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[Gmanpdx]

After years of lurking I finally can join in. I will write later about the last couple days in Bangkok in that section. 

I obviously still don't know how it all works. I was in M Bar and was the only customer and they were all the boys stage just kind of standing. I don't know if I was supposed to point or what. I tried making eye contact with the one i liked, maybe he just didnt like me... Not sure if I could off them? Still learning. Trying to avoid getting too soaked, accidental booking mistake..

Will try Grindr, but do they just come to the room (Zing) or do I have to bring them through reception personally? I am full of questions. LOL

[zoomomancs]

In some hotels I have known men manage to arrive at my room but I usually go outside to greet them and get them in. Zing will want to keep their id while they are there. Best they check the id is correct when they get it back. All the men in M Bar are there to be taken out in my experience. To get them from the stage either describe the man you like to a waiter or get up and touch them with a little tug or a 'would you like a drink' gesture. Pointing at people in Thailand is seen as rude and aggressive so not a good way to start. Even this week I assumed a man on stage didn't like me and I was wrong so I advise testing matters with a drink and a 200bt tip for a short chat if you don't want to proceed. 

[Gmanpdx]

22 minutes ago, zoomomancs said:

In some hotels I have known men manage to arrive at my room but I usually go outside to greet them and get them in. Zing will want to keep their id while they are there. Best they check the id is correct when they get it back. All the men in M Bar are there to be taken out in my experience. To get them from the stage either describe the man you like to a waiter or get up and touch them with a little tug or a 'would you like a drink' gesture. Pointing at people in Thailand is seen as rude and aggressive so not a good way to start. Even this week I assumed a man on stage didn't like me and I was wrong so I advise testing matters with a drink and a 200bt tip for a short chat if you don't want to proceed. 

Thank you!! 😊 

[Olddaddy]

On 4/15/2026 at 12:43 AM, zoomomancs said:

ay to start. Even this week I assumed a man on stage didn't like me and I was wrong so I advise testing matters with a drink and a 200bt tip for a short chat if you

Who cares if they don't like you ,

I'm not there to be thier friend .

I hired a guy from the Airtasker app the other day ,.

a locksmith for my unit door broke 

, the price wass paid through the Airtasker app

Asian guy ( Chinese) turns up and soon as he is out of the lift the first thing he says ... "oh my parking 🅿️is extra $10 I had to find street parking 🅿️ 

There was no hello how are you etc it was my parking extra $10.

"Who gives a fuck I said .  

I said who gives a fuck ,we agreed on a quoted price , im not your lover ,im not your friend , fix the lock🔑🔐 and fuck off !

they are the service provider and im the customer, if they agree on a quoted price then I couldn't give a fuck if they like me or not !