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This reminds me of Hillary's book, it takes an entire Village... I think it was an old African proverb that said it takes an entire village to raise a child. In many ways, the adults in Thailand that use the message boards often act like children. I am not interested in raising them. But, if we were all nice to each other and respectful to all, even if we don't like someone or their posts, I bet that the Village would be a much better place to live for us all. I have said in the past, I really don't get all the nastiness that exists on these boards. I didn't get it when I first started reading them and I don't get it now. Perhaps some have too much time on their hands. Perhaps some are just mean and nasty. Perhaps some have other agendas. But, if we all started to be nice to each other on the boards, and in person, perhaps more would join in the participation. Just IMHO.

I highly recommend PJ's House. It is clean, well maintained and a wonderful group of people. The rates are reasonable. I stayed there last fall and only have praise for the owners and the hotel.

Thanks guys. I have found the house of my dreams. So to say. It is all I had asked for and more. The real estate agent I used was great and made it a smooth process. I don't have Internet at the house. So, I will have to wait till I get ToT to put in a phone line. It may be a painful process. So, others will monitor the boards for a while. I will swim, relax and enjoy. A much needed peaceful time after the house hunting process.

Wow. I step away for a few days and all this exciiting stuff happens. How do I miss it? jk I have been taken by many a bar in Thailand. There is one bar in BoyzTown that had my bill wrong 5 out of 5 times I have went there. The last time it happened, it took 45 min to get it right. They thought I was going to just pay the extra 2 drinks they added on to the bill. I did not. I patiently waited. I have not had this happen in Sunee. I did go to one bar one and one of the doormen was dancing on stage. I took him off and they tried to charge me doorman prices. I told them no that tonight they had made him dance on the stage and he was a dancer and not a doorman. They relented. It was only 100 baht. But, it was also the principle. Actually, the doorman sent me a text message asking for help. They were short on guys that night and he had to dance. PLEASE he said. Come get me. OK, I said. And, I did. The rest is history. It is slow season and I have been to a few bars and was the only customer. That puts pressure on them to make some money. I don't think what happened to this poster is right or even ok. I just take it as part of the territory and try to watch every bill I have.

As of today, I finally found the house I want. I found a great company that was nice to deal with and very professional. I reccomend them to you. http://www.seaboard-properties.com/ They made the process very smooth and easy and they were great to work with.

I was probably one of few gay men who did not see this movie in the past few months. I have tried to watch it but could not get through the first 25 minutes without being bored. Last night a friend came over and wanted to see it and I agreed to watch it with him. I knew I was in store for a boring night. To my surprise, I watched more than the first 25 minutes and this time it was not boring. It was a great story. It had some wonderfully happy moments and some not so wonderful. The movie kept my attention and I grew not only to tolerate it but to thoroughly enjoy it. The movie rocks! If you have not had the chance to see it yet, please give it a try. It really is a great story.

We want a better way to list member ranks. Currently, they are set to: Newbie 0-9 posts Member 10-29 posts Advanced Member 30 and above We can change the names, add ranks and make it our own listing. Any suggestions?

http://www.cnn.com/2006/WORLD/asiapcf/04/0...down/index.html http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/4876326.stm It will be interesting to see what happens over the next few weeks.

Some of you may remember that I had a friend who showed up at my door with a bad case of Acne. I took him to the hospital and got him treatment. He then did not follow up on things the way he should have and I washed my hands of him. He reappeared. This time, he called me to tell me he had Tuberculosis. I was stunned, as I didn

I have spent the better part of 2 weeks looking for a house in Pattaya. It has been a truly pain in the ass experience. I found one place that the guy wanted to rent but when I offered him his asking price, he said he thought he wanted to sell instead of rent. I then proceeded to look at other real estate agents in the area. What I found was that no one listens to you. I was very specific in what I wanted. I told them I wanted a 3 bedroom house with a large swimming pool that someone could swim laps in. I met with 4 agents who set up times with landlords to show me different properties. Not one agent took me to see a property that I wanted. None met with the qualifications of what I told them I wanted. Finally, I found one that was nice and exactly what I wanted. The price was way more than I wanted to spend but it was the perfect house. I made an offer. It was accepted and I went to sign the contract. The price then changed to include pool and garden fees, which I was told, was part of the rent when I looked at the place. I told them forget it. They came back and said, OK, we will take the offer. That was less than 2 days ago and I have not made my decision. I am not sure that taking the place will not lead to other problems. But...... I wish there was a way to find a place here without it being such a pain.

