviously no attempt was made to shower/ wash 

- answering phone and engaging in long conversation without any sign  of asking for permission

-playing / scrolling  on the phone 

- asking  "can I go now ?" well before agreed time - that results in permanent removal from the list of suitable companions

 

Arguing about fee.

[vinapu]

2 minutes ago, Keithambrose said:

Arguing about fee.

that would be but in my case I like  that part to be covered well before  hitting the door. If they raise issue after the session it more nuissance than mood killer

[jimmie50]

Mood killers for me are someone being aggressive or causing pain; someone wanting me to be aggressive or physically administer pain to them; someone who won't kiss or is a bad kisser.  

One of my favorite things to do is shower together before and after, so unless they refused that part of the fun not taking a shower wouldn't be an issue.  Since I often prefer overnights or long term, I make sure they know in advance I expect them to join me for breakfast before departing.  I cannot recall the phone ever being an issue, but I would not hesitate to ask them to put the phone away.  Not really a mood killer for me, though.  If they continued using the phone, I would invite them to leave and adjust compensation accordingly.