vinapu

tall one, if you sit down in HotMale beer bar he may come and try to massage your neck

that's good to know but at middle of the night I have other entertainings than food

don't we make are lives more complex than they need to be ? For me beauty of vacations, not necessarily just Thailand ones, is getting away from it all and coming back home 2-3 weeks later just to discover that nothing important really changed, other than flower pots need water urgently. Unless there was an accident and somebody close needs my kidney for transplant I don't want any calls from anybody and they know it very well. Checking e-mails once a day and responding 'still alive ' if need arises is all I found necessary to keep in touch with folks back home. Sure, when in LOS I communicate a lot with our members but even that is done outside of my gogo bar time unless of course we are bar hopping together - but that's face to face conversation

but still I feel sorry for all those deformed guys who now can't even afford bringing it down to an original stage. I have misfortune of knowing quite a few very good looking boys who did that to themselves ( mook or silicon enhancemnts ). This fad faded but not is replaced by ubiquitous tattoos craze, which at least seems not to be as harmful to one's look even if its more visible.

this is welcomed news but it does nothing to solve what I see as biggest problem of BTS system - peak hours crowding interchange Siam station, sometimes is outright scary and no, I'm not claustrophobic

and thank God, I still recall with horror one with monster silicone deformed cock at XBoys Pattaya

That surprising , I thought spirits are not expensive and easily available all over USA

currency may be worthless but their banknotes are one of most attractive looking around. In border cities in Colombia according to The Economist is thriving industry producing things like bags made from circulating Venezuelan banknotes

like whoring in SE Asia instead of locally where escorts can cost multiples of what even greedy Thai boys and girls charge

that may take several years so better don't do that to yourself, nobody will wipe your tears if you'll cry over missing opportunities

I find one of those Hot Male barkers quite interesting even if he is not in his prime of youth.

is not unknown to the science that some long term travelers are financing their trips that way. Others may be , more nobly, even keen to share bed with others for a consideration. In my travels I learned to be vary of overly friendly fellow travelers as much as overly friendly locals. But I haste to say in my 17 trips to Thailand I only once had an instance of missing money which could but necessarily was stolen ( either was stolen from my pocket on BTS or I dropped it when reaching for money to buy a ticket )

Don't listen to all those doomsayers as for some water was always more wet 20 years ago. Not necessarily they are wrong though but scene is still more that most of us can digest ( and finance )

You are not useless, you need yourself along with doctors to get better. We wish you good diagnostic, even better treatment and speedy complete recovery. It 's moving that you still have energy and courage to write to us. Great heartfelt thank you !

what if you take boy there just for hand-holding session?

I second Nirish suggestion, there are also short time rooms in Suriwong hotel and in Patpong. Bottom line is don't worry , boys will know where to take you. I know somebody straight visiting Bangkok often on company business who employs other approach in the same situation like OP is - he rents cheapest room in the Pavillion Place for length of his stay and keeps it just in case which in his words happens at least once a night. That way no need for time watching - BBB Inn people will call to release room after 2 or 3 hrs. Pavillion place is in Patpong right above Screwboys so good for gays and heretics or whatever they are called

if was good idea even if only to remove them from media spotlight for a while all in all Thailand handled while thing very well of course with exception of the first stage as nobody should be allowed to enter cave prone to flooding as soon as rains start

you sound like my previous boss (industrial environment ): him: " vinapu, way you did it was very sexual " , me : 'what? why? ", him: 'you fucked it up"

From Bangkok Ayuthaya by train can be easily done as day trip so no need to break Chiang Mai trip but it would be good idea to stop in Ayuthaya on the way from Chiang Mai. Very good point with visiting Sukhotai on the way in either direction

that is even better as all I wanted responding to post was to point two things : -even when on vacation we still should somehow behave like we would at home or better, specially if we are in different country -when we are in company , we should act in a way our company is not embarrassed. I guess , based on responses above that we all or at least most of us agree. If our boys likes and doesn't mind to show affection in public is fine although the same token applies - he should avoid US being embarrassed by his action. as an illustration two stories I already reported here while ago : I offed one of Jupiter boys and when we walked along Suriwong to my hotel it turned out that he is well known to vendors in the area so few times I presume he was asked where he goes and he pointed at me to a knowing nod of his interlocutors. I did not mind at all but can imagine somebody would not like those stares titled " such handsome guy is wasting his youth on such a fossil" Once in Tawan right after the show some boys took turns invited by farang lady to finger her in a full view of everybody as she was sitting in the first row. Some boys did but others were as disgusted as I and boy I was sitting with was and we are talking inside of sex bar situation.

good job , Thai police ! l now I know even better why I don't carry wallet at all, preferring to have money loosely distributed in predetermined amounts among various pockets. ( I prefer velcro over zip which we can forget to use - see recent report on the forum about phone theft during BJ ). This makes controlling spending easier and probability of me having 2680 USD in one place other than safety box in my room is zero. If I really need to carry that much i.e. on my way from airport on day of arrival or when moving hotels, money would be in money belt inside of my undies. I do carry some ID as well as hotel's business card with me and usually carry lightweight daypack with small bottle of mouthwash, pack of condoms , tube of KY, Bangkok bus map and in rainy season , umbrella.

I hope you don't mean it. Vacation is form work or perhaps from everyday environment like neighbors and family but not from basic decency. Would you pick up your nose in restaurant full of diners or fart on songtaew just because you are on vacation ? Whenever we are in public space whether we like or not we are scrutinized by all around, usually complete strangers - it's why , so to speak, we use deodorants and shower every Friday or I was told some even more often. I'm with you that is nothing to be embarrassed to be seen with much younger prostitute of the same sex in public, feast I practice myself very often, but that public may not be actually interested ON THEIR VACATIONS to see behavior usually reserved for more private settings and not necessarily increasing their appetite. We are paying boys to have sex with us but embarrassing them in public if they don't wish is not included in price, at least not in my book.

that's very decent behavior and should be followed by everybody everywhere and I'm pretty sure your boys notice and appreciate it.

that the joy of travelling almost everywhere , not just in Thailand

rather double pricing, cheper for Thais and more expensive for foreigners