Cornilly Posted January 9 Posted January 9 Hi I'm hoping Forum members can give me some advice. I am 66 and lost my life partner a year ago. I now feel ready to reawaken my sex life. But I also crave warnth and affection at the same time. Do you think I will be able to find younger partners in Brazil who will be afffectionate as well as passionate and kinder to an older man? I presume I will need to pay but do I look online for people who fit this bill or do I try and find someone kind in the Saunas? Olddaddy, Alaskabear, BlkSuperman and 1 other 4 Quote
Members travguy Posted January 9 Members Posted January 9 You might consider if you are a coroa, if I have the word correct. Older, maybe furry guy. Not sure if we would call it a bear. Some younger guys are into coroas. I have met a very small number of younger gay guys that are ok with older, but mostly to hang out with. FWIW I am not a bear. If you speak some PT you have some chance of meeting such younger guys. Will not be easy though. Best of luck. Mavica 1 Quote
Members Popular Post Xclay Posted January 9 Members Popular Post Posted January 9 As a newbie, definitely stay away from online in Brazil. Stick to the safe saunas. Assuming you are reasonably fit and have no mobility issues, here is a draft plan just to throw out some suggestions: A nice easy first trip might be one-two weeks in Sao Paulo. Get a nice hotel on Paulista Avenida. See great museums during the day. Around 3:30-4:30, take an Uber to Espaco Lagoa Sauna. Bring ear plugs, seriously. Like you, I like affection along with serious sex. You can definitely find handsome young men who will be highly affectionate (I have found some great guys on this current trip), but they will vary a lot. In my experience, the most highly affectionate GPs tend to be bottoms, but some tops can be great at hugging and kissing. Finding them can be tricky because most will claim they like to hug and be romantic, but that does not guarantee they will follow through in the room. Be cautious about making much eye contact unless you think you have at least a semi-finalist to "interview." More and more of them have Google Translate on their phones now, so communication is not too difficult. It sounds like you might be at risk of having your heart broken and be seen as a sugar daddy monthly ATM if you are not careful. So try to resist falling in love right away and being exploited. Many posts on here discuss payment strategies. Let us know how it goes. BlkSuperman, vinapu, Mavica and 4 others 6 1 Quote
Members Xclay Posted January 9 Members Posted January 9 P.S. Suggest you avoid admitting that this is your first trip to Brazil. A little white lie here would be valuable. Maybe allude to Rio (or tres Rio) because it may be obvious you're not familiar with Lagoa. Axiom2020 and Primeone385 2 Quote
floridarob Posted January 10 Posted January 10 7 hours ago, Cornilly said: who will be afffectionate as well as passionate and kinder to an older man? Transactional or you looking for a new partner? 7 hours ago, Cornilly said: I now feel ready to reawaken my sex life. I'm guessing you're looking to be a whore....not a derogatory term in my book, btw.... More info, how long can you go for trips, how often, are you retired, sex position, etc.... What's bringing your attention to Brasil, vs Thailand or Asia, Colombia...? Mavica and Axiom2020 2 Quote
Members Latbear4blk Posted January 10 Members Posted January 10 8 hours ago, Cornilly said: Hi I'm hoping Forum members can give me some advice. I am 66 and lost my life partner a year ago. I now feel ready to reawaken my sex life. But I also crave warnth and affection at the same time. Do you think I will be able to find younger partners in Brazil who will be afffectionate as well as passionate and kinder to an older man? I presume I will need to pay but do I look online for people who fit this bill or do I try and find someone kind in the Saunas? You can definitely find a GP willing to be affectionate, as long as you do not have bad breath, you are clean, and kind, besides of course being generous. @Xclay is sharing very good advice above. Make sure you are emotionally in a good place, because there is no shortage of heart (and ass)-breaking sweet hot guys in Brazil. Mavica, Axiom2020, Primeone385 and 1 other 4 Quote
Members BlkSuperman Posted January 10 Members Posted January 10 @Cornilly I'm sorry you lost your partner. If this is your first time, I'd advise you linking up with the person I attached to my response. Hes an amazing guy. Hes a tour guide and can show you around Rio. Extremely friendly, bilingual and has the hook up and lots of Intel regarding the saunas and culture there. Hes a trustworthy so you won't have to worry about being taken advantage of. Hire him to show you the ins and outs of rio. Good luck! Oh wait! He also has some of the most delicious Brazilian dicks for you to suck. Wish you all the best, my friend. Axiom2020 1 Quote
