London Bear

To round off, having started this post:  when I arrived at El Dorado from Europe earlier this month and got to immigration I discovered there is a lane for ‘Preferencias’ and that being over 70 I was eligible to use it.  In point of fact nobody checked this before I got to the passport check desk itself.  It saved me about 30 minutes and cost nothing, so I was pleased I didn’t waste money on a commercial service. 
There is a similar lane when departing from El Dorado. 
Hope this is a helpful tip for other elderly forum members. 

Interesting. Thank you.  I have been there two or three times on visits to Cali over the past couple of years, and enjoyed it, especially the ‘groping wall’ you mention, which I have now experienced from both sides.
I mostly visited in the early-mid evening, including once on a Saturday, but it was never hugely crowded, and sadly I was never approached by any escorts, though I would have been open to it.  I must have been unlucky with timing of my visits. 

PART 2
On my third day in HCMC I wanted to try Aroma Spa. This is situated on the western side of the city, nowhere near any metro station, so it involved  a 30- 40 minute ride in a grab car, but definitely worth the effort.
The Spa has a website:
http://aromaspakhang.com/n3.html
which helpfully has pictures of the boys on offer, labelled with their names.
I WhatsApped in advance and persuaded myself to splash out on a 90 minute, 4-hands water massage with a 300,000 Dong supplement each for the guys to cum, which the manager kindly discounted for me to 400,000 Dong for the two to do it. So 3,200,000 Dong in all, but that is still less than a quarter of what I would have to pay 2 escorts in London for just an hour. I chose Minh and Chi Dân. When I arrived at the reception, the manager sat me down and tried to persuade me to add even more of his boys to the mix, but I managed to restrain myself. There was no need to use lockers here. We proceeded upstairs to a spacious room. with two low level massage beds pushed together, and a large bathroom with a jacuzzi style bath, and a flat large oblong bath for the water scrub. You could disrobe and keep all your belongings here in comfort.
Minh immediately stripped naked and using a hand held shower started washing me all over with lots of teasing touches. I then had to lie on the large flat shallow bath for an enervating  salt scrub, front and back.
After they had towelled me down they led me to the massage bed and both boys stared kissing my chest, and on we went from there, with exquisite pleasures of sucking, both guys fucking  me, passioate kissing, finally both came in my mouth. I thought I had died and gone to heaven.

After that I just had to return before leaving HCMC, so on my last full day I headed back to Aroma at around 5pm. I WhatsApped ahead to book Minh again (who is quite cute, thin and very affectionate) and another more hunky guy with tattoos called Dŭng.
The Grab car journey was about 35 minutes, but in the brightly lit streets of HCMC there is always something to look at.
Once again, when I arrived the manager tried to intest me in additional boys, but budgetary constraints meant I had to decline. On both visits, incidentally, I did not see any other clients at Aroma.
I had the same spacious room again, but this time the salt scrub came after the fun, but we started, again with Minh showering with me and teasing. This time they both fucked me, but also Dŭng fucked Minh while he was lying on top of me  kissing passionately.  Seeing this was too much for me and I climaxed mid way through, but then they both came in my face later.
After the salt scrub, they but me in the delightful warm jacuzzi bath, and Minh got in with me for some more playing around in the water (which Chi Dăn had done the first time actually,  I omitted to mention).
Afterwards, down in the reception,  water, cans of a red-bull type energy drink (definitely needed) and some snacks available.
So all in all truly memorable experiences at the place.
 
