Losing it slowly , one day at the time . Summer trip to Thailand and Cambodia in July 2026

[bkkmfj2648]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

I ordered  drinks for guys , soon next round and by 1.30 I was pretty drunk and so were boys. I ordered my last and final drink and , being imbibed , forget to pay for it. !!! Eternal shame on me. Bar got it’s money as one of boys paid for me and send me message in WhatsApp  that  he did.   Too bad my flight is early , otherwise I’d go and reimburse him even if he said don’t worry. One more reason to go there next time.  Short ride to hotel , driver suggested to take me to the airport in the morning and I agreed telling him to be there at 8.30

wow - that story is funny - as you would never intentionally not pay the bill....

Vinapu, when you returned to your room - was the guy naked and still under the sheets ?

[vinapu]

5 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

wow - that story is funny - as you would never intentionally not pay the bill....

Vinapu, when you returned to your room - was the guy naked and still under the sheets ?

of course I wouldn't , it was just my last drink  so we  are talking 4-6 $ max.

Guys should stop me  from leaving , it's not that I  ghosted them , quite opposite  I gave my goodbye hug to everybody individually. But they were drunk too to a degree I guess.

Yes and yes, naked and still under the sheets. I know he was tired so my escape to the  bar was kind of charity to let him to catch some uninterrupted sleep. We both benefited .

 

[spoon]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

Bar got it’s money as one of boys paid for me and send me message in WhatsApp  that  he did.

That guy is a gem!!!

[vinapu]

13 hours ago, spoon said:

That guy is a gem!!!

Tell me something I don't know, he, he

[jason1975]

22 hours ago, vinapu said:

Yes and yes, naked and still under the sheets. I know he was tired so my escape to the  bar was kind of charity to let him to catch some uninterrupted sleep. We both benefited .

I love it when guys sleep naked in my bed!

My guy sometimes doesn't. When he finds the aircon is too cold, he puts on a jacket. And once he has jacket, he wears his boxer briefs.

So I make sure the aircon temperature is to his liking!

[vinapu]

Day 13

 L was sleeping deeply and likely did not notice my arrival but at some point I found him wrapped around me so my guess is at some point of night he did. .It was actually very pleasant situation warranting tip on top of agreed tip . In the morning few romantic moments , L went his way and I took shower , packed my stuff including , yes , tablet and went down to meet  my  remork driver who offered me to take met to the airport for 10 $ and 5000 riels. Pretty long way and not the fastest more of transport but air in the morning was very pleasant and I like my 50 minutes ride.

 Actually I was bit of anxious as my  last two  times flying out of Phnom Penh were breezy . Last year morning flight was cancelled and I was forced to spend  8 hrs. at Pochentong  waiting for afternoon one . In January it was another cancellation and we were driven  back to hotel in the city but that was blessing in disguise as that enabled me to meet my schoolmate first time after 40 years.

This time it was all breeze , I even managed to have 8$ breakfast  - tea and baguette at the airport.

 Aircraft took off few minutes earlier  and landed at Swampy 15 mins before schedule so when exchanging my Pattaya bus voucher for a ticket  for 2 pm. they offered me space in 1 p.m. bus but I declined opting for lunch in coupon restaurant by gate 8 instead. Exchanged some money as well.

On the bus I took time to catch up with the forum as fortunately nobody was sitting beside me in the last row. I also let bkkmfj know I’m coming and we agreed to meet at new Complex restaurant Schatzi in the evening . 

In Pattaya  again I opted for Zing hotel  on the main road and was even treated  with upgrade for bigger room .

At 6.30 pm as I approached  Schatzi I saw bkkmfj and familiar , although never seen before figure sitting beside him , no one less that our dear and beloved Olddaddy. Finally ! My forum member # 42 met in person .

I ordered my schnitzel and must say it surpasses and exceeded expectation. Two weeks later typing this I still feel the taste. After covid claimed Alt Heidelberg on Bitch Road I never thought I will tase such decent schnitzel in Pattaya but now obviously I realized I was wrong.

