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My lips are sealed! But some have guessed who I'm talking about, I'm sure.

Mai was one of my favourites, too! Such a lovely guy. Such a beautiful cock!

Buddhism teaches respect for each other, and each culture has its own interpretation of how to display that respect. The first important part, as mentioned in the video, is determining your status position vis-a-vis the other person. I'm not sure how they do that in Thailand, but in Japan they use business cards which indicate your job - doctor,teacher, etc - or position in the company - CEO, boss, head of department. So you know immediately who is of the higher status. Bowing in Japan us a bit complicated, but nowhere near as complicated as the 'wai' it seems. The only time I can recall having 'wai-ed' to a Thai was years ago. I was in Siam Paragon when I noticed a commotion in a store. I managed to push my way to the front by joining the press corps. And there she was - a vision of beauty, charm and sophistication! As she walked towards me I 'wai-ed' and gave a Japanese bow - both at the same time! 😂 😂 😂 We were in a French fashion store, and presuming I was French (actually I'm half French) she greeted me with a 'Bonjour'. A short conversation followed, but I was so flustered I don't recall exactly what we talked about. Now, I knew she was a VIP, but wasn't sure who she was. I later showed my 'friend' her photo and that's when I realised who I had been speaking to. OMG! And I had been so presumptuous as to compliment her on her French!

AFAIK Natureboys, like Golden Cock, were not established to make money - they were just a hobby. I'm not sure of the connection between the 2 bars, but the American owner of GC would take guys from Natureboy and he and his wife would travel around Thailand. The guys were there to fuck his wife. She had a thing for Isaan cock. When in Bangkok I would spend every afternoon at GC and often return in the evening. The owner would sometimes drop in after dinner and we'd have a party. But no funny business. It was usually just us 3 farang and the guys, drinking and 'singing' karaoke. Maybe they also owned Natureboy, given the close connection between the 2 bars. Before heading off to GC in the evening I would always go to NB for an hour of hands-on fun. There were 2 guys I loved spending time with (not on the same night ) and both were friendly and spoke good English. And both were hung like donkeys! Yes, they were from Isaan! A real handful! These sessions were the highlight of my trip; I think I enjoyed the mutual fondling, along with a few beers and cigarettes, probably as much as the action in the room which sometimes followed. Full-on groping for an hour or so, without cumming - what's not to like about that! Edging at its best. The loin cloths made for quick access to the goods, and I always wore shorts with wide legs - I had them specially made - so the guys could slip their hands up easily. Although I was just about always the only customer, I kept them on. The last time I went to NB, there were 2 guys fully dressed. I sat with one and bought him a drink then waited for him to drop his jeans. But he didn't. So I got up and left. Still, I'll drop in to NB on my next Bangkok trip, whenever that is. (I've been travelling a lot this year and need to spend a bit of time at home.) But I don't have high expectations. Just for old time's sake.

I have lots of friends in Germany. In one family, the husband is Italian, but was brought up in France. The wife is German. Both speak German - although the husband insists on speaking French! - Spanish and English. The kids speak German to their mother and French to their dad. I also speak French and German but the family always wants to practise their English with me. (The bane of every English speaker who travels!) The kids often start a sentence in one language and finish it in another! When you learn multiple languages and gain proficiency in them , I think the brain just rewires itself, allowing you to switch seamlessly between them. Often you don't even know which language you are speaking! 😂😂😂 As for the richest people being Chinese, is that really a surprise? From personal - albeit, limited- experience, I haven't gained the impression that Thais are particularly ambitious. And the Chinese obsession with money is well-known.

When the AIDS crisis in America first hit the headlines in Japan, the gay establishments - sauna, bars, etc - immediately closed their doors to foreigners. I suddenly noticed that at the 2 sex cinemas I frequented - in Ueno (it's still there) and in a place called Kudanshita (now gone AFAIK), I went from being pounced upon, mauled and manhandled the minute I walked in, to getting no action whatsoever. Nothing! The general belief was that only foreigners got AIDS and that somehow, Japanese were immune. I even had people telling me that there were no cases of AIDS in Japan. (Then again, lots of people used to tell me that there were no gays in Japan, either!(😂😂) At the time, I was a member of 2 sex clubs - one in Ueno and the other in Koenji (just out of Shinjuku). These were a haven for me, as being a paid up member and a frequent attendee, all the guys knew me and the fun continued unabated. This narrow -mindedness and sheep-like behaviour is alive and well in Japan, even today.

I don't think drugs and old age go well together. My libido doesn't seem to have changed much from when I was a teenager. When I'm on a sex trip, it means 3 times a day -including a bottoming session - is par for the course. Back home, it's 3 or 4 times a week with my 'friends' - paid, of course. When my doctor prescribed Tamsulosin, a drug to treat an enlarged prostate, I found my libido suddenly dropped, to the point where I had little interest in sex. I was alarmed at first, but then actually came to appreciate the freedom I felt - free from being constantly horny, constantly wanting to have sex or to jerk off, spending a lot of time watching porn instead of doing other things,.....it as incredibly liberating. I'm now back to my usual horny self. So OD, be careful of what you wish for.

The top song in Sweden a while back was said to have been created with AI. I don't understand the lyrics, being in Swedish, but it's a beautiful song and the voice is fantastic. It's called. 'Jag vet, du är inte min' and is 'sung' by Jacub. Still, I much prefer songs created by humans.