Mavica Posted January 10 Posted January 10 Lots of good advice thus far. I think BlkSuperman offers a good first-timer, timid traveler option. Quote
Members Primeone385 Posted January 10 Members Posted January 10 6 hours ago, BlkSuperman said: @Cornilly I'm sorry you lost your partner. If this is your first time, I'd advise you linking up with the person I attached to my response. Hes an amazing guy. Hes a tour guide and can show you around Rio. Extremely friendly, bilingual and has the hook up and lots of Intel regarding the saunas and culture there. Hes a trustworthy so you won't have to worry about being taken advantage of. Hire him to show you the ins and outs of rio. Good luck! Oh wait! He also has some of the most delicious Brazilian dicks for you to suck. Wish you all the best, my friend. What @BlkSuperman says is very true. He can find you young guys that are tailored to you taste. But those guys would be more for pay. But his services of providing a list of attractive and nice guys is true. He helped me learn the sanuas and guys outside of the saunas. I will even go as far to say I was like a dog chasing every squirrel. He saved me from possibly making mistakes in spending to much money and going to places that might of been to shady. " Squirrel !" (IYKYK) Plus his tour services are top notch. He's fun to hang with as well. Quote
Cornilly Posted January 10 Author Posted January 10 I'm so so grateful for your fantastic advice and support. I will definitely contact your suggestion. Can anyone give me any ideas where to stay where I can take guys back without hassle? Quote
Members Primeone385 Posted January 11 Members Posted January 11 Manu can help with suggestions. Just ask for either hotel or airbnb. Quote
Members Xclay Posted January 11 Members Posted January 11 I don't know anything at all about Manu but perhaps -- if you subcontract "procurement" to Manu -- his GPs will be safe enough to take to your lodging. But, as a total newbie, I suggest you be sure right away to try out the safe sauna experience. You may enjoy meeting and interacting with the range of GPs you will see there. For the record, many frequent travelers only hook up at the saunas. Practices differ. Looks like my helpful comrades are recommending Rio over Sao Paulo, due especially to Manu. I think that for an older newbie, SP's Lagoa is a more congenial setting than Rio's 117 & 202. But maybe Manu, if he is a good at they say, tips the advantage to Rio. Axiom2020, Connordrick and floridarob 3 Quote
joizy Posted January 13 Posted January 13 On 1/9/2025 at 8:36 AM, Cornilly said: Hi I'm hoping Forum members can give me some advice. I am 66 and lost my life partner a year ago. I now feel ready to reawaken my sex life. But I also crave warnth and affection at the same time. Do you think I will be able to find younger partners in Brazil who will be afffectionate as well as passionate and kinder to an older man? I presume I will need to pay but do I look online for people who fit this bill or do I try and find someone kind in the Saunas? This is slightly off topic, but still on topic...I've been traveling a lot this past year since I just retired, and I've been surprised at the number of young men who are looking for "mature". I found this in Italy, Mexico and Panama, three countries I just visited. I also encountered this in Colombia a few years ago. Because of the kind of guys I'm attracted to, I tended more towards the ones who were charging, but if I wanted, I am sure I would have been able to find an affectionate younger companion. Several of them were really hot. Not sure what the attraction to older men is about but I was happy to receive it. FunFifties and floridarob 2 Quote
nikba2515 Posted January 13 Posted January 13 15 hours ago, joizy said: This is slightly off topic, but still on topic...I've been traveling a lot this past year since I just retired, and I've been surprised at the number of young men who are looking for "mature". I found this in Italy, Mexico and Panama, three countries I just visited. I also encountered this in Colombia a few years ago. Because of the kind of guys I'm attracted to, I tended more towards the ones who were charging, but if I wanted, I am sure I would have been able to find an affectionate younger companion. Several of them were really hot. Not sure what the attraction to older men is about but I was happy to receive it. 100% agree, been told by the youngster themselves. Much older guys “bottom” are easy to please, less work, and generosity: shopping, dining and entertaining. 10-15 minutes of pounding, kissing and lot of cuddling, these are routine… Quote