Engaging conversation with both guys, we even discussed golden faucets, after all it was Olddaddy at the table , Very happy we finally met !

At one point Daddy went he way, bkkmfj and me decided to do the walk through the Supertown but since nothing really triggered by attention I suggested Boyztown and bkkmfj agreed.

While walking  through the main soi I noticed very attractive guy in front of Toy Boys but for now we kept walking toward XBoys and when we entered show just started. What surprised us  in the soi was most well known guy from B Boys break dance  troupe working as barker for the bar. Soon we realized that he is still active  performer.

Show at XBoys is always very progressive and deprived of any sense of modesty , in short  , it’s what boy show should be. Lots of flesh on display and all of it can be sampled if one invests in drink or three for the boy(s) . Atmosphere was good and fun filled although sound was too loud , bordering on occupational hazard for the boys. But that can be said about many a bar in Thailand.

After the show bkkmfj went home as youngsters those days are  somewhat weak and getting easily tired and I went to ToyBoys to take closer look at that boy who drew  my attention.

 He was still available  but I decided to take my time . When buying drink I noticed price list  and yes , they have published tip for Short time of 1500 and double of that for Long Time .

Soon my ‘target ‘ was sitting beside me treated with drink. Long Time accepted enthusiastically . Cambodian , good English , interesting life story ( had farang boyfriend who  died already ). We took  2 motorsais to my hotel at 60 a person and soon I could admire up very close what so far  I could  sample just up close only. That was piece of art attached to him , that’s beyond doubt and I liked what I saw and could feel . Even he noticed proudly ‘ you like it ?”.

 We had chemistry and that helped with more or less sleepless  night of fun.

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, jason1975 said:

I love it when guys sleep naked in my bed!

My guy sometimes doesn't. When he finds the aircon is too cold, he puts on a jacket. And once he has jacket, he wears his boxer briefs.

So I make sure the aircon temperature is to his liking!

what is better that boy sleeping naked in my bed ? Two boys sleeping naked in my bed.

I for one like cold but only  natural cold, not AC created one so usually keep room temperature at 26 centigrades, no excuses for sleeping fully dressed i.e. in briefs. Some guys try though but I remove them mercilessly. Had even one who protested quite loudly  and had to remind him he is at work. That was last  I saw him.

 

[jason1975]

37 minutes ago, vinapu said:

what is better that boy sleeping naked in my bed ? Two boys sleeping naked in my bed.

Wow. I have never tried that.

I only had threesome but never long time.

I will try threesome long time in next trip.

[jason1975]

47 minutes ago, vinapu said:

 He was still available  but I decided to take my time . When buying drink I noticed price list  and yes , they have published tip for Short time of 1500 and double of that for Long Time .

Pattaya prices are low compared to Bangkok!

Bangkok bars short time 2500-3000 and long time 3500-5000

[bkkmfj2648]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

At 6.30 pm as I approached  Schatzi I saw bkkmfj and familiar , although never seen before figure sitting beside him , no one less that our dear and beloved Olddaddy. Finally ! My forum member # 42 met in person .

I truly enjoyed the look on both of your faces @vinapu and @Olddaddy as you sized each other up - and I was surprised to learn that you had never met previously - even though many of your previous trips overlapped.  Vinapu, if Olddaddy is your #42 forum member that you met - do you remember what number I am ?

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

After the show bkkmfj went home as youngsters those days are  somewhat weak and getting easily tired and I went to ToyBoys to take closer look at that boy who drew  my attention.

And I was very happy to learn later on that you were able to continue your sexy Cambodian encounter streak 🤪🍆🍆💦

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

That was piece of art attached to him , that’s beyond doubt and I liked what I saw and could feel . Even he noticed proudly ‘ you like it ?”.

wow - I can only imagine  🍆🍆🍆

[bkkmfj2648]

1 hour ago, jason1975 said:

Pattaya prices are low compared to Bangkok!

