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Odd habits of travelers

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6 minutes ago, Slvkguy said:

In Medellin for at least a week, speaks Spanish and still can’t figure it out ?  puzzling, indeed 

 

 

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That screenshot reads like someone trying to cover the traces of blood on his tracks. 

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53 minutes ago, SolaceSoul said:

That screenshot reads like someone trying to cover the traces of blood on his tracks

correct - and then, there’s this public post after the private message exchange where it was discussed not a good idea to ID sex workers.  

This is a con-game where @richard265is posting things to convince others he’s actually in Medellin, while actually just fishing for information to contact other sex-workers from referrals here. So, either he’s the same guy that got me before @iveryhotijake00or another one with the same scheme.   

He’s super pissed that someone has figured him out.  Thus, the thrashing about, name-calling and all the rest.  Btw - there are several others doing the same exact thing. Don’t fall for it.

 

 

 

 

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5 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

That screenshot reads like someone trying to cover the traces of blood on his tracks. 

Just shows what kind of person we're dealing with here - he shares a private communication in a public forum. Slvkguy is obviously a sexually frustrated troll who has nothing better to do than harass people on forums like this one.

6 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

Extremely suspect that someone who claims to be in Medellin right now and speaks Spanish is asking for specific information on a message board about Medellin. 

Oh, so suspect. What kind of jerk are you anyway?

6 hours ago, Slvkguy said:

In Medellin for at least a week, speaks Spanish and still can’t figure it out ?  puzzling, indeed 

 

 

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You've just proven what kind of person you are - sharing a private message in a public forum. I'm glad I didn't share anything personal with you. I am in Medellin, but I don't have to prove anything to you. I just had the most amazing sex with an escort with en enormous cock, Now go play with yourself in whatever sexless town your little basement apartment is located. You obviously have nothing better to do than troll message boards. Why are you commenting on posts about Medellin when you are not here and have never been? Sad old troll. I feel sorry for you.

5 hours ago, Slvkguy said:

correct - and then, there’s this public post after the private message exchange where it was discussed not a good idea to ID sex workers.  

This is a con-game where @richard265is posting things to convince others he’s actually in Medellin, while actually just fishing for information to contact other sex-workers from referrals here. So, either he’s the same guy that got me before @iveryhotijake00or another one with the same scheme.   

He’s super pissed that someone has figured him out.  Thus, the thrashing about, name-calling and all the rest.  Btw - there are several others doing the same exact thing. Don’t fall for it.

 

 

 

 

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At this point it has turned into harassment, and I've reported you. Get a life loser.

14 minutes ago, richard265 said:

At this point it has turned into harassment, and I've reported you. Get a life loser.

Posting a private message to prove a point is not harassment.   

The point being that your posts (and PM) are full of contradictions & nonsense to anyone paying attention.  You’ve supposedly been in Medellin for 3-weeks and speak Spanish (but use google translate here?) & come on here with a bunch of questions that nobody would really ask if you’re actually in a Medellin & can ask the locals - in Spanish.

I could be wrong - you just might be a really dense tourist that says and does dumb things that don’t make sense. That’s possible.  Highly unlikely tho for a 62yr old from SF. I’ve generally found gay men from SF to be rather sophisticated & informed about these sorts of matters.   And given you’ve posted extensively about your Santo Domingo adventures - you seem to have quite a bit of experience in certain places yet lose all common sense & ability to function in others - to the point where it’s just not believable.  Like I said, you could be that one person that manages to travel internationally with all that’s required & for whatever reason, totally helpless when arriving at a new destination.  It’s possible, yet unlikely.

and, you magically appeared less than 2-weeks ago after @iverhothotijake00 got busted & disappeared - with a writing style that is somewhat similar.  Coincidence ?  

btw - the LEANADRO (Medellin) post has been up since January and very easy to find given the name of the thread. That’s an easy one.

Very little patience with time-wasters, imposters, fakes & dumb people.  Which one are you ?

Yes - I will call out the fakes here when necessary so others can avoid playing the game.   I know I’m making life difficult for those that want to abuse this forum - abuse which has been noted by many long-time members.  That’s the point.

 

 

 

THE END - can no longer engage.  Make your own decisions.  

6 minutes ago, Slvkguy said:

Posting a private message to prove a point is not harassment.   