 

I visited 6 days at the end of dec for the Feria de Cali. Due to the festival's activities, unfortunately I had less time for sex than I had planned.
* At speedoo's recommendation, I stayed at the Hotel NH Cali Boulevard del Rio. Centrally located; only 10 minutes walk from the sex clubs; visitors friendly - just asking for ID photos.
* Plenty of grindr solicitations; only two were explicitly scorts. All expecting transport costs, either real or exaggerated.
* 2 of the 4 I met were into more friendly sex.
* There was one guy with mouth-watering fotos of 24 cms. He wanted 180,000 including uber. I didnt get to really contemplating it, bcs of schedule prblms.
* Visited Black&White on strdy at 22:00 - should be peak time. Was a bit disappointed. 25 patrons, equally young and mature. All activity concentrated at the dark room. 30,000 enterance fee, apparently bcs of christmas feria NY week.
* Stopped by Physicus to ask about massage: 40 minutes, 70,000. On non-weekend nights it and Relax close at 21:00. 
 
PS - I highly recommend a private moto tour in mountainous Siloe Comuna 20: interesting to hear about history and inhabitants; hair raising to ride up and down narrow lanes. HMU for Kevin's nmbr.

PART 2
On my third day in HCMC I wanted to try Aroma Spa. This is situated on the western side of the city, nowhere near any metro station, so it involved  a 30- 40 minute ride in a grab car, but definitely worth the effort.
The Spa has a website:
http://aromaspakhang.com/n3.html
which helpfully has pictures of the boys on offer, labelled with their names.
I WhatsApped in advance and persuaded myself to splash out on a 90 minute, 4-hands water massage with a 300,000 Dong supplement each for the guys to cum, which the manager kindly discounted for me to 400,000 Dong for the two to do it. So 3,200,000 Dong in all, but that is still less than a quarter of what I would have to pay 2 escorts in London for just an hour. I chose Minh and Chi Dân. When I arrived at the reception, the manager sat me down and tried to persuade me to add even more of his boys to the mix, but I managed to restrain myself. There was no need to use lockers here. We proceeded upstairs to a spacious room. with two low level massage beds pushed together, and a large bathroom with a jacuzzi style bath, and a flat large oblong bath for the water scrub. You could disrobe and keep all your belongings here in comfort.
Minh immediately stripped naked and using a hand held shower started washing me all over with lots of teasing touches. I then had to lie on the large flat shallow bath for an enervating  salt scrub, front and back.
After they had towelled me down they led me to the massage bed and both boys stared kissing my chest, and on we went from there, with exquisite pleasures of sucking, both guys fucking  me, passioate kissing, finally both came in my mouth. I thought I had died and gone to heaven.

After that I just had to return before leaving HCMC, so on my last full day I headed back to Aroma at around 5pm. I WhatsApped ahead to book Minh again (who is quite cute, thin and very affectionate) and another more hunky guy with tattoos called Dŭng.
The Grab car journey was about 35 minutes, but in the brightly lit streets of HCMC there is always something to look at.
Once again, when I arrived the manager tried to intest me in additional boys, but budgetary constraints meant I had to decline. On both visits, incidentally, I did not see any other clients at Aroma.
I had the same spacious room again, but this time the salt scrub came after the fun, but we started, again with Minh showering with me and teasing. This time they both fucked me, but also Dŭng fucked Minh while he was lying on top of me  kissing passionately.  Seeing this was too much for me and I climaxed mid way through, but then they both came in my face later.
After the salt scrub, they but me in the delightful warm jacuzzi bath, and Minh got in with me for some more playing around in the water (which Chi Dăn had done the first time actually,  I omitted to mention).
Afterwards, down in the reception,  water, cans of a red-bull type energy drink (definitely needed) and some snacks available.
So all in all truly memorable experiences at the place.
 
 

Hey everyone. I am a  "long-time lurker" (if that's  the right expression) on this site, and its predecessor hooboys, but my changing circumstances mean I now feel able to begin posting myself.
I would like to start therefore by expressing my heartfelt thanks to all the members who post regularly on these forums, which have helped me immeasurably on my trips over the past 5-8 years, to Latin America, including Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Mexico, Dominican Republic, and Peru.
However, despite being addicted to fit Latin guys, I decided to try a visit to S E Asia this November.

I have poured over the helpful posts here, and the wonderful blogs by Shamelessmacktwo, which are so instructive.