YES - Very good for us retirees who live here on a fixed pension budget 🤑

[jason1975]

I believe @vinapu is the forum member who has met the most forum members in person! Probably because of his charming personality!

i myself only met about 15 forum members in person.

[Londoner]

Thanks. I enjoy those panoramic views. Even now, I recall my first day in Bangkok thirty years ago and the wonder of my first view of the city at night from the tenth floor of my hotel. 

[floridarob]

4 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

wow - I can only imagine  🍆🍆🍆

And here I thought he was only a room size queen 😲

[vinapu]

12 hours ago, jason1975 said:

Pattaya prices are low compared to Bangkok!

Bangkok bars short time 2500-3000 and long time 3500-5000

market economy.

 But take a heart , on the last trip I was asked for 3000 for overnight in Bangkok on two occasions . Paid bit more on my free will  as I like to help needy but willing

[vinapu]

11 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

I truly enjoyed the look on both of your faces @vinapu and @Olddaddy as you sized each other up - and I was surprised to learn that you had never met previously - even though many of your previous trips overlapped.  Vinapu, if Olddaddy is your #42 forum member that you met - do you remember what number I am ?

And I was very happy to learn later on that you were able to continue your sexy Cambodian encounter streak 🤪🍆🍆💦

wow - I can only imagine  🍆🍆🍆

I knew it was Olddaddy as few trips ago we almost met - missed each other by the day or less. On that occasion he sent me his royal likeness.

You are number 29 right between floridarob and tartegogo. I don't need to remember , I have it writen down , lol

9 hours ago, jason1975 said:

I believe @vinapu is the forum member who has met the most forum members in person! Probably because of his charming personality!

 

stop that nonsense although I can live with that. 

I met so many  members simply because I either shamelessly asked them if they wanted to meet or even more shamelessly accepted their proposal  to meet. 

Funniest meeting , or rather non-meeting was in days of soi Twilight. Member proposed to meet at such and such time of early hours of the evening . I parked myself at almost empty Maxi (  it was restaurant of that name there)  as agreed   and saw farang passing by casually looking at very few patrons there  . Certainly he did not like what he saw as he did not stop , later on just messaging me ' sorry I couldn't make it ".  

[vinapu]

7 hours ago, floridarob said:

And here I thought ...

warning - thinking by uninitiated may cause severe headaches

[vinapu]

12 hours ago, jason1975 said:

Pattaya prices are low compared to Bangkok!

 

true but not universal . I was shown charming Jomtien Complex boy who is asking and get  tips at upper end of Bangkok levels 

9 hours ago, Londoner said:

Thanks. I enjoy those panoramic views. Even now, I recall my first day in Bangkok thirty years ago and the wonder of my first view of the city at night from the tenth floor of my hotel. 

my first was room on 20 something floor of Royal Benja hotel at end of Sukhumvit soi 5 and yes , I sill recall how impressed I was with the view when I woke up in the morning 

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

warning - thinking by uninitiated may cause severe headaches

headaches are just the beginning. Keep me thinking too long and smoke starts coming out of my ears 

[vinapu]

 

Day 14

8 am is very early for Pattaya  to have a breakfast  and I was one of only 3  people when I entered breakfast area. Boy was dreaming only about good sleep and declined  breakfast invitation. But on  departure said in no uncertain terms ‘ hope to see you again tonight”. I was pretty sure it will be a case  but decided to keep my options opened so only smiled broadly.

Energized  I decided to do today something I never did before in my so many visits in Pattaya – finally to go atop of Jomtien tower. Why I never go there , I don’t know  , likely reason is that is not that straightforward to find a way there. Anyways I walked bravely in mid-day heat. It cost 300 baht just to go to the top , additional rides are extra but I did not pursue  that options (yet). In price was included non-alcoholic drink   - I opted for hot tea.

