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The name suggests it is!

As Macaroni21 has pointed out - and accurately described in his blog - Japan has lots of host clubs aimed strictly at women. I taught English to a group of 6 women - one of them was the mother of a friend when I was at university in Tokyo, and she organised the classes. Unbeknownst to me, they all had something in common - they were married to rich husbands who spent a lot of time 'playing golf' in Taiwan. But it was the 19th hole they were interested in! To placate their wives and keep them occupied, they bought them bars which they could run as a kind of hobby. Two of the women opted for gay bars, and the other 4 ran host bars. After the lesson we would go out for dinner at some very expensive restaurants - all expenses paid! - and then end up at one of the bars. My favourite bar was a host bar in Roppongi. They woukd have theme nights where the guys - young and very cute /handsome - would dress in various costumes. One night the guys all wore Roman togas and I got an excellent view of their crotches when they sat down. I was born with the gift of the grab, and the temptation to reach over and feel the goods was overwhelming. I sat there with a hard -on all night! But these host bars were not about open sex - it was just teasing the women. It was a case of look but don't touch. The togas were deliberately short so as to expose the bulges. Other nights the guys were topless and wore short shorts. They were chosen for their beautiful bodies and impressive 6-packs. And their ability to flatter and treat the women the way their husbands never did. There was always lots of champagne, a bit of dirty talk and lots of laughter. The women had a great time. If only they knew that it was me who had the best time of all! 😂😂😂

Ah, such fond memories of the Oral Academy at the Action Bar! I read about it on one of the forums and immediately booked a flight to Budapest. Around midnight two naked hung hunks suddenly appeared - their cocks were available for the customers to wrap their lips around. Needless to say, I was an energetic participant! They wandered around the bar for about an hour and I made sure I didn't waste a minute. The also had a hot fuck show. The fuckee wasn't all that attractive, but the fucker was young and hung. He came on the guy's face, if I recall. The bar also had a two-way mirror in the dark room, looking straight onto the urinal trough. This allowed punters to size up the guys before later approaching them. I had so much fun there that I decided to make a return trip, only to find it had closed down!!

What has amazed me is the fact that the girls don't seem to mind if their guy is a male prostitute. Many wives /girlfriends would wait for their guys outside Krazy Dragon in Sunee every night. If I walked out alone they would often suggest I go with their partners! And some of the guys at the old Goodboys and Niceboys bars told me their girlfriends knew what they did. I have also met a few wives over the years and although I felt rather embarrassed (I'm fucking him and he's sucking my cock!!) they were nonchalant. I thought this attitude might be a Thai thing, but then I met the Danish girlfriend of a hugely hung Isaan guy who was the top in a fuck show. I asked her how she felt about his job and her answer was - 'It doesn't bother me. Besides, I get to enjoy that cock when he gets home'. We proceeded to have a very enjoyable conversation about his cock. She told me how difficult it was to give him blowjob, as she had trouble getting her lips around it. She laughed when I said I would be willing to give her a demonstration of how it's done! The younger brother of my long-term Pattaya friend worked in Eros with him, and their sister worked in a bar in Walking Street. I loved the fact that they didn't have any hang-ups regarding prostitution. They saw it as a legitimate way to make money. And why not?

I later realised that I should have written 'waa' instead of 'war', but it was too late to change. I was thinking in Japanese, not English, when I wrote that.

They shouldn't. It means 'kawaii' is being mispronounced. It's pronounced 'car-war-eeee', not 'kay-why'. I was in the Supreme Court today, where 2 young Chinese guys are on trial for murder. One is 24 and the other is 30, but they look a lot younger. OMG! They are super kawaii - I couldn't take my eyes off them! Butter wouldn't melt in their mouths. If found guilty they are facing 25 years in prison - such a shame for someone so young. If they were gay, they woukd have a great time, but unfortunately, they are straight so I hate to think what will be happening in the shower!

I think the whole cute 'kawaii' thing originated in Japan. Everything and every place in Japan seems to have its own character or mascot and there are speciality shops all over the place. There a Character Street inside Tokyo Station. And the emphasis is solely on cuteness. I think the attraction to miniature things comes from the small houses people live in.

This reminds me of the time, many years ago, when I had to stay in a hostel in Venice, as all the accommodation was booked out. In the morning I went to the common bathroom where there was a long line of sinks. I heard a bit of a commotion. I looked to my left and saw a guy who had flopped out a HUGE uncut cock, which he proceeded to wash in the sink. Having no shame, I immediately moved over to the sink next to him and enjoyed the view. I have a feeling he was just showing off. Unfortunately, I never saw him again. However, I saw hostels in a new light and when I went to Copenhagen I sought out a hostel not far from the station with a shared bathroom. Suffice to say, I had a wonderful time in the shower, watching as heaps of naked guys milled around, waiting for a shower to become available. Thanks to the guy washing his cock in Venice, I became a huge fan of hostels in Europe. As for mood killers, for me it's poor hygiene (uncommon in Asia) and mooks/cock beads and silicone. But as I grab guys from bars I can check those things beforehand.