I have just finished a week-long stay in Ho Chi Mihn City went  to a number of the massage shops that have featured previous posts.

On my first full day I had  booked a guide from Siamroads, and after a fascinating tour of the city centre, he organised us both (separate, I hasten to add) 90 minute massages at Aqua Spa. The set me back a total of 4 million Dong, tips included.
They sent pictures in advance, and my guy was like the photo, and quite hunky. After about 40 minutes of routine massaging, with not much straying into sensitive areas, he suddenly started rimming me, which was a very nice surprise. We proceeded from there with him fucking me in several positions and he came in my throat to finish. There was no kissing though, which is a slight disappointment for me.

The next day I tried 3 Some Spa, which is quite easy to reach from the city centre. I messaged them on WhatsApp to book a time, and they send a set of 24 photos some duplicated, so about 10-12 guys to choose from. Mostly very cute twinky types.
My first choice of guy was available, so after a shower downstairs next to the lockers, we proceeded to an upstairs room wearing the baggy boxer-type shorts provided.
He gave me a nice massage,  nude from the start, and in the second phase, fucked me and came in my face, so I left well satisfied. The system here is that the massage is 400,000 Dong, and the guy then asks you to write down the tip on a ticket, and you pay at the reception on leaving.

The next day I decided to visit the Nadam Spa. As other posters here have noted, this is a conventional sauna, not just a massage shop. It is located a bit further out of the city centre in the other places. At least a 30 minute ride in a Grab car away, through the perpetually slow, Saigon  traffic, with its swarming motorbikes.
The tactic I adopted was to use the new one Ho Chi Minh City, metro line,  travelling 2 or 3 stops from the Beh Thanh Market terminus, and then taking a grab car from the station nearest to my destination.
I was as equally impressed as Colom-bien (in his post of 6 December 2024) and I cannot better his eloquent description of the decor and ambience of the place. As he mentions, there are numerous massage guys wandering around the spa, and when one of them approached me and asked if I would like to partake, he took me through to the massage side of the place, but I was not then obliged to accept his services, but was given a book of pictures of the guys and a cold tea to drink while I made  my own choice.
The boy I chose gave me a very sensual massage, with plenty of 'extras', but still no kissing , unfortunately. When we had finished, there was, once again, the procedure of writing  the tip amount on a ticket, but this time, the guy asked me to write down just 200,000 Dong,  and then accompanied me back to the locker room where I gave him a further 1 million directly. Whether this is a procedure tolerated or condoned by the management I wouldn't like to say, but I was happy to be able  to reward him personally for a very happy moment.

I hope this report has not been too long-winded. I get the impression that many are readers of these posts like to see a lot of detail.

In the next part, I will cover my two visits to the Aroma Spa, which were undoubtedly the standout delights of my sojourn in Saigon. 

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

Its my first visit to S E Asia, so perhaps I should not really judge, but having been to Colombia 7-8 times in the past 6 years I totally get what you say about the 'sexo morbo' there.
And being able to converse a little in basic Spanish does make a difference 
Mind you, one or two guys I have met here have come close, but these were contacted via Grindr, not at the bars or massage shops. 

Hey everyone. I am a  "long-time lurker" (if that's  the right expression) on this site, and its predecessor hooboys, but my changing circumstances mean I now feel able to begin posting myself.
I would like to start therefore by expressing my heartfelt thanks to all the members who post regularly on these forums, which have helped me immeasurably on my trips over the past 5-8 years, to Latin America, including Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Mexico, Dominican Republic, and Peru.
However, despite being addicted to fit Latin guys, I decided to try a visit to S E Asia this November.

I have poured over the helpful posts here, and the wonderful blogs by Shamelessmacktwo, which are so instructive.

I have just finished a week-long stay in Ho Chi Mihn City went  to a number of the massage shops that have featured previous posts.

