Travelingguy

The star massages have the therapist naked. The other ones, the therapist wears underwear. The massage itself includes a hand job and you choose whatever tip you wanna give . Anything beyond that is negotiated.

I hadn’t actually made this connection. Now I am never going to be able to use that abbreviation again. Oh well, I will be writing it out as SuperSoft from now on. 🙂

Day 4. (My notes start getting more sparse around this time.) Today I had an appointment with Bima at XXL This guy flat out is my favorite. I find him extremely attractive. He’s also very very nice. He had a little mustache and a little bit of chin hair. It looked good on him. He joked that he was doing the Bruno Mars look. The body was unchanged, compact and muscular. His English was marginally better than the last time. His massage was slow and rhythmic with the music. He remembered me from before. I had a great time. I am being careful on this trip and trying not to repeat with any particular provider. Bima in Bali and Ball in Bangkok are the guys that I need to be most careful about having a bit too much of a crush on. If I do decide to repeat with Bima, it will be on my last day. @vinapu has talked about going through temporary lesbian phases. In my case, nothing anywhere near so drastic. However, I have definitely been on a “side“ phase from about the last day or so in Bangkok through my time with Bima. That isn’t so unusual for me, but it occurred to me after my massage with Bima.

The XXL website seems to be down. Here he is.

The guys at Jari Menari are very regular looking guys. They are very nice and give great 4 hand massages, but yeah, this isn’t a place to find hot guys or happy endings. By the way, I did have one of their single provider massages for research purposes and it was fine, but nothing special.

Day 3 I slept in and got more than eight hours of sleep. I felt great. I contacted XXL and set up a massage with Adam for 7 PM. I haven’t had this guy before. He is gorgeous. But I also wanted to try out a non-sexual massage spot called Jari Menari. I figured it wouldn’t interfere with my performance later on in the day. All male therapists. They are well known for their 4 hand massage with really good coordination between the two therapists. So that’s what I got. They do make you wear disposable paper underwear which made me not want to try them previously. However, the therapists were not shy about going underneath said underwear. Their manipulations underneath the underwear and the pulling of the underwear in various directions got me hard very quickly. This is not a happy ending place, but I was definitely aroused throughout a significant portion of this massage. Not only did they not seem to mind, I got the impression that they wanted me aroused. I guess that they are pretty good at reading their clients. I was later told that the paper underwear were optional by one of the therapists. I thought that the shop’s reputation may be mostly hype, but I couldn’t believe how much I actually enjoyed this massage. It was not a case of sensation overload. It was more alternating sensations and slight distraction and then coming back. It was seamless with almost no actual interruptions. I would highly recommend this 4 hand massage to anybody. I went to XXL2 for my massage with the gorgeous Adam at 7 pm. What I did not know was that Adam doesn’t speak English. But Adam also is essentially deaf. His lack of English meant that we were going to be communicating via Google Translate anyway, which made his deafness a non-issue. He is so damn handsome and has that incredibly muscled little body. Masculine, muscular, sweet disposition and shorter than me is my ideal. He is checking all my boxes. I did the 100 minute Platinum Starr treatment. We ended almost exactly at 100 minutes in a very satisfying way. When there’s motivation, communication difficulties can easily be overcome. My Grab driver to XXL asked me about the massage shop being a gay shop. We had a very pleasant conversation about XXL. And when he dropped me off, he said I hope you enjoy your massage. Incidentally, I was able to add my credit cards to the Grab account in Indonesia. Something I was unable to do in Thailand. Now I don’t have to make sure that I have small change for the Grab.

Bless your heart. 😜

I think the key thing with making the cell phone and tablet more useful is using dictation rather than trying to type things. As you get used to it, it is much more efficient than trying to use a keyboard. It is also really good for taking down notes quickly and then you can come back later and clean it up.

My understanding is that FK is French Kiss. MK is 69 (oral sex) These terms are used with regard to SS (SuperSoft) massage venues.