 

You're obviously a bitter old queen who is jealous that I'm having sex and you're not. All of your theories are ridiculous. You're obviously in the paranoia stages of dementia. And yes, posting a private message publicly and now sharing personal information about me is harassment and goes against the rules of conduct. You've been on this forum for much longer than I have, so you know the rules, yet you flaunt them. You post pronography, harass new members and share private messages. All grounds for being banned. If they don't get rid of you, I'll leave. I'm not really learning much anyway, and have to read through endless posts about garotos in Brazil to find anything out about Medellin.

Oh, and just wondering, do you normally go to a new place and stand out on the street asking strangers for information? You have a very odd sense of how the world works. I don't know what damage has been done to you, but it has severely impaired your judgement. Better for you to stay in your basement and give up your sex travels. I certainly hope you don't come to Medellin. I'd hate for these beautiful men here to be subjected to someone as bitter and paranoid as you are.

 

 

 

2 minutes ago, Slvkguy said:

THE END - can no longer engage.  Make your own decisions.  

Leave me the fuck alone.

1 hour ago, Lucky said:

Posting a private message is reprehensible.

Thank you. I don't know what is wrong with this guy. I wrote to him because I believed him that someone wrote him and asked him for information and then abused it, but now I think he's completely deranged and delusional. He's upset that I'm in Medellin and he's not, so he's claiming I'm not really in Medellin, I don't speak Spanish, I'm a fool for asking questions and I'm trying to get information on escorts so that I can...well I don't know what he thinks I'm going to do. Reprehensible is the perfect word for him. I've reported him, but apparently the administrators of this site don't actually exist. I appreciate someone else taking a stand against this behavior.
 

Now, I'm wondering if he also harassed the guy he originally wrote about whose name seems to be Jeff. I guess he decides that he's going to target someone and then goes after them and tries to ruin their reputation. I don't know what Jeff did in response, but I'm not going to stay quiet until he's gone.

2 hours ago, Lucky said:

Posting a private message is reprehensible.

Wrong  - the advice I gave in PM  is consistent in helping users (and sex-workers) avoid abuse from this forum.  I suggested avoiding posting information to identify sex-workers because they get harassed from people here.  This is a well known fact.  He went on to do just that multiple times.  I’m not the rule-maker here so everyone can do what they want.  But, it’s bad idea to identify anyone here - that’s what’s reprehensible.  

Do you think the sex-workers gave permission for their information to be posted here with a detailed description of what happened ?  I guess they could do the same thing to members here & how would that go over ?  I’m tired of people treating the sex-workers as disposable, second class and basically of no concern for the guys here to get their kicks.  That’s what’s reprehensible. 

But, in your view the probably white “rich” gringo is the victim here because he’s upset someone posted an innocuous private message to prove a point.  Check your privilege at the door next time. 

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1 hour ago, richard265 said:

Thank you. I don't know what is wrong with this guy. I wrote to him because I believed him that someone wrote him and asked him for information and then abused it, but now I think he's completely deranged and delusional. He's upset that I'm in Medellin and he's not, so he's claiming I'm not really in Medellin, I don't speak Spanish, I'm a fool for asking questions and I'm trying to get information on escorts so that I can...well I don't know what he thinks I'm going to do. Reprehensible is the perfect word for him. I've reported him, but apparently the administrators of this site don't actually exist. I appreciate someone else taking a stand against this behavior.
 

Now, I'm wondering if he also harassed the guy he originally wrote about whose name seems to be Jeff. I guess he decides that he's going to target someone and then goes after them and tries to ruin their reputation. I don't know what Jeff did in response, but I'm not going to stay quiet until he's gone.

 

So much for your decision to put him on “ignore”. 


 

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1 minute ago, SolaceSoul said:

 

So much for your decision to put him on “ignore”. 


 

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This has nothing to do with you, you're not the one being harassed and maligned. Stay out of it. Unless you are the same guy with another account.

10 minutes ago, Slvkguy said:

Wrong  - the advice I gave in PM  is consistent in helping users (and sex-workers) avoid abuse from this forum.  I suggested avoiding posting information to identify sex-workers because they get harassed from people here.  This is a well known fact.  He went on to do just that multiple times.  I’m not the rule-maker here so everyone can do what they want.  But, it’s bad idea to identify anyone here - that’s what’s reprehensible.  

Do you think the sex-workers gave permission for their information to be posted here with a detailed description of what happened ?  I guess they could do the same thing to members here & how would that go over ?  I’m tired of people treating the sex-workers as disposable, second class and basically of no concern for the guys here to get their kicks.  That’s what’s reprehensible. 