On my first full day I had  booked a guide from Siamroads, and after a fascinating tour of the city centre, he organised us both (separate, I hasten to add) 90 minute massages at Aqua Spa. The set me back a total of 4 million Dong, tips included.
They sent pictures in advance, and my guy was like the photo, and quite hunky. After about 40 minutes of routine massaging, with not much straying into sensitive areas, he suddenly started rimming me, which was a very nice surprise. We proceeded from there with him fucking me in several positions and he came in my throat to finish. There was no kissing though, which is a slight disappointment for me.

The next day I tried 3 Some Spa, which is quite easy to reach from the city centre. I messaged them on WhatsApp to book a time, and they send a set of 24 photos some duplicated, so about 10-12 guys to choose from. Mostly very cute twinky types.
My first choice of guy was available, so after a shower downstairs next to the lockers, we proceeded to an upstairs room wearing the baggy boxer-type shorts provided.
He gave me a nice massage,  nude from the start, and in the second phase, fucked me and came in my face, so I left well satisfied. The system here is that the massage is 400,000 Dong, and the guy then asks you to write down the tip on a ticket, and you pay at the reception on leaving.

The next day I decided to visit the Nadam Spa. As other posters here have noted, this is a conventional sauna, not just a massage shop. It is located a bit further out of the city centre in the other places. At least a 30 minute ride in a Grab car away, through the perpetually slow, Saigon  traffic, with its swarming motorbikes.
The tactic I adopted was to use the new one Ho Chi Minh City, metro line,  travelling 2 or 3 stops from the Beh Thanh Market terminus, and then taking a grab car from the station nearest to my destination.
I was as equally impressed as Colom-bien (in his post of 6 December 2024) and I cannot better his eloquent description of the decor and ambience of the place. As he mentions, there are numerous massage guys wandering around the spa, and when one of them approached me and asked if I would like to partake, he took me through to the massage side of the place, but I was not then obliged to accept his services, but was given a book of pictures of the guys and a cold tea to drink while I made  my own choice.
The boy I chose gave me a very sensual massage, with plenty of 'extras', but still no kissing , unfortunately. When we had finished, there was, once again, the procedure of writing  the tip amount on a ticket, but this time, the guy asked me to write down just 200,000 Dong,  and then accompanied me back to the locker room where I gave him a further 1 million directly. Whether this is a procedure tolerated or condoned by the management I wouldn't like to say, but I was happy to be able  to reward him personally for a very happy moment.

I hope this report has not been too long-winded. I get the impression that many are readers of these posts like to see a lot of detail.

In the next part, I will cover my two visits to the Aroma Spa, which were undoubtedly the standout delights of my sojourn in Saigon. 

Its my first visit to S E Asia, so perhaps I should not really judge, but having been to Colombia 7-8 times in the past 6 years I totally get what you say about the 'sexo morbo' there.
And being able to converse a little in basic Spanish does make a difference 
Mind you, one or two guys I have met here have come close, but these were contacted via Grindr, not at the bars or massage shops. 

Its my first visit to S E Asia, so perhaps I should not really judge, but having been to Colombia 7-8 times in the past 6 years I totally get what you say about the 'sexo morbo' there.
And being able to converse a little in basic Spanish does make a difference 
Mind you, one or two guys I have met here have come close, but these were contacted via Grindr, not at the bars or massage shops. 

Its my first visit to S E Asia, so perhaps I should not really judge, but having been to Colombia 7-8 times in the past 6 years I totally get what you say about the 'sexo morbo' there.
And being able to converse a little in basic Spanish does make a difference 
Mind you, one or two guys I have met here have come close, but these were contacted via Grindr, not at the bars or massage shops. 