I had dinner again tonight at Ole Resturant in Day/Night 2 in Pattaya. The food was good, the service was good and I enjoyed my meal. They seemed to have made nice improvements in all areas. Keep it up guys! I know many of you tried the place before and were unhappy with it. They seem to be working hard on fixing some of their problems. Why not check it out and give them another chance?

Yes, we took it offline till we had time to discuss it. It wasn't just about being gay. It started off talking about poop on the end of a dick. Not a good way to start the board IMHO.

There are many improvements in Sunee Plaza recently. The Corner Bar and Krazy Dragon are setting new standards in the area. There are several boys that have been redone and are looking wonderful. The area keeps getting better and the bars seem to be spending more and more money on upgrading the facilities. If you have not had one of the Memories pork sandwich recently, give it a try. Jimmy Jimy James was packed last night. It was standing room only. Come In bar has done a few cosmetic changes which look great. The new Euro bar was open last night and a fresh coat of paint and a new look outside keep the area changing.

I don't think this is a serious question. However, I will bite. You can tell if someone is gay when they come to Pattaya and stay at Howard's guesthouse and go to Gentleman's Club each night. If the above conditions are not met, they are not gay. In all seriousness, why don't you just ask them? I don't think anyone is totally gay or straight. I think most lie in the middle area. I am 99.4 percent gay. I save the .6 for the really extraordinary ladies. In Thailand, you will never be able to tell for sure as if they are not obviously gay; they may say they are not gay because they only date ladyboys. I know many boys here who think if they date ladyboys, they are not gay. That is not really my definition. But, if that is what they believe, that is ok for me too. Is it necessary to know if someone is gay? I ask all the time. Often, I understand that the answer is dependant on what that person understands of the word. As for me, I'll be at Howard's most of the night. Cheers!

I am going to Laos on my next visa run. Any suggestions as to where to go or stay? I will most likely stay about 5 days. I am also flexible on where to go once I am there. Thanks. GT

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We had now started our Photo Gallery Area. I put some photos in there fron Carnival in Brazil so you can see a bit of what Rio was like during that time. There will be more photos to come. I hope you enjoy! Oz

>Stupid question but did we not think we would get second >reviews before the site was opened? HUGS Chuck LOL Thanks for the chuckle Chuck. Yes, it was thought it. We are trying to perfect it. HUGS back to ya!

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>Actually, Oz... > >If you limited yourself to just having sex twice a day, you >wouldn't need any of that stuff! haha Well, you are right. But, somedays there are more than 2 guys that give me that special smile. When that happens, I do need a little assistance.

Has anyone tried this? I found it in Thailand and it is quite nice. It does not leave the headache that Viagra leaves. It comes in liquid form. I think it is from India. Anyone else used it? Results?

>Bogus information is bogus information. I do agree with you. >I’m not trying to beat a dead horse here, I’m really not. I think this is a prime example of bogus information. You are not only beating a dead horse, you are kicking it, stomping on it and mutilating it. My god man, horses are people too! What would PETA say about this poor horse?

Great news. Does the law also apply to sponsorship for immigration purposes?

>This is all very interesting, indeed. But as someone who is >smarter than I am once said……”Follow the money.” haha. My minister always said, "Money is the root of all evil." I disagree. I would be a very good boy if I had all of Bill Gates money. But, CB, you are right. Follow the money. Want an example? How much do you think it cost to produce a video? Top to bottom? Take that number, and I promise you that is what one company pays for the wholesale price for one video that is popular. I know one video when I ran a video store that I had to order over 400 copies. They were 30 each wholesale. Do you think the video cost more than that? There is great money to be made in the making of these videos. GREAT amounts. It is a cutthroat business. Why? Follow the money. See what one video makes for a company. Once you see this, you will know what is at stake. IMHO I am sure this issue has cost Cobra tons of money. I hope they remedy the situation., I have wanted to make a video for years. I have never done so as I don't have the time. But, my idea to make one was to get 10 boys. Give them each 5% of the sales of all videos or pay them a flat fee for the scene. Most will take the later. But, the smart ones would take the percentage. If you do this, then you have them vested in the success of your video. They will promote it for you. Then, everyone wins. Not just one or two people but the whole group. I call this Socialized Porn Production. Can I coin that phrase?