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The emphasis is on the word 'enjoy'.

Did you buy a towel?

There are guys I've met in Thailand who would definitely be boyfriend material. However, the 3 problems we all face are the language barrier - which is possible to overcome, the age difference - and all that entails- and the fact that the guy is straight - which means he is forever unavailable. I'm sure there are examples of older guys finding younger partners who are gay and who truly love them. No money is ever handed out, either to the guy or his family. But I believe these cases are few and far between. I couldn't imagine wanting to have sex with someone my age, so how on earth could a fit, healthy, handsome guy enjoy sex with someone old enough to be his grandfather? Sex for guys is a necessity, not a want. So for me, it's a bit like buying food. When I'm hungry I buy food at a restaurant. That fulfills my need. When I get hungry again, I just go out and buy more food. And usually the more luxurious food items cost more and I'm willing to pay for that. I never order something I would consider unpalatable.

Like everywhere else, you have to know where to eat. Paying US $60 for a meal is ridiculous. Food is an obsession of mine and I eat whatever I want, regardless of the price, but I've never spent that much on a meal in Tokyo. As we know, usually the best food - and cheapest- is found where the locals eat. Speaking Japanese helps.

I'm genuinely surprised to hear people say Japan is expensive. Maybe their exchange rate is poor. Maybe they are staying in western hotel chains like the Hyatt or the Marriott. Maybe they are shopping in Ginza. They are definitely not eating at Izakaya pubs, or at chain restaurants like Sushiro, Kura sushi, Hama, etc. They don't just serve sushi - most of which I don't eat - but also lots of meat, noodles, western desserts, etc. Also, they have innovative types of 'sushi' like roast beef, chicken and corn, mini hamburger sushi, etc. A large beer is around 450 yen (100 baht), a plate of food with 2 items is 120 yen (25 baht as opposed to 166 baht in Perth!) I'd love to know what people find expensive in Japan!

On X it is @AhRamMassage Or Do a Google search instead for : ah ram massage on sotwe

Japan is incredibly cheap compared to what I pay in Australia.

That's why I didn't post the video!

I don't know about London prices, as I haven't been there for a while. However, at 114 yen for 1 Aussie dollar, everything in Japan is a bargain for Aussies at the moment. Some bars earlier this year we're advertising all you can drink in 2 hours for 500 yen (100 baht!!!). It's enough to drive someone to drink! My main meal is at night and I usually eat at 'izakaya' pubs. If I were to eat the same in Perth, it would be at least 4 times as expensive. A large beer in Perth costs $12 at a pub but $3 in Japan. Sushi is $1 per plate in Japan, $7 in Perth.

I found Ah Ram on X. There is a very interesting 1 and a half hour long video of a Japanese game show, featuring some kind of sex contest between guys and girls. They side around on slippery, slimey jelly. None of it is pixelated. I think the aim of the show is for the girls to get the guys off with a handjob or a blowjob, for which they earn points. The guys win if they can manage to fuck the girls -which they all do. There is a close- up of the pussies leaking cum to prove it. It's interesting to see that 2 father and son duos participate. I would find it very awkward indeed too have sex in front of my father, who is doing the same thing. But this is Japan, so I'm not surprised. The sexual stamina of Japanese guys is legendary, as can be seen in the videos. After cumming from a blowjob, they then fuck, get handjob and fuck again. The girls take it in the mouth, face the camera and spit it out. Some of young guys participating are quite attractive, and definitely not short of cum. Check it out!

True. You need to do your research beforehand, like every other place. But it's not difficult to compare prices.

Tokyo fits the bill perfectly! Compared to the ridiculous cost of living in Australia, it is incredibly cheap. Cheaper than Bangkok. Just keep in mind that once you've stayed there a while, you won't want to leave!

Is that the Hatha Khmer massage just around the corner from A&P? If so, I had some wonderful times there with a young, cute guy I called Mister Bubblebutt. There was a small bar in the garden and we'd sit there, enjoy a drink and then head off to the room for some flip-flop fun. The fact that he spoke Japanese was a bonus. I'd definitely go back again - maybe next month.

Point taken. But I'll take a wild guess here and surmise that not all women experience pain when giving birth to their first child. On the other hand, all the bottoms I've spoken to told me their attempt was painful and they required lots of practice. That's why I hesitated for so long.

I imagine the true power bottoms would be in heaven! The problem is, in Perth there's 1 sauna and 1 gay club - and that's the scene afaik. I don't know of any gay community as such. There are lots of private parties, and I've been to a couple. Tbh, if I were a gay sailor looking for a hook-up, I wouldn't know where to look. If I were after sex with a sailor, I guess I'd be down at the wharf waving a 'Hello sailor' banner!