My notes from this trip are more limited. I mostly used XXL, but I did enjoy myself. Day 2 (Day 1 was eaten up with delays getting out of Bangkok) Today I took a long walk around Seminyak. Nonstop offers of rides (from motorbike taxis) and massages (almost all from women). I was also offered various pharmaceuticals (erectile dysfunction drugs). The guy on the street must’ve diagnosed me with erectile dysfunction based on the way I was walking, or perhaps some other physical trait he noticed. Ha ha ha. I have a massage scheduled at 5 PM with Ardy from XXL. But it was still early. So I decided to stop at Teman Spa. I wanted to get a nice sensual massage, but I wanted to save myself for this evening. An hour and a half with Yusuf was well spent. Yusuf was more effective at keeping me hard than that guy on the street offering me drugs. He did ask me if I wanted to cum, but I told him that I had plans for this evening and just to keep up with the teasing which I very much enjoyed. Ardi is not my type. He is very small and quite thin. On a previous trip I dropped into XXL and there were limited therapist available. Ardi was one of them. I decided to choose him rather than the other two. He gave an incredible erotic massage and I am repeating with him because of his previous performance. Ardi was all over me from the beginning of this massage. He is like a modern dancer performing this complex dance on top of my body with his hands constantly exploring. We did this dance for about 1.5 hrs. I was happy and so was he.

Hair, no hair, location of the hair, etc. In my case it all depends on the guy. Some guys with no hair look like a little kid which I don’t find attractive. Other guys look really hot with no hair. Some guys with lots of hair look like an ape. Other guys with lots of hair look really sexy. So again, it all depends.

My recommendation would be to use paper towels, not tissues. They hold up better and don’t leave little bits of paper sticking to skin and appendages. That is unless I am talking about something totally unrelated. If that is the case, nevermind. 😆

Day 13 Going to Bali We got up early to get to the Suvarnabhumi for a 9:30 am flight to Bali with Thai Airways . But because of flooding and difficulties with staff being able to get to the airport, our flight is delayed to after 3:00 pm. Funnily enough, the flight tracker software through Apple’s text system reported our flight leaving delayed at 12:00 pm. I briefly panicked in the lounge where they promised to alert us when the flight was going to depart. The lounge reassured me that the plane had not departed and wasn’t likely to depart any time soon. The Apple software continued to report the flight landing safely in Bali. I have always liked this little featured that you could trigger with a simple text with with the airline and flight number (TG431)and get up-to-date information by clicking on the link in your text box. Now, my faith is a little shaken. Oh well. We were eventually able to takeoff shortly before 5 PM. This was more than seven hours after our scheduled departure. It was explained to us on the plane that the pilots and the flight attendants were here. The primary problem was that they didn’t have the drivers who drive the trucks that load and unload the planes. They were the ones who weren’t present so they couldn’t remove the luggage from the plane that had landed last night. They couldn’t just find substitute drivers because of security clearance to be on airfield. If we were delayed past 5 PM, the crew would’ve timed out and there would have been no flight. So despite our seven hour delay, we were actually lucky that we were able to get out at all. We landed around 10 PM. We got through customs and passport control rather quickly by having done the visa beforehand and the entry card. So we could use the E Gates. Highly recommend. We had a guy who drove for us previously in Bali pick us up. We got to our villa in Seminyak . I was exhausted. I brushed my teeth which I desperately wanted to do. I then just went to bed.

It is good to have a clear purpose.

