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Gay Bangkok

  1. We needed to leave Malaysia, my visa was about to expire. We’re living in a family owned apartment in Penang, been there since April after our last border hop to Hat Yai for a month. We’ve been in Malaysia on and off since sept 2024 after we left the uk as I retired…. One way ticket, gave everything away before we left… I should have left Malaysia this time in July, I had my O visa approved, we were going back to Hat Hai to drop 800k baht in a bank account and get a condo. Three weeks before we were due to leave we decided to go stay at Cititel in Georgetown for the weekend to do some last minute shopping. We love it there, they love us… Typical …

  2. Started by zazzu,

    I'm planning a trip to Bangkok in Dec and I'm interested in finding some spas that offer full service. Specifically, I'm interested in Brother Massage. Do they offer "full service" or just HJ and/or body2body service? Aside from the usual spots in Saphan Khwai (K Man, 15M, Phoenix, etc.) and Silom (Senso, Prince, Arena, etc.), are there any spas around that offer full service. Looking specifically for ones located near the metro/BTS. I don't mind a 10-20 min walk from the metro though. Just trying to avoid a lengthy taxi ride to the outskirts of the city. I've been reading a bit about some new(?) places like History of Massage, Prestige, Wabi-Sabi (not so new?)…

  3. Started by hotbyu,

    Hi all, Just went by Silom and all the bars are closed. Does anyone know what happened some kind of raid? Seems like the straight bars are open. I really wanted to go by Fresh boys. oh well next time.

  4. Started by CuriosityDan,

    Hello guys! Am in BKK at the moment and want to try a nice massage! It’s my first time and a bit anxious. Im currently looking at Jey spa and History of Massage but the photos are a bit dodgy (AI enhanced?) and no pics of guys in informal settings. Also do you know if therapists also agree to be given BJ HJ and even kissing? Or is it more that they do the BJ and HJ to you? finally, how do you decide on the tip? Is giving the minimum OK? Thank you!!

  5. Hello gentlemen of this site! As a decades-long member of this site and its predecessor, I am coming to this forum with some specific questions that may seem basic to some. For that I apologize, and I thank you experts in advance for helping with my questions! I am a virgin to the ways of Bangkok... I am planning a trip to BKK in March. I will be accompanied there with my beautiful Indo Muscleboy Sugar Baby... and will enjoy my time with him. He goes to BKK all the time for his other clients and for events like White Party, etc. He will "show me around" BKK when we are together, however, I will have some days there before and after his visit. I would like to visit so…

  6. Started by jimmie50,

    Day 0 (lol) Travel Day. Flight leaving Denver was 30 minutes late. Not totally unexpected, as most things landing and taking off at Denver are always delayed. Same for San Francisco. Total of 20 hours confined on a flying tin can, plus an additional six hours in layovers. Draining experience to say the least. I moved to Denver from the SF Bay Area a few years ago and at that time the SF airport had completed their new international terminal and the older terminal buildings were undergoing renovation. Was somewhat of a surprise to find the airport once again undergoing some reno projects. Made for a very long walk from arrival gate to international departure ga…

  7. Started by BangkokDreamer,

    Went to 27M to see Dollar, a favorite of mine from a past trip. This trip he had obviously gained weight but for me not in a bad weight. Still slim and great performance. Unfortunately my plans to see if him again were thwarted when I noticed on his line that he was on vacation the next day. Glad I took advantage of him as my first choice and I was rather disappointed the rest of the trip. Krubb- Nothing for me here. Not the place if you are older and out of shape. Paid extra 30 Bhat for a larger towel. FAFA Massage- I don't know what I was thinking. I was torn between two guys and honestly not sure why I picked the guy I did but you ever show up and you can t…

  8. Are there any H type spas with 40+ daddy type in BKK?

  9. Started by kram987,

    For anyone who wonders about these things plane landed at 4:20 I walked out of customs at 5:20

  10. Older couple, together 20 years. Heading to Bangkok for the first time, in Jan '26 for around 5 weeks. Mainly to fullfill a border hop out of Malaysia so we can be back to Penang for Chinese New year. As we're going to be staying for around a month we want to rent an apartment rather than a hotel stay. I see the main district of interest is Silom Soi4 so we may as well throw ourselves in to the thick of it. If you have any suggestions for a good apartment rental I would be pleased to know of it. Equally if you know of an apartment rental to avoid like the plague, I would very much like to hear of it. If you have any tips suggest…

  11. Started by mauRICE,

    I see this hotel receives generally positive reviews from our esteemed members and I've suggested it to friends of mine who are new-ish to Bangkok. They like the location and it's within their budget. They told me that for a couple of hundred Baht more they could get breakfast with the room. Any feedback about the breakfast buffet and anything else worth knowing about the hotel would be most welcome. I did tell them that no visit to Patpong and Silom Soi 4 would be complete without paying homage to Guido's pussy and they've promised to give it a few strokes. 😉

