First time

[Lewislord]

Hello, I’m posting my first message here so I apologise if I’m repeating anything from the earlier. I’ve been reading through the threads for a few weeks and thought I’d ask something.

Me and my partner are going to Bangkok for the first time. 
We are each looking for a massage but not sure what to pick as a first time, would any recommend joint massages or not? 
We have had individual ones in other countries before and they included extras at the end. 
Would you say that the quality of the massage degrades when the focus is more on the extras? 
sorry if there is a pre existing thread asking this information that I’ve missed 

thanks

 

[mauRICE]

@Lewislord Welcome to the forum. 

What do you mean by "joint massages"? You and your partner in the same room being massaged by two masseurs? That's not unusual but more common at straight massage parlours. Very common at hotel spas. I think gay massage parlours should offer this service too but I'll leave it to the experts, of which there are many here. You've come to the right place!

As for your second question, it really boils down to the masseur and his skills, how many clients he's had that day, your expectations and the chemistry between the two of you. You may receive a great massage but poor afters, a so-so massage but great afters, or both the massage and the extras could be great...or bad. Good service in one area doesn't necessarily mean the other will be compromised. There's no exact science to it and as my stamp-collecting aunty likes to say, "Just go!"

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, mauRICE said:

There's no exact science to it and as my stamp-collecting aunty likes to say, "Just go!"

We share the same Aunt 😳

[Lewislord]

1 hour ago, mauRICE said:

@Lewislord Welcome to the forum. 

What do you mean by "joint massages"? You and your partner in the same room being massaged by two masseurs? That's not unusual but more common at straight massage parlours. Very common at hotel spas. I think gay massage parlours should offer this service too but I'll leave it to the experts, of which there are many here. You've come to the right place!

As for your second question, it really boils down to the masseur and his skills, how many clients he's had that day, your expectations and the chemistry between the two of you. You may receive a great massage but poor afters, a so-so massage but great afters, or both the massage and the extras could be great...or bad. Good service in one area doesn't necessarily mean the other will be compromised. There's no exact science to it and as my stamp-collecting aunty likes to say, "Just go!"

Yeah probably better do you things separately. Yeah will just be a chance thing I’m sure to get the balance inbetween…

1 minute ago, floridarob said:

We share the same Aunt 😳

All this lingo on this site is entertaining 😂

I could do with a small brief sheet to know what is being said or alluded too 🙈

[mauRICE]

10 minutes ago, Lewislord said:

All this lingo on this site is entertaining 😂

I could do with a small brief sheet to know what is being said or alluded too 🙈

Nah, you don't need a crib sheet. Hang around, keep an open mind, take part, don't take us too seriously, don't take yourself too seriously and eventually you'll figure it out. Have fun!