Suckrates

I do think its interesting to learn how people live and the choices they make, but it should be presented like a pu-pu platter, an offering you can take from as you like, make your little comment, leave the rest for someone else and move along.... Afterall the purpose of these sites is to share our lives and information, and if people are generous and truthful, it can be quite rewarding. It shouldnt be something we argue over, because noone else is walking in OUR shoes but us....

If he added a little "scat" to it, you would approve ? We really shouldnt judge peoples choices, especially if their choices have served them well and are satisfying... I know you really didnt mean that Adam.. I know it seems I did the same with Tomcal, but I was actually addressing latbears "interpretation" of tom's "magic power", and NOT criticizing tom in any way. .

"Thanks for the invite, but SHOW me the MONEY !"

YES, Vaseline Alley here in Jackson Heights Queens, the trucks and those abandoned warehouses on the West side Pier, and Fenway Park in Boston in the dead of night... MEMORIES........

Please dont use the word "hijack" or OZ will yell at us !!

Or you can periodically SAVE at intervals, then go back within the allowed time frame and EDIT to continue the post., then SAVE again.....

Well I dont shower boys with money, am not offering up a place to crash, and am not the most charming, BUT I always carry a few extra butterscotch candies in my pocket, so I'm able to attract these guys !

Well Adam, maybe you are part cat and have 9 lives ???? And some people are simply LUCKY....

One has to look no further than Andrew Cunanan, murderer of Versace fame, who targeted and killed several well kept, wealthy men for some sick reason. Opportunity often comes knocking in some strange ways, and struggling people often take the road they think easiest, without THINKING.....

Well sir, I wasnt fighting....just offering up a point of view that wasnt popular amongst some. Not sure why being an individual and having a diff voice is defined here as "fighting"....? Perception definitely needs some work ! How can we expect a country to get along when we cant even get a handful of people to ? and really, none of this has anything to do with participation.....people will continue to do so IF they want to.... A little bullshit wont stop them, but they sure will bitch about it....

TRUMP wont bring us down !

Not quite the same... I pulled "balls".....

I hosted Drag bingo there years ago......

LIPS is now most famous for their "Drag Brunch".....

There are currently 10 people viewing this thread at the Same time.... I guess a little controversy makes for strange bedfellows ?

Oh come on Adam....Why can you SHARE the spotlight ? It's big enough for 2 or more.

Everyone on these sites takes on a "role".... You are the "needy" one. I have a right to see the ridiculiousness in you fawning over a man who has a posse of boys, simply because he pays for it, but you think its some magic power.... If you call that disagreement, then you are right, I disagreed. I am certainly able to COPE with your silly Idolotry, but call, it what it is....PAID companionship. And you dont have to be tomcal to HAVE that too.... As I have said I think he has a VERY interesting, specialized life.....and is a treasure trove of information.

"I do not care about your negativity and lack of sense of humor, disguised as bitter realism". If I'm not mistaken, YOU are the one that wrote THIS comment above, so YEAH, you are !

Funny how you guys cant deal with anyone not sharing your views.. All of a sudden I've become the "bitter one" because of a different viewpoint... And you wonder WHY this country is so fucked Up?, because of people like YOU who feel life is a one way street....YOUR street.... Gurl, if you want to be the Thirsty Queen, thats your problem.... spend some of those bucks and you can have boys flocking around you too like you're some GIFT to the world, and you wont have to live that life of ENVY..... So silly...... And honsetly latbear, I gave up caring about YOUR comments long ago.... After your Daddy's redemption tour de force, you showed just how desperate you are to "fit in", so for me, nothing you say is authentic. SORRY .

Yeah, yeah, OK Lucky......

WHAT SHADE ??? Oh Honey, you havent seen Shade !

And all I'm sayin is "ya do what ya gotta do" to survive.....Hot young guys in need of money aint gonna waste their time with Older men if there aint a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow... Its pretty much common sense. My post was in response to latbears Idolization of tomcal and putting him on a pedestal as some Messiah who was working magic and living a mystical dream life... And I was pointing out that ANYONE can have that, since it is "bought and paid for".... There's really nothing special about tomcal, although I DO find his life "interesting"... And you can be sure there will always be a boy around to "change his Pampers"....

When time is money, and the rent is due and you are broke, everything pales except finding a way to Pay your bills, even if it telling yourself this weird, funny guy is interesting to hang out with, if you know theres a payout on the back end..... These boys aint stupid, just BROKE !

I think the "how to" is pretty simple....? It aint rocket science.... Still impressive none-the-less....