Day 12 This is my last day in Bangkok. I am going out to dinner this evening. I had already scheduled a massage with Chok at Ssense. That was going to be in the afternoon. I decided to spoil myself and got myself a massage at the Prime this morning as well. I wasn’t sure that they would let me in. It is now starting to get busy. But I was in the first group of people that arrived at 11 am and I got my two hour slot immediately. I didn’t have any plans on anything interesting happening during this massage, but this was a very, very interesting massage. I was more than teased and played with throughout the massage. I thoroughly enjoyed it. However, I did let the provider know that I didn’t actually want a happy ending when he offered one. Perhaps I now have a reputation. 😆I was saving that for this afternoon. But I did assure him that I was very much enjoying what he was doing. It was an excellent massage. It was also a lot of fun being teased like that then not completely being relieved of the tension in the end. But I knew I would get some relief this afternoon. Another break in the rain and I took my Grab ride to Ssense. I chose Chok. He is incredibly handsome with a tight fit body that he can even show off in that Ssense outfit they wear. I really do not think it looks good on most people (even those who have nice bodies) but walking behind Chok with that slim waist and big shoulders and amazing ass proved someone could make that outfit sexy. I did the hour body scrub and hour cream massage. I was kind of surprised that the scrub would go on for a full hour. I was not sure how the time would be filled. The scrub only lasted 45 minutes, which was still a long time for a scrub. However, Chok made it extremely enjoyable. Then we moved onto the cream massage. It was sexual and fun and I was very much enjoying myself. When it came time to turn over, we did discuss what I wanted. I did want the body to body experience. He dutifully went over the tip scale which is a Ssense rule. I do like the straight forwardness of that practice. This is where things went to a truly different level. What followed was about 30 minutes of the most intense, best side action that I have ever experienced. This was one of my all-time best sexual experiences ever. This man is talented! So many techniques. No rush. Wonderful finish. Interestingly, he did not mention the Google review. I wonder if that was a mistake with me or if he just doesn’t participate in that game. He might get enough business on his looks alone without having to play the Google review game. A great massage to end this trip to Bangkok on. Had dinner at the top of the Bayoke Sky Hotel. The revolving platform on the 84th Floor had great views but was very windy.

Not in BKK. There I just go to massage shops. My hotel experiences were in Cambodia, Laos and Indonesia.

I find it interesting that they responded that way. I have been at high end hotels in SE Asia that did not have male therapists on staff at the hotel, but had no trouble arranging for a male therapist to come in for my massage when I made it clear that I did not want a female therapist.

Tii is popular. Just realize that many (? Most) of the guys that work at Glam and Jey Spa are the same. There are some exceptions.

If you are set on Singha and Sunji, you should make your reservations well in advance. They are often fully booked for a few weeks.

Day 11 Today, there was very heavy rain. It was predicted for all day. There was flooding in front of the Quarter Silom. I had gone to most of the massage places that I had hoped to visit. According to Massage Insider, many massage shops were closed. We also had dinner reservations. I wasn’t keen on trying to get out in the bad traffic and my feet were already wet. So I decided to get a massage at the Prime. The Prime had not been busy up until yesterday. That was the first time I actually had to wait an hour to get a massage. It also was Friday at the end of September, perhaps the weekend was changing the dynamics. So, today I decided to go into the Prime early and set up an appointment for the afternoon that would give me plenty of time to get ready for dinner. I had a two hour aroma oil massage. I specifically told the therapist that I wanted a gentle and relaxing massage. This Prime massage will be quite notable for the two head massages I received during this massage. In addition to the head/scalp massage that I had at the end of the session, which was quite long and really enjoyable, there was another head massage that occurred about 60% of the way through that was also quite enjoyable and a first for me at the Prime. Various therapists at the Prime, have you more or less covered during the massage. This was on the less covered end of the scale, but I’ve been even less covered at the Prime. There have been hints and teases and various types of touches which I’ve had before during massages at the Prime. But it has never gone past a little bit of teasing by the therapist. This time when the therapist was working on the front of my right leg I started to get quite aroused. The towel had been placed conveniently so that my arousal would not be hindered in any way. Then, for the first time in my personal experience at the Prime, I was offered the option for happy ending. I took up the option. The negotiations were actually quite simple. He was already going to get a very good tip and he was quite happy with my adding ฿200 to what I was already going to give him anyway. This therapist used the same term to describe my erection as several other therapists have done on this trip . They have all use the word strong. I’m wondering if that word is used more commonly in Thai than in English. Because I’ve had people describe it as hard or large or whatever, but not with the word strong. It just struck me during this trip. They also said it with a tone of surprise, which, on the one hand was complementary, of course, but on the other hand sounded like they were surprised somebody my age could get it up that way. In any case, it it’s always fun when a young person is impressed with your physical attributes and abilities. This rainy day fun at the Prime got me thinking about how much I enjoyed today’s session. We go to the Prime for a really good massage, and I have not been let down there so far. I don’t select my therapist generally.IThe HJ that I got was even more enjoyable because it was within the context of such an excellent massage and not expected. I have always been dubious about reports of a happy ending at the Prime. But not anymore. This evening we went on a river cruise on the Chao Phraya river. It was a buffet meal. There were traditional dancers. We took some pictures with the male dancers. The food was good. The entertainment was nice. I enjoyed myself. The biggest issue was that we were on the top deck. It’s completely open. This was a horribly rainy day. There was flooding in Bangkok. However, some miracle occurred, and we never experienced anything more than a tiny amount of sprinkling during this cruise. The views of Icon Siam and Wat Arun were spectacular. If it had started to rain, we were assured that there was room for us downstairs at the inside dining rooms. The river levels were quite high. The top of the boat was extremely close to the bridges, but below them. On our first pass, we were all told to go down to the second level as we went under the bridge. But coming back those of us on the top deck were told to either go down to the second deck or we could sit down on these mats on the deck and experience the bridge up close. We stayed on the third deck and enjoyed it. Now, we knew that there was enough clearance because we’ve already done this once. But it was still fairly close. All in the fun.