PART 2
On my third day in HCMC I wanted to try Aroma Spa. This is situated on the western side of the city, nowhere near any metro station, so it involved  a 30- 40 minute ride in a grab car, but definitely worth the effort.
The Spa has a website:
http://aromaspakhang.com/n3.html
which helpfully has pictures of the boys on offer, labelled with their names.
I WhatsApped in advance and persuaded myself to splash out on a 90 minute, 4-hands water massage with a 300,000 Dong supplement each for the guys to cum, which the manager kindly discounted for me to 400,000 Dong for the two to do it. So 3,200,000 Dong in all, but that is still less than a quarter of what I would have to pay 2 escorts in London for just an hour. I chose Minh and Chi Dân. When I arrived at the reception, the manager sat me down and tried to persuade me to add even more of his boys to the mix, but I managed to restrain myself. There was no need to use lockers here. We proceeded upstairs to a spacious room. with two low level massage beds pushed together, and a large bathroom with a jacuzzi style bath, and a flat large oblong bath for the water scrub. You could disrobe and keep all your belongings here in comfort.
Minh immediately stripped naked and using a hand held shower started washing me all over with lots of teasing touches. I then had to lie on the large flat shallow bath for an enervating  salt scrub, front and back.
After they had towelled me down they led me to the massage bed and both boys stared kissing my chest, and on we went from there, with exquisite pleasures of sucking, both guys fucking  me, passioate kissing, finally both came in my mouth. I thought I had died and gone to heaven.

After that I just had to return before leaving HCMC, so on my last full day I headed back to Aroma at around 5pm. I WhatsApped ahead to book Minh again (who is quite cute, thin and very affectionate) and another more hunky guy with tattoos called Dŭng.
The Grab car journey was about 35 minutes, but in the brightly lit streets of HCMC there is always something to look at.
Once again, when I arrived the manager tried to intest me in additional boys, but budgetary constraints meant I had to decline. On both visits, incidentally, I did not see any other clients at Aroma.
I had the same spacious room again, but this time the salt scrub came after the fun, but we started, again with Minh showering with me and teasing. This time they both fucked me, but also Dŭng fucked Minh while he was lying on top of me  kissing passionately.  Seeing this was too much for me and I climaxed mid way through, but then they both came in my face later.
After the salt scrub, they but me in the delightful warm jacuzzi bath, and Minh got in with me for some more playing around in the water (which Chi Dăn had done the first time actually,  I omitted to mention).
Afterwards, down in the reception,  water, cans of a red-bull type energy drink (definitely needed) and some snacks available.
So all in all truly memorable experiences at the place.
 
 

Hey everyone. I am a  "long-time lurker" (if that's  the right expression) on this site, and its predecessor hooboys, but my changing circumstances mean I now feel able to begin posting myself.
I would like to start therefore by expressing my heartfelt thanks to all the members who post regularly on these forums, which have helped me immeasurably on my trips over the past 5-8 years, to Latin America, including Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Mexico, Dominican Republic, and Peru.
However, despite being addicted to fit Latin guys, I decided to try a visit to S E Asia this November.

I have poured over the helpful posts here, and the wonderful blogs by Shamelessmacktwo, which are so instructive.

I have just finished a week-long stay in Ho Chi Mihn City went  to a number of the massage shops that have featured previous posts.

On my first full day I had  booked a guide from Siamroads, and after a fascinating tour of the city centre, he organised us both (separate, I hasten to add) 90 minute massages at Aqua Spa. The set me back a total of 4 million Dong, tips included.
They sent pictures in advance, and my guy was like the photo, and quite hunky. After about 40 minutes of routine massaging, with not much straying into sensitive areas, he suddenly started rimming me, which was a very nice surprise. We proceeded from there with him fucking me in several positions and he came in my throat to finish. There was no kissing though, which is a slight disappointment for me.

The next day I tried 3 Some Spa, which is quite easy to reach from the city centre. I messaged them on WhatsApp to book a time, and they send a set of 24 photos some duplicated, so about 10-12 guys to choose from. Mostly very cute twinky types.
My first choice of guy was available, so after a shower downstairs next to the lockers, we proceeded to an upstairs room wearing the baggy boxer-type shorts provided.
He gave me a nice massage,  nude from the start, and in the second phase, fucked me and came in my face, so I left well satisfied. The system here is that the massage is 400,000 Dong, and the guy then asks you to write down the tip on a ticket, and you pay at the reception on leaving.