As has been often stated here and elsewhere, it is very important to make your expectations very clear right at the start. I have very few demands of my long term guys - just that they suck without a condom and are up for sex any time I feel like it. Being versatile is a bonus, but not always possible. (The cock is also important - no mooks, no silicone, large size - but that comes before any negotiations). Although in my mind I imagine we'll be fucking all day long during my stay, in reality twice is enough if I'm topping. Maybe a third time if I bottom. My long termers have probably been relieved! A young guy can easily jack off twice a day - a morning and bed time wank is the norm - , so expecting that number of sessions in bed is not unreasonable. So any refusal to do so is not out or exhaustion, but out of choice. But it's important he is given that choice before you off him.

There would be a lot of sauce for the pancakes, although it wouldn't by to everyone's liking.

I've been addicted to sweet food all my life. I grew up eating really sugary desserts with very large servings. In Japan I learnt that desserts don't need so much sugar, and that smaller sizes are enough. With less sugar the dessert has more flavour. In Japan the higher the number of calories, the smaller the serve. Makes sense to me. I wish someone would open up a dessert cafe in Perth which sold products with less sugar and in smaller serves. I'd be there every day. When in Bangkok I always hang out at the Japanese dessert cafes downstairs in Siam Paragon, along the canal.

The wanking shows were never a regular feature of the bars. It was hit or miss whether or not you'd see one. At one stage, I think it was at Dreamboys or Boys Bangkok - I can't remember which - there was full-on rimming show! I saw it 3 nights in a row and then it disappeared.

That has not been my experience. I like the big cock show because being a size queen, I can see what I'm getting. Over the years, all the guys I've offed from the show have performed very well indeed in the room. Surprisingly, some of the cocks are smaller in the room. Mmmm....

If they are wandering amongst the customers 6 nights a week, quite a few I'd imagine. Offs are a different matter. But even if you didn't get many offs per month, you could still make a good living if you just took part in the big cock show. I also thought the guys in the wanking shows made a good living, too. The mama-san would place a cup on the stage and customers would put in 100 baht. A guy would then come out, sit on a chair and jack off, picking up the cup as he left. On a good night at Dreamboys when there were lots of customers, it would be like winning lotto every night! And you get to enjoy a wank! It would mean you'd miss out on an off, but it would be great for those guys who didn't like going back to a hotel with a stranger. Win, win!

AFAIK the gay scene in Prague is now dead. I first went there about 20 years ago and had a great time at Drakes, but Prague's gay life was on its last legs when I was last there back in around 2017. Drakes was virtually empty and Escape was basically all that was left. It was a lot of fun but it closed not long after I left. (Was it something I said? 😂) In any case, it was too expensive to survive. The Action Bar in Budapest was also a lot of fun, but that, too, closed in 2017. Thank God for Asia!

I made a suggestion to Neal when he ran Happy Place in Pattaya - one that he actually took up. I said some customers - size queens like myself - want to know which guys are well hung, so why not use their numbers to indicate who they are. The bigger the number, the bigger the cock. He implemented my idea the next night!

If I were a Thai guy with a big cock, and I knew how much these guys were earning for a 5 second feel, I'd be out the door of the convenience store and soon be waving it in the face of eager farang. Many of these guys can pick up a quick 1000 baht in a few minutes! That's the equivalent of somebody working for 30 hours in 7/11. WTF?? The guys in the fuck show probably earn even more. I came to the realisation of how ridiculous this earning capacity was when I was sitting in Boyz Boyz Boyz in Pattaya. Within less than a minute I'd handed over 800 baht for less than 1 minute of touching. I don't begrudge these guys earning such easy money. Good on them for taking full advantage of what nature gave them, and of horny farang like me.

Given the average convenience store worker gets 400 baht for a 8 hour day, that 100 baht commission could be considered exorbitant. (Are you sure it's not 10 baht?) Same goes for the 100 baht tip for guys who wander around the bar after 'performing' in the big cock show. Performance back in the room is a different matter, given the fact that they are involved in an activity they would probably describe as distasteful.

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Gays probably didn't go there for sex, but heterosexual guys certainly did! When 'Deep Throat' came out, there were lots of weekend tours to Hawaii to see it. Their weekend consisted of watching the movie, golf, watching the movie again, a visit to a brothel, watching the movie, golf and a final visit to the brothel. They came back in total awe of the size of Harry Reem's cock. Late night TV shows discussed it at great length (pun intended). I was a beneficiary of all the fuss, as being a foreigner, I was thought to be similarly endowed. And although not true, I happily played along!

I didn't know that those publications were stopped. I do remember seeing them on sale on Suriwongse. Luckily, they are still available online.

A mama-san who worked at Eros told me the police sometimes phone ahead to tell the bar they are on their way. That way they can carry out their duty - check for under-age, immigrants, etc - and give them time to escape yet ensure that the bar remains in business, thus allowing them to collect their tea money each month.

That was certainly true to a degree when I started visiting Sunee. It had a reputation, that's for sure, even though it wasn't in your face. I remember going to an upstairs bar and having peek inside. I immediately rushed back down the stairs, feeling physically ill at what I'd just witnessed. No doubt the police were getting a sizeable amount of tea money to let the business run. But Sunee was cleaned up fairly quickly.

With the tens of millions of gays in China, you would have thought gay business owners in Sunee would have advertised on Chinese social media. But TIT. If you don't tell them what 'services' are available, they won't come. It's probably too late now.

As the guys there were 110% straight - part of the attraction - I never dreamed of asking them to service me. Mind you, I don't think I'd whip it out in front of those guys. The size difference was too big,; it would be embarrassing! 😂😂😂