For me, it's a perfect fit - now. But my point is, if the arse was meant to take a cock, it wouldn't be so painful - it would just slip right in. For me, it didn't. My first attempt was when I was a teenager. It was with a classmate. We both tried but gave up very quickly. It was decades later when I tried again. It was with a massage guy in Pattaya, who worked at a place called Narcissus. After what seemed an eternity, he got the head in. I've never felt such pain before, and it lasted a few days. These days I look back and wonder why I didn't persist.

So, if you have tried douches 'at home' this must mean that this wasn't your first time bottoming. Or have I got this wrong? I don't see how anyone can suddenly become a bottom on the spot - unless they were insanely drunk or on drugs. The pain for me was unbearable and it took quite a bit of practice with dildos before I could take the real thing. And a long time before I could take 7 inches. Those 2 sphincters need to be trained - or so I thought. They are not designed to take a cock. As for douching with tap water, I've always used the bum hose when in Thailand. I never even gave it a second thought, but I've read on a number of occasions that the water should be purified. But I've never had a problem.

A number of years ago a US carrier docked in Fremabtle, which is Perth's port. The local brothel madam was forced to give the girls nights off, as their pussies were getting worn out. Of particular concern, she said, was the large number of horse-hung black sailors - the women were apparently concerned about being physically harmed,m and many complained of soreness after the encounter. I would be more concerned about all the sexualities transmitted diseases.

Over all the years I've been visiting Thailand I have only once been asked for money - remarkable, given the number of guys I have been with. And the excuse wasn't a dead buffalo - it was a family member in hospital. I actually quite liked the guy and was considering helping him. But it soon became obvious that his story didn't add up, so he didn't get a single baht.

I've spent quite a bit of time in Super A over the years. There used to be an upstairs section where you could choose a guy to sit with you and spend the evening enjoying a mutual groping session. I stopped going there when a mamasan brought someone inappropriate into the bar. I was usually the only customer. Often the mamasan, who sat outside at the top of the soi sharing customers, would rush in and yell at the guys to get up on stage. But usually the farang would put their heads in the door, take a quick look and not bother. One evening there was a guy working there will was totally naked. I asked the mamasan what was going on, and she said he had forgotten to bring his work shorts so as punishment he had to remain naked all night. I didn't mind at all! I got him to sit with me. And he didn't mind, either, as he was obviously totally spaced out on drugs. The guys working in Super A, Golden Cock and Nature Boy knew each other and everyone's business, too. There were no secrets. So imagine my shock and horror when some of the guys told me that 2 guys at Super A had tested positive for HIV!!! The bar simply kept quiet about it and they continued to work there. I went to the bar once or twice after that. I knew the names of the guys so kept well away from them, but then decided that I could no longer support the bar because of their unconscionable behaviour. I last dropped by 2 years ago during Songkran, just for old time's sake. I had a quick drink but didn't see anyone who appealed to me and the ladyboy mamasan was a real pain in the arse, as usual. Having been brought up in Japan, where total unadulterated sleaze is the name of the game, that area of Silom was my favourite. A lot of guys there were a real handful! 🤣🤣🤣

I'd also be very interested in info regarding massage places in PP. Last time I was there I went to a place just a few doors down from my hotel. The guy was hot as hell - handsome, hot body - so I had great expectations. Unfortunately, nothing happened. He showed no interest in any sexual contact. Shame, as he would have made a fortune out of me during my stay. Years ago I had a lot of fun at Hatha Khmer massage around the corner from Arthur and Paul, but I believe it has closed down.

I'm not a drinker as such - just a social beer or cocktail. However, my 'friends' took a liking to champagne and that is now my alcoholic drink of choice. My favourite is Billecart Salmon. I've also enjoyed Cristal and Dom Perignon, but they are too expensive and definitely not value for money. I never have more than 2 glasses.

If I know beforehand that I have other arrangements for the night and won't be offing the guy drinking with me, I tell him that if a previous customer comes in, he can leave me and go sit with him in order to get an off. Surprisingly, no guy has ever taken me up on the offer.

No, not yet. In junior high school we had a civics class every week. We learnt about respect for others, honesty and integrity, responsibility, compassion and empathy, respect for nature, self-discipline, appreciation of Japanese traditions and culture, and love of family and the importance of friends. Yet despite this, kids will be kids and so bullying was rife. Japanese tend to become upstanding citizens after they leave school and enter university. I'm beginning to wonder if those high school classes have now disappeared!

I hate to break the stereotype, but even in Japan young people do not stand up for the elderly, even if they are sitting in seats which are clearly designated for the elderly, disabled, etc. They just look down at their phones and pretend they don't see you. The only people who ever offer me a seat - either a normal one or a designated one- are foreign tourists! I always politely decline, as I'm fully able to stand.