The next day I decided to visit the Nadam Spa. As other posters here have noted, this is a conventional sauna, not just a massage shop. It is located a bit further out of the city centre in the other places. At least a 30 minute ride in a Grab car away, through the perpetually slow, Saigon  traffic, with its swarming motorbikes.
The tactic I adopted was to use the new one Ho Chi Minh City, metro line,  travelling 2 or 3 stops from the Beh Thanh Market terminus, and then taking a grab car from the station nearest to my destination.
I was as equally impressed as Colom-bien (in his post of 6 December 2024) and I cannot better his eloquent description of the decor and ambience of the place. As he mentions, there are numerous massage guys wandering around the spa, and when one of them approached me and asked if I would like to partake, he took me through to the massage side of the place, but I was not then obliged to accept his services, but was given a book of pictures of the guys and a cold tea to drink while I made  my own choice.
The boy I chose gave me a very sensual massage, with plenty of 'extras', but still no kissing , unfortunately. When we had finished, there was, once again, the procedure of writing  the tip amount on a ticket, but this time, the guy asked me to write down just 200,000 Dong,  and then accompanied me back to the locker room where I gave him a further 1 million directly. Whether this is a procedure tolerated or condoned by the management I wouldn't like to say, but I was happy to be able  to reward him personally for a very happy moment.

I hope this report has not been too long-winded. I get the impression that many are readers of these posts like to see a lot of detail.

In the next part, I will cover my two visits to the Aroma Spa, which were undoubtedly the standout delights of my sojourn in Saigon. 

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

Bangkok
Day activities:
A visit to the Mahanakhon skyscraper. The view is impressive, as is the skywalk. bicycle tour by night. Great experience, but I prefer the day tour.  Bars:
Fresh boys: great selection of boys and I loved the show (only one ladyboy lip-syncing act). I invited #19 and #28 to sit with me. #19 was very cute but top only. I would have taken #28 if it was any cheaper (asked for 3000 baht). Not sure if that's normal practice, but the papasan said that I had to pay the full amount to the bar, including the tip for the boy (?). Maybe I misunderstood.   Good boy: good selection of boys but I arrived just before the show started.  I lran away after three kathoey acts. Golden Cock: The door was open, but the bar was empty. No one in sight. I left after 5 minutes. Super A: I was the only customer. Drinks are 200 baht and the off fee is 500 baht. The guys are fully clothed, one of them attractive. I invited him to sit with me, and he immediately unbuckled his belt to get a better look at his goods. He's straight, but "can do anything." I put that to the test, and we went to the hotel, and what a surprise... The best sex I've had all week. He's an enthusiastic kisser and loved being fucked. He asked for 1500, but I gave him 2000. Sometimes you find what you're looking for where you least expect it. Massages:
Avalon massage: A cute guy comes up to me and says, "Massage, please, sir." I can't resist (massage 685 baht). I really enjoyed the massage. Then came the question I was hoping for: "Would you like something extra?" We discussed the details and the price (a 2,000 baht tip), and he undressed. He insisted we be very quiet, as there were other customers getting a massage in the same room (seperated by curtains). I really tried to be quiet, but I think I failed miserably. It was very enjoyable, anyway. oneSpa (saphan kwai): I chose "Min" a guy from Myanmar who could bottom. Special offer, 1 hour 499 baht. Minimum tip 1000 baht. Luckily, I paid an extra 100 baht for the VIP room, because if that was a VIP room, I don't want to know what the regular rooms look like. The massage was better than expected, with a pleasant body-to-body massage. As soon as I turned over, the real fun began. Min turned out to be a very enthusiastic bottom. We showered together at the end. From start to finish, 70 minutes. Highly recommended. Grindr:
Probably a coincidence, but the money boys were much more responsive than in Pattaya. I got one boy into my room within five minutes of our conversation. I ended up meeting two boys, paying them 1,200 and 1,500 baht respectively. Both were okay.
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I had a wonderful trip to Thailand. It was great to be back and see how things have changed. Some for the better (Jomtien Complex), some for the worse (Sunee, Boystown).
After visiting Colombia often over the past five years, it was good to have a change of scenery.
Will I go back? Definitely, but my next trip will be to Colombia again.
Thailand has so many advantages over Colombia. It's very safe, the food is great, the hotels are cheap and high-quality, you can get a good massage, and it's very easy to find a money boy...
But what I miss most in Thailand is what they call "morbo" in Colombia. It's hard to describe, but the sex is just hotter, more intense, more passionate. And there's a lot of kissing (more than half of the guys in Thailand didn't want to kiss). I also miss the long conversations, having drinks together, going out together,... With guys from South Asia it's just more difficult, because we don't speak a common language and I don't like using translation apps all the time.