Not 'wildcat'?

Years ago Louis Vuitton in Paris banned Japanese women from lining up outside their store on the Champs Elysées. They called them cockroaches and said they were cheapening the brand - it was no longer seen as being exclusive. Recently the truth has come out. Louis Vuitton products are made in China and then sent to France where they just apply the label.

Not odd at all. In Japan people believe that you get what you pay for. The thinking is, if it's cheap the quality is poor. It's why brands like Louis Vuitton and Gucci sell so well in Japan. Alcohol is ridiculously cheap in Japan. Suntory Old (daruma) whisky costs 1900 yen (A$16.50) in Japan. In Australia the same whisky is A$109.

Back in the early 1970s 1 Australian dollar was worth around 450 yen! Today it's 114 yen. Mind you, back then the cost of living in Japan was very high. Prices for many things haven't really changed all that much over the years. Compared to prices here in Australia, Japan is ridiculously cheap - especially food and drink. Walking around Ueno earlier this month I saw a sign offering 2 hours all-you -can -drink for 900 yen (183 baht, A$ 7.90). A medium sized beer in a pub here costs around A12. Sadly, I'm not a drinker!

I find it easier to read, too! Especially if the post is long.

I'm not yelling intentionality. If you look at previous posts of mine, you'll see the front is normal size. I have no idea why my post here appeared in such a large font, but it does sometimes happen. I'm posting on an ipad, so maybe that has something to do with it. It certainly has nothing to do with me.

The survey posted above is not accurate. Where's Japan? All my married straight friends fucked around, and their wives knew exactly what was going on. Afterall, they used to settle the monthly bills from the bars. After 6pm big cities become brothels. Sex is available everywhere. Workers go out every night with their colleagues, starting off in a bar, then heading over to a massage parlour for sex. My gay friends who had partners also fucked around every night. And there are host clubs catering mainly to middle-aged women who offer sexual services. Being faithful is not in the Japanese DNA. I guess those who conducted this survey never made it to Japan.

Skip Bangkok and Pattaya and head straight to Isaan!

Yep, spot on. Most places remain hidden from foreigners. You need to know someone.

For the French speakers amongst us, here's a great French putdown : - on se tutoie? - Si vous voulez.

A lot of Japanese enterprises make the decision not to deal with foreigners at all. This is often construed to be racism, but by and large, it's due to the language barrier. You see this quite often in restaurants, and particularly in 'izakaya' pubs, where the staff are unable to translate the menu or explain what the various dishes are. It's just too much trouble. Japanese is my second language, yet I am sometimes refused entry at first. Once I speak to them, I am welcomed in. When it comes to gay saunas, where language isn't really required, their refusal to deal with foreigners is, IMHO, purely racist. Foreigners are seen as the transmitters of all kinds of sexual diseases, whereas if you have sex with a fellow Japanese, you are considered safe. Friends of mine joined a sex club in Ueno when we were at university. When I turned up with them to also join the club a few weeks later, I was met with a very polite, but very firm, refusal. I eventually got in, but I had to jump through all kinds of hoops. I'll leave that story for another time. I'm off to tokyo tonight for a couple of weeks to see the cherry blossoms. Unfortunately, I'm going with some straight friends, so I won't be able to check out some of the gay establishments. However, I'm thinking of shunting them off to Kyoto for a few days to give myself a bit of space. My problem is convincing them go travel by themselves, as none of them speaks Japanese and are somewhat nervous.

He still dances, only these days it's horizontally.

Spot on, Peter! This basically goes for any Japanese enterprise. Rules in Japan are meant to be followed, not questioned.

More like the Hooker prize!

I met my Pattaya friend when he was working at Eros - the infamous sleazy bar in Sunee Plaza. At first, I would go to the bar and pay the off fee. Then I would spend a couple of hours there playing with the guys. My friend could sit with customers during this time and earn drink money and tips, but of course, he couldn't be offed. Customers often wanked the guys and obviously, that also wasn't permitted. He told me he didn't really like working in the bar, so I decided I would just off him early in the evening. He would then get changed and stay in the bar to enjoy time with his friends while I had my fun. This then changed to him coming to my hotel in the early afternoon and spending the rest of the day and evening with me. I would then go to Eros after dinner and he could come with me or go back to his room to play on his ipad for the time I was in the bar. He's never stayed over night with me -I prefer to sleep alone -so he'd go back home after sex. It's difficult to have a real Thai boyfriend, given the age difference and cultural differences. Our different lifestyles complicate things, too. So I just want to enjoy the boyfriend experience fantasy and spend time with a friendly companion while I'm in Thailand. My 2 regulars are the nicest guys you could ever meet. But love is not part of the equation. Maybe 'love' is.

He's just my type!!!! His profile says he has a thick cock. Was that true?

It's also the male cosmetics capital of the world. I remember going into a cosmetics store in Seoul to buy a female friend some face masks. I had to fight my way through all the young guys. Needless to say, I went into many cosmetic stores!