 

View was excellent, air pretty clear. Unfortunately from up there  one can see that water in the beaches is not really crystal clear to put it modestly. I’m glad I  did it and that tower should be my place to go whenever I’m back in Pattaya.

Going to the beach I found new place for G’Bangkok , still in works . As we know now it’s already opened, congratulation to Guido and crew.

 I walked along the beach , not too many  sunbathers although it was lunch time  so some could be back in hotels . After reaching Complex I gave up on walking , took songtaew  to bus station to buy a ticket for tomorrow noon  and then another one to take me home where I truly collapsed on the bed but not before sensibly setting alarm clock for 5.30 pm.

At 6.30 as agreed , dinner with bkkmfj at Schatzi, I had chicken with cashew nuts today , yummy beyond measure.I truly like the place .   Then we  went to Sunee bar  where full house congregated for the show. I liked the show, truly high energy performance although sadly buys in the show not really my types. They collected quite a hauls in tips.

Later we went to Boyztown, tonight targeting Dreamboys . Scene was full of boys , all in jeans and none of them appealed to me so after a while we moved to ABomb. Nothing to write home from there , no customers and only  3 fully dressed boys on the stage , all immersed in their phones and none even rised a head  for a second to look at us . There was supposed to be a show  starting soon but we decided not to wait for it. I noticed drink price 350 , not to look at boys I can see on the street for free.

 So we moved to Toy Boys , guys are at least in their briefs so much , much more attractive looking.

I was spying 2 or 3 , quite appealing a but at end of day I opted  for repat of  last night and took home the same guy. Motorsais wanted 80 baht tonight  so we just walked few hundred meters to songtaews and got home for 30 both instead 80 each . Long live the greed !

 

[jason1975]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

Later we went to Boyztown, tonight targeting Dreamboys . Scene was full of boys , all in jeans and none of them appealed to me so after a while we moved to ABomb. Nothing to write home from there , no customers and only  3 fully dressed boys on the stage , all immersed in their phones and none even rised a head  for a second to look at us . There was supposed to be a show  starting soon but we decided not to wait for it. I noticed drink price 350 , not to look at boys I can see on the street for free.

So we moved to Toy Boys , guys are at least in their briefs so much , much more attractive looking.

You probably didn't like the guys at Dreamboys and ABomb because they were fully-dressed.

[jason1975]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

 At 6.30 as agreed , dinner with bkkmfj at Schatzi, I had chicken with cashew nuts today , yummy beyond measure.I truly like the place .   Then we  went to Sunee bar  where full house congregated for the show. I liked the show, truly high energy performance although sadly buys in the show not really my types. They collected quite a hauls in tips.

We all know the type of guys you like. If you had offed a guy from Sunee Bar, something must be wrong with you!

[jason1975]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

Energized  I decided to do today something I never did before in my so many visits in Pattaya – finally to go atop of Jomtien tower. Why I never go there , I don’t know  , likely reason is that is not that straightforward to find a way there. Anyways I walked bravely in mid-day heat. It cost 300 baht just to go to the top , additional rides are extra but I did not pursue  that options (yet). In price was included non-alcoholic drink   - I opted for hot tea.

View was excellent, air pretty clear. Unfortunately from up there  one can see that water in the beaches is not really crystal clear to put it modestly. I’m glad I  did it and that tower should be my place to go whenever I’m back in Pattaya.

You should have taken the cable car ride down to the beach!

[bkkmfj2648]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

at end of day I opted  for repat of  last night and took home the same guy.

With my own eyes I could see why that sexy masculine Cambodian was soo appealing to you = he was a:

Hug-a-Holic

He had a huge amount of hugs for you 🫂😍

 

[bkkmfj2648]

11 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

You should have taken the cable car ride down to the beach!

Yes Vinapu!!

During your next visit let us descend together from the Pattaya Park Tower in a fun way 🪂🪂🪂