 

I did try to learn a few word of Vietnamese on Duolingo, and found it interesting but pretty baffling,  having a background in only European languages.
Most of the managers/reception guys at the spas  spoke a bit of English, and the boys sometimes had a few words. I used google translate to express my appreciation for their services after each encounter. In shops and restaurants English was pretty much the lingua franca.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum.
I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur.

I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate.

Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy.
Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job
I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

PART 2
On my third day in HCMC I wanted to try Aroma Spa. This is situated on the western side of the city, nowhere near any metro station, so it involved  a 30- 40 minute ride in a grab car, but definitely worth the effort.
The Spa has a website:
http://aromaspakhang.com/n3.html
which helpfully has pictures of the boys on offer, labelled with their names.
I WhatsApped in advance and persuaded myself to splash out on a 90 minute, 4-hands water massage with a 300,000 Dong supplement each for the guys to cum, which the manager kindly discounted for me to 400,000 Dong for the two to do it. So 3,200,000 Dong in all, but that is still less than a quarter of what I would have to pay 2 escorts in London for just an hour. I chose Minh and Chi Dân. When I arrived at the reception, the manager sat me down and tried to persuade me to add even more of his boys to the mix, but I managed to restrain myself. There was no need to use lockers here. We proceeded upstairs to a spacious room. with two low level massage beds pushed together, and a large bathroom with a jacuzzi style bath, and a flat large oblong bath for the water scrub. You could disrobe and keep all your belongings here in comfort.
Minh immediately stripped naked and using a hand held shower started washing me all over with lots of teasing touches. I then had to lie on the large flat shallow bath for an enervating  salt scrub, front and back.
After they had towelled me down they led me to the massage bed and both boys stared kissing my chest, and on we went from there, with exquisite pleasures of sucking, both guys fucking  me, passioate kissing, finally both came in my mouth. I thought I had died and gone to heaven.

After that I just had to return before leaving HCMC, so on my last full day I headed back to Aroma at around 5pm. I WhatsApped ahead to book Minh again (who is quite cute, thin and very affectionate) and another more hunky guy with tattoos called Dŭng.
The Grab car journey was about 35 minutes, but in the brightly lit streets of HCMC there is always something to look at.
Once again, when I arrived the manager tried to intest me in additional boys, but budgetary constraints meant I had to decline. On both visits, incidentally, I did not see any other clients at Aroma.
I had the same spacious room again, but this time the salt scrub came after the fun, but we started, again with Minh showering with me and teasing. This time they both fucked me, but also Dŭng fucked Minh while he was lying on top of me  kissing passionately.  Seeing this was too much for me and I climaxed mid way through, but then they both came in my face later.
After the salt scrub, they but me in the delightful warm jacuzzi bath, and Minh got in with me for some more playing around in the water (which Chi Dăn had done the first time actually,  I omitted to mention).
Afterwards, down in the reception,  water, cans of a red-bull type energy drink (definitely needed) and some snacks available.
So all in all truly memorable experiences at the place.