I think I went there before 5 PM

I just open the Google Translate app, and then I press the camera button and hold it over the page and it translates whatever it sees.

In my recent visit, I saw no evidence of marijuana being banned. However, it is my understanding the prostitution is illegal there as well. 😆

You are correct, officially. But again, it all depends on the therapist.

Day 10 Today we got up early and took the van to Kanchanaburi to see the Bridge Over the River Kwai. The weather was very rainy this morning. We did end up on a motorboat on the river Kwai. Got wet, but it was fine and I was actually glad to be on it. The town had very few tourists in it when we were there. It was much quieter and easier than it would be at other times of the year. But there were plenty of people on the train, including school children in the first car The museum for the POWs and the Allied cemetery was quite sad. The large Chinese monument to the Chinese slave laborers who also died building the railroad was quite impressive. The gloomy rainy weather seemed appropriate to the occasion. Train ride was fun along the river. Myanmar is just over the mountains to the left. It rained again quite a bit but didn’t get in our way. More than a 2 Hour drive back to Bangkok. I decided to go to Prince. It was raining and I didn’t really want to take a grab motorcycle. The wait for a car was way longer than it would take to just walk there. And no drivers were picking up my trip anyway. It turned out that it wasn’t really raining that hard while I was walking. It was a pleasant walk. I was staying at the Quater Silom. The selection was unbelievably good. There wasn’t one guy up there that I would absolutely say no to, which is unusual for me. I chose Tony/Ton. He has a spectacular body. He’s a very nice guy. He was nice to me. However, the whole massage was frenetic. It clearly wasn’t about massage but he had some actual massage training . He did a variety of massage techniques that I’ve only had professional massage therapists do and he did them better than other therapists that I have had in the past. Once the massage portion was done, his other skills were on display. He is completely versatile. I did enjoy my time with him. He was uninhibited and very enthusiastic I don’t regret picking him. However, if I went back, I would definitely try somebody different. Perhaps a differently paced experience. I really do like the straightforwardness of the experience at places like the Prince. I think that when the prices are clear and the expectations are clear, it creates far less stress for the customer and the provider. Tony/Ton definitely provided the experience that I went to the Prince for, but I didn’t really get a relaxing massage out of it. So I made an appointment at the Prime for two hours of rest and relaxation. I have had a few guys at the Prime tease me a little but nothing beyond that. That is as much as I would want after Tony had already provided me plenty of other satisfaction.