  12. Started by zazzu,

    I recently posted a thread about looking for suggestions for H type spas for my upcoming trip. I completed my trip so here's my trip report. Admittedly, I had a fairly aggressive plan to collect as many stamps as possible in a short time. I only had a few days before my friends arrived and one day after they left. I had many successful encounters and a few average ones. My goal was to find full service H type spa, specifically looking for masseurs who are tops. I've been a top for most of my life, but I've been exploring life as a bottom recently. Day 1 I started with a trip to Fafa Spa with a 90 min massage with Bird. As with many of the guys I encountered this…

  13. Started by macaroni21,

    At first, I didn't want to open a new thread, preferring to post this video into an existing one about Silom Soi 2. A search however revealed that we hardly ever have threads about Soi 2. The few that I found were mostly from 3 to 8 years ago (didn't bother going deeper into history), and ultimately there wasn't any existing thread that I could comfortably fit this video into. The closest to a usable thread was this one Fire at DJ Station which is a relevant angle to any discussion about Soi 2. Anyway, this video is three months old, and in fact there is a brief shot of something saying "Golden Week" which likely means the first week of October, and which there…

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  14. Started by daydreamer,

    Sorry to disappoint. This post is not about trouser snakes, but instead the reptilian kind. I have seen the Bangkok Snake Farm mentioned here, but only in a brief snippet without details. I visited there today, and thought and the following might be of interest for someone looking for a way to spend a couple hours in the Silom area during the daytime. I am posting this in the Gay Bangkok section. Although not specifically gay info, they do have a couple live spitting snakes (cobras) on display, so that is close enough to qualify this entry into the Gay Bangkok section of the forum. Just a very short walk from the Surawong and Rama IV intersection is …

  15. Started by BlackSata,

    Hello! My boyfriend and I are planning to celebrate our anniversary at Bangkok this Feb. We are looking for good saunas/bathhouses for males\gays in Bangkok where we can experience some steamy actions. Any recommendations?

  16. Started by Dannyxxx,

    Hey guys. I’m currently planning a trip that will take place in late March to early April. It will be for two weeks and will start in Bangkok and end in Hochiminh City. I’m trying to figure out which other cities in Thailand and Vietnam are worth visiting on this trip. If i was solely picking based on sexy guy gogo bars i would likely choose Pattaya. I’m not sure if Pattaya has any tourist/cultural value besides partying and sex. I think Hanoi is the only other city i’m definitely sold on visiting so far. A close friend of mine will be joining me for the trip. He’s straight and will likely be enjoying the happy endings and offings(but with the ladies). …

  17. Started by Lewislord,

    Hello, I’m posting my first message here so I apologise if I’m repeating anything from the earlier. I’ve been reading through the threads for a few weeks and thought I’d ask something. Me and my partner are going to Bangkok for the first time. We are each looking for a massage but not sure what to pick as a first time, would any recommend joint massages or not? We have had individual ones in other countries before and they included extras at the end. Would you say that the quality of the massage degrades when the focus is more on the extras? sorry if there is a pre existing thread asking this information that I’ve missed thanks

  18. Hi -- I am going to Bangkok in June and honestly, going to whore and explore. What are some of the best H spas and which of the clubs down Patpong are the best to go to? Thank you!

  19. Started by Keithambrose,

    It seems, as of now, i just tried, Sleepyboy is also blocked in Thailand. Not Rentmen, however!

  20. Started by spoon,

    Seems like more and more hosts bars/clubs opened up in bangkok, maybe catering for local thais and most of them have social media presence. Below are a few that have popped up in my social media. Anyone has any experience visiting them? Similar type of clubs are in pattaya as well. Would love to hear trip reports if any.

  21. Started by kram987,

    As I sit eating my last cashew chicken of the trip I thought I would make a summery of the trip. First off, end of December to mid January the weather has been great, not to much humidity great temperature. I tried to do things I hadn’t before and it was a lot of fun! I met a lot of people including at brand massage shops and I enjoyed it. Under Freshboys is The Dragon a poolbar is great for people watching and the staff is amazing! Tarntawan Hotel remains a good choice. It seems checking in boys is optional. Hotel could do with a refresher. Raya was nicer and I loved I could watch New Years fireworks from my room. Bolt was challenging but BTS…

  22. Started by kram987,

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  23. I see that Shamelesmack (or Macaroni as he is known on this Forum) is back posting on his blog, and he has put up an updated set of maps of the Silom Area on his blog. Always handy to consult before you travel, he has a subtle colour coding for the massage places that is particularly useful. Map of Silom-Surawong area, October 2025 – ShamelessMack2

  24. Started by sydneyboy1,

    I’m thinking of visiting Bangkok in April but I want to avoid the Songkran Festival. Google tells me the festival dates are 13 to 15 April. A question. Is it definitely over by then? On 16 April is the water throwing and other activities over?

  25. These two hotels seem to come up the most. Im coming in two weeks and still have not booked. Seems like there is so many choices. Normally stay at the Quarter Silom, its the only hotel I have reference for but but they use some type or air freshener that sets off my asthma. I have to repeatedly ask them not to use that spray. Between Surawang and Tarntawan which do you guys prefer? I will not be bringing any guys to the hotel. I just need clean, comfortable and AC. I am a heavy sleeper so noise is not an issue for me.

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