But, in your view the probably white “rich” gringo is the victim here because he’s upset someone posted an innocuous private message to prove a point.  Check your privilege at the door next time. 

So ignoring your advice is a reason to put someone on blast and lie about them? I'm sure you're privileged as well. Sounds like you take advantage of poor economic conditions in other countries to get your rocks off. You had no problem with the person who posted the photo of Leonardo and included a detailed description of what went down with him. For some reason, you decided to target me. Well, guess what, you chose the wrong person, because I'm not backing down until either you or I get banned. People like you ruin the experience for the rest of us. Guys on here have been posting and sharing information as well as asking questions, but when I did it, you got your panties in a bunch and decided to go on a rant and make up stories about me that were not true. You can go fuck yourself since that appears to be the only action you're getting these days. Meanwhile, I'm having lots of fun in Medellin!

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6 minutes ago, richard265 said:

This has nothing to do with you, you're not the one being harassed and maligned. Stay out of it. Unless you are the same guy with another account.

This is taking place on a public forum, troll. It has everything to do with anyone who has access. If you want complete privacy, make a friend and take it to WhatsApp or a phone conversation. But you and I both know that’s not what you want. You created these usernames in order to create the drama and discord that you crave. That’s exactly what trolls do. 

9 minutes ago, richard265 said:

Unless you are the same guy with another account.

Yes - @SolaceSouland I are the same person - you’ve cracked the code Sherlock 

8 minutes ago, SolaceSoul said:

This is taking place on a public forum, troll. It has everything to do with anyone who has access. If you want complete privacy, make a friend and take it to WhatsApp or a phone conversation. But you and I both know that’s not what you want. You created these usernames in order to create the drama and discord that you crave. That’s exactly what trolls do. 

You sound just like your delusional friend making up conspiracy theories. Oh, you blew my cover. But actually I'm Slvkguy. I made up the whole thing because I am so bored and I really wanted to create drama, so I posted something about myself. There, does that match your level of delusion, or can we take it further?

5 minutes ago, Slvkguy said:

Yes - @SolaceSouland I are the same person - you’ve cracked the code Sherlock 

And I'm the same person too, because apparently I'm making up user names. Wow, this is really the Twilight Zone.

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3 hours ago, Lucky said:

Posting a private message is reprehensible.

But aren’t you buddy-buddies with a group of old posters (some former, some still around) who once contacted a poster’s place of employment and outed him as a sex tourist, just because that poster wouldn’t use his privilege to help ruin a brasileiro who wouldn’t do something illicit for one of the privileged posters?

Yet, THIS is “reprehensible” to you? 

I'm done with you trolls. You're not helpful at all. I asked a question about Medellin and got responses from people about Brazil. Slvkguy, I hope you and your little girlfriend are happy. I'm deleting my account, and I will be having fun in Medellin and not sharing my experiences. You can all fuck off. I hope everyone learns from this that Slvkguy is not to be trusted. He's a troll who makes up lies about members and then goes on harassment crusades.

1 minute ago, richard265 said:

And I'm the same person too, because apparently I'm making up user names. Wow, this is really the Twilight Zone.

no - you are the member that’s been on here less than 2-weeks, supposedly in Medellin for at least 3-weeks, claiming to speak Spanish (but not without google translate and then can’t get it right) and asking all kinds of silly things that are easy to get from any local contact in Medellin.  So, you appear as a fake account. 

And, if you read the actual threads - you quickly revert to standard troll behavior such as name-calling, abusive language & swearing.  Mine posts contain none of that - just the facts. 

it is what it is.

5 minutes ago, richard265 said:

I'm done with you trolls

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Yes. We are supposed to believe that a well-traveled 62-year-old man who by his own admission has been doing sex tourism since before the internet existed  and who also has a preference bordering on obsession for Latin hung men, HAS NEVER BEEN TO BRAZIL.

His previous incarnation, igotjake or something, requested info on Brazilian garotos. So, not wanting his cover to be blown again, this time in this new username, he pretended to not ever have been to Brazil, and to be ALL about Medellin, Colombia. 

I honestly can’t understand why other posters even fall for these trolls. Maybe this explains how some travelers wind up in stupid, compromising positions while abroad  — really poor judgment and discernment skills. 

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