babybear2 Posted January 13 Posted January 13 If you do not speak Portuguese, it is best to visit Sauna only and being 65 is pretty normal in the sauna, I even see much older clients Xclay 1 Quote
a-447 Posted January 14 Posted January 14 On 1/13/2025 at 11:13 AM, joizy said: I've been surprised at the number of young men who are looking for "mature". I found this in Italy, Mexico and Panama, three countries I just visited. I also encountered this in Colombia a few years ago. Because of the kind of guys I'm attracted to, I tended more towards the ones who were charging, but if I wanted, I am sure I would have been able to find an affectionate younger companion. Several of them were really hot. Not sure what the attraction to older men is about but I was happy to receive it. You'll find this in Japan, too. Last year I went to a gay cinema in tokyo which was frequented by old guys, yet managed to hook up with a couple of younger guys who preferred mature men. The same happened at the 24 Sauna in Shinjuku. I had sex with 2 younger guys, one of whom was in his twenties! joizy 1 Quote
hornyfrog Posted Saturday at 10:05 AM Posted Saturday at 10:05 AM On 1/9/2025 at 6:37 PM, travguy said: You might consider if you are a coroa, if I have the word correct. Older, maybe furry guy. Not sure if we would call it a bear. Some younger guys are into coroas. I have met a very small number of younger gay guys that are ok with older, but mostly to hang out with. FWIW I am not a bear. If you speak some PT you have some chance of meeting such younger guys. Will not be easy though. Best of luck. Just for clarification purposes… Coroa and bear / urso are not the same thing, although they can overlap in some cases. A coroa is a mature older man, regardless of physical appearance or sexual orientation. often admired for his maturity, life experience, financial stability. and/or charisma. and it doesn’t necessarily imply body type or hairiness, or even sexual attractiveness. It’s just a general, harmless, non-sexual descriptor of a mature-looking / -acting older man. Urso is bear in Portuguese. Like in North America, it refers specifically to a gay man who is larger, hairy, and has a rugged or masculine appearance. It’s more about physical traits and being part of that specific urso subculture within the gay community. A man could be both an urso and a coroa if he fits the descriptions of both terms — for instance, a mature, hairy, and rugged older man. And “urso” is used in Brazil far more than “bear” — though you can find more English speakers and global travelers who will use “bear”. Then, there’s “daddy”. A “coroa” can sometimes overlap with the concept of a “daddy” used in North America, but there are differences in connotation. In U.S. gay culture, a “daddy” is typically an older man who is seen as sexually desirable, often confident, nurturing, or protective. The term often carries a playful, flirtatious, or explicitly sexual or dominant undertone, often linked to a power dynamic. The coroa can but may not necessarily be viewed as a daddy — it really depends on the context and the individual’s vibe. While coroa can sometimes imply physical attractiveness (like the term “silver fox” in the USA), it doesn’t inherently carry the sexualized or dominant undertones of “daddy.” It’s important to note (especially in the context of the original post) that. in a country like Brazil with far more (socioeconomic) class delineation between rich and poor than in the USA, Canada or Western Europe, that the coroa and the daddy are almost always the financially stable providers. This is the case whether or not the younger / other partner considers himself a sex worker or not. FunFifties 1 Quote
FunFifties Posted Saturday at 12:29 PM Posted Saturday at 12:29 PM On 1/13/2025 at 4:13 AM, joizy said: This is slightly off topic, but still on topic...I've been traveling a lot this past year since I just retired, and I've been surprised at the number of young men who are looking for "mature". I found this in Italy, Mexico and Panama, three countries I just visited. I also encountered this in Colombia a few years ago. Because of the kind of guys I'm attracted to, I tended more towards the ones who were charging, but if I wanted, I am sure I would have been able to find an affectionate younger companion. Several of them were really hot. Not sure what the attraction to older men is about but I was happy to receive it. I have made similar experiences. I seem to be getting more attention from guys in their 20s and 30s than when I was their age. I don't mind joizy 1 Quote
