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'Yeah it just felt so mechanical lol like why are YOU moaning touching MY nipples.' They've been watching too much porn. I politely tell them to shut the fuck up. It's a total turnoff.

Fully retired - especially as a baby boomer- is even better!

Yes, but the objectives different. I'm trying to ascertain cock size, whereas they're trying to ascertain if I have enough money to compensate them well for their time.

Just ask the guy where he comes from; it's always my first question. If he is Thai and mentions a city you've never heard of, ask him if it's in Isaan. AFAIK there are no bars in Bkk or Pattaya specialising in these guys. However, Adams Apple in Chiang Mai specialises in guys from Shan State. They are referred to as Thai Yai. Of course, there are exceptions, but speaking from experience (as I only ever do), the overwhelming number of guys from these places have been very well hung. There must be something in the water up there!

Yes, crazy! But she knew exactly what she was doing. Money takes precedence over everything with her. I posted a warning about the 2 guys, but asked those who wanted to know their names to DM me. Imho Super A is not the kind of bar that would test their guys.

And Goodboys in Pattaya. Chet!!!!! Omg! And the twins. And the handsome guy with the gold chain. Plenty of huge cocks to be found attached to the Shan guys in Adams Apple, too! And from personal experience, guys from Isaan have a well-deserved reputation.

I presume you are talking about the long-haired ladyboy. From my experiences with her, she is pure evil. Once she has you in the bar, it's her job to keep you there, buying drinks. So she will sit with you and your guy and without his permission, put your hand down his underpants. Now I understand that guys working in Super A are aware that it's a hands-on type of bar and that they know they will probably be groped, but I still think that permission should be sought from the guy first. And on a couple of occasions, she tried to keep my change after paying the bill. She literally refused to give it to me! I only got it after I threatened never to return. Also, she knowingly employed 2 guys who were allegedly HIV+. It was common knowledge among the guys who worked in the soi. I knew the names of the guys and I guess I could have avoided them, but I decided not to go back until they had left the bar. As for Nature Boy, their 'dress code' has changed over the years. First, it was a tiny skirt, often to small to cover the guys' junk. Then they were told they had to wear underpants and now they are fully clothed-not unlike some gogo bars. But if you had a guy sit with you, I imagine his pants would be around his ankles in no time! Then again, it might now just be place where the guys get together to drink and socialise and not bother about customers - like the old Golden Cock. Unfortunately, I've missed my chance to go to Bangkok this year, but I'll go sometime next year. I'll definitely drop in to Nature Boy and see what's actually going on there. If Jey is still the manager, he'll be able to call in a couple of my favourite guys.

All the best, Jimmie. Take care.

And Vučić got the boot in Serbia! Has the worm finally turned?

If I recall correctly, the 'fuck shows' happened during the last show. The stage lighting was dark and the guys did the deed under a transparent sheet of some sort. I think it was simulated. I don't think they moved among the crowd looking for tips.

Ah, those were the days! My regular in Bangkok prides himself on his fucking skills. Unfortunately for me, most of those skills he learnt from watching the fucking shows in Soi Twilight. And he has learnt them well. His favourite position is where he fucks me doggy-style with me lying on my stomach. He then turns 180 degrees, fucking me while facing in the opposite direction. He then moves seamlessly through a whole series of those positions we've seen on stage, totally oblivious to the fact that I'm not an Olympic-class gymnast. I'm like rag doll, being tossed from one sided of the bed to the other, legs flailing in the air. 🤣🤣🤣 Thank God there isn't any trapeze equipment in the hotel room! It reminds me of the Japanese infamous 'shijuuhatte' - the traditional 48 sexual positions. I had them on playing cards. Pick a card and go for it. I'm sure every gay guy in Japan has tried them, but few, if any, can do all of them. But it's a lot of fun trying!

Or how about 'oohhh, 'wow' and 'fuuuuck!'

I don't know of any bars these days which have a fucking room out back. I can't think of any bar where the guys 'dance' or 'twerk' on stage, or lay 'spread eagle on stage'. And I don't know of any bar where you can fondle the guy who is sitting with you - unless he invites you to do so. Those hands- on bars existed years ago, mainly in Sunee Plaza in Pattaya. In Bangkok I'm thinking of SuperA and Nature Boy. The latter is unique in that it's a bar without any guys!

So, what would it mean if you'd never been told by a money boy that you had a big cock...or that you were 'hansom'? Asking for a friend!

It's not so much about saving money- it has a lot to do with getting value for that money.

A tip of 100 baht just for a feel is ridiculously expensive. A well-endowered guy can make the equivalent of a days wage in around 30 seconds!!! It scores very low on my value-for-money index as a customer. If I were one of the guys, I'd be over the moon and would take full advantage of the customers who were willing to pay. But only if my 'big cock' actually was big and not some sort of silicone sheath placed over the top and covered by a condom. Have you ever noticed how cold some cocks feel? I don't think you are touching skin. Or how the cock is much smaller back in the room? Over the years there have been some genuinely huge cocks in the parade and I've been willing to pay. But I certainly don't tip all the guys. It can get very expensive very soon, especially if you visit a number of bars during the evening.

That's my kind of show! Thanks.

Were the police investigated? I'm assuming they weren't.

What exactly is that? A wanking show?

I agree completely. It's better to be safe than sorry. And also, who knows what that 'meat' is? And why is my salad looking back at me? I could never survive the way are doing at the moment. I'd have to bring all my own food, which would be considered very rude.

I can only speak for Space Bar. No, it is definitely not a place to go looking for a sex partner. The guys are strictly forbidden to go off with customers - they are just incredibly attractive eye candy. However....... I had a lot of surreptitious fun inside the bar with one guy over multiple visits. He would greet me with a hug and a quick grope and then we'd sit together all night and grope each other under the table. He'd get hard and then give me a cheeky grin. But he politely declined to take things further after work. He no longer works there but on my last visit he came into the bar. He was surprised to see me there and came over and gave me a warm hug. He now has a food cart and he often drops by the bar looking for business. I bought him a drink and gave his family a bit of financial help. Also, on one occassion, one of the guys said quietly that he could introduce me to someone if I was looking for sex. I didn't take him up on the offer. Normally, I wouldn't go to a gay bar if sex wasn't on offer - what's the point if I don't drink? - but I'll happily make an exception for Space Bar.

It also suggests that some Yakuza types might be running the business.

There's an expression in Japanese which underpins all service-related industries - okyakusama wa kamisama desu. It means'the customer is 'God'. And that attitude can be seen in every shop, at every petrol station, at every train station, every time you get into a taxi - whenever you come into contact with someone as a customer. (This is not necessarily the case if you are being served by a 'lowly' Indian or Nepalese in a convenience store) So I was surprised at the attitude of those guys. I certainly would have complained to the manager, but you would need to speak Japanese. I'm wondering if brothels in Japan attract a different kind of person? Or are they run by the yakuza, as the extensive sex industry was in the past?

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I noticed the marijuana sign. Are they still sellling it? I thought it was banned.